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Culture › Re: Transgender Population By Countries by budaatum: 9:56pm On Dec 19, 2025

This list is definitely not real if Nigeria has more transgenders than UK that is not on the list.

Abeg check the list for me again because I can't see UK on it despite the very nice cordial transgender who serves me at Tesco!

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Culture › Re: Transgender Population By Countries by budaatum: 9:50pm On Dec 19, 2025

Hezzyluv:
This list is a padded list. I wasn't expecting to see Nigeria on the list not to talk of being in top ten.

I was going to say Nigeria has only one.

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Christianity Etc › Re: The Bible Is One Book by budaatum: 9:34pm On Dec 19, 2025

Actually, it is many books written by many different people over hundreds of years, and is more like a library than "one book".

That said, it should be read as one book, starting at Bereshit, and working page by page to "Amen".

Romance › Re: Don't Listen To Single Mothers Excuse by budaatum: 9:28pm On Dec 19, 2025

Amumaigwe:
Strong women in your context are women who are incapable of attracting or keeping a man. So funny you people only act strong in the day, but cry all night in pain and regrets.

Some of you are not worth keeping and are best thrown out with the thrash.

Thankfully, we see you a mile off.

Romance › Re: Don't Listen To Single Mothers Excuse by budaatum: 9:24pm On Dec 19, 2025

Tenrack:
You mean strong single mom? I see them everywhere.

Many are better off than being with a man who is just another child.

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Sports › Re: UEFA Bans Israeli Football Club With Fine Over Racist Chant(picture) by budaatum: 9:21pm On Dec 19, 2025

Flangelo12:
Na wa O.

Israel just dey collect upandan.

Because Israel just dey do upandan, though they haven't collected enough.

If any other country did what Israel did in Gaza despite October 7, the entire world would blow that country out of existence.

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Foreign Affairs › Re: American Politics Thread: Trump Is The 47th President! by budaatum: 9:01pm On Dec 19, 2025

I need a list of maga publicly listed companies please, so I can invest in them before the elections and short just before results.

These magas are gonna spend and lose tons!

https://wapo.st/4aTB6x6

Romance › Re: "The Downfall Of Our Marriage" by budaatum: 8:55pm On Dec 19, 2025

I can only but delight that you exist and hope there be more like you in this current times when many men are learning from the most disgusting Andrew Tate.

SpencerForbes:
Men need to bring more to the table than just money

We really need to start practicing what we preach. You can’t be out here scouting for a "virtuous, God-fearing, and hardworking" woman when your own character is so questionable that even God is afraid of you. If you want a certain quality in a woman, make sure you're reflecting those same traits yourself.

Also, we need to stop thinking marriage is only about age or having a fat bank account. Real maturity is about wisdom and actually understanding what family values mean. Without that foundation, a man will just end up wrecking his own home and then turn around to blame "women of nowadays" for the failure.

Lastly, deal with your baggage before you say "I do." If you’re still carrying insecurities and trust issues from your past dating experiences into a marriage, you’ll just end up being paranoid. That kind of energy eventually pushes a good woman away and kills the peace in the home.

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Romance › Re: "The Downfall Of Our Marriage" by budaatum: 8:53pm On Dec 19, 2025

FriendsAndFans:
What do you make of a woman starting a physical confrontation with a husband coming home from work?

A bully and a demented inconsiderate woman who has difficulty communicating with her husband, is what I'd "make of a woman starting a physical confrontation with a husband coming home from work".

Except the woman we are talking about in this thread has not been alleged to have physically confronted her husband who seems to have a habit of returning home late.

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Romance › Re: "The Downfall Of Our Marriage" by budaatum: 6:58pm On Dec 19, 2025

FriendsAndFans:
I'm coming home to Peace and not confrontation

So, you likely wouldn't escalate and throw your wife and kid out like this silly man who had come home late many times without being confronted until now.

Foreign Affairs › Re: American Politics Thread: Trump Is The 47th President! by budaatum: 6:36pm On Dec 19, 2025

X News Network....

Foreign Affairs › Re: American Politics Thread: Trump Is The 47th President! by budaatum: 6:28pm On Dec 19, 2025

bayelsaowei:
What reputable research link are you gathering these info from?

https://www.nairaland.com/8511650/nairalands-bot-out-control/7#137848894

Nairaland General › Re: Nairaland's Bot Was Out Of Control by budaatum: 6:26pm On Dec 19, 2025

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Romance › Re: Don't Listen To Single Mothers Excuse by budaatum: 1:23pm On Dec 19, 2025

joseph1832:
What a load of BS.

