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Turns out the people involved in this tragic incident is my cousins and their mum. I'm so deeply grieved since I heard this morning.

OP. If you've gone to the registry, then consider yourself already married. There's a marriage contract between you both.
The wedding is only ceremonial.
Happy married life.

OP. Hold body. There's more to marriage than sex.

Congrats. Wishing you a blissful marital life.
You'll be fulfilled.

A case of "every day for the thief, one day for the owner".
Yet someone opened a thread on how a woman can cheat and not get caught.
If it's true, she must be a serial cheat.
Just unfortunate.

@ OP. What's really going? You again? You seem to be getting the attention, aren't you?
Nice one. Keep it up.

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"Married women are the sweetest"
"Your wife slapped you"
And now this.
Thankfully schools will resume next week.

No need for this. I'm doing it the natural way.

OP, you're the same person who posted that married women are the "sweetest" and now this.

What about this?

"Clean As U Go" CAUG.
Can't stand dirty dishes in the sink, dirty bathroom and toilet and untidy rooms.
Always at loggerheads with madam on this as she prefers doing it at a go. Now getting the kids involved and seems to be working. Though we've got a daytime nanny, she helps out quite a lot and has started incorporating the kids.

Sold mine. Wifey use to wear it in addition to hers. Didn't wear it up to a month after wedding.
Doesn't stop me from "declaring" my marital status when circumstances demands.

@OP. Pick up your Bible and read from Genesis till you are FULL.

@OP. Please take note, it is HEAR and not HERE.

@OP. Auto or manual drive?

Biological terrorist on the loose.

May I ask if you haven't?

If you have, does it look as good and real like the original?

Constructive councel for a destructive act? Can't place it.
OP, ever tried recontructing a damaged object or situation?

No cashless policy in that state ba? Goddy and CBN, where are you?

Congrats.

Stopped wearing mine less than a month after wedding (almost 8yrs now). Not a jewelry person. Wifey wears it in addition to hers. I'm quick to state my marital status at all times anywhere, anytime and with anyone.

OP, thank you for celebrating us.

OP, know that alot of men like you in and out of this forum are going through the same phase in their lives right now. I've discovered that in this part of the world, what we can't explain we mystify. There's absolutely nothing new or strange about what you're going through. You'll neither be the first nor the last. As christians, when we sing "Abraham blessings are mine", we forget the ordeals, trials and frustrations he went through. Someone once said you are not yet a failure until you blame someone or something for your predicament. That does not mean I don't share in your pains. I do because I know what it means to in this phase in a man's life.
Bros, lucky for you, your spouse has been supportive. I've seen marriages shattered because of issues like this.
Like someone suggested, take a paid job (that will help you provide for your immidiate family needs), then start rebuilding you business.
I guess you may have ommitted some steps in actualizing your dreams of self dependent as an entrepreneur. Its more than having the qualifications, experience, capital or a bankable business plan. I'm sure if you ran your business by the side while still in paid employment, you would be able to absorb this shortcomings and "failures" and learnt through the ropes and mistakes to make you a better business owner.
I have a friend who is a banker with same degree like yours but is doing his on the side. He's passing through the same road now but is not frustrated because his paid job is keeping the home front running.
Don't worry, your days of sorrow will be over sooner than you know. God bless you in Jesus name.

@OP. Some women are in some mountains somewhere praying for "fruit of the womb" right now, some are negotiating with "baby factory" owners to buy a baby for millions, some have been given approval (by their hubby) to sleep with anything just to get pregnant, some are drinking, rubbing and bathing with concoction just to pregnant, not to mention those who sleep or are sleeping in some ramshackle "spiritual houses" and getting "knacked" by the white-garment wearing demons all in d name of looking for a baby, and your spouse is crying because of what people will say. Tell her she's been ungrateful to God for even complaining.
My spouse got pregnant with our second child while the first was just three months old. Today those who "mocked" her (including colleagues) adore those kids whenever they see them. Some even ask if they are twins.
Just keep encouraging her and she should focus on the EDD.
All the best.

OP, very informative and insightful. Nice one.

OP, do you have any experience in investment banking? There's vacancy for research analyst.

Chai, see what some women will die for (literarily), na im one person dey take do "promo" so.

Mine was "What Cult did you belong to in School"?

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OP, Go work it out. It's part of the lessons you learn in marriage. Keep working on it (with adultery out of your mind).
You 'll find what works for both of you once you discover her "mumu" button.

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