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Revere27:
Is it that if they have not exposed their body, they have not taken pictures abi what's the meaning of this half nude trend all in the name of taking pictures

The Future can never be Female with all his rubbish!

Just admit she looks good.

You can't say she's ugly so you must condemn her dressing.

You knew what to expect when you opened the thread, it's what you wanted to see.

Obi1kenobi:

Again, Gaza is blockaded. Palestinian territories are being annexed. It's like locking you up in my basement and when you try to fight your way out by any means necessary, I claim that you started attacking me. It's sad niggas are so brainwashed by the soft bigotry of low expectations that they believe resistance to European settler-colonialists who call themselves Israelis is some kind of provocation of Israel. I can't blame you niggas. Europeans subdued, enslaved, pillaged and massacred your ancestors who never "won" their independence. Europeans only gave your ancestors independence when they got tired or bored or whatever and were hit by some pang of guilt. That is why you think every subjugated people should bow and scrape to their masters until whenever their masters decide to liberate them.

What are you supporting? Israeli apartheid over Palestinians?

Interesting that you didn't address any other thing.

It must be hard defending Palestinian attacks on Israeli civilians. Or, as evidenced above, it's something that doesn't require common sense.

PuZZyNegro:
You sound weak!

As a man, you should learn how to be firm in your opinions and decisions and this includes to your children.

When your children were clamoring to always visit the woman because of the so called fun they were having, you should have stood your ground and let them know it was enough.

Saying it's because you want to make the kids happy is wrong, man! This weakness is the reason you feel that you need a woman urgently to take care of your kids.

You have an adult foster child and a 13 year old daughter, so, they are not that much babies.

A woman in your position may never marry again, so, why are you in a haste to bring a replacement of wife and mother.

You're saying that the kids have seen the woman and her children aren't the best thing to happen to you and them, this is what your firmness would have made them realize later on or have you not seen where someone plays with a child and when the person is leaving, the child will start crying to follow the person. Should the parents allow the stranger to go with the child because the child wants to? Definitely, if that should happen, in less than 12 hours, the child will start crying, looking for the real mother.

A lot of people have commented based on your action of moving forward too fast and allowing another woman into your home already.

But, I must tell you that your inability to let your children know when to stop and stand by your words even if they are crying is the cause of the problem. They are kids and don't know much about life. They will regret the decision you're taking now later in their life.

Please, spare them that bitter experience. Even if it's 3 years ago that you lost your wife, the speed at which you got entangled with the said single mother is uncomfortable.

People have always warned about dealing cautiously with single mothers. Unless caused by the death of the husband (which still needs caution), there's a reason the father of the kid(s) left her.

Modern parenting isn't strict. Most people want to pamper their children "to give them the life they never had" causing them to be headstrong, which they call wisdom or smartness. Because you want to Colleen to play, you enter a relationship? Why not take them to the park?

Still can't understand how children dictate the pace of a relationship in under 3 months, because this thing began before 3 months. The issue lies with the man, not even the woman or children —she's being blamed for poor decisions he made on his own. If today marks three months, how soon did he begin this new relationship? Two months ago? One? All the stories about the woman are excuses and blame shifting. He should come clean. She's not manipulative, he's the one giving her the signals.

GboyegaD:
Oga, in 12 days she's already acting like the boss. You might be able to cope but please think about the children. From your story, she seems desperate as well and that is not a good sign.

Forget all the stories about the new woman. She can't be more desperate than he is. He's trying to blame Eve, as usual. Even the children.

Just 3 months later and he's already in the dating business. Seems he's his own problem.

Obi1kenobi:
Again, you don't seem to know anything about Gaza. It is blockaded. There are no "patrolling soldiers" to ambush in the territory. Gazans have no contact with Israelis. It is fenced off from Israel and IDF soldiers patrol the fence on the side of the Israel border. No matter the injustice meted out to them, Gazans cannot even confront their occupiers. People only remember they exist when they fire rockets. Why should Gazans have no right to self-defense? Why should they have no right to resist the blockade?

