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proclinician:
In one of my shifts as a resident a woman once gave birth through CS and after discharge and she was supposed to be healing, her abdominal cavity was swelling up and painful and the area in the abdomen that was stitched was bleeding and pus was coming out. She was rushed in when her hubby felt something was not right and a CT scan was ordered. There in the abdominal cavity were some unusual foreign bodies which in a normal human viscera shouldn't be there. She was put into the theatre for an operation and immediately she was opened up there in the abdominal cavity were two gauze sponges used to soak up the bleeding but retained after the CS with massive antibody-antigen reaction taking place there. It was horrible but thank God she lived she was lucky enough sepsis did not occur

Mrshape:
My English is only OK during English exams and while speaking.
Apart from that I pay less attention, what I need is my money

Girlwhocares:
Please help me, I'm loosing my sanity everyday!
I'm scared to open up to friends and families because of what they will think or how disappointed or bad I will make them feel, also I'm afraid people will be judgemental about my actions.

I'm not physically and emotional connected with my husband which is affecting our marriage and my well-being, we live as co-tenant, we hardly have any conversation, we do things differently, we share different rooms, no sex for the past 3 years! Even during courtship and the fist two years of marriage I can account for days we were intimate.

Things are fallen out of place everyday, we have a child together who will be 4yrs and the thought of having another child has not crossed my mind.

I get irritated at everything, I hardly show appreciation towards him even if it means he has done his best, which later i will find myself guilty and try to make up but the spark and connection isn't just there.

Most times, I have a non-challant attitude towards him and everything he does to make me happy.

I feel lonely, bored and incomplete even when I'm 90% sure my husband loves me and always ready to make me happy.

I feel awkward communicating my feelings and thoughts to him because I know I might flare up with anger even when he hasn't done or said anything to warrant it.

Please I have come to this faceless forum to pour out my mind, my heart is heavy, I need someone to talk to, I'm afraid my personal intention of walking out this marriage even when my husband hasn't done anything to deserve this might backfire and has its negative effect on our child.

I honestly don't need anyone to insult me please as I'm going through a lot. All i need is mature married wo(men) opinions

Thank you for your time.

morgan100:
This one is not even a owner of the house, and it's not about asking me for money, I don't know what his problem is

franchasng:
even the mad man on the street of any village know that Queen Elizabeth's husband is Prince Philip the Duke of Edinburgh, your brain ought to have told you it was an error. My tab is on auto correct when you type some words, so slid


As for Oprah, are you Oprah Is it only the guy's you hear she's dating on media that you believe Do you know about CDL Do you know anything about dirty celebrity screet scandals Abeg shift one side

franchasng:
don't let any lady lie to youor deceive you, getting married to their desired man is their greatest achievement in life, they just don't want men to know and be using it against them.


Even Queen Elizabeth of England was angry sometime ago when she realized that prince Charles her husband cheated on her, she threatened to divorce Prince Charles but till date she is still with him.


Oprah Winfrey have tried all she can to secretly get married but the younger guys she is trying to rope in aren't buying the idea, they only want to hit and run.


Many ladies all over the world will abandon their well paying job, career, fame to marry their desired man if that's the condition from the man; Janet Jackson did it, Shakira did it, Beyonce, Victoria Beckham, and so many other famous women, but hungry Nigerian ladies will tell you it's only in Nigeria just to feel funky

Neroiam:
..guy, make e b lata

Neroiam:
Oya dey dia make pant dey wear u na

Neroiam:
Ehn .. you win.. Sleep

uzohrome:
Same thing am asking... We are talking waitin go make sense dem dey bring eve and Adam join. Is the guy or the girl came from the same village with Adam or Eve? We all from Africa have culture and norms even some of us from eastern part of this country are culturally homogeneous. Remember this culture has been there for centuries. Sure culture can be altered to fit in with modern life but we must state the facts not coming up with my history book or documentary without proof. All these spiritual books was written via inspiration not knowing where the inspiration comes from. If you can stay silent and concentrate for a long time you will be inspired most times you will hear clear voices talking to you. Hypnosis happens all the time. What you hear will be differed from what another person hears. But one will come and force or make you Belive that what he had was original and you should believe it and practice it. I have read plenty spiritual books they are all good. We Dont have to be dogmatic or sentimental or irrational to our sense of humor. Bringing Adam and Eve is extremely nonsense to the subject of discuss.

Neroiam:
Oga, ur thinking shallow o... Read deductively, this time, slowly

Makavelli25:
Same shit happening to me. Am in love with my stepsis
We are planning to run away

Neroiam:
Shay Cain in the bible married his IKWU, and it wasn't a taboo! ...because Adam and Eve were the only people God created and they gave birth to children.. ..or where did you come from? If not from Adam

franchasng:
Listen, this present world belongs to men, yes I will say it without remorse. It's a man's world but which man Financially buoyant healthy men only!


