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Ebenezer2021:
slowpoke

Poor you. Tinubu must have really caused you some serious pain.

drsibz66:
No human can ALWAYS be pleased with another human.There are always going to be times when you wont be happy with your partner, spouse or husband.. but resorting to withholding .....

Is mounting your main issue when either of us is not pleased with the other?

Man, will you let me mount you when you are not pleased with me?

Wouldn't we both want to mount each other and enjoy the mounting if we first resolve whatever it is that makes either of us withhold mounting?

Do you really love and care and respect me if we do not first resolve whatever it is that makes you want to mount when I am withholding?

And do you sincerely think you are in a healthy worthwhile marriage if I let you mount when I am displeased with you?

drsibz66:
Its like saying the man when he is not pleased with his wife ,therefore has the right to withdraw his responsibility to his family. PEACE

You have already withdrawn your responsibility to your family when you show no concern for the member of your family you want to mount without finding out why said family member is withholding!

And to be honest, I must ask myself why I married immature you to whom mounting means more to than whether I'm pleased or not.

I can just about imagine your mounting too. You'd climb on top of me and grunt a couple of times and come and be done in 5 minutes with no concern or consideration for my own coming or enjoyment.

Trust me husband, when I say I'd rather give you money to go mount olosho just so I can have peace!

Namaster:
Tinubu is trying to MURDER Nigerians!

Isn't it rather funny that the things you complain about Tinubu are the things that are making Obidient me want to start liking Tinubu, lol.

"First, he removed fuel subsidy", which pleases me because no where is it written that you must drive by government's sweat.

"Then, he FLOATED the Naira", thereby eliminating a parallel exchange where some get a preferred rate that most of us can not get.

And "NEXT year, the 5% SURCHARGE (read tax)", and indeed tax, and for fixing our rubbish roads and to deter us from importing made in tokunboh junk when we should be creating jobs by making in Nigeria.

But you see all this as murder, when I see it all as making us responsible.

You see, less than 30% of us Nigerians went out to vote at the last election, and less than 9 million elected the president while the rest of us sat on our asses at home and couldn't be bothered, but now moan when the elected president sticks his filthy fingers in our pockets and takes our hard earned money as tax he's not accounting to us.

These policies of his will wake us up to be more responsible when the next election comes so like 80% of us might get off our asses and bother to vote in someone we prefer. Or of course we can continue in our irresponsibility so Tinubu taxes us some more.

Tinubu might indeed be "trying to MURDER Nigerians", but the choice of dying is completely entirely ours!

omooba969:
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Why can't she prepare the man psychologically as well, by being more romantic. This is her matrimonial role...c'mmon na! 😡

This is where our society makes huge mistakes. It presumes gender roles and expects humans to fit in those roles like we are programed mindless beings, when the truth is, we live in an ever changing world where roles are not set in stone.

What would you expect my role to be, I wonder, when I'm home from the company I CEO because my parents invested loads in educating me so I can stand on my own two feet?

What sort of man do you think I'd be withholding mounting from and why?

And what do you think he'd do if I withhold mounting from him?

Teymanhenry:
You'll understand when he goes out to mount another woman. You can only use that against a broken husband... You are not happy with him and will allow him to mount you but will collect money when he hands it over to you right?

Please, go out to mount another woman, I'm not that concerned if that's your prefered solution to a night of mount withholding. Just know you sound no different to a child who throws tantrums because mummy didn't give you sweets.

And keep your money too. My parents trained me well enough so I can earn even more than you can dream of.

Winterhaven:
You probably didn't read the full article, you must have read only the heading

I did read the article. Its a very nice article that I mostly agree with, and is why its not quoted so my response is not assumed to contradict it.

The below is from the article. Read it and reread my response in that context while considering both parties are rational beings, and not that I'm just a selfish brainless woman, as some of my quotees have assumed, who ignorantly married a brainless selfish man, which is not my case.

