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I just don’t understand it means the poster is absolutely right with his write-up. Entitlement mentality among most ladies is alarming as you can see what’s this one saying. Does that mean you dating men for money and the men dates you for f**k only. SMH��‍♂️

Toks2008:
In other words, Your Psy is for sale.

YES it does make sense, no addition no subtraction. Remind me of one bottle of Tandi i promise you

Toks2008:
There is a difference between a guy who decides to give his lady money without her making demands and a lady who has the habit of demanding.

It is ok to give your lady money only if you feel like or when it is extremely necessary and you should only give money you can afford without expecting anything in return but never ever put yourself in a difficult position where the lady you are dating will be making financial requests from you as if it is her right because no matter the sacrifices you make, she will still dump you if she wants to and when you look back to recount all you have done for her, you will realize how all the money you have given her would have been enough to change the life of someone very dear to you.

I have read many stories of guys lamenting about how they spent so much for a lady just for the same lady to end up dumping them for another man and i always wonder if these ladies forced the money out of them at gunpoint.

A lady who truly desires you will never make unrealistic financial demands from you but only a woman who does not have your interest will make demands as she wishes because she has no plans with you... the fact that you give a lady money does not mean she will love you and...in fact, a woman will take your money and give to another broke guy she desires cos a woman will sleep with a man she truly wants even if she gets nothing from him.

Please work hard, save and invest your money for your future, spend on your parents and family members and if you must give any lady money please do it without expecting anything in return and give only what you can afford.

Don't be scared of losing any lady because you have no money to give to her and stop wasting your money chasing shadows cos a lady who will be yours will always be yours and a lady who is truly yours will help you save your money and not take and take from you because if you give your girlfriend money because you don't want to lose her, you must keep up with her demands even after you marry her else she will dump you

Hope this makes sense.

Happy for you bruh... Your friends life now depends on Baba’s life... If Baba pemeh lasan na to dey run helter skelter. May God not give us trial that will make us run pass our destiny. Good night

SunCityZ:
Yes!!! I counted it and its mint & fresh.I left the sack and drag my friend into the living room,checked his pulse and his breathing rate. His wife came to joined us and asked what happened? I told her probably fever that we will check into a hospital on our way out.

Baba called came in and he said:

BABA: Do not take him to the hospital
Me: But Sir?
Baba: They must not inject him with needle,let him eat and sleep.
Me: Okay Sir.

Spent the whole day with him as i couldn't leave,i had to make sure he's fine before leaving. At 7pm,He called me name:

Friend: XYZ
ME: yes yes?
Friend: how far?
Me: what? thank you lord..i replied i dey...
Friend: Men..it is not easy
Me: I know
Friend: you don see the level?
Me: Yes..confirmed!!
Friend: Your own ko?
Me: I missed...He stood up immediately
Friend: how? hope say you no light am?
Me: nah....i slept off
friend: you go do am tonight?
Me: guy sit down...are you better now?
Friend: yes,do am now
Me: I am not sure.

Got back home around 12pm,My wife has been calling and i didn't not even know. my wife confronted me with the items in the other room because i forgot to lock the door.

Wife: whats all these? i need an explanation??

I sat her down and explained everything from A to Z she shouted...OH LORD!!

Wifey: you want to kill me? ah
Me: its okay...just lower your voice
Wife: not me and you....you are not trying anything again.

She packed the stuffs downstairs and get it burned,our lives were never the same cause we turned prayer warrior and attended all the night vigil throughout that year.

My friend relocated his family abroad while after some years through fasting and prayer I got a multi-national job in UAE and I am living my dream life to the fullest..

My friend do call me sometimes,narrate all his horrific nightmares and wish he could turn back the hands of time cause he doesn't sleep well and still perform rituals every 2 Two Years.

We were lucky to be alive,I was super lucky cause i slept off. Only God knows what would have happened to me. I give thanks to most HIGH.

Please no matter what you are passing through right now,it is temporary, help is near and hold on to your GOD. There is no shortcut to success and only shortcut to HELL.

Hunger is BAD we know but Patience is the KEY

HELL IS REAL MY FRIEND!!! STAY AWAY FROM THE PATH

THIS IS MY STORY.

Explain more...

slizzyb:
Since everyone dey lockdown
make we try this airdrop
e dy end on the 10th of this month
worth 75$

anybody dy interested??

