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Antihypocrite:
I have been married for 3 years now, I have known my wife for 5 years altogether. She was and is still the best thing that ever happened to me.

I don't know where to start from, I can't come to terms with the fact that my wife is leaving.

Guys, I think the problem started last year after some hoodlums stole my bike. That was my major source of livelihood apart from some home lessons that I used to do, but stopped due to health reasons.

It's been difficult financially and I honestly don't know what else to do.

Shortly after my bike was stolen, I got a loan from lapo and added with my little savings to enter palm oil business. I wish I had not done so as I ended up losing about 80k because the guy I worked with cheated me whole heartedly.

My wife had to get a job as a teacher in a private primary school. I told her it was just temporary as I was working to raise money for her start a poultry.

In order to clear the lapo loan, I had to do odd jobs and take loan from loan apps. My wife's little salary of 20k became the major source of feeding while I battled to clear the loan.

Sometimes I would borrow from friends to pay the loan app to be able to borrow a higher amount from the loan apps again. This was a mistake and a trap cos now I am so much indebted to these loan apps. I am even owing some friends and right now I am unable to pay back.

I have been in debt for over 8 months now to these loan apps. They have tarnished my Image to all my contacts.

I even stopped going to church because most of my church members who received messages from these loan apps did not even care to hear me out. They believed the loan apps that I am a fraudster on the run.

My wife started feeling ashamed of me. She stopped associating with me in public spaces. I know she has tried. Nobody deserves to pass through what she is passing through.

This afternoon when she came back from work, she told me that she would be going back to her parents house

She said that it is best she goes back to her people until I am able to sort my self out.

Guys I have tried to be strong for so long. Right now I don't think I can hold on anymore. I have always believed that things would turn out well, but right now I am in a low place. I don't know how long I can hold on again.

Last month I tried to even get a security job that pays 25k monthly. But I feel so discouraged to do the job. How long will I work to clear a loan of 320k that keeps adding interest daily.

Thoughts of suicide have been crossing my mind today. I really need help

What can I do? I don't even have the energy to pray. Has anyone ever been in my shoes? If yes how did you come out?

Nwodosis:
Amala is processed cassava! May their souls rest in peace.

Femifasola:
Take home message is, wash your vaginaa so it won't smell

Nyascobar1414:
I've noticed that ugly girls are so obsessed with good looking men..

My observation over the years.

Prosperity4All:
Same way we make wrong choices in Life

Maxtrime in his response showed he was confused when he asked if the fish had whiskers. The fish he refers to is what we popularly call Cat fish.
What you have is an Eel. And someone already answered with photo proof. What better response could you seek

Okobola146:
Where did she went? Did she not told anybody where she went to?

DonEd:
Evidence of a bitter soul.

Happy sales is like every other wish but ur poor reasoning made u see it otherwise.

Anyway, work on urself, ur write up reeks of illiteracy of the mind

Sexydevil:
Perfect example of a nigga moment. Smh.

ChildOfDoom:
After over 60 days of abstaining from bet9ja virtual, I went back to the act. I won 1500 which I used to eat. Though I feel disappointed and scared. I might be tempted to go back again. As a precaution, I have decided not to go back there for any reason (not even charging or football) till further notice

Arysexy:
Simp be like... But I didn't order for VAT, why did you add it?

PYou go wash plate tire

RapistOnBail:

That girls school skirt is common in blue films

mariovito:
Suicide rate is just skyrocketing, humans have become so weak, with all the technological and economic advancement, we still are very unsatisfied and depressed.

Our forebears with less had a more rewarding existence.

Lack of real problems is becoming a problem in itself.

Kingpele:
Now this is unfair, I have come into some trials that made me want to die just to make my people suffer for abandoning me at the hour my need ,I was angry with everyone even God ,I prayed for death after I prayed for solutions to my plight repeatedly without solution, but I couldn't think of killing myself cos I certainly know that only God who gave me life have the right to take it ,if I take my life certainly God will reject my soul for eternity cos it is not yet my time to go,that why I prayed to him but then I realised it is foolishness,selfishness weakness and laziness to wish to die ,I repented before God and prayed for strength to carry on before long God created the opportunity that lifted me out of my problems and I found purpose for my existence, and today am much better than last 5 years and right now I pray for long life to enjoy the blessings of God upon my life ,I want to encourage those who might be thinking of suicide, go close to God ,he is your maker ,repent of your sins and ask him to be your guide, u will soon realise that God is very good in any situation of life cos he loves us completely, taste and see that God is good ,his mercies endure forever only God can calm human mind and spirit no human being can do it ,cos no one know the real working of human mind except God the maker of human mind and spirit while I was celebrating � my birthday yesterday, someone is busy killing herself in USA �� where every one who is struggling wish to go.this morning my wife was telling me how she struggled financially to take care of my home when I travelled and stayed more weeks than I expected ,as she was recounting her challenges ,telling me that to be a widow is a bad thing, I was just thinking of the problem I would have put my lovely wife through if I had killed myself or if God had killed me in answer to my evil prayers ,I thank God for not killing me at my own request

Iyaebe:
You are not a wise man, now I believe the statement that indeed academic intelligence is way different from wisdom which you obviously lack.You are just shouting rape but you never really addressed the situation that lead him into the silly act which I condemned him for in my statement. Learn to tackle issues from the root cause if you want to go smoothly and far in life.On a normal day I know what to type to cause wahala but this is a family issue and I don't want to be biased. If a man is responsible and doing his duties (80%),the woman has no right to be silly and feel so comfortable in her silliness while been supported by her equally silly family. If the op were to be my brother, I bet you that woman will not return back smoothly, its going to be a tough ride for her and none of my brothers can be this silly.

Iyaebe:
Only a foolish woman denies her husband sex for no conc and genuine reasons, you should have ignored her and also refuse her when she starts showing interest, I so much hate it when a woman messes up a good man for no reasons especially if he takes care of her needs. Why are you even begging? Stop those nonsense apologies and act like a man,sometimes I like some of the teachings of the redpill, I hate weak men and they can never attract me.You've already apologized to her,stop going to her parents house to act like a simplyton,please read some of the redpill nuggets and apply it but don't add bitterness to it,it will help you act and reason like a real man.Moderator lalasticlala move to front page let nairalanders see my comment and know that I'm not biased and I have wisdom and very sensible too,let them also know that I'm just entertaining them with most of my comments.

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