Even in Burkigham Palace under Queen Elizabeth's bed, it is still a man's world.


So get yourself together and go focus on making money and more money and trust me, you will remember her and laugh at your stupidity for falling for such class of girl.


In this journey of man woman romance thing, man always laugh last....because it's a man's world but not all men.

positivevibez:
Come my area 14 years old girls dey date their papa age tufiakwa

wany:
Thank you dear1 ,I must say this man toks2008 is a phidophile.and he has a daughter not even up to 7yrs.now if I may ask ? Can he allow a man 17yrs older than his daughter date his daughter and he will be comfortable with the union. Why dish out what you cant take.such a hotie and dramatic fellow.

ednut1:
omotola , amara kanu and aisha buhari married at 18. So wetin you dey yarn

ozodigboo:
What are you saying.
You want to go and marry your age mate? Go ahead.
By the time you are rocking 40, as a mature, clean man, your wife at 38 or so, has completed 4 kids and now looks like an old woman
You'll now start looking outside
Problems begin.
Guy, we've seen it all. Forget

Petyprincess:
She doesn't know what she wants yet!! Mr supporter nd advicer so you can't do all that without dating her? A 19 years old can't give you love!! You should be like a older brother guiding her nd telling her to concentrate on her studies nd leave relationship for nw not hiding under the disguise of relationship to b dicking her!!
Go for someone of your age or wait for her period!!

Toks2008:
Don't you know that one the reasons young ladies cry of heartbreak is because they get involved with men too young to know what they really want?

Yes in some cases it is not about age but the truth is that age gap is a great factor.

A lady can be older than her man don't get me wrong and love is not about age but understanding and connection but nevertheless it is better for a young girl in her adult teens or early 20s to be with a man that is at least 8 or 10years older..
Why?

1. In most cases, the guy will adore her like a kid sis and will cope with her nastiness compared to a younger guy who is just about her age.

2. By the time the lady is in her mid 20s the guy is probably ready to take her home if she proves to be a good lady.

3. A 30 year old guy dating a 20 or 22year old lady will likely be stable enough financially, psychologically...to support the lady.

4. Ladies love to be pampered and they can get that easily from a guy who is quite older and not their peers that are probably still as childish as them.

5. Guys naturally get the kick when they know a girl is very younger than them and this spark will continue for a long time at least I am a testimony to this...

I can go on and on listing the benefits and guess what; the reason why ladies fall for married men easily is because married men are so mature mentally and they sure know how to take care of a woman and unfortunately ladies are wired to love a man that takes good care of them regardless of his marital status but the good thing is that girls experience same care from men who are considerably older than them.

My advise to adult teenage girls and those in their 20s is that they meticulously choose a guy who is at least 7 to 10years older or even more if they truly want to enjoy bliss.

This is my personal opinion and I think lalasticlala should consider this for front page so that young ladies can benefit from this no holds barr expose.
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GidiRide:
Dog lover means I own dogs, I care for Pets, also means I have good heart ❤️

Coolcalmcollect:
my friend kneel if you want....infact yoy can even bow and lick her feet to propose.... that's your wahala, but a normal man with two functioning balls and a stable brain should never kneel to a woman to ask for something. a king will never kneel to his queen....its nonsense, it has no scientific backing of been romantic neither dos it show sign of humility.

Coolcalmcollect:
my friend kneel if you want....infact yoy can even bow and lick her feet to propose.... that's your wahala, but a normal man with two functioning balls and a stable brain should never kneel to a woman to ask for something. a king will never kneel to his queen....its nonsense, it has no scientific backing of been romantic neither dos it show sign of humility.

Coolcalmcollect:
only weak and low self esteemed men kneel to propose, there's no atom of romantics in it, it's degrading and embarrassing, I can't, o won't my sons won't and their sons after them won't.
A man is about to become the provider, protector, guarantor, emotional support, bed rock, leader, of the home and he will start the process by kneeling? where in the Bible did a man kneel to marry a woman??
The men of this generation are the weakest and the most foolish in the history of Nigeria.

Newguyhere:
I personally find that shit disgusting even.
A Woman's genitals are ugly, can't imagine putting my mouth there.

begge:
UPON ALL HOW THEY KNEE DOWN TO THEIR WIFE, YET THEY STILL STAB THEIR HUSBAND TO DEATH. STUPID

Liposure:
Mine is opening the door 4 a lady. Does she not have hands?

Rabbitcartel:
You dont know what you're saying.. animals rared under captivity are domesticated not wild.,

jaszplus12:
you didn't include Mohammed Farah Aideed Somalia warlord

FuckThaMod:
One of his pics with his name.. Na just location i dey find now

FuckThaMod:
No talk am again o.. That moniker is full fledged man. I have his pics and real name