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Health › Re: Help: My Marriage Is About To Crashed by budaatum: 9:04pm On May 07, 2021
olabrinks:
Are you a woman or do you have a vagina? If my post does resonate with you, it’s not hard to read and ignore. Thanks.
Would you like to feel under my skirt to find out what's there?

If my response does not resonate with you take your own advice and read and ignore. Its not hard. But do not expect to generalise and expect to be ignored. Nairaland does not work that way.
Foreign Affairs › Re: American Politics Thread: Democrats Take Control Of Congress by budaatum: 8:58pm On May 07, 2021
benalvino2:
Budaatum this is Biden using the N-word

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=jbsAnHgN5ec
That is not "using the n-word". You can tell by how it does not fit in with what he is saying. Remember he stutters, and is old. Using will be when he is saying something with it in context, which he obviously isn't, except to those who want to make a big deal out of nothing. You should know that if taken to work tribunal in UK for what he said, there will be nothing to see here. Perhaps think of a person with tourette syndrome and you might understand how I and many see it.

As an anecdote, I was once managing a crew of 40 people when a Chinese Malaysian said n to a Nigerian in the heat of the moment (no similarity to Biden, note). The ChinaMalay had never been racist in the 4 years he'd worked for me and my initial response was to make out I had not heard but my crew were having none of it so I had to suspend him on the spot. He resigned before I could discipline him and I was very sad at losing an able member of staff.
Foreign Affairs › Re: American Politics Thread: Democrats Take Control Of Congress by budaatum: 8:39pm On May 07, 2021
benalvino2:
Bro some people don't understand. Our opinions will always be different but we should put knife at the back of anyone because they have different beliefs. He can criticize my belief like you do but bigotry is when he started saying you can't enter plane like he owns all the planes. The photo below are my cards. You will know what the are because you live on the UK. I av HSBC debit card, Lloyd's TSB card, klint hostel card, Game, and oyster and one is my office ID where I was working at Westfield mall.

PrideofLincoln1 is just sad
You will note how selective I am in whom and what posts I respond to. Na me pay for my data and na me get my mouth, and if I can not respect myself I should not expect to be respected, at least not by people with brains and the ability to use it.

See my hypocrisy 'here'.
Health › Re: Help: My Marriage Is About To Crashed by budaatum: 8:23pm On May 07, 2021
olabrinks:
Women, specifically married women/women in relationships, please am I the only one who doesn’t get satisfaction from penetration? Am I the only one who feels nothing when having sex? Because honestly sex feels like a chore with my husband especially now after giving birth. I’m just so over it, on top of the fact I’m not physically attracted to him anymore and his hygiene is not up to my standard. I’m just frustrated.
You should talk about yourself instead of generalising because lots of "Women, specifically married women/women in relationships" will come and inform you they do not share your problem.

So which is it? You don't get satisfaction from penetration, or you feel nothing when having sex, or sex is like a chore with your husband, or you are just so over it, or not physically attracted to him anymore, or his hygiene is not up to you standard, or you are just frustrated? They all are different problems with different solutions.

You can bath your husband for instance as part of non-penetrative sex, or both go to sex school to learn to make sex not a chore, or go exercise to make yourselves physically attractive on stop having sex etc. It's after all not compulsory like breathing air is.
Foreign Affairs › Re: American Politics Thread: Democrats Take Control Of Congress by budaatum: 8:03pm On May 07, 2021
benalvino2:
I love my country Nigeria. Even if it's a mess I love it.
Me too! In fact, love for my country is the reason I spend so much time in this thread, first because its the same mentality we Nigerians show here that affects our country Nigeria, and secondly despite a lot of differences between Nigeria and USA there are lots of similarities.

Take race, for instance. The 3 major religions in Nigeria mirror the racial divide (blacks, whites, indigenous), in America to a t, as well as the religious divide. The various tribes (historically British, Irish, Italian, German etc) in America mirror the various tribes in Nigeria. Even the selfishness of individualism is similar to that of Nigeria.

Its like studying America informs one of the problems of Nigeria, but that applies to studying just about anywhere to be honest.
Family › Re: Do Women Still Bear Their Husbands' Names After A Divorce? by budaatum: 7:49pm On May 07, 2021
Klass99:
Lol grin are you deliberately being thick headed with this question?

Saphiere how old are you?
I am not laughing, it just needs to be asked.

Klass99 how old are you?
Health › Re: Help: My Marriage Is About To Crashed by budaatum: 7:45pm On May 07, 2021
Oyinlomobambam:
Thanks a lot for this
You are indeed sweet like your name.
I really wish you luck.
Politics › Re: Ghanaians Ask Nigerian Retailers To Leave Their Country by budaatum: 7:41pm On May 07, 2021
valentineuwakwe:
When will our leaders make our country better. .
When will we Nigerians become responsible and lead ourselves to make our country better instead of asking some other to lead us?!

Are we not aware that leadership starts first inside our own individual selves, then in our individual homes, then on the streets we live on, then communities we live in, then our society before country?

Can a leader lead my mouth if I can't lead my own mouth myself?

This is why I speak to them in parables", a very wise man once said, so that those who have mouths will see that what I lack is not taken away from me!
Health › Re: Help: My Marriage Is About To Crashed by budaatum:
Oyinlomobambam:
I noticed this a lot, she doesn't care of my female friends. And do say one thing... If you're cheating I don't care since you don't bring them home.

And again, please whats FGM?
I'm afraid the fact that she does not care if you are cheating says she's not invested in solving your sexual problems. You should let her know how it affects your relationship with her and how cheating will affect your relationship even more especially if the person you are cheating with gives you what she isn't. That said, some women for various reasons do not mind their man having a second wife. Maybe she won't mind or might even prefer it, but you are going to have to be very mature to be 'married' to two wives or much damage may be done to both your families.

