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Romance › Re: Women Don't Respect A Man They Are Not Afraid Of, Cheating is 90% by budaatum: 9:42am On Oct 23, 2022
kozmicity:
While the OP is totally clueless to think respect can only be gotten from fear, you should be careful that the scenario you painted in your head doesn't rile up your emotions into thinking that it's real. He might be trying too hard to fit into oversized shoes of blackpillers online while actuality he fancies unicorns, rainbows, cotton candy and teddybears. cheesy
Oh, I'm aware the op may just be talking. But if we don't strongly correct him, his talk might become him and his reality, especially if he's encouraged in his thinking.
Romance › Re: Women Don't Respect A Man They Are Not Afraid Of, Cheating is 90% by budaatum: 10:06pm On Oct 22, 2022
Every time I see this thread I see the op bullying his woman so she fears him while he thinks he's respected. He'd likely fùq her against her will and convince himself she enjoys being raped. And if he has children he'd beat them into submission and think their fear means he's respected. And all this makes me wonder if he fears his parents and thinks he respects them.

Below is how the ops video is described. As a "code of drug cartels and kingpins". And I'd add, terrorists and bullies.

Romance › Re: How My Relationship Ended After My Broke Lover Broke the Macbook I Purchased For by budaatum: 9:51pm On Oct 22, 2022

Romance › Re: How My Relationship Ended After My Broke Lover Broke the Macbook I Purchased For by budaatum: 9:48pm On Oct 22, 2022

Romance › Re: How My Relationship Ended After My Broke Lover Broke the Macbook I Purchased For by budaatum: 9:47pm On Oct 22, 2022

Romance › Re: How My Relationship Ended After My Broke Lover Broke the Macbook I Purchased For by budaatum: 9:43pm On Oct 22, 2022
thebosstrevor1:
I am not talking about having muscles.

As a man, as you grow you get more strength, physically you know you are stronger than a woman,
First, this is not about who is stronger. A person can be strong in their own right despite there being stronger humans.

And as I mentioned when you first suggested this, you have not met my mother with her no- physical strenghts, and nor have you met physically strong Nicola Adams who has trained a lot and can floor most men.

thebosstrevor1:
that is why women look up to men for protection, it is because they believe we have the power and strength for protection.
I bet you more women would look up to a man who is financially strong as opposed to one who is physically strong. Even men here complain that women are after their finances than their muscles, but if you wish to believe otherwise, be very welcome.

thebosstrevor1:
Non physical strength makes you smarter and not necessary strong. Women use non physical attributes to get what they want, men use their intimidation, non physical strength and sometimes violence to get what they want.
Do you not see how you keep referring to it as non-physical strenght?

If a person has a non-physical strenght, then that person is non-physically strong. They can be intellectually strong for instance, or creatively strong or emotionally strong, etc.

thebosstrevor1:
Strong in the right usage of the word is about have physical strength
That is obviously your own opinion. I have stated mine and presented numerous examples of non-physical things a person, both male and female, can be strong in and at, and it obviously differs to your's, and I am about to assert my non-physical strenght and let you be boss.
Romance › Re: How My Relationship Ended After My Broke Lover Broke the Macbook I Purchased For by budaatum: 9:30pm On Oct 22, 2022
thebosstrevor1:
I have already explained that non physical strength like you mentioned, makes a woman feminine.
According to your own opinion. Do note that a person can be feminine and strong at the same time.

thebosstrevor1:
And not every woman can have all the non physical strength ( qualities)
Nowhere did I suggest that every woman is strong! Just as there are many weak men, both physically and all other mentioned strenghts, so are there weak women, obviously.

thebosstrevor1:
It is impossible for a woman to have all the skills you mentioned.
No where did I suggest that a woman or a man can have all the skills I listed, and nor did I suggest that all women or all men can be strong in those skills.

A man or woman can have any one or combination of those skills listed, and if they develop them they can be strong in the skills that they have developed.
Romance › Re: How My Relationship Ended After My Broke Lover Broke the Macbook I Purchased For by budaatum: 9:08pm On Oct 22, 2022
thebosstrevor1:
I will say that some of those non physical strength you mentioned makes a woman feminine and attractive and not strong because in my opinion a woman being strong is not something that sounds attractive
Are you suggesting that emotional strenght is unattractive in a woman?

