meelorlah:
You are all getting me scared To think I'll also get pregnant at some point is scary, the cravings are really crazy, how can I b craving for paper and clay?

Not everybody craves weird food when pregnant....

The truth is that in laws especially from the male side like dishing out medicine which they themselves cannot swallow.
Why did your mum not respond to her mum's greetings in the first place? What did the woman do to deserve such shoddy treatment? Has your mum apologised for her gaffe?
Abi the woman doesn't deserve an apology because she is the bride's mum and not the groom's mum?

That was how my hubby was being advised not to allow me go home frequently few days to our wedding. That a long time should elapse before he allows it.
Now coupled with my busy job, I dont have the free time to visit his folks or mine. So MIL is complaining that I haven't been to see her since my wedding.
I wonder if they ever thought of the fact that my parents too would miss me when they were busy advising me hubby to put a wedge between my family and I.

This is what she gets for jumping from one relationship to another. So without studying him, she moved in. And started singing the praises of a stranger over the internet.
She stupid shaaaa....

Alemo50:

Only in Lagos, Ibadan, Benin and Port Harcourt for now

Can I have the address for Lagos, Ibadan and Benin??

cococandy:
This Tok boy is foolish sha. But he doesn't know.
I'll spank him one day.

He is not a boy o. Na ancient grandpa. Though unmarried....

Gaborone:
You guys have finished passing her round, now you plan to leave her for who? One of my brothers?

Biko, allow your friend marry her, that way, she remains in your circle.

Looooooooooool!!

oluwanoni:


Thanks for the enlightenment, I know person's who are and are running it concurrently in Unilag, and yes they are on contract, nothing is impossible....look at the brighter side.

Masters in Unilag is all about money na and buying people over. In a school where masters is masters, it is impossible. Is it not the same masters I did or is it not a bank that I work?

This is not dem say. It is a life I lived and still live!!

Neverquit:
Y'all are funny. So you think women don't cheat? If una get mind, go and do DNA test for your children. If you no get that kin kudi, just do it on the first born. Una go fear fear with the result. S.M.H.

All of una saying women need to involve emotions to cheat...how about prostitutes? Rubbish.

A woman that cheats = Prostitute
A man that cheats = Prostitute

Please, we need to stop justifying cheating. If you truly love and respect your spouse, you won't cheat on him/her.

Men, the same way you will feel if your wife/woman cheats, is the same way she feels when you cheat. So why should you then subject another human being to that kind of pain?

I feel you jare. Looooool!

dazzle101:




Haha I laugh in spanish. Work leave for a bloody contract job, a bank for that matter? Sorry dear ain't nothing like that for you ooo.ordinary sick leave na ish talkless of exam leave hmmm. You even said talk to his boss, wich boss wants u to goan study further on his watch?

Who gave u such rights to even be getting a masters degree and u even have the nerve to come ask for some time off to write ur exams or even attend lectures. Oh please that doesn't happen ooo! Ask properly cos even the so called full staff can't come out openly to seek for leave for their masters lectures or exams oooo, attainment of higher qualification is solely at ur own discretion.

I will stop here.

I dey tell you. So many people don't know what it entails working in a bank.
I have experience in banking (as a full staff) and I have my MSc which I was rounding off when I got the job.
For my final exam, I had to take a drastic step which could have resulted in me losing the job as they were proving stubborn in giving me 5 days off. But I didn't care at that point because I know I had tried for my employers, working 7 to 9 most days, and working most weekends too. It was time to think of me.

oluwanoni:
He can try and do both na, except there a penalty for not attending classes, as long as he his sure he can pass the exam, person's who are telling u to finish have a good concept, but economy is hard now.

Personnaly I just got admission for my masters and I have a job, I am gonna do both together, I cant quit my job. My advice tho.

You obviously don't know how masters works. Except you are talking about a low-level school where lecturers can be bought, course work matters big time!!

cheriekiss:
Cnt he do both togeda?...he shud try to blend both no matter how hard it might be.

You are funny o. Blend bank work with masters. Are you joking?

Aliona's eyes are just on him unwaveringly. She seems like a quiet child....

Wicked people!
The prices were so inflated that they and their generations would have been made if they purchased new helicopters. But no. They had to purchase scrap.
God will punish them and the blood of the NAF affected be on their heads....

Richy4:
In laws from either side.... claiming sense of entitlement...she is our daughter, you don't have to dominate, he is our son, we do not need to fold our arms and have you guys dominate this whole thing....

