65K monthly still a fair pay for a graduate in any part of Lagos either Mainland, Island, Ajah, Okoko. 65K minus transport fare is good bruh. My advice for you, wherever you want to live in Lagos don`t live above your income regarding accommodation. You can start your life with one room self contain below 200k yearly. And i don`t know if your newly found job will still give room for your side hustling i would advice you to continue doing it. Don`t forget to set aside a target every month, how much to be saving, your feeding allowance, bills at home and unforeseen emergency bill. May God help you bruh

Doyin400l:
So I was planning to relocate to Lagos. I got a job late last month and the pay is 65k. There is a free staff bus to and fro.

My question is it advisable to take this job after staying at home for almost 2 years?

Factor is cost of living in a city like Lagos..

Note: I have my side hustle giving me at least 35k monthly

Any advice?

Does that mean you have dated 90% of men here? Anyways not all men are bad you are just unfortunate to came across bad ones. I`m a Nairalander and i`m not an heartbreaker or liar. If i want a relationship that will lead to marriage with you i will boldly tell you. And if i want just sex or a night stand with you i will tell you... Okay

Jeweltz:
Why

A 40 years old man is depress over a 20 years Agric girl.. SMH A 40yrs of age man should have had enough experience and be bold enough to take decision. The problem here is not the man but the young girl who have not explore life wella and not have enough experience regarding relationship. I don`t believe in people saying when a lady got married at early age without enjoying life, such lady will still do that when she is married. I think that only depends on how such girl is brought up, her maturity, her environment and the friends she keep. Sometimes a 20yrs girl would be more matured than 35yrs lady.

cybernaut:
Hello Romantic Guys/Girls,

I have a friend and he is 40 years of age . He want to marry a girl of 20 years of age but most of her sister is telling him not go ahead to marry her to avoid old age. Her sister insist that if he is 60 years and her wife will be 40 years and the range is too much. They also telling him that her wife may be getting secret affair because she may think that her husband is too old after 60 years.

Friends can these be true or just to make him stay away from her. My friend is in big depress now and is not the type that can look for guidelines over the net. Positive answer is welcome. Thanks!

Congrats bruh... But don`t be like your Asiwajus who runs their relationship on social media. Work on your relationship and keep it away from social media it`s not everything you post online about your relationship or home. All the best....

I hope i find one soon though i think i`m getting exhausting about relationships. I`m not saying i`m single because i have been the good one maybe i`m just a bit unclucky. Not really giving up and i`m going to know she is the one once i meet her.

Jaubdu:
I am the most happiest person in this world. I came to Nairaland looking for love, companion,a partner and a critic. I waited patiently,got a lot of pm from good ladies but I gun for the best Finally she came at first we talk about business interest but I noticed she is smart and intelligent so I began to explore.Here is what I found out:1 She has an open heart 2: She is honest 3: She has a positive outlook 4: She is smarter than me ( has her way with Queen English) 5:She laugh at my joke 6: She support my goals( with advice) 7She also has her own goal 8: She is kind 9: She remain calm in fights(oh we had a lot of it) and calm me down too. Sometime we do some crazy stuff together 10 She has a life of her own 11 She accepted my flaws 12 She does not bear grudges. Etc.I am truly blessed.
Funmi(Funmisticqueen,Funmisticqueen). I break a bank,I will even fight with the gods to make you, mother of my unborn kids. I live a low key kind of life but I have to make this public because I don't want any pm for ladies anymore. I am taken. I hope my Dove will understand.

CAPITAL YES... I have done everything in my power to be a good child to my parent, been there for them being the first child. Our parents are fond of discriminating when it comes to choosing a partner they can say you can`t marry her because she is of particular type, particular religion or for some reasons that are meaningless to me. I want to take responsibility of whatever the outcome of my marriage be it positive or negative. I don`t want to point finger or cursing anyone in future for a failed or sorrowful marriage. I used to tell my parent and even my family that whoever i bring home to marry they should not question me but accept her. They know what i can do which is what i will do... Aside marriage or choosing partner, i don`t disrespect my parent deprive them of what they could get from me.

MadeINchenzen2:
perhaps it could be reasons honed from love... perhaps it could be reasons that has to do with his or her money.

what will you do if your parents refuses to give you their consent or permission to go on and marry that guy or lady?

I feel your pain brother but i don`t think yahoo is the only hope you have. Brother, technology will be taking over the world soon even the oil business won`t be giving huge money in years to come as technology will take over. Use your yahoo friends internet to go to use tube and download videos of skill you can acquire at the corridor of your house and write its exam for certification. You can google it yourself the most sought after jobs in technology and pick the one you believe your brain can comprehend. Yahoo is not a solution brother believe me and the saddest part of it is the "addiction". May God see you through brother and please be a good example your younger ones. Don`t engage in something you wouldn`t want them to know or engage in. All the best

Roadtoyesterday:
Very soon, I might be tempted to join... Yes and if anybody quote me trying to attack, it will not be well with whoever that try it..... All my life I'v been legitimately working and striving to make money, friends that surrounded me are all yahoo gangs, yet I refuse to join, instead I kept on hustling. Until I lost my dear job just becos I couldn't lie or act to reap some junior workers off their hard earned money. The lost of the job, touched every angle of my life in just one month, I was the main dependant for many in my family, I have jr brothers I sponsor to school, I have parents I have to support...... The only work I had stopped with the hope when some credible bosses heard abt it, they will act to reinstate me asap, little did I know no one is indispensable.


