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Kingsuave:
First it was the self acclaimed King tonto,

Now it's Rita dominic, omor these bitches will do anything for clout.

If women are bitches then men are dogs. After all, women come from men's ribs, isn't it?

koyyess:
It's not applicable to all though. He was just generalising.

True enough.

koyyess:
So is marriage. The person you quoted meant something deeper.

If it isn't overrated, how many virgins have the powers he attributes to them?

nedekid:
What has inserting penis inside virgina got to do with getting things from God?

Help us ask. The way people attribute spiritual powers to virginity is absurd. Many of their pastors didn't get married as virgins, yet they have more miracles than the virgins.

olanikeh:
How can me and this mummy be age mate?

Everyone is unique and different. Your journey isn't hers. Plus the pics are poor quality.

Righteousness2:
Any lady or Gentleman who remains a Virgin until marriage and Understands how to walk with GOD, will very easily get things from GOD.

If so easy, at her age why unmarried and without children? Something fornicators do with ease.

Virginity is overrated and means nothing. It's one of the most useless things for people to elevate as if it's the solution to everything. Otherwise all teenagers will have everything easy. Yet they don't.

bunto:
Looks more like a Shiba Inu to me.
Finnish Spitz are tall and heavy.

Maybe corgi Inu mix? Even chowchow.

chigator2:
My best match is a Corgi. The breed is Corgi same with the attached picture

That's certainly not a corgi. It's a mix of many things.

Kobojunkie:
So because you have an outie means you are somehow on another level from those who have an innie?

For Pete's sake, how old are these kids who frequent these sections on nairaland abeg?

<25

Fastlinkpro:
Why is he appearing only to you. Cant he appear also to the one in Abroad?

That's the mystery.

EndBuhariNow:
if nah me I will exhume his corpse harvest his skull and burn his carcass to ashes... at least the skull will fetch me urgent 50k to pay the dept

That's harsh. Don't let him become a skull Miner for someone else's debt!

adetula148:
My dad did not do it and nothing happened anyway.

Thought as much.

Dead people are dead. They can't tell you to do something, except it's not them.

They will never know the value of the sacrifice.

EndBuhariNow:
as he no leave anything for the young man he no suppose expect him to stranger himself just to appease him... some parent are like that

Especially since he said the man used to be aggressive, he should've expected it. But why doesn't the man flog the elder brother?

OP said he's only 30 and doesn't want to be flogged again

Psoul:
Expect an extraordinary kind of opened doors as soon as you redeemed the pledge he made.

He don't want you to miss the blessings. That's why he's rushing you. May be there's a force trying to use the unfulfilled pledge to rub you off the blessings. Reason he's doing everything to make u pay for the pledge.

Also let us know when the blessings will start flowing in.

What if it's an evil creature with a stick inside the father's skin now that he's a spiritual creature?

EndBuhariNow:
I don't want to curse the dead, but next time he appears in your dream, ask him why he didn't pay it before dying... parents keep incuring debts on their children without even leaving anything for them to survive


Uselessness

It's not a curse. It's a fact. Why is a personal vow any of the son's concern? Isn't it between him and God? Or was the man in another kind of church?

But imagine if he were building an empire, wouldn't the son want to complete it? Children cannot only inherit good things. It seems that it's evil things that always seek to enforce their repayment schedules, though.

adetula148:
My grandma also appeared to my dad in his dream telling him she as been forgotten. She was crying bitterly in that dream asking them to kill even a goat to remember me . My dad said the dream was so real but when Baba wake , he said why me

And then that happened?

Wittysmith:
Just what I thought. He should use the supernatural powers at his disposal to improve your financial fortunes.

He said the man was aggressive. Who told you an aggressive man would want to help his son out?

The part he says he doesn't want to get flogged is funny.

Bonesbreaker:
go to his grave buy snap buy kola, someone is invoking your p man spirit, go to his grave spill a little of the snap in its cover pure it on his grave must be his head not leg side and also break the kola into four drop two for him saying he should eat kola call his name three times then pause tell him everything you want him to understand or stop and also remained him anyone that is not his son that comes to invoke him he should strike the person after doing that turn ur back do not look back till u enter ur house do not respond to any greating,pure another snap in its cover renes ur mouth pure it outside the window.....case close. this is how to handle issues culture remember culture never dies

Does this really work? And is it sincere advice?

What is kola?

grandstar:
Princecanada
The lady was being smart. She tried to trap you with a baby as she wanted to hold on to you. Unfortunately, ladies being ladies, her childish emotions got the better of her and messed her plan up.

