Diffdeef:
I always tell guys,Don't get into debt,don't get anyone pregnant,don't get addicted to anything,these three things can alter your future.

binarymachine:


Source: https://flipmemes.com/2020/07/04/5-things-about-your-past-you-should-never-tell-your-boyfriend-girlfriend/

sherifato:
Kindly help search for Adetola, she left home on Monday 15th June for work. She neither got to work nor got back home.

Please any information about her will be useful. Please report any information about her to the nearest police station or the management of Federal Medical centre Ebute Metta.

ajibola1979:

http://www.politico.ng/we-will-capture-lagos-in-2023-our-strategies-will-work-pdp/

Agbagbaregoo:
I just met this lady and everything seems to be clicking. she just started a business after I gingered her and I had to patronize her. in the course I transferred some money to her to patronize her far more money than she was selling the Stuff so as to encourage her. The bank debited me and I told her I sent it.

Throughout that day she claimed not to have gotten the money. Then throughout the next day same story so the third day I went to the bank to receive the statement of account. lo and behold her name was boldly written and the bank people told me she has gotten it. I got very angry and sent it to her but I didn't tell her anything I just ignored her call.

A policeman asked for her number at the bank that he will question her. throughout these period I ignored her and I was just imagining how a beautiful light skin tender looking babe will behave like this. Then lo and behold today the bank reversed the money. I can't explain the feeling of disappointment.

Now she said she doesn't want to have anything to do with me again that she doesn't want wahala for her life. She finally picked after many trials of calling and she insisted on me leaving her life.she even said she's not doing business again. I don't know what to do.

Babyforever:
You have no right to break up with her.....How dare you bring up this silly thin an excuse after wasting her time ? it doesn't count except you're trying to win a gun fight with a bunch of knives....I think it's best if you take down this thread you lack evidence

born2begreat:
The beginning sounds like someone secretly used my hand and mind to type this. Then when i jumped on your second paragraph i realised this can’t be me even few of these can be seen in me. I don’t sex woman so that i can thrash them or make them feel worthless but my own is after sex i feel like i don’t need this relationship because i don’t have much. I see my calls dropping and one thing i believe that’s happening in my own is i have exhausted most of my strengths in my previous failed relationships. I’m not saying i’m a saint that women broke my heart, not really. I once gave up on a woman who would never give up on me because one prophet she forced me to go and see told me we are not compatible. I barely feed and clothe then which made me partially believe it. And in less that 2 months we parted ways i could see good things coming my way. And regarding care for family and friends... the reason why i’m still where i am, i so much cherished my family and friends i don’t like seeing them struggle even myself still struggling. I don’t joke with them, i wanted to rent an apartment in 2018 so i can settle with my then fiancé. And that was when they gave my parents quit notice i have no choice than to use part of the money to rent a house for them. Something i believe ended my relationship i was sad and mad at myself but at the same time i was still happy i did. Because they’ve covered my parent house with pan all over and my parents were still sleeping there which is dangerous. They sometimes squat with family that stays around. Op you need to see a counsellor i think some things are not normal about you, you really need help especially not caring for anyone. All the best

Okoroawusa:

Maybe your taste is too high. There are GOOD (although I don't understand what you mean by that) women ready to marry you even if u have no #1 in your pocket.

sacajawea:
Lol how do you people cope. I look younger, act younger and I'm Not yet married Hahaha
And in Nigeria where superficial things like looks, age, marriage, and your pocket are used to Judge you, na wahala oh kikikki

Oya let's chill and talk

Donald3d:

I was about to say it isn't important and you shouldn't bother yourself about it, but I have learnt something in marriage, everything is important .

So, let's dissect your issue starting from the root. I believe starting from the root is the best way to solve problems, to prevent a recurrence.

Let's start with WHY

Why do you want her to share your pictures ?

1. Is it because you want to do what others are doing (the ones you are jealous of). You want online validation ?
2. Or is it because you feel she doesn't love you enough, because she isn't sharing your pictures.

If your answer is number one. You really need to rethink this Sir. Online validation no dey help anybody. Its a gathering of people who really don't care about you or how much you or your wife love each other. It would put your family under unnecessary stress to "keep up" with what everyone else is doing.