Are you suggesting that creative strenght is unattractive in a woman?

Are you suggesting that problem solving strenght is unattractive in a woman?

Or is it that you want to stick to your own definition of strenght and being strong regardless of all that I have offered.
Romance › Re: How My Relationship Ended After My Broke Lover Broke the Macbook I Purchased For by budaatum: 9:03pm On Oct 22, 2022
thebosstrevor1:
You talked about physical strength .......
You are going to have to point out where I "talked about physical strenght", boss, because my understanding is that I have done the exact opposite all along.

The link below is the first I gave as a suggestion of the strenght of a strong woman, and none of what I listed there requires physical strength.

https://www.nairaland.com/7387822/how-relationship-ended-after-broke#117680227

thebosstrevor1:
You have also mentioned about non physical strength like creativity etc. Of which it is not also a female dominated strength but something the general population might have or not.
I have mentioned non-physical strenght all along. And no where did I imply that any strenght is female dominated. My argument is simply that a woman can have strenghts and thereby be classified as being strong.

thebosstrevor1:
These non physical strength are not something you are not born with but something you learn from your experience, school, environment and parents.
Even physical strenghts are not something any one is born with! If I sit on my ass all day long and do nothing to build physical muscle I will be physically weak. And if I am a man and stupid enough to get into a fight with the woman in the image below, I must expect to be knocked out flat.

Strenghts are not a thing one is born with. Strenghts are things one must develop through learning and practise.

Foreign Affairs › Re: American Politics Thread: 2026 Midterm Elections Live! by budaatum: 8:41pm On Oct 22, 2022
basilico:
You have a comprehension problem?
Russia sponsors activists against fracking
Where does Q come in? Or its your usual way of deflecting when your postulations are proven to be stale and bereft of sense
That does not translate to, everyone who is against fracking has been sponsored by Russia!

I can object to fracking in my backyard without having received funding or information from Russia!

Or is that too complicated for you to comprehend?
Romance › Re: How My Relationship Ended After My Broke Lover Broke the Macbook I Purchased For by budaatum: 8:35pm On Oct 22, 2022
thebosstrevor1:
Lets get to the basic

What do you mean by a woman can be strong without a man?

What do you mean a woman can be strong?
Let us get to the basics first with what strength is.

Below is my offer. What's your's?

I have also included things one can be strong in.

Romance › Re: How Do We Protect Our Females by budaatum: 1:47pm On Oct 22, 2022
marlow1962:
Cool, but if you don’t provide for your daughter (no doubt she’s joining them). And if you let your daughter get mentored by a retired or active worker ( she go join them).
Train up your daughter(s) well, maka olosho no be job for them.
Ppl go into it for different financial reasons tho, I no they stigmatized ppl wer dy do am.
Do whatever makes you happy.

Politics › Re: National Debt: “stop Using Mercedes Benz And Lexus” — Tinubu To Nigerians by budaatum: 1:43pm On Oct 22, 2022
Pity he did not add foreign hospitals and schools to his do not use list.

Anyone know what cars drive him please?
Foreign Affairs › Re: American Politics Thread: 2026 Midterm Elections Live! by budaatum: 1:26pm On Oct 22, 2022
basilico:
Simply put. Twitter could be part of govt disinfo platform.
Social media has blacked out stories critical of govt , Zuckerberg admitted so well the other day.
The govt might not let Musk take control of one of their mouth pieces Saves him $44B l
The government would be very wrong if they stop Musk buying twitter. They must let him put his 44b where his mouth is.
Foreign Affairs › Re: American Politics Thread: 2026 Midterm Elections Live! by budaatum: 1:24pm On Oct 22, 2022
basilico:
Look at your shortsightedness.
Being a radical left should not close your mind to news/ideas you never heard of

Excerpt Long Read https://thecritic.co.uk/issues/december-2019/the-plot-against-fracking/
Brits don't need Russia to tell them not to want fracking in their backyard. They'd object to a simple dormer extension to their neighbour's house, so one wouldn't expect them not to object to fracking, but trust you to believe the Q version as opposed to reality as usual.
Foreign Affairs › Re: American Politics Thread: 2026 Midterm Elections Live! by budaatum: 12:44pm On Oct 22, 2022
basilico:
The discovered ones that is. They not said there are offshore shale deposits.
Activists like these ones are paid by the likes of Russia to prevent countries from getting their own oil. Activists have a very loud megaphone, supported by WEF which pushes climate change and build back better.
Whatever, bas. As for your "paid by Russia", you'd know this because you are the accountant general of Russia who is paying them or Q told you.
Foreign Affairs › Re: American Politics Thread: 2026 Midterm Elections Live! by budaatum:
basilico:
Can't tell sarcasm eh?
Lots of European football clubs are personal ME fiefdoms.

