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Foreign Affairs › Re: American Politics Thread: Trump Is The 47th President! by budaatum: 1:09am On Dec 29, 2025
bayelsaowei:
Ok..so how many innocent people were killed Mr Man?
See what they trying to feed you.

Foreign Affairs › Re: $12 Trillion Dollar US Debt Matures In 2026, This Is Why Drumpf Has Gone Full Re by budaatum: 1:00am On Dec 29, 2025
All hail dump!

I personally can not wait for dump to sack Powell and install his stooge who will cut the Effective Federal Funds Rate for him so I can see the 30 year react as it might.

https://wolfstreet.com/2025/12/15/treasury-yield-curve-steepens-sharply-yields-from-2-years-to-30-years-have-risen-as-the-fed-cut-three-times-this-year/

Business › Re: I Need Food Poison Detection Device/kit by budaatum: 12:20am On Dec 29, 2025
KingRabota:
You that is offering this
"Wisdom" know that your suggestion is unworkable either because it's not convenient or not possible
So, it is unworkable and not possible for you to buy your own ingredients and cook your own food because it is not convenient for you?

Tomorrow morning, my children and I will bake bread for breakfast, then we are going to this place for the day.

I will post you a picture before we eat the bread, and of what we see when we get there, so you know it is convenient and workable and possible for us to buy our own ingredients and cook our own food, especially if you are afraid of being poisoned, which is actually why we bake our own bread and cook our own food.
Politics › Re: What To Expect When The U.S Finally Sends Troops To Nigeria by budaatum: 11:53pm On Dec 28, 2025
melechpilusof:
Okay. Now am going to make another prediction.
Northern Nigeria will be turned into a war zone and will be used a a pretext to attack neighboring countries. Is that an obvious reality to you at this material time?
Hausas (or shall I say, native Northerners and of neighbouring countries), are already fighting their foreign (Fulani) colonialists, and those colonialists will not give up their dominance without fighting back, so what you call a prediction is not a prediction, but the stating of an obvious reality that is already happening.

You may want to read the thread by MightySparrow, to see how much of the obvious reality you are calling a prediction.
https://www.nairaland.com/8587217/why-northern-nigeria-may-not#137902023
Politics › Re: America's Secret Agenda In Nigeria - Real Reason For Intervening by budaatum: 4:38pm On Dec 28, 2025
oalandAgents2:
Clearly comprehension is your problem, America is not bombing any terrorists, that is just their propaganda to hide their true agenda.
I am very delighted you are informing MrBadNews, and hope he accepts the education you are giving him for free.
Politics › Re: America's Secret Agenda In Nigeria - Real Reason For Intervening by budaatum: 4:36pm On Dec 28, 2025
trutharena:
No foreign power ever intervenes for the sake of the people. Its always about their interests.
I am finding it difficult to understand why many can't seem to comprehend this fact.
Politics › Re: America's Secret Agenda In Nigeria - Real Reason For Intervening by budaatum: 4:35pm On Dec 28, 2025
MrBadNews:
Protecting sovereignty of terrorists and bandits killing innocent people everywhere, where is your conscience.
I never asked our government to protect the "sovereignty of terrorists and bandits killing innocent people everywhere", and if that's what you think I want, then I really see no point in engaging you at all.

Do let me know when you've adjusted your thinking and have attempted or are willing to understand my position.
Politics › Re: What To Expect When The U.S Finally Sends Troops To Nigeria by budaatum: 2:34pm On Dec 28, 2025
I am finding that the Nigerian media is rather silent on the recent bombing of Nigeria by USA.

By now I'd expect Nigerian journalists to have arrived on ground and be reporting from Sokoto, but most I'm finding is undetailed reports mainly by foreign media who are not reporting who was bombed or killed.

So, if anyone has info, links please or eyewitness. Thanks.
Politics › Re: What To Expect When The U.S Finally Sends Troops To Nigeria by budaatum: 2:22pm On Dec 28, 2025
melechpilusof:
Not disrespect in a bad way but I hope you will show some respect and not argue or disparage my predictions next time. The U.S bombed Sokoto and it's only a matter of time before they put boots on the ground. You disagreed but I hope you can agree now that I know what I'm talking about.
I have no regard for anyone's predictions, but that does not indicate a lack of respect. And stating my point, which may differ to yours, does not mean one is arguing, though I see nothing wrong with respectfully arguing.