There's no problem here. If she does deliver, conduct a DNA test. You can even decide to conduct a DNA test before the baby is born.

If the child is yours, that is when you have a real problem. "Should I marry her or not?" is the problem.

Can you guys just listen to yourselves?

"Trap" this, "trap" that. Did you read the part where he made sure he trapped himself by tearing 3 condoms and afterwards going on without any condom?

Don't you think he's the one who laid the "trap"? Or is the male being trapped by Jezebel sentiment too strong?

Terrence99:
That pregnancy is not yours. She is trying to pin it on different people and you are one of them. Her calculation is that if you don't accept, another person will and if all others don't, you will.
She declined marriage initially because she had pinned it on someone else before. If the person had rejected it, she would have accepted your offer.

She knows you're inexperienced in sexual matters and that is why she's taking advantage of your inexperience.

After all this talk, what if he's the father? What will you say then?

omoharry:
Nop, becos it has happened to my cousin. I taught it was weird, until I came across what she went through in a program called" I did not know I was pregnant". She went into Labour while see was giving presentation at work.She thought it was something terminal due to the intense pain. To cut story short, she ended up with a baby at a health facility near bye and the rest is history.So, Its happens.
Funny enough, do know what she wore that day when she gave birth?..A fitted trouser suite with a high heels. She did not add weight nor was there any change in her tomy or her breast. The baby is grown now.I believe you are educated..Why dont you read up about it.Check if it possible for a woman to carry a child full term without knowing it. Read and stop doubting.

This thread is exposing a lot of ignorance. People need to read more.

doctorexcel:
Abegi! Lie small small now. Se the baby no turn at all at all for your belle for 9 months? Haba fear God, fear woman. The future is definately female

It's not a lie. Some women give birth this way. Minor stomach then sudden delivery.

It's a big world. You're a doctor? Read your textbooks more.

Confidencemama:
I will rest my case but as many that are saying this rubbish my prayer for u all is may ur sister and ur female child experience what I went through in my marriage

Madam, please ignore the comments you see here.

Most people commenting are under 25 and 30s who don't have life experiences and haven't seen anything. I saw a case where a man just took his kids and left home one day, and the wife had not done anything to him. Till date his location is unknown and once he knows she's the one calling he hangs up. You don't need to have offended your husband for him to leave. And if you did, even God forgives.

There is a woman out there who he thinks he's in love with, and that is why he left. It's no fault of yours. In your time of his absence, make yourself happy. MAKE YOURSELF HAPPY. If you believe in prayers, pray. But make yourself happy.

I only wish you didn't bring it to this biased forum where they believe men are saints and women are instigators of anything bad men do.

NaijaOlosho:
A reasonable man can't just abandon his wife like that, your story is incomplete.

You have to state what happened first.

You have really troubled that man to the extent that he feels running away is the solution.

What if she didn't trouble him and he has a mental illness?

The way people assume men cannot just leave is amazing. How many such cases have we read of on this forum to know that it happens? There was a real case in which he just left one day with all his children without any offense.

Some men are tired of having to be with one woman and are looking for just one little thing to use to get up and leave, not because they have any problem at home, but because they have a lover they want to be with outside.

Olunmercy56:
Sorry, what happened?! A man can't just leave his family for another lady expect you are giving him troubles at home ( no intimacy, you starved him good sex, you are materialistic, or too much demands, etc) or you are baby mama. please don't deceive yourself, realize your mistakes and ask God for forgiveness. If you are innocent, please go into fasting and prayers, God answer prayers, He will return back to you.

A man just can't, yet everyday many men just leave their families. You're underestimating the irresponsibility of a wayward man who loves prostitutes. They do anything they please because of comments like yours.

Lollittaa:
social media is a world on it's own. People say one thing online, do another offline. Its fast becoming a norm to have a dual personality.

The matter is something else. Every Saturday there are weddings and every Sunday churches hold. Who are they kidding?

Lollittaa:
Like their tithes count. The Church of Christ is over 2000 years old and has survived persecution of all sorts, these stones they throw online is nothing.

Some will still rush to church to pray for forgiveness after the posts. Or if they see a black cat with green eyes at their window.

Who used to cause traffic jams on Sundays? The posters.

kokanepyramid:
People that are finding it difficult to pay their ward’s school fees in this economy will be the first to advise young men to get married.

Misery really loves company.

