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Family › Re: Withholding Intimacy In Marriage Is Abuse by budaatum: 9:45am On Dec 22, 2025
Jman06:
Sometimes I wonder how people enjoy sex without the full consent and participation of their partners. Before making love to your wives, guys, learn how to put her in the mood first. This may require prepping her psychologically by being more romantic prior and during the period
I'd add nice considerate you to my reverse harem if I were polyandrous!
Family › Re: Withholding Intimacy In Marriage Is Abuse by budaatum: 9:42am On Dec 22, 2025
MasterTeeUSA:
Applies both ways..sefini
Yes, indeed it should. You shouldn't want to mount me if I were not pleasing you outside the bedroom, like if I rude to you and didn't keep a clean house and body and mind.
Family › Re: Withholding Intimacy In Marriage Is Abuse by budaatum: 9:40am On Dec 22, 2025
DMCA:
if u are not pleased why stay?
Because you are not permanently useless, and because I know you have potential.

If you were permanently useless I wouldn't even have bothered being with you in the first place, and this discussion would not be happening.
Family › Re: Withholding Intimacy In Marriage Is Abuse by budaatum: 8:45pm On Dec 21, 2025
I can't really understand why you'd want to mount me when I'm not pleased with you.

If you loved and respected me as you should, I'd want to mount you myself. But I guess you don't love nor respect me and just want to satisfy your urge despite my displeasure with you.

My advice? Use your hands!

Foreign Affairs › Re: Al Shifa Hospital Rebuilt And Open For Operations Despite Bombing In Gaza (pics) by budaatum: 8:40pm On Dec 21, 2025
Ile ọba to jo, ẹwa lo bu si

3 more characters needed
Foreign Affairs › Re: American Politics Thread: Trump Is The 47th President! by budaatum: 8:32pm On Dec 21, 2025

Business › Re: Dangote Explains Why Cement Is Cheaper Outside Nigeria by budaatum: 8:30pm On Dec 21, 2025
matify83:
Wow wow wow!

That was a powerful quote from Adam Smith's wealth of Nations.

Thanks for sharing
I feel you might appreciate the book even more, so here's a condensed free copy.

https://www.adamsmith.org/the-wealth-of-nations

His original is easily available too if you are inclined.
Christianity Etc › Re: Yoruba Comes First Before Any Religion. by budaatum: 8:27pm On Dec 21, 2025
vaxx:
This cultural flexibility is precisely what has kept the Yoruba united for centuries despite religious diversity.
It is very sad that many abandon our culture of multiple gods and let some foreign god claim it is the only god.

Foreign gods should abandon their arrogance and come learn humility from us!

Culture › Re: Am I Less Igbo Because I Can’t Speak The Language? by budaatum: 8:20pm On Dec 21, 2025
I am Yoruba, from Osun State!

Business › Re: Dangote Explains Why Cement Is Cheaper Outside Nigeria by budaatum: 8:17pm On Dec 21, 2025
matify83:
Stockholm syndrome.

And some people are shouting themselves hoarse that taxes especially company taxes does not cause inflation.
Our sense of entitlement makes us think Dangote should absorb government tax and not pass it on to us the consumers.

In fact, Dangote must just give us his produce for free because we are entitled to it for reasons I can't yet fully comprehend!

Christianity Etc › Re: The Man Adam Before The Fall by budaatum: 7:59pm On Dec 21, 2025
AngelahFlo:
Mr Budaatum it's good to read from you. Your views are anti scriptural I must admit not because the whites introduced us to the Bible but because this gospel is real. Adam was naked, yeah but he wasn't ashamed of his supposed unclothedness because .....
My views are simply anti-what-you've-been-told-to-believe, and like Adam, you are afraid to use your own mind for fear you might die. No insult intended.

If you think of it, Jesus would not ever tell anyone not to eat fruits of knowledge, and with some thought, it would not be odd to think Jesus himself feeds people with knowledge and even the fruits of trees of life. For how else is one supposed to live the eternal life he promised without eating fruits of trees of knowledge and of life?