Your prediction may be right, but that does not negate the fact that I consider USA troops in Nigeria to be detrimental to Nigeria. And you have not changed my mind on that fact despite your prediction coming to pass.

Do note that it was very obvious that dump will bomb Nigeria, as he is stupïd and belligerent (my opinion), so there isn't really much in your prediction, and nor does it increase nor decrease the regard and respect I must show you.
Politics › Re: America's Secret Agenda In Nigeria - Real Reason For Intervening by budaatum:
oalandAgents2:
1. Prop up their puppet Tinubu and protect him from any future military coup attempts to overthrow him.
I must wonder how true this can possibly be, because USA bombing Nigeria is definitely making me lose whatever regard I may have been building in support of some of Tinubu's policies, and it's making me not want to vote for him so there is a regime change at the next election.

I however acknowledge that not many might reason like I do and therefore reelect Tinubu because USA has convinced them to, instead of electing a president who protects our sovereignty.
Politics › Re: What To Expect When The U.S Finally Sends Troops To Nigeria by budaatum: 2:07pm On Dec 28, 2025
Salewa97:
The Nigerian youths are not interested in any war, we are all waiting for the 2027 election to vote them out
I wish it were true that "the Nigerian youths are not interested in any war, and we are all waiting for the 2027 election to vote them out". Unfortunately, what I am seeing is many youths not knowing their responsibility or the power of our vote, and are rejoicing that USA appears to be coming to save them, which kind of shows that people like you and I need to work harder to convince many Nigerian youths of our responsibility to our country Nigeria and our duty to save our selves and elect a government that will stand up and honour our sovereignty.

May we be strengthened to continue in this our task and never tire so we may one day succeed.

Politics › Re: What To Expect When The U.S Finally Sends Troops To Nigeria by budaatum: 1:58pm On Dec 28, 2025
melechpilusof:
Toh I think you should respect me more now
Sir, I hope you are not asking me to respect you more because I have disrespected you at any point in time.

I completely disagree with USA putting troops on Nigerian land or bombing anywhere in Nigeria, and that has no impact or anything whatsoever to do with whether I respect you or not, because we do not need to agree before we respect one another.

Please let me know if I have ever disrespected you so that I can profusely apologise. Thanks in advance.
Family › Re: I Saw A Couple Fighting Today And It Made Me Wonder: Is Being Single Better? by budaatum: 10:41am On Dec 28, 2025
Akinpedia:
However, what rarely gets discussed openly is the significant mental health toll and emotional strain that can come from settling down with the wrong person, which can lead to long-term unhappiness and stress.
I don't know why you'd assume every married couple have settled down with the wrong person.

Is it because you have not seen any couple that have settled down with the right person, or are you just disregarding all those you've seen who have settled down with the right person and are happily married couples by brushing them aside with your "However, in reality, many are enduring their relationships rather than truly enjoying them", when the truth really is that you haven't got a clue what their reality is?
Christianity Etc › Re: Religion And Worship Of Chess by budaatum(op): 10:31am On Dec 28, 2025
I have just one game left, and if it ends before next year, it will be the first time in 10 years that I wouldn't have a game going.

The intention is to enter next year with a clean sheet so I can be born again.

https://m.gameknot.com/chess.pl?bd=36026285

Family › Re: Why Some Husbands Slowly Shut Down Emotionally. by budaatum: 10:14am On Dec 28, 2025
joseph1832:
I Didnt read this...
You obviously didn't read my previous that you responded, though it's very obvious you did read this and are just telling fibs.