Self defense that makes them fire 1,000+ rockets at Tel and Jerusalem in one night. Yes, that self defense is good. Seeing as there's no war ongoing, and they begin to fire off thousands of rockets at their perceived enemies everyday, it is the right they deserve. They need people to know they exist, so they stir the hornets nest by killing and expecting hugs and recognition in return.

Do you people even know what you're supporting? Or the need to play religious devil's advocate is too strong?

adedehinbo:
hamas who don't have airforce or military is the one israel is claiming victory over,I wonder if these country have access to military hardware like israel,I doubt if israel would still be existing

All the Arab Nations have access to such, but they have more sense than your so called innocent Palestinian people who have fathers and husbands firing hundreds of rockets as terrorists from their doorposts. They are endangering their lives by and for themselves, and because they are secretly happy at the prospects of killing Israelis and believe they are spending their lives well by doing so, they don't tell them to stop. Look at the end result.

Remember the 6 day war? If you don't, Arab Nations remember it with clarity. Maybe you mistake Jews with Christians. An eye for an eye and a tooth for a tooth. The blood of David runs hot in their veins. Don't think they will sit back and pray like Christians would while Palestinians fire rockets intended to destroy Jerusalem.

Looking for trouble by firing thousands of rockets in a night then carrying babies, sticks and stones while waiting for the repercussions to win news stations over with media trials.

They should try and live in peace with the Israelis first. No one will beg them to behave themselves. Netanyahu has warned them once more.

mariahAngel:
Buy your fruits whole people!

I don't know why people still patronize them after the last set of videos. The videos of one washing fruits in the sewers was enough to repulse anyone who buys such. Saw one squatting to urinate then cutting fruits for someone without washing his hands with soap. Almost vomited.

Isn't that straight up herpes or gonorrhea or whatever danger he carries in his black privates? It's deliberate.

travelwaka:
Notice the first generation of Nigerian passports , The information in the data page is written with a pen , to renew it, you will have to take it back for them to re-stamp it with a new expiry date. This got me laughing out loud.

Many people don't know this one. It's semi plastic picture page is funny when compared to the latest one.

smallsmall:
The Law is never Anticipatory!
Have you ever seen a Person convicted of Murder, because they THINK/ANTICIPATED he WOULD HAVE committed Murder?
What he would do or not do if left uninterrupted, is a matter of CONJECTURE and the Court does not decide based on conjectures.

Everyone needs the law, all the time, it is what differentiates brutes savages from normal humanbeings in a sane society, though l cant say the same thing from most of you Nigerians just puffing on this thread

Poverty and poor, substandard education has really destroyed the mind and senses of most Nigerians..

You haven't cried for the law in other cases, only when it concerns a potential rapist caught on camera. All the other innocent young men in Nigeria don't deserve this bail attention? Oh, they aren't involved in rape scandals in which they were caught on tape but are somehow innocent by assumption.

Gender sentiment is all that is pushing support for his bail, rather than condemning Ijesha it is now a matter of commending friend yomi fabiyi. Anything to deflect. The wisdom of men at work.

Gender bias and general idiocy has made majority of Nigerians to stand up stupidly for crime. What a shame.

seunlayi:
Relax, let the law do the needful. Besides, you don't know baba Ijesha or princess talkless of the girl involved. This yomi has first hand info.....

He has first hand info which will undo the video of him getting ready to rape the girl? Some of you talk like there's no evidence, and the fabiyi is a role model for supporting a friend who shows no restraint in raping a child.

What if Ijesha was not interrupted in the video? What do you think Ijesha would've done? First hand info indeed.

Men only need the law when they are caught in videos ready to rape, but when they want to steal and do other evil, it doesn't seem they need the law or want it to take its course.

mainman7:
No, he wants to use this opportunity to convert B Ijesha to gay. When he comes out, he would reinforce why females are worst than Satan into his mind. That is always their preaching strategy and souls-capturing method.

Lol

He's just protecting partner in crime.

YesNoMaybe:

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=x_89139WKho

Aren't these guys foolish to keep raining rockets even with the defense system online? Do they really think they will put it into servicing to give them a chance to do the usual endless killing? Or they think they will run out of money from Zionist donations, knowing Jews are wealthy?