Another one was the one they called high table.... why didn't you call this person to the high table, it is only the groom's people that were at the high table... what kind of discrimination was that? so will even go and drag the bride and tell her to talk to the MC... the whole thing is just funny because I have witnessed such long time ago.....

I had the in law experience. Not a good one....

My wedding was beautiful but it could have been more beautiful. It was like some people just went out of their way to ruin things.
Im still finding it in my heart to forgive those people.

Everybody says: don't leave, don't leave.
Because of the Nigerian situation, don't leave.

Won't he survive if he is no longer there? Is it until he slumps at work before he will know there are some battles meant to walk away from?

Fear only keeps one in slavery. If he has enough to survive on for a while, there's nothing wrong in walking away. It takes a great deal of courage to walk!
God help us....

I think you should blow the whistle on this boss.

Most of the time, we swallow shiit because we don't know our rights. It happened to me too and I feel sad whenever I think about the fact that I swallowed so much, while those who were politicians and the managers' pets were not doing any work. Meanwhile I was drowning in work, working 7 days a week and working all my waking hours.

What he is doing is against policy and you should get proof and use it against him.

I wouldn't advise any lady to do that. Especially with the way guys claim to be single on Facebook.
You only publicly claim a man that claims you publicly. Even then, the man should flaunt the relationship more....

I pray you hold your baby soonest. Amen.

I used an app to keep track of my ovulation date 3 months after my wedding. Fell pregnant same month...
I think it's important to catch that ovulatory time.

ayanuke:


The thread is rich with Info, I have been following up since part 1 and I ain't even preggo yet (I have a 5yrs old though), I also work 13hrs a day and sometimes weekends, what I did was to book mark the page and read up at my spare time, mostly during lunch hour and on d drive home. U can either have a jotter or munch info as you get to them. You can make a list of your likely questions say... visa, doc, poe, pead,cities, baby documentations etc, use the search button make sure u narrow down by selecting travel section. You can also search names like Phema,firstymum,modath,nef,ozcy,olokings,tvegas,favouredgirl,nogen the list is endless Infact almost all the gurus have at one point or the other made useful contributions. When you ask questions after that, it will be precise and on point.
Goodluck

Thanks a lot, I'm doing just that. The first thread is very rich indeed! I'm jotting too....

dere5:


I just want to re emphasize the importance of this. Just as you have been advised here,DO NOT CONSIDER THE AGENT ROUTE. I know someone who is suffering a Us visa ban today just because an agent did his application. So when you are advised to read the thread its for your own good,because by the time you do,you yourself would have become a guru. best of luck

Thanks. I've been reading the part 1 thread bit by bit and I am learning quite a lot. I'm beginning to note that those agents don't know it all as the agent is even insisting I go for a change of name and change of passport before any other thing.

When even before coming here I knew the whites do not count all those things the way we do here....And I did the passport just December last year and I've used it once.

Adesiji77:
Loan recovery gone bad!

Save for the phone number that the Education Secretary was asked to call, one would have assumed that the Access Bank staff was trying to threaten the former into settling outstanding indebtedness.

Even if he had "good intentions" Access Bank will deny him now. He can as well kiss his banking career goodbye.

Na so!
Summary dismissal!

excellentmomma:


He may not have stolen a kobo, most likely he was trying to threaten the bank's customer to pay up monies owed the bank. He works in loan recovery remember? And most likely the customer caught his tricks and maybe even knows someone in Efcc, these Efcc officials can be corrupt too and protect their own.

True. And now, he will most likely be abandoned by the very bank he was working so passionately for...

Peebles23:


Wrong page Abi shld I say part... Just start from part1&2 u will see everything u need there. To avoid bashing because our gurus no dey waste time to flog

Who is a kid here that will be flogged.
Anyways, thanks. Will check the first part.

olokings:
hello..
i wouldn't advise you on that...

just try skimming thru part one even if its 30 minutes read daily... trust me you'd cover alot and by the time questions arise from that you will get response because by that time you'd be asking the right questions...

now you are more like just shoting random in the air..

Owk. Thanks. Will go to part one.

dere5:

Number one advice,read this thread as much as you can,you will find all you need to know here

I know I would. Been reading it off and on. It's just hard when you work 13 hours everyday. And time is not on my side too.
Anyways, maybe just have to go with an agent.

favoredgal:


I don't think u need to hold wedding album to embassy, isn't that for people migrating?

Your passport in ur maiden name is not a big deal, it's been stated like a million and one times on this forum

As per tips, read up... No short cut.... If u really want the visa that is

If I could read everything, I would. I am a reader. It takes just a few words to let me know if it matters or not. Thanks anyway.