What's with "letting you get her get pregnant" Is she a kid, that she doesn't know how to make sure the guy use a rubber? Or she doesn't know how to take the morning after pill? Come on.

This isn't the case of stupidity, but a clear case of intent. A smart woman who gets shagged by a loser without using protection doesn't need to be told what to do.

I think she wouldn't sleep with you at all if she knew you were a loser and you weren't lying to deceive her.

Family › Re: Sir ,have You Done DNA On Those Children? Be Wise .. by budaatum: 5:41am On Dec 19, 2025

Deepspirituals:
. Like I said ,You have never met all the Children of this world...

And neither have you, I think.

Romance › Re: Don't Listen To Single Mothers Excuse by budaatum: 1:06am On Dec 19, 2025

So, you make her a single mother and then claim she made bad choices by letting you get her pregnant?

I wonder who's being stupid and irresponsible here, and who's making bad choices that will damage them and which they may latter regret when it's too late!

Odebayo4010:
A woman makes poor choices in relationships and ends up damaged. She tells you: "if you love me you will stay with me." No. It is not your responsibility to suffer for the consequences of her stupidity and bad choices.

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Family › Re: Sir ,have You Done DNA On Those Children? Be Wise .. by budaatum: 12:59am On Dec 19, 2025

Deepspirituals:
You are right ,But Don't Generalise this as there are exceptions. Yes I repeat some exceptions,No one has ever seen it all .

How about a Man that Trained a Daughter very Well ."Did all he Could" .As I type the Girl is in Sweden ...90% of Care goes to her Mum .. Probably Diabolical I don't know but I got Lots of Testifier that the Woman Mess Up big time ,Was moving from one Man to Another ,Abandoned her ,After she heard the Girl Traveled to Sweden, people said they never saw such a strange Changes ,The whole Story Changed...

Moreso .Haven't U see. The way and Manner some Mother's Turn off the Heart of Children away from there Father's and Control the Children All Alone..

"Trained a Daughter very Well. Did all he Could" does not mean he showed her love and treated her with respect. I can train a dog well and do all I could, but that doesn't mean I fed it and did not beat the hell out of the dog. And badly trained biological children can be turned against their real fathers by their mothers too.

Children are not stupid. They usually do not turn against parents who loved and cared for them. In fact, humans generally do not turn against people who love and care for them, unless such humans are not well developed of course.

Foreign Affairs › Re: American Politics Thread: Trump Is The 47th President! by budaatum: 8:15pm On Dec 18, 2025

Obrigardo:
He will die soon

Na man! Dump is going to live forever and serve a third and fourth term!

Foreign Affairs › Re: American Politics Thread: Trump Is The 47th President! by budaatum: 7:06pm On Dec 18, 2025

Evilthoughts:
You people like talking too much drama.

If you say so and want to believe yourself.

Foreign Affairs › Re: American Politics Thread: Trump Is The 47th President! by budaatum: 7:02pm On Dec 18, 2025

Dump goes nuclear. Buy one get a dump bible or a choice of the other crap he sells to magas.

https://www.pbs.org/newshour/politics/trump-media-to-merge-with-nuclear-fusion-company-that-wants-to-power-ai

Foreign Affairs › Re: American Politics Thread: Trump Is The 47th President! by budaatum: 6:54pm On Dec 18, 2025

feedthenation:
---It's going to be a good holiday---inflation is down due to government shutdown---

https://www.investopedia.com/cpi-inflation-november-11871940

Fool me once, shame on you. Fool me twice.....

https://wolfstreet.com/2025/12/18/todays-doctored-cpi-inflation-release-is-like-a-bad-joke-but-very-serious-though-it-suits-the-administrations-narrative/

Foreign Affairs › Re: Venezuela Stole Our Oil And We Want It Back - Trump (Photos) by budaatum: 6:49pm On Dec 18, 2025

Christ4ever:
I've always been a Trump fan but I must admit, the man has been very disappointing this second term.

This isn't the Trump the world knows and love. He's completely changed

You just were not seeing he's always been crooked.

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Family › Re: Sir ,have You Done DNA On Those Children? Be Wise .. by budaatum: 6:44pm On Dec 18, 2025

Deepspirituals:
Oga ,If you die Trying to Raise The Children whose father is somewhere Chilling and waiting for you to Train them before he comes for them ,You are on your own ooo.even that Woman. You call your wife is Laughing at you at your back ...

Shine your eyes ..

The children you train well will never abandon you.