Marriage operates on shared access, shared duty, and shared care. When one partner unilaterally shuts down a core pillar of the relationship without justification, the system breaks down.

Eagleways:
Byjust satisfy his or her urge and save us your wicked manipulative logics. If you respect him yourself, you should know that his urge in marriage is his right

I wonder what makes you think I'd respect anyone who can't respect me.

Jman06:
Sometimes I wonder how people enjoy sex without the full consent and participation of their partners. Before making love to your wives, guys, learn how to put her in the mood first. This may require prepping her psychologically by being more romantic prior and during the period

I'd add nice considerate you to my reverse harem if I were polyandrous!

MasterTeeUSA:
Applies both ways..sefini

Yes, indeed it should. You shouldn't want to mount me if I were not pleasing you outside the bedroom, like if I rude to you and didn't keep a clean house and body and mind.

DMCA:
if u are not pleased why stay?

Because you are not permanently useless, and because I know you have potential.

If you were permanently useless I wouldn't even have bothered being with you in the first place, and this discussion would not be happening.

I can't really understand why you'd want to mount me when I'm not pleased with you.

If you loved and respected me as you should, I'd want to mount you myself. But I guess you don't love nor respect me and just want to satisfy your urge despite my displeasure with you.

My advice? Use your hands!

Ile ọba to jo, ẹwa lo bu si

3 more characters needed

Let us appreciate dump for lowering the price of 'eggs'.

https://wolfstreet.com/2025/12/20/condo-prices-already-plunged-by-12-to-30-in-these-28-bigger-markets/

matify83:
Wow wow wow!

That was a powerful quote from Adam Smith's wealth of Nations.

Thanks for sharing

I feel you might appreciate the book even more, so here's a condensed free copy.

https://www.adamsmith.org/the-wealth-of-nations

His original is easily available too if you are inclined.

vaxx:
This cultural flexibility is precisely what has kept the Yoruba united for centuries despite religious diversity.

It is very sad that many abandon our culture of multiple gods and let some foreign god claim it is the only god.

Foreign gods should abandon their arrogance and come learn humility from us!

I am Yoruba, from Osun State!

matify83:
Stockholm syndrome.

And some people are shouting themselves hoarse that taxes especially company taxes does not cause inflation.

Our sense of entitlement makes us think Dangote should absorb government tax and not pass it on to us the consumers.

In fact, Dangote must just give us his produce for free because we are entitled to it for reasons I can't yet fully comprehend!

AngelahFlo:
Mr Budaatum it's good to read from you. Your views are anti scriptural I must admit not because the whites introduced us to the Bible but because this gospel is real. Adam was naked, yeah but he wasn't ashamed of his supposed unclothedness because .....

My views are simply anti-what-you've-been-told-to-believe, and like Adam, you are afraid to use your own mind for fear you might die. No insult intended.

If you think of it, Jesus would not ever tell anyone not to eat fruits of knowledge, and with some thought, it would not be odd to think Jesus himself feeds people with knowledge and even the fruits of trees of life. For how else is one supposed to live the eternal life he promised without eating fruits of trees of knowledge and of life?

But I don't expect you to agree with any of what I say, just like Adam did not see and was not aware not to talk of be ashamed of his unclothedness until Eve fed him fruits that open eyes so he may see.

Chivisee:
Shinedu go and listen to the wise elders close to you if you have any! A lot of Nigeria’s are making the country proud, everything is not leaders! How have you made your country proud?? What innovations/impact have you brought to your immediate environment, if any of this answer is zero then you need to start blaming yourself and people populating other country’s with drugs and claiming and deceiving people that they are hardworking while soiling the image of the Country! !

It is rather very annoying that many are so irresponsible and put all the blame for the state our nation is in on our leaders. Our irresponsibility goes so far that we even refuse to recognise we elected those leaders, either directly or by not bothering to vote at all!