Rght now yahoo its my only hope of meeting up with my high profile debts.

Are these people suspects or Culprits? Will they be compensated if they later find out that one or more people among them are innocents? Is there a law in the land who says having black soap, Coffin or any sort of fetish with people a crime? We cannot all be Muslims or Christians people can worship anything they like as long they don`t kill or use human flesh or any part of human being`s body. If they are found guilty then they should be charged and punished for it. You arrested someone in the morning and by afternoon you have put their faces on the internet and tagged them yahoo yahoo without carrying out any investigation. Sha don`t punish the innocent souls.

You saw N1200 and you did not see the 4GB....

Romanoff:
I'm seeing 1200 in a wall. Is that the fare for the Jetty?

That’s absolute correct. The president that has done good than those who has ruled us for years. But death cut his life short and we started experiencing callous and cruel people as president. May his soul continue to rest in peace

You sound like someone who listen to 99.3 Nigeria Info very well especially the morning chi-chat and morning crossfire. You have said the truth anyways.

Koolking:


You can't wipe out terrorism. Terrorism is not a conventional war where you know your enemies. It has come to stay with civilisation. America is still fighting Talibans in Afghanistan more than 15years after. Boko Haram lurks in the shadow, they are not regular militia group. Members live among us. Let stop deceiving ourselves waiting on govt. the Nigerian people, community leaders' partnership with govt can end the war. The northerners need to do more to help the govt by reporting people with suspicious behaviours.

Being a Nigerian is the best thing there is.

You are waiting for the last game of your bet ticket and you’ve carried Atletico Madrid to do over 2.5. My brother, find a shredding machine and shred your ticket or throw it inside lagoon. If you know you know

You just let me laugh and pour away my drinks... LLLLLLLLOOOOOOLLLLLLLLLLL

budaatum:
Can somone please find this person one of the many threads of those who complimented their boss on whatsapp and had to start looking for another job.

I support the motion let them all taste it too at least for once. We will not use our hands to punish the wicked ones we will handover them to the top wicked ones BH

OZAOEKPE:
Make them wait make the house full before them carry out operations, I go like am make he be the day Buhari wan present Budget

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Whether it is normal rain or not, i know some people still never believe juju is real. Even if they beat someone in his/her presence with Aluwo ring, they will not believe. They might say the victim legs just fail on the ground and that make him fall. Juju is real my brother and sister. Just pray and be sin-free that`s when these things won`t work on you..

Tell him... You get sense jare. Ki Oluwa ma sowa ni

2dice01:
Alaye you can be killed anywhere
Death no dey use location


Even in comfort of your father house Caterpillar can come crush you like guguru

Sambisa Sambisa Sambisa... My question is this, is this Sambisa forest is bigger than one state in Nigeria? Abi why aren`t these girls been found all this while. Something is fishy about this Boko Haram things and the people that has the best answer are former governments and this government. They should stop playing politics with people`s lives and stop enriching themselves while many family languishing in pain and sorrow.

dre11:


https://www.dailytrust.com.ng/six-years-after-chibok-girls-sighted-at-sambisa-forest.html

I agree with you on this. Rather than those fp of some people or celebrity spraying money, living life.. what lesson they want us to imbibe with that. May God bless this young hardwork lady, God`s favor will locate you soon.

3rdeyeNigeria:
lalasticlala
Let's push something like this to fp. It will go a long way to encourage our Nigerian ladies to be more diligent and enterprising.

Earlystar698:
The incident happened in Edo state.

This is funny � ���

It’s well ��‍♂️��‍♂️

officialfestus:
I dream see one game,I dream see one game naso ochuko life take bend.... A game without statistical h2h

These politicians no fit die better.... Awon eleribu gbogbo

ijustdey:


https://www.thisdaylive.com/index.php/2020/01/29/500000-bribery-lassa-fever-killed-my-witness-brother-farouk-lawan-tells-court/

You are a capital FOOL. Must you comment on every post you see? If you don`t have anything sensible to comment then you walk pass by the post. Omo Eran

sunshineV:
Slaves

No go do pass yourself bro as people don dey give you their advice and opinions. E no go make sense to both you and your wife not to have breathing space or rest because una don go borrow borrow to do wedding. Ma fi agidi se gbajumo, gbese lo ma end e ... Ire ooo

EsomahJD:


https://www.premiumtimesng.com/news/more-news/370259-man-takes-girlfriend-to-pastor-for-money-ritual-where-shes-beheaded-police.html

They just wasted the girl`s life Money you will have and still can`t compete with the likes of Dangote, Otedola. It`s kind of these animals that used to come online and be oppressing the hardworking ones with their ritual money and make the feel depressed. The only justice i want for them is killing them in the gruesome way they murdered the lady. May her soul rest in peace and i wish the family of the deceased the fortitude to bear the irreparable loss.

