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Reason why you shouldn't marry from poor background is stated. You don't want to run a parasitic married life do you? Just look before you leap. More of cautionary...

brain54:
Very funny...

You are only being insecure "Mr don't get married from a poor background"

So now being married makes you have all the perfect knowledge about marriage? It makes you understand all that will work and cannot work... Well congratulations sir.

I leave you at this point with your insecurities!

Abi, why would a wife like to go out a lot?, why would a wife keep lots of friends? The home front will definitely suffer coz that will be her priority. Always visiting spiritualist and prophet shows a weak or zero spiritual maturity.
sincerely, if you're not married you can't understand any better

Tomcorp:
Get married first then come back to comment. You don't know life yet.

When we see that you kill someone, you're already a murderer. The court camaraderie is just to determine your type or lenght of punishment. In tandem to that, when you participate in receiving or delivering ransom directly to the terrorist, (say na you sabi them, instead of exposing dem crook), bikko wetin you be o? Abi you go collect and deliver ransom to terrorists putting you status at risk dem no go con cut you your share (through your BDC operators, offshore acct or receiving anonymous donation for your business or in whatever form)??
We don't need a sitting court of jurisdiction to pronounce that you're a terrorist. What court will do is just to determine your type of sentence and lenght.

Someone(from the area) already alleged terrorist activities. He said no one from the main building was involved in the incident as they rushed out and drove away from that perimeter.

Most of these babes are just looking for who will provide better "stability" for them. Not giving a shit about love or lotalty

I know Bauchi must be involved. If only the "screened" mole-free intelligence agencies, elite squad and other military formations can set up security network in that state and the boarder axis to flush out all top, middle and operational Security risk individuals, from Bauchi alone, 50% of Nigeria insecurities coming from the whole north is resolved.

Wike the hot cake

I didn't even bother to read. The sad truth is El rufai is correct. He knows what he's saying as a Fulani man. Nigerien Fulani are domicile in the Northern naija and not a small fraction of them are in especially the Nigerian military. Most of army training college and institute are in majority of Northern state of Nigeria which makes it easier for their recruitment having crossboader overnight, NIN the following morning followed by inec registration. Gbam. Next is bank account opening and army recruitment documentation, once the form is signed by a top-notch army general from the region, nothing like background check.

How can the same crop of soldiers go back home to fight their kinsmen? E go get as e be o. But no northern elite will ever admit this assertion except in rhetorics like this green-snake-under-the-green-grass homo sapien.

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some responses are mixing religious orientation. Real Christians don't date. They'd rather go for courtship (now that's something serious) because it is believed that dating will eventually involve sex, which isn't encouraged before marriage. Although some (unserious ones) date and fuvks their head silly with loud moaning, orgasm, dizziness and or coma...

Dating starts from actual 'hanging out' with each other without denying the fuvking request.
When you've someone "you're seeing" (of course, you're fuvking). If there's no fvcking or it's rejected, then you need to define the "friendship" . Maybe the babe wants higher c'mitment before puss opening or she's friend zone the guy.

Clown

Youngman, Republic of Benin on the map is not the same as Benin township. Even the Benin republic has a part of their history traced to Ife. There had been Ife Oòyèlagbò, the origin of daybreak (after creation of man) and the cradle of Yoruba race which was attacked by the Ugbo tribe. This war led to migration of some Ife aborigins to establish new town and settlement far and wide. The present day location, Ile-Ife is an expansion of Ife Oòyè after the tribal war was won. But what would you know? Even a tiny source like Ife can birth a large expanse like Benin republic, not to talk of Benin township.

Stoplying:
The way you guys are obsessed with Benin is incredible, what in hell links Benin to this event, yet you had to mention the Oba of Benin whose title your monarchs keep using fraudulently as if they have forgotten their own titles. You clearly lack understanding of history and seem to believe the current political structure in the land mass of Nigeria has always been in place.
Let me open your eyes a little, here is a Precolonial map of Africa, locate Benin on it, and look for Ife on it. That will tell you the difference in importance between Benin empire and Ife village !
Do you know how insulting it is to say that the king of a large sovereign country got his crown from a village head called Oni of Ife ?

Most of you guys don't understand that Benin Kingdom/empire was a country ! An independent country until it lost a war to the UK! What exactly was Ife if not a village !

This Deji guy sef.. pls asked him if Bawa nor get plenty senior for force wen he was endorsed as efcc chair abi nor be Fulani him be? Anyways as much as I don't also support nepotism, appointment is based on several factors apart from the basic requirement. That's why Buhari with questionable o' level cert but with several military training equivalent ruled our democracy for 8 solid years. The ex-president made us to understand that you appoint those you can trust and control, either as acting or substantial.
So, bros Dj, rest.