You would be subconsciously pushed into basing your love for each other on what people's perception of what your love for each other should be . I hope this isn't confusing.


If your answer is number 2, you really need to take it easy with her and also treat her "issues" from the root. Ask her WHY , in a very calm manner, without looking or sounding judgmental. You need to communicate your worries to her and what you would like her to do and WHY you want her to do it. Also listen carefully to why she hasn't posted your pictures. You would be shocked to get replies like "I don't want anyone to steal you from me ". Just ask her, in a respectful manner.

Away from your concerns and your worries, please understand that people show love in different ways. Look around you carefully, everyday, and see other ways she is showing you love, apart from uploading your picture online.

Offline show of love is always more real than showing it online. Because its done out of selflessness(because no one is watching).Most (not all) people who constantly post their families or spouses online are just looking for online validation, an invisible competition to see who can display love the most. Of what use is it, when love is shown online and you are not treated right offline.

What I am trying to say Sir is, while you try to find out why she isn't sharing your pictures, appreciate the other ways she is showing you love offline, because at the end of the day, that is what really counts.

Omooba77:


https://nigeriainfo.fm/post/adesina-to-nigerians-you-cant-order-president-buhari-around

The man told us this morning, 2023 is around the corner, go and pick your form.

mygreenday:


your own better at least hunger will not kill your family cos your SURE TICKETS will feed them taya
scam don chop your brain finish

robosky02:
How can we compete for the top honours when we keep cutting corner's

The top coaches only go to where they see top quality players and a sincere FA

Here in Nigeria and at present we have an embarrassing array of top players

But when the FA is not sincere they only get grade C coaches to share money with and kill our football.....

Mercisharelove:
Stage two

dignity33:
This is what you get when you search for Kemi.

NLSOFT:
UPDATE ON THE CORONAVIRUS HERE IN THE U.S. There are now 187 days until election day in the United States on November 3, 2020

Why in Nigeria My country, politicians are busy looting the COVID 19 Fund. May God Help the world

Stay Safe

Stay well

WE SHALL OVERCOME SOON

From
Nairalearn.com

born2begreat:


I will be happy if i’m chosen but it’s okay if i’m not. But i will be happy to see people here living testimonies and be happy no matter how small the money is. More blessings

Mercisharelove:
We are grateful,to announce that we have been disbursing, 500+ is going to be massive, but I do know that Nigerians are mostly ungrateful and unconcerned, it doesn't matter what you do for them, the moment it doesn't go as they expected, they begin to curse you.



Their mouths and tongues are full of curses. If we were to do this for man's sake, no Kobo will leave my account.

Mercisharelove:
Our team are already disbursing please check and confirm. We have a system which is helping us ascertain the poor of the poor not internet warriors

Mercisharelove:
Though we have not concluded the method, we are looking at 500 poor individuals. It's going to be private without any public sympathy

Bontia:
Hello Guys,

The give away has ended. I know and understand that so many people sincerely and earnestly need support during this difficult time. I originally set out to assist 10 people here with N5k each but based on the request I extended it to 12 people totaling N60,000. Below are the beneficiaries:

1. Jashub
2. Emaax77
3. Pearlqueen
4. Sweetpoison22
5. Ability4ace
6. Kokoboss
7. JohnnyPalmer
8. NijjaKing
9. Oladayo12
10. Joeybillz
11. Chigold1
12. Quietly

I wish I could give more because there are still many people in need but that is all I can give out now. Please don't be offended if it didn't get to you. Worthy of mention is DrHarry who gave out N5k to Simplyglow on this same thread. Thank you also Dejt4U for taking out time to do some background check.

God in his infinite mercies will help each and every one of us.

Thank you.

NB: All 12 beneficiaries have been sent the N5k . The funds set out for this has been exhausted.

Bontia:
I know so many people are going through a very tough time during this pandemic and the lockdown. I am not a rich guy but just being empathic. Nairaland is a forum I have benefited so much from in terms of information so I am giving out N5k each to 10 random people here. I just need people who are in real need of the money. Just genuinely type in here why you need the N5k and you may be just be among the 10 people.

By the special grace of God the world shall overcome this virus and the economic hardship.

Thank you.