Don’t try to go deep in knowing what Jinn is coz you might end up running mad just kidding anyway. But most Muslims already know what jinn is, they are another creatures but human don’t see them but they see us. They are like spirit they have good ones and bad ones among them. Ordinary eyes don’t see them except the babalawos, Alfas or pastors who recites some strange words to use the jinn for work. If ordinary human being see them... bruh na mad straight away.

jeph19:
Just seeing the word JINN for the first time... What is it and what's its function?

I’m not sure of the exposure part but dating part is normal. But older lady would always prefer matured younger guy. Unlike one Op putting up her fuckmate colleague on Nairaland for show off.

Actuarydeji:
Can you date a lady who is older than you and also well expose than you? Is there any implication in dating a lady that is older than you as a guy? Please, I need a sincere response.

I have been watching videos and doing some online reading through datacamp and freecodecamp. I have downloaded the video at work before the lockdown and there’s this organisation that will be giving free training later this month, you can check it out and register

https://compedu.stanford.edu/codeinplace/assn0/

born2begreat:
I`m interested in learning too maybe we should have a WhatsApp group where we can be putting ourselves through. I have been trying to learn programming i have learnt HTTL, CSS, CSS3 on Codecademy but i have forgotten them. I`m having personal and family issue that`s giving me distraction but i`m ready to scale through no matter the circumstances and challenges on my way. I have access to internet at work to download videos but no time to watch here due to workloads. I need serious minded people whom we can learn together, be determined and dedicated. Thanks

Like mother like daughter. #caseclosed

solagist:
Actress Vicky Zugah has made a shocking revelation about herself when she was growing up into womanhood.

She stated that, she was at age 16 when she started seeing different men (having s*x). However, she refused to assert the reasons why she was portraying that life then.

Speaking further, she admitted that since she started living badly at her teenage age, she wouldn’t be surprise seeing her 16 year old daughter imitating her.
She claimed sex is no more a ‘valuable’ thing, saying if you don't talk to your children about it their bad friends will.

more photos at:-https://solagist..com/2020/04/my-16yrs-old-daughter-can-sleep-with.html

I don’t think you owed anyone any explanation. I sha don’t like people with entitlement mentality and they will be grumble and keeping malice as if the person owe them. Nice one, people offline most times needs help than the ones online. Givers never lack they say... #moreblessings

iLegendd:
You're welcome, dear. I used to help online, but I'm realized people offline need it more. Sadly, when you help offline and people online don't know about it, they'll you didn't help and abuse you. If you talk about it, they'll still abuse you and tell you how God said you shouldn't talk about it.

At times, I just keep quiet about it and rather post a picture of how I'm cooking this and that and ignore talks about "share money."

For your good wishes, I appreciate and I wish you even more.

And you just fokalisted and subtentanouslical everything

Righteousness89:
Hahahaha ...

Pa Soyinka has Grammatically Discombobulated Comrade Garba Shehu!

These Chinese people with their eyes like that of rats ehn... You are Oloriburukus o�� You want to hold the remote of the world and control it however you like. But i believe in God Almighty that He will never let that happen, you will be exposed and regretted your actions soon. �� Awon stupid borners, Bastard Childers ��‍♂️

ContractKiller:
https://www.mirror.co.uk/news/world-news/china-finds-new-coronavirus-strain-21793918

I gbadun this your advice. May God help we single guys because story like this sometimes piss me off. But ko ni s’ewu��

Obaman12:
Bro! You see?

You goofed up big time by showing her all your cards bro. Relationship these days are like card games. You don't display all your cards to your opponent to avoid being kicked off the game. You play it smartly with your head not with your heart.

Now, you're of no relevance to her again, and there's nothing that you'll do to gain that back from her. To her, she's just using u as a step up plan until she lands her target man.

In otherwords, you're on your own
All, I'll say now is, start searching for another girl that would keep ur hrt occupied at moment, after that dump her and move on. That's d only way to mk her feel d break up, don't let her break ur hrt, break hers first that's how you'll get to win on this bro. Outside it, it'll be an all-round win for her. So be smart and act fast.


Note: all these should be on code. Don't let her notice anysh*t as regarding ur intention towards her. Oya go win this bro

I made this same mistake bro, and now am a rebranded person.

Read on miseducation by Ubanja

One thing i don’t like about greedy people, they always think they are smart and they need money than everyone. But i hope the guy still respond and pay you your money.