How about this for Saudis.. Q2 revenues for Aramco was 48B compared to Apple 19. Huge monies from these oil rich sovereign funds in Wall Street.

Why not blacklist them
Biden should come and blacklist European football clubs because Biden is President of Europe?

Biden should not blacklist Musk for any reason. Let Musk please buy twitter!
Food › Re: I Just Believed This Myth That Surrounds The Preparation Of Moimoi by budaatum:
Neptunium:
Single father, or widowers with two little kids won't ever cook for his kids? U know that's not true.
Of course that's not true, and that's why I never said "Single father, or widowers with two little kids won't ever cook for his kids". My own 'single' father after all cooked for his children and wiped their bums while his wife was away in residential nursing school, so why would I say what I know is not true?

As for that Nairaland poll, I'd love to see ignorant redpillers call men who cook simps.
Foreign Affairs › Re: American Politics Thread: 2026 Midterm Elections Live! by budaatum: 9:16pm On Oct 21, 2022
basilico:
Offshore shale deposits?
Not in UK.

Foreign Affairs › Re: American Politics Thread: 2026 Midterm Elections Live! by budaatum: 7:16pm On Oct 21, 2022
gambojimeta:
grin
Damn, you are cruel. grin

Go a little further and it becomes:

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Foreign Affairs › Re: American Politics Thread: 2026 Midterm Elections Live! by budaatum: 7:10pm On Oct 21, 2022
basilico:
Joe Biden admin may block sale of Twitter to Elon musk because of national security.
angry angry angry

Biden better not do such a dumb and stupid thing and save Musk from his folly.

Typical bas. Can you see the Saudi element that you conveniently left out?

Christianity Etc › Re: What If John 1:1 Was Put This Way? by budaatum: 7:05pm On Oct 21, 2022
elated177:
Don't confuse yourself, budaatum.
Don't confuse you, you mean.
Romance › Re: How My Relationship Ended After My Broke Lover Broke the Macbook I Purchased For by budaatum:
thebosstrevor1:
A strong woman compliments her man and makes him stronger, and he in return compliments her and makes her stronger, because his strength and her strength joined together makes them superpowerful.

the bolded is just a fairy tale quote, this is your idea of what you think a woman is supposed to be, in reality, it is different from what women are. btw, why does a strong woman needs a man to compliment her, so that she can be stronger?
No sir, I never said this is my idea of what a woman is supposed to be. For starts, I don't "suppose". And there's no way a woman who has not had the upbringing to be strong can be strong. And a woman does not need a man in order to be strong since she can be strong all by herself and without a man.

I am saying a woman can be strong, period. She can of course obviously be weak too, just as a man can be non-physically strong or weak too.

Romance › Re: How My Relationship Ended After My Broke Lover Broke the Macbook I Purchased For by budaatum: 6:58pm On Oct 21, 2022
Fahvvy:
@ thebosstrevor1 and budaatum

Interesting and mature conversation y'all are having up there...

Full of sense and no insults ...
((Thumbs up))

In my opinion, you're both correct, I think the reason why you two aren't seeing eye to eye on the matter is because of your definition of terms undecided...
I do not agree. Strength is not limited to physical. There are people who would even claim to have spiritual strenght. And even our "Interesting and mature conversation" is because of the strenght we both have in that regard.

We could both have been weak, and the result would be us being rude and uncivil to one another. But our strength does not allow that.
Romance › Re: How My Relationship Ended After My Broke Lover Broke the Macbook I Purchased For by budaatum: 6:54pm On Oct 21, 2022
thebosstrevor1:
now you have changed it to other form of strength even though I gave example of how being smart is more powerful than physical strength

btw being strong in the right sense is all about physical strength
That is very not true!