This Deji guy sef.. pls asked him if Bawa nor get plenty senior for force wen he was endorsed as efcc chair abi nor be Fulani him be? Anyways as much as I don't also support nepotism, appointment is based on several factors apart from the basic requirement. That's why Buhari with questionable o' level cert but with several military training equivalent ruled our democracy for 8 solid years. The ex-president made us to understand that you appoint those you can trust and control, either as acting or substantial.
So, bros Dj, rest.

Three category of women you can't advice
1. The one madly in love and deeply convinced
2. The one convinced and following a fake pastor/prophet/Alfa
3. The one you want to remind me
Just say your own and rest your case. She will remember your advice one day.

Life of an unsecured guy...

Guterres has come to receive the northern theatrics and blue print for 2023 elections. They were also here close to 2015 elections and it's also straight to the 'governor mouthpiece' of the Nigeria north.
Nigeria is remotely controlled by the north, believe it or not.

"Train up a child in the way he should go: and when grows up he will not depart from it. Prov.22:6. Still true.
One of the challenges that we have in the society today is the 'untrained boys and girls, or children from carefree parents that are now parents'.

What you don't have, you can't give. Girls want to marry, crying and scheming for husband up and down the street, old boys want to bleep, probably settle down with one lady at last.
No moral lesson from their own parents that is more than 'how to manage your spouse' and virtually nothing on parenting.

The supposed parent have no idea what PARENTING entails.

You'd rather see these so called parents on tiktok half naked doing shit. What do you expect their daughters and sons to do? Of course, they are there online getting immoral training from a wayward artist/celebrity to pornographic lessons (abi na where chrisland girl learn those cowgirl style from? rape my foot!! Abi na she sef dey rape that boy...in rape definition) and online meet up and dating.

What we must all do aside hustling for money on a daily basis is to be trained on how to train our children. Religious doctrines, Moral, and cultural ethics of doing things will definitely help.
Proverbs 29:15, 17
"The rod and reproof give wisdom: but a child left to himself bringeth his mother to shame."

17 "Correct thy son, and he shall give thee rest; yea, he shall give delight unto thy soul."

Waiting for the official palace announcement later today. Governor Makinde will take queue from that, I suppose, bcuz he get as e be for that monarch. Iku baba yeye.
Chai, such a monumental loss. Imagine the depth of power, wealth and connection accrued in 52 year reign as an emperor.
Life is ephemeral. "Death will come to all" in Sauron's voice: desolation of smaug

You need to heal of your psychological trauma, mostly childhood. No insult intended plz. Talk to a counselor, someone with deeper knowledge of family psychology or DM



5 years later

I don't regret it and never will

I wasn't ready for motherhood, I am still not ready. I would have been in poverty and miserable if I had it, I might have even resented it.

Whenever I think about it, all I feel is relief.

True I may not have the life I want now, but I am working towards it.

A child is a big responsibility with little to no return on investment. I'm even thinking if motherhood is not for me. Parenthood is scary. I'm not saying I won't love my children, but it's harder to love what you didn't want, than something you planned for with someone

I see terrible parents all the time and it has scarred me, I see children die due to the parents' ignorance, I see women in labour unprepared for the shit they signed up for. I see kids for what they are, being a bundle of joy is a very small portion of it and the rest isn't joyful


I cannot do parenthood alone, God knows. I don't think I can be a baby mama, a single mother, or married to an irresponsible mAn. I'll abandon the kid with him. I cannot have more than 2.


I don't think motherhood is for me. Yet.

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This is what the bandits rustling school kids deserves. Others will learn. The problem is, where u wan catch them? They are being protected by the 'state' and treated with kids glove.. purely political. Clerics knows them. LG chairman knows them. Governor holds meeting with there leader, yet no single one brought to black book.

Who are these clowns anyways? The man lacks logic. How can you equate legit biz owners and peaceful people to those causing atrocities just because of their biz, even if it's taxable(?). Any radical tribe or ethnic group causing trouble around and within another tribe or ethnic groups and seems above the law should be sent back to their region by all means possible. Las Las, Nigeria will divide along Southern and Northern poli-shere. Who fears structural division? It's long overdue..

On a lighter note, buhari is handing over the nation to Pastor Adeboye. Prophecy coming true. Only Christian will continue to rule Nigeria henceforth.. Strange, but still coming through and true..

F**king retards. Imagine, media support group for a supposedly sitting President? When he has SSA and SA on media and both, confused, can't debunk the Fayose's highly sensitive comments.
He is not an aspirant you know. A lot of jobless, attention-seeking f**king retards are in this country. All in the name of loyalty.

While we wish PMB well like any other neighbor, the nature of his illness is kept in secrecy, so we dont know what we are up against. He's a public officer, fed and clothe with taxpayer's money. Nothing should be made secret about his health. If he needs privacy like my humble self, he should resign from office. A sick president means a sick country. No one, or group has any right to hold us to redundancy. someone should advise him to resign and keep his honour.

Why will my gf dressed up and all every guy will think of is s*x? c'mon. A real man wont allow that. Only a playboy[b][/b] does that.