Congrats my person... Adigun, Adegbola, Alexander, Ajifolajifaola, Alapomeji. I`m a day 0 Alapomeji family and it will remain so forever.

I feel like you too really wanted to break up with her before but you don`t know how to go about it. You could not even ask why or be surprised when she said you guys should end it. What of if you later figure out that it`s a game that people play on SM asking you to send such message to your lover, fiance and see their reactions. I don`t think you are pained and it seems she`s the only trying to make the relationship work and that`s why you were so quick to say "Alright" without questioning her.

vowsng:
Met this beautiful angel sometime 2017 in school, we became friends but officially started dating last year December.

Things have not been Rosy cause I'm not the regular rich kid, although, she is understanding, mature and supportive.

I graduated last year, though have not been to service, with her support and that of friends, I got a 2.4 Camry I have been using for bolt.

She just graduated last week, and went home on Tuesday but before she left for home, I proposed we hang out to have some fun as her going home entails we would not see each other soonest, she accepted.

But on the other hand, my immediate elder sister had her wedding last month 23rd and as the first son, I know I became bankrupt, not forgetting that where I stay, (with a distant relative) I was given December to vamoose even though I know I'm of age to have a place of my own without being told.

So I thought about all this and decided I won't miss work that Monday, raising 200k working with bolt and my car is not too sound too, that means I have to work every single day, but on a second thought, it would be selfish of me so I skipped work on Monday and we were together that whole day.

She left for home on Tuesday, I was already out working, I saw a "stressed out" status on WhatsApp, I asked and she said she didn't leave in the morning that she was called to make urgent corrections by her supervisor.

On Wednesday we said the normal hello and good morning, most times I will be driving and a little stop or traffic I will have to reply her message or send a voice note.

But just today, no good morning or anything from the both of us, this evening, she sent in a message that she is tired, first thing that came to my mind was, "yes, i said it she would be bored at home" but I was still driving then, so I quickly replied, "I'm tired too" next thing is let's just end it and stop wasting each others time.

This is not the first time she is threatening me with breakup, she went on to call me heartless, i don't know, but I thought I found the right one, we always planned the future together, gisted about alot of things and the name we would give our kids, only for her to tell me she sees no future.

If this was a joke, then it was taken too far, I have accommodation issue, my younger brother is my responsibility for now, she knows everything about me, we weren't lacking in communication, now I believe a struggling guy shouldn't be in a relationship.

This is actually going to be a long journey to singleness. I was sad that I had to bruise some cars in traffic this evening, thanks for reading and sorry for the lengthy right up.

RichDad1:
Enabling 2fa is a more secure way to protect your account.

Bro... you fell for the cheapest trick and the person outsmart you. It`s not a news that technology will be taking over the world in years to come. It will make things easier and the more good the technology the bad it`s gonna do to people as well. Aside enabling 2FA one must always check his/her Whatsapp Web/Desktop of your whatsapp if it`s not been logged on a computer and someone using it to monitor your whole conversations. But this can only be done by someone close to you, someone that have access to your phone. Even you will be sent a logging notification by whatsapp that your account is logged on a computer at the exact time. If the person still hold your phone he/she can quickly delete that notification or you are someone who doesn`t care about going through your notifications before deleting them. Aside using internet to play bet9ja, read news on Nairaland or accessing our social media, one can still use internet aside to learn and upgrade himself. Even you can also monitor the devices your gmail account is logged on, you can see the last 10 logging and can easily figure out unknown device if found on the list so you can change your password and log out on all devices the account is logged on.

77up:
I thought I'm the only one with this feeling when I saw it, a country where you can make things happen with #500,000 without been slave to anyone and he's actually ready to throw 1.4m to one ungary agent .


God why this low mentality in this generation

Stop embarrassing people, how much you’ve been able to gather yourself Mr. High Mentality? Since you are a high mentality person but have not been able to raise 1.4M yourself then your advice shouldn’t be taken serious. He has 2 kids and wife, presently he’s not working and according to his story, he doesn’t need a new job or business at the moment. All he needs is changing of environment because of his life and that of his family. You don’t know who’s who here, try and respect people’s opinion even if it differ from yours. We have adults here i mean people that can be our fathers if not our uncles.

promzy555:
I am very confuse, don't av enough money to carry everyone, my plans is to work and save to pick my family. I was told Bahrain is beta than Dubai, that can use my 2 yrs resident to get a job in Bahrain. Pls pls u guys should help me with advise pls.

There are lots of people here bro some are with good intentions while some are here for their selfish and devilish interest. Please don’t let anyone swindle you of your hard earned money all in the name of visa. A ni jam agbako oooo��

yommen:


I earn double of that in Naija and yet I dey complain. God forgives me.

It’s possible though, some people are lucky in this country while some aren’t. Besides, the guy is just a secondary school cert holder no handwork or any skill than general cleaning and fumigation skills. May God help us