I think it’s just out of envy seeing how you are enjoying your life looking fresh. The other day I took leave from work and embarked on vacation out of the country. This married colleague won’t stop yapping about “my being single is why I’m doing all these, that they with kids are planning for September school fees” then ended it with “ you better go and marry and stop wasting time”.

What do you expect from a society that has placed so much value on marriage as a status symbol?

Lollittaa:
the other day, I read it here on NL that each house of rep member is given 100m naira per year for their constituencies. Yet no outrage on a large scale. But let them read that a pastor bought a new jet, built a bigger dome or a University, suddenly the church is to blame for every problem in this country.
Seun Kuti should carry placard to the house of assembly. They are the ones who are elected, by law.
If they don't repent, that hatred will choke them all.

Don't mind them. They will never hold the right people to account. Instead they have found reason not to attend church, or pay their tithes, reasons not to pray, reasons not to believe.
These people are funny. Their anger is misplaced, and it's funny.

Lollittaa:
"... men ought always to pray and not to faint" Like 18:1
We're called to pray ALWAYS, for and in every situation. Telling pastors not to urge their members not to pray, is like telling a farmer not to take a hoe and cutlass to the farm.
Why pastors are often the focus of these people is what I don't understand. How many percent of the Nigerian population are pastors?
Are pastors democratically elected?
What's the army and police meant for then?

If they don't hate the church, who else will they hate?

The go to vote in losers and turn around and attack Christians. They haven't demanded to know where their VAT and other taxes go. Where do the proceeds of their TSA payments go? They don't want to know what constituency allocations were used for. But it's so convenient to lay it at the feet of churches.

Churches that are developing their nation for them.

10mobile:
Dear Honourable Seun,
I am addressing this to you. But I am making it public so that if I am wrong, it will become clear from the number of people who would be against me. I know that Mynd44 will also try to ban me for saying the truth. But, I am afraid that it will go down in history against him and whoever sides him to do that. So, I will document this.

I am calling for Mynd44 to be sacked as a Nairaland moderator. My reason is that the moderator has consistently indulged in very unprofessional practices unbecoming of a mod of a prestigious forum like this. I also know that such unprofessional attitudes contradict the principle of fairness for which the Founder of Nairaland has been known for right from inception.

So, Mynd44's attitudes are undermining the success of this honourable forum which flies the flag of Nigeria globally. The question you are sure to be asking now is, "what are the unprofessional attitudes of the moderator in question?"

This mod takes sides on sensitive political issues and goes ahead to indulge in open mockery of political news, viewpoints and sides just because he dislikes them. Then, worst of all, he exercises his power as a mod in very immature ways to silence such political news and views.

To make it clear enough, I am using a current case of Mynd44's terrible abuse of power as an illustration. Recently, someone reported that IPOB members in Ghana embarked on a community service and used it as an opportunity to negotiate for the release of their incarcerated members in the country. But, Mynd44 locked the thread after mocking them for doing the same thing they mock Joe Igbokwe for (see screenshot below). This is just one of many such attitudes by Mynd44 on a daily basis.

I know that some people would bring in 'IPOB' sentiments into this. So, let me declare it that I am not an IPOB member and that Nigeria is my country. But, I can't stomach seeing someone oppress political sides like this. After all, how many times has Mynd44 shown such an attitude towards a news item about Boko Haram and killer herdsmen?

So, Mynd44's selective justice actually but indirectly undermines the security of our country. Therefore, let the culprit mod be sacked (or, at least sanctioned) before he causes more damages to Nairaland and to Nigeria.

Some other people would bring in the sentiment that I should not call for the mod's sack because that would stop his source of daily bread. I remind anyone with this mindset that Nairaland is also the source of daily bread of the Founder and Mynd44's attitudes promises to destroy it. Also, his poor attitudes are putting millions of Nigerians at a security risk as I have pointed out. Therefore, since Mynd44's job is neither more important than Nairaland nor Nigeria, any such sentiment needed to be withheld.

Thank you.

@10mobile.
www.nairaland.com/attachments/14187332_202109070858120000_png538bf820eee75456d87e5fc9ec1e7e8e

Don't know if he's partisan or not, but Mynd44 seems to be a good person with reasonable morals. It's hard to see what people hate about him. What else do you want him to do except close threads and ban people? It's his job and he works with the rules! He has his instructions. Yet people try to personalize it when they are banned or their threads are closed.

With all the insults Mynd44 receives on a daily basis, he can't be blamed if he does a thing or two to teach users a lesson. Others would do worse.