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Indulge in outdoor games such as lawn tennis, golf, football or better still go do charity work by visiting the motherless, aged, imprisoned, the sick etc.
U will appreciate life lot more.

There`s a more valuable premium on d lady whose pants is seen less b4 marriage proper. The reason u see only on weekends is cos u`re not yet his wifey. I understand ur desire to b Mrs. , . . . . But trust me. dat which u cant seem 2 get enuf, go tire u. What`s d point of rushing 2 drink "water" wey be ya own. Except u`re in a competition wt someone else.
I implore 2 Listen 2 ur parents as someone advised. At least respect their opinion since dey are d one goin 2 give u away 2 ur man. If I were u, I`ll make him see no "panties" goin 4ward. That will make him speed up d rest of the process. Wedding na one day, marriage na lifetime (if u fit endure).
Wish u a blissfull marriage.

Answer to your question = ENDLESS

Congrats brov. Had a similar experience 2yrs back. The baby came out with d umblical cord tied around his neck, tired and motionless. Wifey panicked but assured her all was ok. Declared life on him and today he`s more than a handful 2 contain.
God will grant all expectant mothers safe delivery with divine health and both parents will smile n laff with child IJN.

It depends on what ur intentions are.

U sef stay off d radar. I think dat move at d restaurant was uncalled for. At best a simple greeting/ exchange of pleasantries wld have been enuf. Don`t try forcing yourself on dat family including d girl. If she believes in u, she`ll make attempt to make them see it.
Was once in slightly similar position. Took my time n stayed off a while and today we`re married wt kids. Besides, u need 2 pray n fast harder than the usual. The battle just began.
All d best.

"get your apartment and then make plans for a car with time u could share the money get a smaller apartment for a start and still look for a small or a used car to buy it depends on how much is the money".

U spoke my mind. Very wise advice. Bros take dis adice n u will remain grateful. All d best.

She Is Contrary To your Wish? That`s why they see "if wishes were horse, men abi na beggers will ride". Brov, I thot ur worries had to do with her personality as someone u cant present. If it u`re worried abt her Educational status, i suggest u shouldn`t be cos u acknowledged the fact that finance is a constrain, otherwise u sef 4 no dey do biz n part-time same time. Besides she`s desirious of furthering her education. If from wat u`ve said, nobody will know she`s not a graduate if u dont say it. So quiet mouth on dat level. I suggest u put a plan in place n not just hurrying 2 get married becos marriage is demanding. marrying her n she goin 2 sch part-time will be 2 much of pressure (home n sch). Except she tells u she can cope.

Reason? "Motor don change gear and Status has changed" . But seriously, with marriage comes a whole lot of changes. I think it has to do with compartibility after the "I do" ceremony. However, if you have a great conversationist for a partner, (not a talkative or gossipmo) you can still keep that part of the relationship burning.

For showing me who my true friends are

Four of the 11 Nigerian Prison Service officials indicted by a Federal Government panel for releasing convicted drug barons have fled the service to evade prosecution, SUNDAY PUNCH investigations have revealed.



The other seven, it was gathered, have been dismissed by the NPS following revelations by the probe panel that they were part of a cartel that specialised in releasing convicted drug barons and couriers before they show up in prison.



Though the panel recommended the prosecution of the 11 prison officials and other individuals arrested in connection with the racket by the police and the Ministry of Justice, this was not done as they were never arraigned in court.



Also, the lawyers involved in the racket were not known to have faced any disciplinary measure from the Nigerian Bar Association as advised by the panel.



The cartel, which comprised National Drug Law Enforcement Agency operatives, lawyers and prison wardens, is believed to be responsible for the release of 197 drug barons and couriers convicted and sentenced to various jail terms.



Details about the cartel‘s activities were contained in a report submitted to the Federal Government by the panel, the National Committee for the Reform of NDLEA, set up to probe the agency in 2007.



The seven-man panel led by Justice Gilbert Obayan (retd) identified 11 NDLEA prosecutors; 14 lawyers; and 11 prison officials as the members of the cartel.



Former Minister of Justice and Attorney-General of the Federation, Chief Bayo Ojo, had set up the committee in October 2006 at the instance of former President Olusegun Obasanjo based on the need to overhaul the operations of the agency.



According to the report, the cartel either ensured that convicted drug barons did not get to prison after leaving the court premises or that those who did were quickly released.



The report noted that the cartel ensured that 101 convicted drug barons and couriers in 2005 were not taken into prison custody after being sentenced, and that 96 convicts ‘disappeared‘ between the court and prisons in 2006.



Findings by our correspondent indicated that the cartel‘s modus operandi also involved the release of convicted drug barons on the pretext that they escaped from jail.



A source in the NPS explained that the prison officials had an extensive network that traversed the major federal prisons in the country where they have colleagues working for them. The errant officers were believed to have been working for very hefty bribes from the drug barons.



When contacted, the NPS Public Relations Officer, Mr. Kayode Odeyemi, said he did not know the fate of the indicted prison officers, promising to find out and get back to our correspondent. He, nonetheless, did not do that as at press time.