One of the senseless reasons they face incoming tanks with children and stones, after provoking the IDF into action.

Serious topic.

Rape apologists and misogynists are quiet. God.

This is the first investigative journalist in Nigeria. He should work all unknown cases. Evil and complicity are at their worst.

SocialJustice:
Did I tell a lie, doesn't he look way older? Kilode? Fimi sile jor.

Give it a rest. It was cruel and you cannot say it to his father's face, despite comparing them.

LastProphet:
Both educated and illiterate black people reason the same way and that's why 5000 years times we go still dey pass desert to enter Europe. Very hopeless situation

And you would think they are getting westernized. Rather they are picking what favors their gender over what betters the world.

TMKsouth:
Even gay marriage they don't accept, but there's an even more serious war being fought over female bodies. That's why in SA for example, there's a greater chance of a lesbian getting killed than a gay man because men feel entitled to women's bodies.

As for Nigerian men, the country in general is decades behind SA in terms of respect for the rights of minorities, the vulnerable and marginalized. Very partriachal and conservative.

That's why I said they allow gay marriage, because that's men to them. But anything female is an affront to their senses. There needs to be through education on human rights, because most African men think it only applies to them.

The funny thing is that they don't want to acknowledge how the patriarchy has held them down. They all aspire to enjoy the West, yet do not want to accept the parts that make it work. Hypocritical and shameful.

SocialJustice:
I wasn't being cruel, that's your mind pointing you in the wrong direction.

You were very cruel. Can you ask the same to his father's face if it was such a nice question?

The man is dead, no need to drag his looks because you don't know what he was passing through that made him look that way.

SocialJustice:
42 years man looks 62.

Why so cruel? You don't know if he had an illness that made it so.

TMKsouth:
I support it 100%. What men get women should also receive. No comprising on equality.

But African men will oppose it coz the system benefits them and they don't wanna give up their privilege. In the same breath they'll be pleading for the elimination of white privilege, for example. Serious hypocrisy.

The hypocrisy is astonishing. When they complain about white privilege is most hypocritical. They can allow gay marriage but never polyandry.

Nigerian men need to understand the larger world beyond their customs that give them rights they don't deserve.

LastProphet:
Okay but the currently accepted polygamy improves science and technology?

Help ask them.

Some of the questions being asked on this thread show some daft reasoning. Who said multiple partners are only for men?

TMKsouth:
Mixed feelings about allowing SA women to marry more than one man

While South Africa's marriage laws could in the near future allow women to marry more than one husband (polyandry), just as polygamous men can have many wives, there is still uncertainty surrounding the concept.

Legalisation of polyandry is one of the wide-ranging proposals in the Green Paper on Marriages. The country's Department of Home Affairs published the landmark 67-page policy document this week.

The department stressed in the document that it sought to create a new marriage act that will allow all in the country to have recognised, legal marriages.

A few types of marriages in the country are not recognised; and on the other hand, marriage legislation is deemed to not promote equality.

Hindu, Jewish, Muslim and Rastafarian marriages are not recognised by South African law and the Green Paper also puts up proposals for their recognition.

“Moreover, activists submitted that equality demands that polyandry be legally recognised as a form of marriage,” said the document.

Polyandry and polygamy emerged as some of controversial topics during the ministerial dialogues.

Traditional leaders were among those who objected to polyandry and labelled it an “unacceptable practice because it is not of African origin”, revealed the document.

“Ironically, stakeholders who believed in the practice of polygamy (polygyny) were opposed to the practice of polyandry,” commented the department.

The public has until the end of June to comment on the department’s proposals.

Home Affairs said it was aware its process was bound to ruffle feathers, but maintained the changes were necessary.

“This is the beginning of a crucial public discourse that will re-define the concept of marriage in South Africa,” it said.

“The process will unearth issues that may make some of us uncomfortable, but will encourage dialogue within the South African and international communities.”

https://www.iol.co.za/pretoria-news/news/mixed-feelings-about-allowing-sa-women-to-marry-more-than-one-man-83a8b9b0-24dc-4372-9b88-aba3daa438e9

What's your take on this development?

Women are polyandrous by nature