But don't you worry. My faith in you growing will not waver despite current stagnancy.
Family › Re: Why Some Husbands Slowly Shut Down Emotionally. by budaatum: 11:23pm On Dec 27, 2025
Please, can anyone tell me if they think the person below went to school and paid attention if their response to a post that includes "you must satisfy your partner" and "you'd understand too how you can and must satisfy each other" is the below?

joseph1832:
Wow. Just found someone who opening admit she selfish. 👍
Family › Re: Why Some Husbands Slowly Shut Down Emotionally. by budaatum: 11:11pm On Dec 27, 2025
Faposky95:
In Ilesha....Reallyy..?!
Ilesha is not the entire world. It's not even the entire Nigeria.
Family › Re: Why Some Husbands Slowly Shut Down Emotionally. by budaatum: 6:12pm On Dec 27, 2025
lailo:
comments I read here shows most of u are not married or kids in adult body. There is nothing u can do to satisfy a woman. You can never satisfy a woman. Know this and know peace
I think the adults amongst us need to come and educate you that you must satisfy your partner or you can't (or shouldn't) have a partner.

If you understand the mutuality of a partner in a marriage, you'd understand too how you can and must satisfy each other.

Oh! And you don't need to give her money because she is far way more intelligent and (I) earns way much more than you do.
Family › Re: Why Some Husbands Slowly Shut Down Emotionally. by budaatum: 5:31pm On Dec 27, 2025
Faposky95:
A woman is still different from your wife.
In case you have not noticed, we are talking about husbands and wives, and not just men and women.
Foreign Affairs › Re: American Politics Thread: Trump Is The 47th President! by budaatum: 2:41am On Dec 27, 2025

Politics › Re: ADC Slams Tinubu Over US Air Strikes In Sokoto, Demands Details Of Casualties by budaatum: 2:33am On Dec 27, 2025
yarimo:
It's now clear 99.9% members of ADC are terrorists supporters claiming patriotic opposition undecided
That might be clear to you, but what's clear to me is our elected government farming its security duty out to a foreign nation, and I abhor and detest it as much as I detest the farming out of our tax collection to France!

Family › Re: Why Some Husbands Slowly Shut Down Emotionally. by budaatum: 2:17am On Dec 27, 2025
Kobojunkie:
Marriage counseling only works when you have two capable adults in a marriage.
Two adults in a marriage means they are capable.
They showed their capability by dating and saying "I do".

Kobojunkie:
When a woman is married to a man who is dead set on her being a mother to him as in she literally has to manage and help him regulate his emotions, she is literally married to her OP and not a mature adult. Best for her to do is get out of the way so the man can either mature or look for himself a different victim. undecided
I disagree very strongly.

If a married woman has children who are "dead set on her being a mother to them as in she literally has to manage and help her children regulate their emotions", she is a bad mother, because she shouldn't be regulating her dead set children's emotions but should be teaching her dead set children to manage their own emotions by themselves.

It's the same way she shouldn't be regulating her dead set husband's emotions, but should be educating (or guiding) her husband to manage his own emotions by himself.

Kobojunkie:
she is literally married to her OP and not a mature adult
If he is not a mature adult, then perhaps she shouldn't have married him in the first place. But she did, and perhaps should lay in the bed she made instead of running from it in divorce.

Kobojunkie:
2. Just imagine having to literally possibly pick up after and train--- as you would a child ----someone who believes himself leader over you in marriage. That is not a marriage but a prison. 😩😩😩
A prison, or a school? Why pick up after him when you can train him to pick up after himself if you yourself are mature?

Now, if after you've tried to train him and he refuses to learn, then divorce. After all, you will 'divorce' a child after you've tried to train it for like 18 years and it refuses to learn. But until then, you'd likely try, try, try, try and try again, instead of giving up after the first couple of tries.

Now, I foresee you asking what I mean by training a dead set husband, but think about how you'd likely train a dead set dog without whipping it since you can't literally whip your husband, and you'd get my drift.
Politics › Re: US Surveillance Flights Over Nigeria Spike After Trump’s Threat by budaatum: 11:39am On Dec 26, 2025
SeeWahala:
Buda your worst fear concerning Trump and our pampered terrorists has finally happened shocked

Oh no! 😱 Is this the 'beginning of the end' of Nigeria as YOU know it? cool

Don't fret, the country will be fine. Let USA help us work 👍
I am severely heavily depressed for Nigeria.
Nairaland General › Re: by budaatum: 5:14am On Dec 26, 2025
Tenrack:
okay. The first one is, are you the same as the user Magnoliaa?
No. I am not smart nor intelligent enough to be the very wise Magnoliaa.

