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thebosstrevor1:
A man can do similar things as you mentioned and is called being A man

But when a woman does that, she is strong..to me it is called survival, it has nothing to do with being strong.

thebosstrevor1:
In regards to effeminate men, it is weakness, infact gentleness in today's world is weakness.

thebosstrevor1:
You don't have to admit it, it is not natural for a woman to be violent, if someone is violent towards her, she will expect you as a man or her husband to come protect or support her, even your mum do that.

thebosstrevor1:
The support of my dad towards my mum makes her more feminine in his eyes, it is the job of my dad to protect her and the children from outside danger, if my mum when she was single was acting like she doesn't need a man, i am sure, she would have been single today..

thebosstrevor1:
From observation, those women who claimed they are strong and dont need validation, are those who really need the most support and validation.

thebosstrevor1:
Another stuff is this, many widows need support either financially or emotionally, it is not easy for them to train up their children alone, that is why many of them are depressed, angry, and sometimes channel their frustration on their children and over pressurize them.

benalvino3:
States should decide and if the people don't like the laws of their state then they should vote lawmakers in and out.

benalvino3:
You don't have to fight this, you sound contradictory anytime you post.

benalvino3:
your opinion,

also your opinion

you are a confused person.

benalvino3:
Not everyone may feel the trauma, the person who illegally aborts the pregnancy will not feel the trauma. But the pain that the policy brought will be felt.

benalvino3:
You cannot abort anytime you like, you can't get pregnant.

benalvino3:
I am saying one moment you don't think they can abort anytime they like, and another moment you think they can do it anytime they like. Okay.

benalvino3:
But you argued they should not pass abortion law since they cannot police it.

benalvino3:
I understand you which is why I point out your contradictions.

benalvino3:
But the consequences are the policies you are holding a placard against, don't you see it? Keep your policies off my body you say... The policies are the consequences. You are a walking contradiction.

benalvino3:
We are talking about people who want to have abortions anytime they like. One moment you are supporting it, another moment you are against it and thanking the law that takes action against what you support. It's called a contradiction.

benalvino3:
You have also argued the law should be abolished because it cannot be enforced.

benalvino3:
One moment you are saying abortion laws should not be passed because it is not applicable, another moment you are saying, anyone who breaks the law will face the music, and another moment, keep your policies off my body, my body my choice, and another moment, you don't think women should be doing abortion after a certain period and another moment, they should do it whenever they want.

benalvino3:
You are talking to someone who has no direction, a living contradiction.

He is trying to be woke to impress the fake lawyer.

Look at his favorite image says keep your policies off my body.

He said thankfully the law will deal with her. Compare it to the first image.

Look at the last image. He does not believe in the nonsense he spreads. He is a living contradiction.

Epositive:
It seems most atheists gets to this point, eventually.

I get you. However "the other's spiritual life" might not matter in short-term relationship. I'm quite particular about long-term romance, say marriage, with a religious or spiritual partner. I would like to know if their belief turns out to be a stumbling block, going forward.

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hopefullandlord
budaatum

1stGenAmerican:
Did Trump tell you personally that he’d love to testify because he’s already started taking action to avoid testifying.

opera1:
So so painful........ I will try to unfollow the thread self because each time it pop up I do feel sad.

Reflect7:
The slave trade and what led up to it is far more complex than this toddler analogy.

To condense it, the 'trade' began by large ships armed with cannon arriving from Europe and berthing at little coastal villages in West Africa.

Yugoslavia247:
Wetin that guy eye see no be here. He was enduring And he found the more she spent the more he ordered him around.

thebosstrevor1:
Strong is a maculine trait

So saying a woman is strong in my opinion degrades her because its attributes manculine traits to her personality which in most case is unattractive.

It is also similar saying a man a behaves like a woman which effeminate him and makes him less attractive and weak.

thebosstrevor1:
I am yet to see a strong woman

thebosstrevor1:
Lol..

I am yet to see a strong woman.

Hismasterpiece:
Waiting to see what?

Reflect7:
Thanks for educating the kid. He still doesn't understand this world and how it operates.

engrchykae:
It's true that we played a part but it was compelled by greater military force of the colonialist

“He was not speaking on behalf of Christians or as the Chairman of CAN in Lagos.

LordReed:
Real time regression. What a pity.

Reflect7:
There is a lot you don't know. You know nothing about the slave trade and how it occurred. You've not studied or researched it in depth. You just typed ignorant rubbish off the top of your head, as in the subsequent 'points' you raised.

Are you even aware of the history of CIA and western intelligence linked assassinations and depositions of progressive African leaders of the 60s and 70s, which led to the rise of more compliant, pro-western, and corrupt leaders in the 80s, 90s, till today?

As for ''buying Tokunbos instead of making things for ourselves'', we have hundreds of factories across the nation manufacturing all sorts of things you know nothing about.

Why not become a manufacturer yourself instead of imagining ''we'' have a problem?

wirinet:
A people's God represents their inherent nature, aspirations and hopes. As these things change, so also the nature of their God's.

wirinet:
Christianity is marriage of the old Jewish religion with the Roman pagan religion. The old Jewish God (El, Yahweh, jehovah is a war, vengeful and clannish God, just like the Jewish people. He helped them win wars against their enemies. He also encouraged the murder of enemies and the raping of their young women. The God of the Christians, Jesus is a more pacifist God. His message was to help the Jewish people manage and cope with the brutal Roman occupation, that is before he was high-backed by the Romans for political reasons.

VULCAN:
You are.now backing out of an assertion you clearly implied.

thebosstrevor1:
Just a little question for you.

Where are we going to find that woman that does not need validation from anyone?

Cti28:
The person who told you so, lied to you. It is not just enough to believe in Christ, we must repent and turn away from our wicked ways.

We must take up our cross daily and follow Christ, dying daily to the old and vile nature we inherited
from Adam. Our life must comform to image of Christ. So that we could say it is no longer I who lives, but Christ that lives in me.

What make a person a Christian, is his or her comformity to Christ. Christ is the standard. Bearing a biblical name, going to church at every giving opportunity, praying with a loud voice etcetera, does not make one a Christian. It is the life of Christ in a person and the person been transformed into the same image as by the Holy Spirit.

Do you think Christ reaction will be as that of the woman in question?