But I don't expect you to agree with any of what I say, just like Adam did not see and was not aware not to talk of be ashamed of his unclothedness until Eve fed him fruits that open eyes so he may see.
Politics › Re: What Some Of Our Brothers Abroad Are Passing Through by budaatum: 9:47am On Dec 21, 2025
Chivisee:
Shinedu go and listen to the wise elders close to you if you have any! A lot of Nigeria’s are making the country proud, everything is not leaders! How have you made your country proud?? What innovations/impact have you brought to your immediate environment, if any of this answer is zero then you need to start blaming yourself and people populating other country’s with drugs and claiming and deceiving people that they are hardworking while soiling the image of the Country! !
It is rather very annoying that many are so irresponsible and put all the blame for the state our nation is in on our leaders. Our irresponsibility goes so far that we even refuse to recognise we elected those leaders, either directly or by not bothering to vote at all!

But I guess we are that way because we have not yet suffered enough. When we have suffered enough and want to suffer no more, we'd see that we are responsible for our own suffering and that none but ourselves can free our minds, and then decide to emancipate ourselves from the mental slavery we enslave ourselves with and in.

May that time not be long in coming, prays I.

Politics › Re: What Some Of Our Brothers Abroad Are Passing Through by budaatum: 9:33am On Dec 21, 2025
guobe:
Yes he just expressed the way a white man sees a black man from Africa.
What he has expressed is the way some white people might see a black person from Africa, and not recognising that is ignoring the numerous Chukwus married to Seuns.
Politics › Re: What Some Of Our Brothers Abroad Are Passing Through by budaatum: 9:29am On Dec 21, 2025
guobe:
Also you can't compare tribalism to racism as a racist can go all length you can't imagine.
I think you don't know much about tribalism.

There is no difference in the ignorance and the hatred that breeds either.

https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Rwandan_genocide

Romance › Re: "The Downfall Of Our Marriage" by budaatum: 9:12am On Dec 21, 2025
Tenrack:
grin cheesy Leave wetin dey comot for him mouth and pay heed to wetin him dey do. That's all. You'll change your mind.
That might work for 12 year olds, but mature people watch both words and deeds.

I definitely would be worried if my sons listen to him, and moreso if my daughters do.
Romance › Re: Oga Seun Should Do Christmas For Nairaland Members by budaatum: 2:54am On Dec 21, 2025
And there's some willing to pay subscription for the service seun is providing (sans his annoying spambot of course).

Christianity Etc › Re: The Man Adam Before The Fall by budaatum: 2:37am On Dec 21, 2025
AngelahFlo:
The truth is we're going back to who we were before the Fall but it's not now.
I should hope we are not.

Before that supposed fall, Adam was a naked ignorant slave in the Garden of Eden until Eve fed him with knowledge that opened his eyes so he could be freed from slavery and become self employed and populate the earth and die 800 years after he supposedly fell.

I, for one, would not want fall back into being naked and ignorant and enslaved!

Christianity Etc › Re: The Man Adam Before The Fall by budaatum: 2:30am On Dec 21, 2025
AngelahFlo:
Young man if you're saying that the created man and the formed man are two different entities then you must be really confused. The created man in Gen 1:26 and 27 and the formed man in Genesis 2 are one and the same.
No they are not the same entity and are very clearly not one and the same, since they were created on different days, were given different duties, and were told to eat different things!

If this were an English comprehension test, one question would be 'on what day was Adam created'? You'd fail if you said the sixth.
Romance › Re: "The Downfall Of Our Marriage" by budaatum: 2:08am On Dec 21, 2025
Tenrack:
Tate is disgusting how? Have you ever shared a room with the man? Dialogued with him? That man is a perfect gentleman. You should try and get to know him better.
Andrew Tate is not the sort of person I'd be in a room with considering what comes out of his mouth.


https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=EmKs_jsS5-w?si=tOE7XSqvXI7FLK4Q
Politics › Re: NAFDAC Bans Indomie Vegetable Flavour Noodles by budaatum: 4:25am On Dec 20, 2025
AndroBlaze:
This last part of your post missed the point you already observed.
Your are 100% correct.

I wrote it and left it wondering if anyone would notice, which you've smartly done.
Family › Re: Letter To Dear Santa by budaatum: 1:40am On Dec 20, 2025
RuthAdesco:
Dear Santa,
🎁 it's six days to Christmas 🎄🎁🎄, the atmosphere is filled with happiness and the aura is very very strong.
Dear Santa, all I need is rice 🙏 and 1 chicken... You see me , you know me. Thank you for making this Christmas a memorable one for me and family.
I find it rather disturbing that you've waited six days to Christmas to write to Santa.