But I guess we are that way because we have not yet suffered enough. When we have suffered enough and want to suffer no more, we'd see that we are responsible for our own suffering and that none but ourselves can free our minds, and then decide to emancipate ourselves from the mental slavery we enslave ourselves with and in.

May that time not be long in coming, prays I.

guobe:
Yes he just expressed the way a white man sees a black man from Africa.

What he has expressed is the way some white people might see a black person from Africa, and not recognising that is ignoring the numerous Chukwus married to Seuns.

guobe:
Also you can't compare tribalism to racism as a racist can go all length you can't imagine.

I think you don't know much about tribalism.

There is no difference in the ignorance and the hatred that breeds either.

https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Rwandan_genocide

Tenrack:
Leave wetin dey comot for him mouth and pay heed to wetin him dey do. That's all. You'll change your mind.

That might work for 12 year olds, but mature people watch both words and deeds.

I definitely would be worried if my sons listen to him, and moreso if my daughters do.

And there's some willing to pay subscription for the service seun is providing (sans his annoying spambot of course).

AngelahFlo:
The truth is we're going back to who we were before the Fall but it's not now.

I should hope we are not.

Before that supposed fall, Adam was a naked ignorant slave in the Garden of Eden until Eve fed him with knowledge that opened his eyes so he could be freed from slavery and become self employed and populate the earth and die 800 years after he supposedly fell.

I, for one, would not want fall back into being naked and ignorant and enslaved!

AngelahFlo:
Young man if you're saying that the created man and the formed man are two different entities then you must be really confused. The created man in Gen 1:26 and 27 and the formed man in Genesis 2 are one and the same.

No they are not the same entity and are very clearly not one and the same, since they were created on different days, were given different duties, and were told to eat different things!

If this were an English comprehension test, one question would be 'on what day was Adam created'? You'd fail if you said the sixth.

Tenrack:
Tate is disgusting how? Have you ever shared a room with the man? Dialogued with him? That man is a perfect gentleman. You should try and get to know him better.

Andrew Tate is not the sort of person I'd be in a room with considering what comes out of his mouth.


https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=EmKs_jsS5-w?si=tOE7XSqvXI7FLK4Q

AndroBlaze:
This last part of your post missed the point you already observed.

Your are 100% correct.

I wrote it and left it wondering if anyone would notice, which you've smartly done.

RuthAdesco:
Dear Santa,
🎁 it's six days to Christmas 🎄🎁🎄, the atmosphere is filled with happiness and the aura is very very strong.
Dear Santa, all I need is rice 🙏 and 1 chicken... You see me , you know me. Thank you for making this Christmas a memorable one for me and family.

I find it rather disturbing that you've waited six days to Christmas to write to Santa.

Are you not aware Santa does snailmail, and letters take a while to get to Lapland?

Some of us sent our letters immediately after last year's Christmas I'll have you know, but then we had to since we were requesting rice and chicken and dodo and playstation plus games and a nice wine for after the kids go to sleep.

You, sir, need to learn some serious proactivity!

Those denying genocide in Gaza are claiming there's genocide in Nigeria.

Robnectar:
BANK OF JAPAN WILL HIKE RATES BY 25 BPS ON DECEMBER 19.

JAPAN IS THE LARGEST HOLDER OF US GOVERNMENT DEBT.

THIS IS BAD NEWS FOR MARKETS...

We'd benefit from an explaination why its bad news.

The below is just a hypothesis, as in, I'm not presenting it as fact.

https://finance.yahoo.com/news/bitcoin-traders-brace-bank-japan-142537379.html


https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=dCkbF_4tDcU?si=vs3Q0eNrCLajdKPW

Chidollars1994:
everything is a joke to you guys

Not everything. But you not asking any questions of a man who walked into the compound looking exactly like your late father and then coming to tell us in a thread on Nairaland is worth a laugh.

Did you and your siblings and your mother not even greet this man and offer him water to drink and ask his name and where he was from and why he came to your compound?

What bad manners is that!