A sensible person seeing everything that’s happening all over the world won’t even think so stupid today to crack any joke. Borrow sense and get your ass off here boy

wreckormend:
Since the Corona break has made us all practically useless. Even movies couldn't help the level of boredom I was feeling. So I thought I should give my girlfriend a little bit high BP. I sent her this prank message. Had gone it down a little so she doesn't go crazy before the end. She hasn't read it though, but I can only imagine what her reaction will be when she wakes to this. Happy new month guys.

I’m still waiting for VAR....

[quote author=Melezenawii post=87848940]https://mobile.twitter.com/BashirAhmaad/status/1243883991188541440


https://twitter.com/BashirAhmaad/status/1243886104912236546?s=19[/quote]

Dignity that can rescue them from poverty.. to hell with dignity as long you are able to cater for your family and live fine.

johnmartus:
You have lost your dignity.

Are you sure you can survive in that land? The cold there is deadly than Coronavirus itself

yusfatedeeprof:
Jesu, oko orun o

Hello, makanaki can you get me a flight to Antarctica

Why Lagos nah is Lagos a dumpsite? He should be taken to Italy or UK where they always go for holiday and bank...

Antoeni:
http://saharareporters.com/2020/03/24/exclusive-presidency-move-abba-kyari-lagos-treatment-after-testing-positive-coronavirus

Okay i’m listening �

MadeINchenzen2:
Actually everything is wrong with asking a lady out twice. pls ask me y let me explain.

I don’t think anything is wrong with a man asking a girl out twice. We all know that girls like forming hard to get when it comes to giving attention or saying yes. I understand sometimes the case might be different. I worked in the same company in 2008/09 with a lady i like so much. She gave me an excuse to giving her time and boom she was already in a relationship. I asked her out like 2 times and her response was No. This is 2020 and we are both still single and i know deeply in my heart that if i ask her out now she will surely say yes without anything. But i know i can’t love her like when i needed her in the past. And dating such lady would just be like because we both already run out of choices. I like her as a person but i will never go for her the third time.

MadeINchenzen2:
Maintain a principle... stay on ur lane, dont digress from the ultimate plan because of those luscious bossoms or that succulent booty that wont let u concentrate and think straight... there is a face and standard to protect.

You appear common, desperate and hórny when u add pressure. Do ur ego some good and ask her out once, and if she declines den bounce niqqa, BOUNCE !!!

I am in the same boat with you. I’m in your shoes bruh though i’m a working class even though it doesn’t pay much but i still makes living from it. The reason why most men are still single is lack of fund and high taste of women. This country is not just encouraging, i have put marriage aside for now and focus on other important stuffs of life. One thing i know for sure, if i meet HER today i will know she’s the one i’ve been looking for all my life. Ki Oluwa gba Audra wa

Impostor:
Hello NLders

I just want to share my experience. I want people to learn from others.

So recently I started dating and meeting women with the mindset of getting married as everyone around me keep shouting that I am getting overripe. Some are even wondering if everything is ok downstairs lol. How can you not be married up till now? You know those types of comments. But how could I have gotten married when unemployment no release me until 36? Nigeria is something else. It was at that age that I finally landed a decent job. I am even lucky to be where I am now.

So many youths are underemployed/under paid. Less than a month ago, a good friend who is also my course mate messaged me to express his frustration at teaching somewhere for 50k and he said he's now ready to make money anyhow even if it will take someone's blood . It's just a threat out of frustration.

The problem now is that I don't know if there are still good women like our mothers in this country. I have met so many young girls that I have stopped trying, the quest and hunger of these girls for money is just too much.

You are unemployed and you want me to buy you an iPhone of 150,000 Naira and she was making so much noise about it. Meanwhile I use a phone of 30k lol. Almost all the ladies I am meeting are unemployed and expensive. I met one girl awaiting NYSC, she told me straight up, that I will have to be taking care of her, that she's tired of dating broke guys so she has decided that any man she wants to date will have to be responsible for her completely. It sounded like a transaction. Though she's a very pretty, tall girl but I am not even after all those facial beauty.

Another lady told me she has half of her rent and she's looking for the remaining half. The stories are so many, I could write a book with them. I don't even know how to get working class ladies. But I have now realized that Nigerian ladies are not even the problem, it's the economy. Many young ladies are struggling just like guys and the only way they can meet up with their bills is by dating 3/4 guys.


Advise from my experience.

After my NYSC, over 10 years ago, I had this mind set that I won't get married without a job or funds to take proper care of my family. I think that mindset MAY be wrong, so many people still think this way.