Are you not aware Santa does snailmail, and letters take a while to get to Lapland?

Some of us sent our letters immediately after last year's Christmas I'll have you know, but then we had to since we were requesting rice and chicken and dodo and playstation plus games and a nice wine for after the kids go to sleep.

You, sir, need to learn some serious proactivity!
Politics › Re: If You Deny Christian Genocide In Nigeria, You Have Blood On Your Hands- Judd Sa by budaatum: 1:00am On Dec 20, 2025
Those denying genocide in Gaza are claiming there's genocide in Nigeria.
Investment › Re: Crypto Currency Investors Thread by budaatum: 12:44am On Dec 20, 2025
Robnectar:
BANK OF JAPAN WILL HIKE RATES BY 25 BPS ON DECEMBER 19.

JAPAN IS THE LARGEST HOLDER OF US GOVERNMENT DEBT.

THIS IS BAD NEWS FOR MARKETS...
We'd benefit from an explaination why its bad news.

The below is just a hypothesis, as in, I'm not presenting it as fact.

https://finance.yahoo.com/news/bitcoin-traders-brace-bank-japan-142537379.html


https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=dCkbF_4tDcU?si=vs3Q0eNrCLajdKPW
Romance › Re: How Someone That Look Exactly Like My Late Dad Came To Our House by budaatum: 12:19am On Dec 20, 2025
Chidollars1994:
everything is a joke to you guys
Not everything. But you not asking any questions of a man who walked into the compound looking exactly like your late father and then coming to tell us in a thread on Nairaland is worth a laugh.

Did you and your siblings and your mother not even greet this man and offer him water to drink and ask his name and where he was from and why he came to your compound?

What bad manners is that!
Politics › Re: NAFDAC Bans Indomie Vegetable Flavour Noodles by budaatum: 12:12am On Dec 20, 2025
The statement reads, “Public Alert No. 041/2025.
Recall of Indomie brand noodles (Vegetable Flavour Product) due to the presence of undeclared allergens (milk and eggs).
The key word is in bold, and all producers need do is declare the presence of the supposed allergens (milk and eggs).

I wonder though if NAFDAC might not just ban milk and eggs because they are supposedly "allergens".
Romance › Re: How Someone That Look Exactly Like My Late Dad Came To Our House by budaatum: 12:08am On Dec 20, 2025
Kobojunkie:
You met a man who looked exactly like your dad. You didn't bother to ask whether he was related or what he was doing in the area? But you came here to tell us you saw someone who looked exactly like your dad? Why? 🥱🥱🥱

P.S. I supposedly met my twin about 30 years ago. I was told by others that we look alike, but I never did see how myself.
You make me crack up with grin cheesy grin
Sports › Re: Anthony Joshua Vs Jake Paul Is A Friendly Boxing Fight by budaatum: 11:29pm On Dec 19, 2025
You couldn't imagine how deep I had to dig to find a thread about this absurd "friendly fight".

It's almost an insult to wake up to watch it.
Politics › Re: Governor Fubara Boasts: My Cattle Ranch May Be The Richest In Nigeria by budaatum: 10:17pm On Dec 19, 2025
Nairaland General › Re: Which Profession Has These Kind Of People by budaatum: 10:14pm On Dec 19, 2025
jUeLiZ:
I think the nursing profession ....
Odd you say this, because nurses, even the Nigerian ones at King's, are some of the kindest empathetic nurses I've come across, which makes me think its a Nigerian thing where ordinary market person will rudely expect to take your money, and has no idea of customer service with a smile.
Foreign Affairs › Re: American Politics Thread: Trump Is The 47th President! by budaatum: 10:08pm On Dec 19, 2025
Family › Re: Mom’s Reaction As Her US Soldier Son Comes Home After 7 Years. Pure Emotions! by budaatum: 10:07pm On Dec 19, 2025
sunky97:
She ......


https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=l-FaV2xw-xM?si=b0RNVxRoapzApT-W
I think some don't want you to tell of the folly of illegally entering Canada!

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