If you've followed the conversation you'd see I've never limited strenght to physical strenght.
Romance › Re: How My Relationship Ended After My Broke Lover Broke the Macbook I Purchased For by budaatum: 2:17pm On Oct 21, 2022
thebosstrevor1:
1. Being strong is about physical strength.
Are you saying you've never heard of emotional strength, or intellectual strength or Moral strength, to name but a few of the strengths there actually is?

Strength is not limited to physical, boss.

Foreign Affairs › Re: American Politics Thread: 2026 Midterm Elections Live! by budaatum: 2:01pm On Oct 21, 2022
Ibime:
Same Labour fought to keep coal mines open 4 decades ago
That's the hypocrisy of democratic politics for you.

If bashing babies head's at the bottom of a river could win a majority, some will campaign to bash babies head's at the bottom of a river for votes.
Foreign Affairs › Re: American Politics Thread: 2026 Midterm Elections Live! by budaatum: 1:56pm On Oct 21, 2022
Ibime:
Their wahala. What shall it profit to ban fracking in your own country and buy fracked oil from USA. Germany has immeasurable untapped oil and gas reserves if they allow fracking. Yet being held over a barrel for oil and gas. Anyway I found out the Tories won the vote and fracking wasn't banned. Each field should be considered on a case by case basis, not a foolish blanket ban. Same Labour fought to keep coal mines open 4 decades ago
Please read the above. I'm not going to allow fracking in my backyard just so you don't buy oil and gas from wherever.

If we want fracking, I'm very pleased to have it in your backyard so we don't have to buy from America and Russia. Just not in my backyard. It's called nimbyism. And we are nimbyists.

And fracking does not need to be banned. You can't get fracking past the existing planning laws as it is, and the ban was just Labour's added extra.
Foreign Affairs › Re: American Politics Thread: 2026 Midterm Elections Live! by budaatum: 1:52pm On Oct 21, 2022
benalvino3:
Or he is applying common sense like Zendi.

Are you petrified to see him say someone from the other side is right?

See how it works is:

They claimed Fossil fuel kills the planet.
They kill their own production,
Beg another nation to produce more fossil fuel
They dispense a butt load of CO2 transporting it.

I don't see the sense in that.
Ben, it's not about planet or CO2. People just do not want fracking in their backyard or their neighbourhood.
Foreign Affairs › Re: American Politics Thread: 2026 Midterm Elections Live! by budaatum: 11:40am On Oct 21, 2022
Ibime:
What happened with the fracking vote. I hope they allowed fracking. Zendi is right on this and Labour are wrong
Please say "zendi is right because you support what zendi supports".

It's not about Labour being wrong. 40 Tory MPs did not support it either. And they did not support it not because it's right or wrong, but because their voters don't want them to support it, and if they do support what their voters do not support they'd not get votes to stay in their lucrative jobs.

Allow fracking in your own backyard, basically, and not in someone else's.

Food › Re: I Just Believed This Myth That Surrounds The Preparation Of Moimoi by budaatum: 10:42am On Oct 21, 2022
Neptunium:
OP no say he makes moi moi every other week.

Let's normalize men cooking.

Him no need standing ovation for cooking for his family.

Loads of men have cooking YouTube pages, men cooking no be new thing.

Me and the rest of the males in my family can cook very well. My future family go enjoy my cooking wella. No big deal there
If we give you a standing ovation, accept it. We only give it you because we think you deserve it.

You very well know that loads of most men would not ever cook for their family even if they had bothered to let their mother teach them.
Food › Re: I Just Believed This Myth That Surrounds The Preparation Of Moimoi by budaatum: 10:38am On Oct 21, 2022
gloryhomemaker:
Nne nwanyi oma, if my husband cooks moi moi for me even once a month, chaiiiii, I know how to pay back.

Not buying moi moi ooooo. He selects the beans, peels off the back, grinds it, seasons it, cooks it for us now and again hmmmmm.
Through those processes for me means alot to me even though I can cook it myself.

We are not talking about egg and noodles here or Egusi soup, it's moi moi that requires lots of processes and patience.

They can't change me don't worry, I am well grounded, we have seen many days to yield to peer pressure or Nairaland pressure grin

Dalu rinne.
This is for you and others here like you.

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