Jobs/Vacancies › Re: Society For Family Health (SFH) Job Recruitment (13 Positions) by braine(m): 1:35am On Jan 20, 2019 |
davidsthe: Sfh social markets products. Gold circle and it's various variants, malaria drugs, misprostol, combi 3, postinor 2. These are some of sfh products Oh, okay! Thanks |
Jobs/Vacancies › Re: Society For Family Health (SFH) Job Recruitment (13 Positions) by braine(m): 6:56pm On Jan 19, 2019 |
Isn't SFH some kind of NGO? Do NGOs do 'sales'? |
Dating And Meet-up Zone › Re: female friends needed by braine(m): 8:50am On Jan 19, 2019 |
What measure have you taken for the prevention of transmission of STDs? |
Celebrities › Re: I’m Bothered Falz Doesn’t Go To Church – Mother by braine(m): 8:17am On Jan 19, 2019 |
1Sharon: It is cheaper to pray at home  Chai, this is deep. For anyone to feel this means something is definitely wrong with the church. |
Celebrities › Re: Use #10yearschallenge To Show Your Achievements & Your Butts Increase - Reno by braine(m): 11:04am On Jan 15, 2019 |
Oga, whats your business? |
Health › Re: These 11 Tips Will Help You Get Pregnant by braine(m): 11:01am On Jan 15, 2019 |
Okay.. |
Romance › Re: #10YearsChallenge: Curvy Lady's 10 Years Throwback Vs Recent Photos by braine(m): 9:17pm On Jan 14, 2019 |
How does she clean up after shitting? |
Health › Re: White Discharge And Itchy Penis. Help? by braine(m): 12:34pm On Jan 13, 2019 |
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Health › Re: White Discharge And Itchy Penis. Help? by braine(m): 11:07am On Jan 13, 2019 |
NCANN: can I cure it with herbal medicine. Not sure about that and I wouldn't go that route if I were you. Go see a doctor and tell them your symptoms, they'll know what to give you. |
Programming › Re: Built A To-do-list Web App With Django And Bootstrap. by braine(m): 10:48am On Jan 13, 2019 |
Looks cool, but the app will require some features like date, time etc |
Health › Re: White Discharge And Itchy Penis. Help? by braine(m): 10:30am On Jan 13, 2019 |
onlinetomola: Bros you don carry deadly gonorrhea  Gonorrhoea quite alright, but it's treatable. Just pray it's not a resistant strain you contacted. Go see a doctor for the appropriate antibiotics. |
Celebrities › Re: "You Are Mad" Twitter Users Comes For Pastor Fatoyinbo, Daddy Freeze React by braine(m): 4:01pm On Jan 12, 2019 |
Martinez19: Freedom of speech. Speech directly assaulting someone verbally. |
Celebrities › Re: "You Are Mad" Twitter Users Comes For Pastor Fatoyinbo, Daddy Freeze React by braine(m): 11:40am On Jan 12, 2019 |
tsephanyah: i get sad for literally no reason Talk to someone. |
Celebrities › Re: "You Are Mad" Twitter Users Comes For Pastor Fatoyinbo, Daddy Freeze React by braine(m): 11:39am On Jan 12, 2019 |
thorpido: Some people are just stupid.Even if you don't agree with him,why the insult? It beats my imagination. Totally uncalled for. |
Celebrities › Re: "You Are Mad" Twitter Users Comes For Pastor Fatoyinbo, Daddy Freeze React by braine(m): 11:29am On Jan 12, 2019*. Modified: 8:51pm On Jan 12, 2019 |
These ones do not have social etiquette.
How can you publicly say someone is mad on a platform everyone will see for no reason? |
Politics › Re: Inalegwu Abba Joins APC, Dumps PDP In Benue by braine(m): 6:25pm On Jan 11, 2019 |
No doubt Buhari is winning next month.
APC should be worried about losing Lagos governorship. |
Politics › Re: I’m Fully With APC, Omisore Declares by braine(m): 10:00pm On Jan 10, 2019*. Modified: 10:53pm On Jan 10, 2019 |
Good. Everyone who has sense is falling in line. Well, except wailers and fake news spreaders. |
Celebrities › Re: Kemi Olunloyo: Davido, Apologise For Sexually Harassing Me Online by braine(m): 10:32pm On Jan 07, 2019 |
Why do people give this mad woman attention? Why do mods push her threads to fp?? |
Crime › Re: Nigerians React To Guys Stealing Ladies' Panties For Rituals (photos, Video) by braine(m): 7:59pm On Jan 07, 2019 |
You people have overflogged this issue. |
Education › Re: What Are Those Courses You Won't Advise Anyone To Study In Nigeria? by braine(m): 9:00pm On Jan 06, 2019 |
Pope22: Veterinary medicine, botany Botany. Lol. |
Romance › Re: Why Good Girls Remain Single - Nelson Asuen (Entitlement Mentality) by braine(m): 5:24pm On Jan 06, 2019 |
SassyVixen: All this nye nye nyen about good girls not having knowledge and bad girls getting all the guys. See ehn there is no hard and fast rule about this relationship thing. I am going to be 34 in a few weeks and I have become a recluse mainly because I am extremely introverted. My social life is almost non existent and I pray to change this year. Sometimes its about positioning. There is no Tarzan or a prince on a horse that I expect to break down my door. I do not have to be a 'bad' girl to get a man, neither will I call myself a good girl because honestly I have been there and done that. And no,the day I meet someone interesting I refuse to pretend. What he sees is what he gets.