I will advise you look at it again because it may take you 15/20 years after University to become comfortable (not your portion). Let me be sincere with you, this Nigeria is getting worse by the day especially with the type of leaders we have, who think only of themselves and their families/tribe.

For example, you can see for yourself what is happening with the outbreak of Corona Virus in the country. After 2 infection, people started advising that we should stop foreign flights, they refused until so many infected people got into the country, now they are running up&down. If we are lucky to get good leaders after now, it may take another 30 years of continuous good leadership to save Nigeria.

My advise is that after your NYSC, if you have a supportive family and a good/understanding girl friend, just marry her and start your family. You two will Hussle together and God will bless your hustle. You may ask why? Because most people finish around 25. If it takes you 10 years to become stable and get married, if you are lucky, you will have your first child at 36, 37. By the time you are 50, your child will be in junior secondary.

Be wise money is not everything.

Naija people with Awoof

What of if he has source of income but he’s not earning much��

Shugavee:
There is absolutely nothing like a broke / lazy good man. You can never know the real him till he has some money. You can never know if he’s faithful, except he got money in his pocket!!

So ladies, don’t waste your time, if he doesn’t have a source of income, he is a waste. Always remember that your time and attention is an investment, don’t waste it on some dude who got just sex to offer. Don’t let people single shame you that you go for anything and don’t ever agree that you can only offer sex. They know you have a lot to offer.

YOU ARE A WOMAN!!

These marketers are stupid borners, bastard childers... If the price is increase you won`t even understand how and when their sign board changed.

Islie:
https://punchng.com/why-we-cant-sell-petrol-at-125-litre-marketers/

Kontunu... that pitfall you want to enter your eyes will soon clear. Stick to your girlfriend, call her whenever you feel like having feelings for someone else. I sha know you will soon lose the two if care not taken. ��‍♂️

I’m a Muslim but this your statements is too harsh and you should have passed instead of stopping to give leave senseless comment. Not everything is village people sometimes people are the ones bringing problem into their lives themselves.

OloshoMan:
Can this prayer cure coronavirus? If it can't, it is as useless the God u Serve. This is no time for superstition.

The best and easiest way to liquidate like Savannah Bank... Within few hours, person life will be miserable. I have never heard where anyone win 2M on virtual bet but i have seen where someone lost more than 3M on virtual bet in just a day. Say no to virtual bet

ellalina:
Team virtual where una dey

Hmmm i don`t know what to say. But my advice to single mothers out there especially those with 2 or 3 or more kids, no matter the situation that made you a single mother never have the thought of going into a relationship or marriage with another man. Your priority should be your children, think of how they can grow up to become somebody in life. You said you have a grocery shop which in fact can in one way or the other sustain you and your kids even without you re-marrying. Being a single mom shouldn`t be a disease or bad as they needs to be loved too but all single mom should always consider their children before anything. One of the easiest ways nowadays for children to go astray is when they live very far to their alive mother, feel the love and care of their mother. And any man coming into your life claiming he loves you but can`t take care of your children did not love you in the first place it`s understandable if we are talking about provisions to take care of the child. A man should be able to love you and your kid(s) and he should know you won`t be happy seeing your children suffering because they live with someone else. All the best sha

I was about to correct him on that before seeing your comment. It`s the coldest not one of the coldest

Afobear:
not one of the coldest ... It is the coldest

This is wrong, that’s someone’s father, someone’s husband. He could have just told to leave the scene rather than slapping him�. K1 or what’s his name should apologise to the man. That’s why I hate most of Nigeria celebrities because once they attained the height they see themselves as mini god who can ride on anyone. Stupid people�

NwekeUG:
Maiyegun of Youruba land and music star, K 1 De Ultimate was in occasion addressing the audience on a podium.

Then a photographer unintentionally blocked him while trying to get a good shot. Immediately, K1 slapped the photographer's head.

See video below


https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=MGTYvOpBbgs

Lalasticlala

I`m interested in learning too maybe we should have a WhatsApp group where we can be putting ourselves through. I have been trying to learn programming i have learnt HTTL, CSS, CSS3 on Codecademy but i have forgotten them. I`m having personal and family issue that`s giving me distraction but i`m ready to scale through no matter the circumstances and challenges on my way. I have access to internet at work to download videos but no time to watch here due to workloads. I need serious minded people whom we can learn together, be determined and dedicated. Thanks

aboyaji:
Let's learn together.