Romance › Re: Daughter Graduation Day, Her Real Father Appeared After Another Man Took Care O by budaatum: 6:42pm On Dec 18, 2025

Deepspirituals:
Irrespective of the Narration
Well by and Large ,If I were to be the Girl , Naturally it would be a very Hard one for me to Accept the Reality of the Strange man I never knew from Birth .

I would go for the man that took care of me from Birth till Adulthood.

And this is what I would think most children in this situation would do.

In the very old days, a woman who did not get pregnant for her husband will test her virility with another man to see if the problem was from her. And the man will take another wife to check if he were the problem.

My own paternal grandmother was taken from her infertile husband, my granduncle, and was given to his brother, my paternal grandfather, after years of not conceiving. My grandfather was not happy of course, because he wanted to marry a younger beautiful girl but had to wait till he got his brother's, or rather, his now first wife, pregnant, but he never did like her. Thankfully, we've evolved and can now do dna.

The cuckooed man (that's what they used to be called, by the way, though it now means something else), in your narrative should not lament since this is the only child he has, and wouldn't have a child otherwise. It's one thing to donate the liquid men produce (I'm evading Seun's spambot here), and another to be a father.

Politics › Re: El Rufai Children Become Atheists & LGBTQ Activists by budaatum: 6:27pm On Dec 18, 2025

TruthHurts1:
Notably, both children currently reside abroad.

I guess this is the reason some should not let their children japa.

Because once they free themselves from the religious oppression of Nigeria and experience the freedom of thought in the West, there's no coming back. Or rather, that thing Nigerians call satan, gets them.

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Romance › Re: Daughter Graduation Day, Her Real Father Appeared After Another Man Took Care O by budaatum: 6:05pm On Dec 18, 2025

SPIRITUALIST, I have a question for you.

Who do you think the daughter would consider to be her real father out of the two men?

Do you think it would be the one "She Loved Him so Much as Her Father who took care of Her from Birth till she Graduated", or "The Original father wanted Her Daughter back during her 400 Levels?"

And to those reading. If you were this child, which of the two men would you consider to be your father?

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Foreign Affairs › Re: American Politics Thread: Trump Is The 47th President! by budaatum: 5:50pm On Dec 18, 2025

This, "wall not required" policy, reminds me of London Mayor Ken Livingstone's congestion charge.

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=z684nMeKR5c?si=5GR17kzeAJYja8P_

Foreign Affairs › Re: American Politics Thread: Trump Is The 47th President! by budaatum: 2:17pm On Dec 18, 2025

Evilthoughts:
Stop comparing your lazy sister to the rest of us. There is nowhere on this earth Nigerians haven't dominated because we can thrive under any situation. Your sister is lazy. What about the Nigerian doctors, care workers ,nurses and professionals in the same UK? 🗑

Why is that you mention the hard working Nigerians in UK like my sister and not those in Nigeria?

Do Nigerians become unlazy when they arrive in UK like my sister found out, or is the work culture just different and that's why even you recognise Nigerians work hard in UK?

One more question. A trick one if you may.

How do Nigerians dominate in Nigeria?

Romance › Re: Y Can't I Sleep??? by budaatum: 3:53am On Dec 18, 2025

I don't sleep well at night. Never did. My pre-teens was sticking my book out the window at night so I could read it with the light from the neighbour's better than us. No, not my school books, which was study 7pm-11, but novels, which my parents weren't keen on me reading because my favourite for a while had pictures on the front they disapproved of. They were by a guy who Chased H. James, if you get my drift, and 110 of them too, so I read when every one slept.

The noise from the better than me neighbour didn't help much with sleep neither, but my non-night sleep might have began in ma's womb. She was a nurse when I was conceived. Worked nights. And I think her not sleeping kept me awake too.

My first regular job didn't help. It was shifts, with lots of night, which was when my body was most awake, and I worked it for like 10 years.

Its all me though. I kind of rolled with me instead of reprogramming, and now I'm set in sleepless rocks. And since I now do my own earning when I want, there's been little incentive to change. Had to while studying though, and when I had a day job, but I do always, when I can, go back to non-night sleeping.

I'm saying all this because its night and I'm sleepless, and you might have been programmed like I am, and might just need to reprogramme yourself if you do want to sleep at night.

Foreign Affairs › Re: American Politics Thread: Trump Is The 47th President! by budaatum: 1:49am On Dec 18, 2025

feedthenation:
---FBI Deputy Director Dan Bongino says that he plans to leave the job next month in January---

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=718c9dE7Vqs?si=C4LbP3OwVNYx1FwQ

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