If I may ask what is 'good' and what is 'bad'? Both can be entirely subjective based on perceptions and experiences. Some good girls have been too heartbroken and they turn it up a notch. A man meeting them at that point automatically may assume she is 'bad'. My point is we should try not to put people in boxes all because of what we see from the outside.
Both good girls and bad girls get married every Saturday. In the end, it is all about our different destinies and paths in life. Not everyone will marry in their 20s and not everyone will marry in their 30s. Some will not marry at all. In the end stay true to you. I don't think there's a defined rule on how to identify bad girls, but one would just 'know' based on some things such as her past (if she's open enough), the way she carries herself, during sex (personal experience), etc. I might be wrong tho |
Romance › Re: Why Good Girls Remain Single - Nelson Asuen (Entitlement Mentality) by braine(m): 5:18pm On Jan 06, 2019 |
Iamgrey5: Exactly!
I have an Aunt who kept her virginity till she was in her 40years only to be disvirgined by a complete nonentity out of desperation.
She was a complete good woman with a touch of religious righteousness. She nearly ran mad when she realized that the "brother" that disvirgined her is married man with kids. This is why I wonder what the big deal is about keeping virginity for so long. |
Romance › Re: Why Good Girls Remain Single - Nelson Asuen (Entitlement Mentality) by braine(m): 5:14pm On Jan 06, 2019 |
Some of us like a mixture of both.
I wouldn't mind a Card B twerking and giving good head while being a choir mistress at the same time. |
Fashion › Re: 3 Wise-men Vs 3 Beautiful Bridesmaid – Who Wore It Better? by braine(m): 1:29am On Jan 03, 2019 |
Ofcoz the 'wise' men wore it better.
By the way, they are not called 'wise men' but Kingmakers, the first to crown the first Oba of Lagos all the way from Benin. |
Family › Re: How Can I Divorce Expressly? See My Reasons by braine(m): 10:51am On Jan 02, 2019 |
KingAzari: You are from another planet, I swear. I have been married for 6 year and I can't take 5% of what you just narrated above. I had some disagreement that bothered on her constant nagging and bickering with my wife last month and I left home for 4 days. It took both families, friends and even my boss to make me go back to my house. I don't like violence; domestic or otherwise, so i had to bail out of the house when it was obvious that the real intent of my wife that day was to provoke to the point of beating her. I just took a few things and jumped into my car and left.
What i will suggest is that you find a place to stay and go to work while the impasse rages. I do not know how old your child is but make sure your plan includes your child/children. Wow! You married married men are going through a scary lot. Choi! This is making my consideration for marriage lower. |
Family › Re: How Can I Divorce Expressly? See My Reasons by braine(m): 10:23am On Jan 02, 2019 |
Acidosis: You didn't address the ex issues before your wedding. Marriage will not automatically erase a woman's feelings toward an ex. If she didn't get over her ex before marriage, she won't in marriage. Aside the change of name and that band, marriage changes nothing. A cheat and a careless person will always remain the same until a conscious effort is made; it doesn't matter where you conduct your wedding, Paris or Rome.
More importantly, the world these days don't give a fck about married women, you can go ahead to wear 25 wedding bands. The same kind of conversations you hold before marriage will always come back to live. Those randy buddies won't care whether you're married to a Pope or a Senator. Gone are the days were people consciously respect married women. A married woman that wants to be respected needs to respect herself before marriage.
Bottom line, your wife hasn't changed. You only decided to get played at the onset. I bet you didn't even care to know about her past (you're probably one of those folks who claim they don't care about the past). Oh well, the past will always come to haunt those who fail to address them. Getting to know about these exes after 2 years in marriage shows the kind of courtship you had.
On whether to divorce her or not? I think you should listen to your in-laws. When your own in-law tells you to quit after several attempts to correct their daughter, trust me, only a f00l will advise you to continue. I don't know more than her parents who raised and trained her. They probably even know more than you do, so listen to them and listen to that inner voice.
Now unless you're marrying a total virgin, you need to dig deep without raising trust issues. Don't ever make the mistake you made in this marriage in your next attempt.
All the best bruv. Perfect answer. Thank you for this. |
Politics › Re: Why Are Nigerian Youths Not Supporting Sowore by braine(m): 10:41am On Dec 31, 2018 |
He has no political clout. |
Romance › Re: 9 Tips On How To Get The Man Of Your Dream In 2019 by braine(m): 9:59am On Dec 31, 2018 |
ITbomb: Control what you post on social media
Stop posting pics of you in the lobby of hotels Stop showing your assz in pics, it attracts flies to your mess not real men Stop posting pics of you hugging or kissing guys These! If ladies knew how much it turns off serious guys ehn.. Then they wonder how they ended up fvck boys. I always say to myself that the best of marriageable ladies are not active on social media. |
Education › Re: I Have A Talent And I Don't Want This To Die Inside Of Me by braine(m): 1:32pm On Dec 30, 2018 |
Can you delve into programming? Coding is your calling and we need you. |
Family › Re: When Your Wife Stop Nagging, Watch It by braine(m): 12:36pm On Dec 30, 2018 |
No post formatting whatsoever. You just copied a lump of words and pasted. Ahan! |
Politics › Re: Police Siege: Is Senator Melaye Lying About Not Being At Home? by braine(m): 12:35pm On Dec 30, 2018 |
This whole write-up does not tally with the headline, just a copy and paste of old news. These journalists sef. |
Sports › Re: Leicester Have Killed Me by braine(m): 10:42pm On Dec 29, 2018 |
Did you tell us before you played or did we send you? |