Tenrack:
Secondly how did you rename the embedded link in your post?
[url = https : // www . Bleep . com] Text [/ url]

With spaces removed will show Text linking to www . Bleep . com.

You can quote my post with the embedded link to see what I've done.
Politics › Re: The Proposed Bill To Make Voting Compulsory In Nigeria by budaatum: 5:05am On Dec 26, 2025
chiagozien:
No edi!ot can force me to vote in Nigeria.

I never voted and will never vote in Nigeria elections.
And so he proudly states.
Nairaland General › Re: by budaatum: 4:53am On Dec 26, 2025
Tenrack:
You ducked my question ma. smiley
Can't say I saw a question from you.

Can you repeat it please?
Family › Re: Why Some Husbands Slowly Shut Down Emotionally. by budaatum: 4:49am On Dec 26, 2025
Kobojunkie:
Seems more like many more consider divorce the logical escape from a regretful situation in marriage. 🥱🥱🥱
I wouldn't myself call divorce the first or obvious solution.

How about marriage counseling first? They'd teach both parties to communicate their issues to each other and they just might find an amicable solution.
Family › Re: Why Some Husbands Slowly Shut Down Emotionally. by budaatum: 4:44am On Dec 26, 2025
jaszplus12:
Go ask those who have left their marriages, there's a lot to contemplate...
Or better still, ask the children who suffer from the divorce.
Nairaland General › Re: by budaatum: 10:15pm On Dec 25, 2025
Youarenotmad:
Ive gotten laptop for myself but i need more criticism from people like you to break me. Crucify me since im the problem
If other people are the cause of my problems, then they are the solutions to my problems, but there's no guarantee they will care so much that solving the problems they caused me would be their top priority. So I choose to own and be responsible for all problems I may have, because that way I am empowered to find my own solutions for my own problems.

Now, if the above makes sense to you, you will crucify yourself so that you can resurrect, because what you sow will not come to life unless it dies.

My apologies for Bible if it's not your inclination.
Nairaland General › Re: by budaatum: 8:00pm On Dec 25, 2025
Youarenotmad:
i dropped out of school,

He did not talk about continuing school or helping secure money for laptop
Since you are getting lots of sympathy from everyone else, let me help you.

You dropped out of school, so you are not learning, but you want someone to invest their money in you so you can buy laptop? Do you know you are not serious at all?

What happened to you going to learn mechanic (for instance)? Do you know that if you wake up 6am and sweep mechanic yard, your oga will at least buy you breakfast? And if you hustle well for your oga, he would even let you sleep in the cars he's fixing?

After one single year, you'd have at the very least learnt to change oil and do full service, a side hustle you can save up from to buy your own laptop.

Yes, I said harsh. When I was kicked out at 15 years old, I sold eggs for others and eventually canned coke at the Lagos end of Ibadan Expressway and saved up my money and bought ticket to return home to UK where I worked in a chicken and chips shop for £1.10 an hour to pay my way through Uni, so I hope you see why my sympathy for you who's parents hide food from in the toilet is almost non-existent.

You want laptop, lol. And no, you are not mad!

Family › Re: Why Some Husbands Slowly Shut Down Emotionally. by budaatum: 7:44pm On Dec 25, 2025
Makelele004:
This understanding matters. It shifts focus from blame to action. Marriage survives through awareness, effort, and honest repair.
If men know this, perhaps they, men, wouldn't be asking Why does she feel distant. What happened to the connection we had.

After all, its not only wives who ask the questions you posed, since women too distance themselves from men who lack awareness, and don't put effort in, and who don't honestly repair their relationship with their wives.

Education › Re: The Origin Of Virgin Birth (immaculate Conception) Stories by budaatum: 7:33pm On Dec 25, 2025
musicwriter:
The story is meant to baby-walk an individual into independence in everything we do- it's actually meant to achieve detachment from the God of religion into a higher understanding that God is within ourselves
Unfortunately, many are not grown up yet. But time is fortunately on our side, as there will be a next generation, and many more after that who will seek understanding instead of merely believing baby stories about fictional mythical made up beings.

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