Why should I look at any lady at any event and all I see is sex(y)?

In Dolly Parton's voice.

Somebody here, (might) have taken the matter up. so that the stool of oodua will remain revered in Yoruba land, just saying. But really, who knows these things?



I ain't no pagan but do nat forget that 'em a en' MAN has power. Only babies will deny that. The truth is just that ALL Powers belongs to GOD.

Check my signature.

abike12:
I'm not broke and my preference is to date someone that's financially stable. I don't see anything wrong with a woman wanting to date someone with more money than she has. If two broke people date each other, who will help who?

The thread's not for your type, bae. Yours is symbiotic. It is wisdom. For targeted female sapiens, its' parasitic. They are lazy leeches who avoids broke guys and go for made-up guy to make outrageous demands. Meanwhile, she can't afford it if the table is turned around.

sexybbstar:
I've been coming across a lot of threads these days that has to with ladies admonishing fellow ladies to desist from dating broke guys.This is absolutely ridiculous.Your parents are financially okay?Who told you your mum married your father as a rich man?She stood with him through trying times and now ,you as their daughter is reaping the fruits of her patience.
Below are the reasons why the theory "DON'T DATE BROKE GUYS" is totally wrong!

(1)You asked him to buy or get you something and he couldn't afford it and u decided to leave him for that?If you could afford it ,why didnt you get it in the first place?Though,a man is suppose to carry out some certain duties but dont heap your burden on him ,he is a boyfriend ,not your husband,go meet your parents,they gave birth to you and should be able to take responsibilities on you as long as you are not yet married.

(2)Struggle with him ,work hard and ensure to give him your support .When the story changes ,you are sure to be given the credit.You want an already made man?Then you should be happy hearing this statement from him"I WAS RICH BEFORE I MET YOU".

(3)Obviously,most guys (not all)dont ignore ladies that stood with them during their struggle to success.I hope you know that 2face wasn't rich when he started dating Annie,despite his flaws he still got married to her at the end of the day.Sanyeri(Afonja Olaniyi)a yoruba actor,got married to his girlfriend that was with him before he came into limelight.A very good example is Odunlade Adekola,some of you abuse him for having a ugly wife.Where were the bleach queen actresses when the wife was suffering with him?.Support him girl,you will get the credit soon.

(4) We have so many cases of broke guys who became rich and rich guys who became poor.That broke guy you embarassed today may have another story to tell tomorrow and that rich guy you followed may later dump you for the lady that stood with him during his stuggle.NOTE:Rich guys hardly appreciate a lady they met after their success.Some rich guys are out there without girlfriend ,not because they see no lady but because they doubt if there will be true love.Its believed that Rich guys hardly find true love which is truly embedded in that statement "DONT DATE BROKE GUYS"That means you dated the rich guy for the money not for love.

(5)Several ladies are single out there all in the name of searching for a rich dude.Work for your own money ,rich guys will flock around you,you wont have to search for one again.

(6)Many ladies are in the grave because they wanted a rich guy but unfortunately for them ,they fell victim of ritualist.Do you know how many ladies died because of Iphone4......now we have Iphone7.........Iphone10 will soon be knocking at the door in few years time.


Do you know Iphone8 will be launched soon?So please double your Olosho hustles,so that you can use the latest gadgets.Don't mind any guy that wanna fall in real love with you,they are all heartbreakers as love is dead,Jump like frog from one yahoo boy to another to a married man,and to a sugar daddy......They are the ones that can pay your bills.Don't mind any guy professing love to you ojare.Bleep LOVE!!!!This world is very sweet my sister enjoy and enjoy and enjoy and dont listen to anyone or take up any preaching from anyone.
But I have a good news for you my sister,When that guy you wasting your life with is ready to settle down,he will marry a very decent girl who has a good future ambition,properly trained,well cultured and mannered and he will use you as a testimony in the Church.By then you will be above 30years and your big boobs and ass would have sagged,wrinkled with heavy stretch marks all over and you will be looking extra-ordinarily older than your age because your beauty would have faded off,..Even MaryKay,BlackOpral,Sleek or classic will not stay well on your face again.A word is enough for d wise


Ladies ,be independent .With that you will earn guys respect.Stop being a GOLD DIGGER!

*ATTACK IS 100% ALLOWED

O babe, wa gbayi!

E be like say the girl get belle for that pic.. Abi na ma eye

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ZarZar:
Glad you approve because I care so much what you think.

..like I give a f**k what you think. Thooor.


..wicked.

YourImaginaryBF:
shut up please. Jonathan could have put an end to BH insurgency but he chosed not to.

Where were you when the northern retired generals said an attack on BH is an attack on the north?

The government and people of the north were brainwashed to believe bh was fighting FG/Christians/anti-bh Muslims to "get their right/ " preserve or enforce supremacy of their religion/ instill fear on the perceived opposition within respectively.