The address is: Nigerian Stock Exchange, 2/4, Custom Street, Lagos. Yes trades are done on d floor, but can also be done virtually thru online trading. For u 2 qualify, u av 2 pass thru d various exam stages (3) depending on ur discipline.

No doubt, ur wife should be your next of kin (at this early stage at least). In future u can draw up a proper will stating who get what. Besides you said you "are perfectly compatible and have a happy home".
Best of luck.

Marriage is a thing of the mind and how u carry ursef. There are ladies and gents wt ring on yet they still get involved in adultery and come 2 forums like dis 2 "unload" their deeds. I stopped wearing mine less than a month I got married and my spouse wears all three rings wt no qualms after the initial objection. I dislike ornaments like dat. The ring is not d marriage but the conduct. Poster, just try n make "madam" reason wt u n make comport ursef in a proper manner 2 give her confidence dat u `ll be faithful at all time.
Wish u a fulfilled marriage.

Beyong the licence, what is the asset & liability of the coy? Any encumberances? what volume of trade do u execute weekly/monthly? The size of ur clientele base? Any major reason for the sale?

Poster, u most learn how to keep ur emotions intact at all times even in the face of things like this. 180K ring thrown away will do alot of good for the motherless and orphanage home. Go locate that ring and return it to where u bought it from or even sell it and use the cash for something better and rewarding.

Poster, be glad for d revelation. Becos I am 4 u. Forget those patronizing ur "ex" girl as she has become.(Abi u dey consider takin her back?) The mere fact that she was not straight in her response to someone who she know loves her die, speaks alot. Why did she not let u know she was coming 2 lagos dis time unlike she use 2? Afterall u claim she`s bn insisting on coming all along.

For those saying u shld hear her out, pls ignore. She had d chance 2 set things straight when u spoke with her over the fone. U never get a 2nd chance to make a 1st impression. I`m sure if u`ve bn goin 2 Ibadan all this while unannounced u wld av discovered dis other side of her long ago. Trust me, u`ll get a better deal elsewhere. I usually encourage bumping on ur gf/bf during courtship. U`ll be amazed at the kind of discoveries u`ll find.

Cry as much as u can if dat will make u better, its allowed as humans. However, move on wif ur life. U will find ur missing rib soon. Cheers

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Poster, your case will be more complicated if you`ve slept with all ladies. An xeperienced elder in a church once said anyone who sleeps with anyone has a bond with that person and if you go to a true prophet/pastor to present this type of case, he`ll tell you all three women are your wives. Your case seems pathetic. However, you need to understand that people come into our lives for different purposes. All three ladies seems to be in your life through circumstances. I suggest you pray seriously and be bold enuf to ¸take a stand and face the consquences if any. Best of luck.

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No wonder my lawyer friends in the oil, telecomm n financial industry have sworn never to wear d gown n wig again. That pay is most frustrating. I dont envy them, Never did anyway. That means I can just hire like 30 lawyer n pay them 15k n still have some change in ma pockect. Come to think of it, I can float a firm n just put a figure head there while i call d shots.

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The more reason it took me ages to finally get on dat site. Anyways, if u find ursef in such a situation guys, just tell the chicto meet u at the nearest police station (like area F, Panti, Zone 2) or army barracks and claim u work there. Trust me, only d ones wt genuine intentions will show up. No need to worry.

2 daughters from same woman? I dont think dats was all done by mistake. One, could be excused, but 2? not too sure. I Give d guy kudos 4 sayin it at all, but d timing is quite crucial. Guess dats why she`s confused. With d level of exposure in our environment, I don`think she can cope wt 2 girls who will see her as "running" wt their mum even if she`s no longer wt d man. I suggest she slows down a little bit and cool off (not calling off now) Dat she jilted him is his own side of the story, have u heard from d other party so as ascertain wat went wrong? As far as u know, there`s no clear pix of wat actaully transpired. In future ur friend may av running battles wt d girls n their mum as they may form a tag team 2 make life unbearable. Truth be told, no woman wld give birth 4 another 2look after (except those who choose 2 abandon theirs)

My dear, marriage no b yam. It comes wt lots of sacrifices, compromise, tolerance, a shift from previously held views (may not b drastic) n some politics. I have a wife n 2 kids who all compete 4 attention. Balancing the act takes alot. Atimes my spouse will comment about my 2 n half yr daughter snuggling close 2 me n hw she seems 2 av her way wt me sometimes n me always harrasing my son of 1yr+.

Painful as it may sound, I suggest she takes an exit n let go. Better be pained now than av a battle field for a home. However, it could turn out good as well.

met someone refurished my furnitures. wasnt really impressed by the work done. tho some friends sy they like it n asked for referral

To all of u dat says d "dis is super story", "tales by moonlight", crap, etc etc etc, U are all CORRECT. Bros Poster, and to all of u dat live in Lagos n are familiar with V.I, there`s no TANTALIZER on Ahmadu Bello Way. (Except he just opened one) Dis poster just dey finger una brain. The only eateries on dat stretch is ON THE RUN by Mobil petrol station and Munchies almost adjacent to NTA. There`s a canteen in the premises of the TEXACO filling station and Calabar Kitchen by IMB (Now finbank).
Abeg, poster describe where dis ur "TANTALIZER" dey on dat stretch.