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GeneralOuki:
That person is a hypocrite and too feminine centric with his/her views.
Here below is this same person advising the wives to run/disassociate/ cut off from in-laws that gives them problems.

raumdeuter:
On the autism subject what would be the cause where the prevalence was was 1 in 2000 in 1980 to 1 in 23, among black boys

How many people did you know growing up who were not verbal at age 15 or 20, Now compared to now. Something definitely changed in the last 30yrs that has spiked the increase

Ibime:
Reform go win oh, from all tradesmen I've spoken to in the last few weeks

AmazonTopaz:
After all the faux performative cry about Christian genocide in Nigeria(which is true) by RepubliQans they still couldn't apply refugee status to Nigerians I remember seeing on Nigerian MAGA on Twitter begging for asylum. Lmao. Maybe with time it will be clear to dumb Nigerian dumbos what RepubliQans stand for.

GeneralOuki:
You see how all over the place your arguments are? Earlier you said it's none of his business what the in-laws do since he's not married to th but to Their daughter and according to you the Op should face his marriage and leave the in-laws to do whatever they like as it's Their right to associate with whomever they choose. But here now you're against the Op cutting off the in-laws and focusing on his marriage as he's not married to the in-laws after all. You want him to maintain contacts with the shameless in-laws who disrespect him by robbing their greed on his face, but you don't want him to react to the disrespect from the in-laws.

Kobojunkie:
1. No

2. Those aren't remotely connected and so shouldn't be compared.

The only reason OP would wish to claim lack of trust in his wife from this is if he projected the actions of his in-laws on his wife. Blaming her for the actions of his parents would only reveal him to be a petty individual and nothing else.

GeneralOuki:
the ex is grooming the wife and her shameless parents by sending them money. The ex and the wife still holds very deep communication and whenever that ex lands in Nigeria that communication is going to go beyond quite Deep . How magnanimous is this ex that he still sends money to the parents of an ex girlfriend? I'm sure he also sends money to his own relatives and wife's relatives too right?

Op should come to the realisation that he married into a shameless family and begin to remove any emotional attachment he has on that marriage and just focus on fulfilling his duties as a husband/father as the case might be. He should rather transfer his emotions to somewhere else if he wants to live a long and enjoyable life.

basilico:
Budaatum Ibime

Both of you was saying no way Reform can win majority seats in parliament with your gerrymandered seats allocations.
I got this from Google AI.

oridavid:
No, it's not obvious. You're seeing that because that's what you want the bible to say. You want to feel like you're better than some people. You want to feel like you've achieved what they can't and that's why you create this distinction in the Bible so you can say you're this while others are that.

But in actual sense these difference don't exist in the Bible. Yes, they're different Adam as the Bible explicitly mentions (1 Corinthians 15:45) but the task given to them was the same. The reward is simply different because one performed the task while the other refused the task. Just as Jesus explained with a parable (Mathew 21:28-31)

If the first Adam had performed the task, there wouldn't have been any need for the second Adam to be created. Just as if the first son had performed the task in the parable mentioned above, there wouldn't have been any need to send the second son.

I think your confusion comes because you see one Adam in Genesis 1 and the other in Genesis 2, so you assumed that the Adam created in Genesis 1 was the first one and further assumed that God had rested before he created the Adam in Genesis 2.

Whereas, the first Adam was the one we see in Genesis 2 and God didn't rest until he created the second Adam which we see in Genesis 1. God would simply have finished his creation in the Adam created from mud if he had performed the task, and we wouldn't have seen another Adam. His refusal gave rise to the creation of another Adam who would perform the task and received the reward reserved for performance. If we too perform the task, we would receive the same reward.

If you go around talking about tree of knowledge of good and evil, talking like it gives some kind of awareness safe sensual, people will see that you understand very little. Because the Second Adam who received the reward did not eat from that tree. He didn't have the sensual awareness that corrupts all.

I hope this helps you, and I'm sorry if I may have spoken harshly, this was why I didn't to engage you initially. I didn't want to offend you but I figured I wasn't helping the discussion if I just kept messing around with you. Thank you for your engagement. God bless you.

Kobojunkie:
1.
3. You claimed it negatively impacted his home, when all OP said was that he did not feel good about it. How does his getting his ego bruised imply that their daughter's home was impacted?

Ourtruth247:
Reincarnation

A soul is eternal energy. A soul cannot die. It lives on forever. To exist in this physical realm a soul needs a body. When the body dies, the soul can move into another body and keep experiencing life for thousands of years and retain its memories while doing so

Reincarnation is a universal constant. Across the universe souls reincarnate. Humans also reincarnate, the problem is we don't remember our past memories.

Kobojunkie:
3. Harassment is obviously an immature thing for anyone to do in response to a bruised ego. Rather, I would suggest he swallow his pride and maybe avoid meeting them under similar circumstances to avoid a repeat of the same or similar. However, the other side of this is that he may also miss out on relevant information in the future.

Kobojunkie:
1. Again, you and I do not know the circumstances that led to OP finding out about this.

Feisu:
But I recently found out he sends money and gifts to my inlaws and they are all so happy with that. Even celebrating this in my presence and saying I shouldn't be jealous or anything because their daughter knows she's married and their relationship was in the past.

Kobojunkie:
Also, there is no law that states such information should not be broadcast to those we wish to keep in the know.

Kobojunkie:
2. Explain!

Kobojunkie:
Let's assume for the case of discussion that they are, in fact, being wretched, greedy, or lack contentment as you assume them to be, why can't they be that? Is it a crime for them to live that way — receive money and gifts from the man in question? Is there a law against them doing what they did?

Kobojunkie:
1. I am not trying to invalidate the bruise to his ego here. I am simply saying out loud what needs to be, which is that they literally don't owe him anything ......

budaatum:
They could collect from their ex-son in law and not tell their current son in law, if they did not have a motive.

givedemwotowoto:
What will convince you that democracy has failed?

givedemwotowoto:
You don't need a soothsayer to tell you that democracy has failed in Nigeria.

givedemwotowoto:
Everyone has limits. If you have an agreement with someone but you continue cheating them over and over, they will eventually get to their limit of tolerance. Since you have broken your own part of the agreement over and over, at some point you will see the other side of them. "Cause and Effect".

givedemwotowoto:
Why don't you poll majority of Nigerians from North to South and ask how many of them believe that the election was free and fair.

givedemwotowoto:
Check every Democratically Elected President since 1999, only this particular government has met ALL 11 Criteria for a failed democracy.

givedemwotowoto:
The current government didn't get the majority of votes. They got the most votes of all candidates, but not the majority votes of Nigerians.

givedemwotowoto:
At this point I want to tell you that you're still focusing on the wrong thing, but it looks like you want to be heard, so I'll tell you this: I hear you. You want to focus your effort on convincing Nigerians to try again with more unity this time. The problem however is, you'll become more and more frustrated. Why? Because it's already late.

givedemwotowoto:
This government has reached the point of a failed democracy. It has divided Nigerians, the last straw being the division along tribal lines.

Kobojunkie:
1. No, it ain't! He is the one choosing to make an issue of what has no direct link to his marriage. Think carefully about it. The money did not come from his marriage pocket, nor did the money and gifts go to him or his wife. So, what part of this is his marriage?

Kobojunkie:
2. He could simply ignore them and live his marriage; he could keep away from their home since he claims it bothers him, and let them live their life as they choose. My make their marriage and their problem with his marriage? Why?

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chiiraq802:
Majority carries the vote.....the populace are even worst than Government officials.

EmperorIsaac:
No... this is a very terrible stereotype on Nigerias. Because you are bereft of morals doesn't mean it's generalizable to the entire population.

oridavid:
OK check the sun tomorrow by 12pm I'll be dancing on it. If you don't see me then you're blind.

givedemwotowoto:
Nobody wants military but when democracy fails, it's inevitable.

givedemwotowoto:
You're focusing on the wrong people. Focus your energy on the people destroying democracy.

givedemwotowoto:
I have said this multiple times, if you don't give your children food, they will go to school and steal or beg or find some food. It's inevitable.

givedemwotowoto:
Nobody rules a country successfully if majority of the populace doesn't want them.

givedemwotowoto:
Trying to force themselves on the majority immediately enshrines dictatorship. Isn't that a failure of democracy?

ono:
First I should clarify that I didn’t read your earlier post about the guy. We can discuss like adults we are (like I used to preach on this board) without making some disparaging remarks. We all are not kids on this board! What will it benefit us when we make the other person feel down with crazy worthless comments?

Ibime:
That means we should have higher autism rates in Naija

Infact autism should be more prevalent in Jewish and Muslim societies but the reverse seems to be the case

Bluntemperor:
You have a point on their Young Age,as they never learn that Coup is an abomination in Nigeria..
History is Now Being taught.

budaatum:
I like the fact you are all requiring a definition of the axiomatic question "what is god". Goes to show that what may be self evident to some may not be self evident to others.

Please do not limit yourselves to any number of legs on the stool. Put as many on it as puts your response across as you wish. There are no limits.

Kobojunkie:
Yes, it is understandable that his feelings would be somewhat hurt by his in-laws, but his in-laws are not his marriage, though.

Maxymilliano:
These are the true heroes and should be awarded the highest medals in the land