Female Genital Mutilation comprises all procedures involving the removal of the external female Instruments or other injury to the female genital organs for non-medical reasons. Most often, FGM is practiced on girls and young women under 18. FGM is not prescribed by any religion and has no health benefits. On the contrary the practice can cause life-lasting physical and psychological trauma.

200 million girls and women alive today have undergone FGM. At current rates, an additional estimated 68 million girls face being cut by 2030.
Foreign Affairs › Re: American Politics Thread: Democrats Take Control Of Congress by budaatum: 7:07pm On May 07, 2021
Health › Re: Help: My Marriage Is About To Crashed by budaatum: 7:04pm On May 07, 2021
Oyinlomobambam:
Aside sex, nothing we no dey do.

Friends and family have called me different name cos of her love...

Some ever said it to her face.

We only have sex to make Babies
Some women are like that, and there can be many reasons. One I've heard of is FGM. Women don't talk about it, and some don't even know it was done to them but it makes sex uncomfortable, which is why communication is important, especially for we Africans where sex talk is practically taboo.

Your wife should know your needs, and you should know hers. I'd ask you to consider therapy, but you'd really need to be advanced to not seek it from a mog, and after so long of being married, it might be difficult to even bring it up. But to save your marriage, everything must be on the cards. You never know, she might not mind or even prefer you go get your sex elsewhere, though that's hopefully last on both your cards.
Foreign Affairs › Re: American Politics Thread: Democrats Take Control Of Congress by budaatum: 6:55pm On May 07, 2021
basilico:
The team that brought a vaccine to fruition if you can understand.Led by Dr Faucci.
Japs wanted to put out the US Naval by attacking Pearl Harbor.
What did they gain A consistent loss in the war in the West.Leading to Fat Boy and Enola Gay on their doorstep. Very misinformed statement.
Try another .India has acovid problem. Same strain. Why did Joe ban use of Chinese virus but now we have an Indian variant.
Joe did not ban use of "Chinese virus"! It was Joe in fact who imported Chinese virus into America! He brought it in through Pearl Harbour just before 08:00 on Sunday morning, December 7, 1941 without informing Dr Fauci because there was more profit in the Chinese virus than there was to be made in the Indian variant. Just that now the Indian variant is preferred because it is killing more people who are needed to be raised from the dead to vote for Biden, or Harris, in the next presidential election

Thank God for drumpft for draining the swamp and revealing what was hidden for almost 70 years! The audit in Arizona will release the kraken so everyone can finally see.
Foreign Affairs › Re: American Politics Thread: Democrats Take Control Of Congress by budaatum: 6:44pm On May 07, 2021
basilico:
I prefer the peace my fish in the aquarium give me.
This hell hole can be junky.
I have been reading the numerous threads you open about your fish in your aquarium. They are all very very interesting indeed, and peaceful.
Politics › Re: Ghanaians Ask Nigerian Retailers To Leave Their Country by budaatum: 6:40pm On May 07, 2021
IGBOSON1:
Will you shut da hell up with this your constant banging on about IPOB and ESN!? For a people you hate, and for a organisation you say is ineffective and audio, you spend an awful lot of your time online obsessing about them! Jeez!!! huh
You see what I mean? Why would Ghana want people who are "constant banging on about IPOB and ESN" and Fulani and my brown roof coming to constant bang on in their Ghana? Or does anyone want to argue that as many do at home is not how they will be doing in Ghana?

When una fix yourselves finish please come to my Ghana, is what I would tell such people. In the meantime, please stay in your self named zoo until you evolve from behaving as animals!
Health › Re: Help: My Marriage Is About To Crashed by budaatum: 6:31pm On May 07, 2021
Oyinlomobambam:
Anything to safe the marriage is welcome
Forget sex for a while. Not fuqing will not kill you.

Find other things to do with your partner like help out in the kitchen and house cleaning, sit with her to watch her favourite tv program, educate your children if you got any. Basically, do things that matter to her and that the redpills will call you a simp for doing. And find ways to improve yourself like exercise and reading books.

If your wife feels you care and she is loved and that you love yourself she likely will care and love herself and you in return, but if you behave like those redpillers do, well............
Foreign Affairs › Re: American Politics Thread: Democrats Take Control Of Congress by budaatum: 6:11pm On May 07, 2021
basilico:
You wrong. I dont believe in Q. The kraken will be out if that satellite does not land on the audit Arizona hall.
I have no social media accounts like Gab, Parler ,fakebook etc.
I live a hermit life
You should get "social media accounts like Gab, Parler, fakebook etc." That way, when you post kraken from "social media accounts like Gab, Parler, fakebook etc", you'd at least know it originated from Q.
Health › Re: Help: My Marriage Is About To Crashed by budaatum: 6:02pm On May 07, 2021
Oyinlomobambam:
Am here to learn and get helped
That is commendable. You are being responsible.

Sex is a form/means of communication. If you can't communicate verbally you'd find it difficult to communicate sexually. I'm going to have to leave you however for those more qualified than I am because my own advise would harshly start with a 3-6 month moratorium on sex while you learn to communicate verbally with your partner about other things unrelated to sex.

Good luck. You've started well.
Politics › Re: Ghanaians Ask Nigerian Retailers To Leave Their Country by budaatum: 5:50pm On May 07, 2021
I do not think I would want people who call their own country a zoo to come to my country, to be honest.

First, if they call their own country a zoo the people must be animals even if they do not know it, and animals, wild ones especially, should remain in their cage and not come to my own country to turn it into a zoo like they did to their own country.

Besides, if those who call their own country a zoo are constantly attacking each other from different tribes, will they not come to my own country and be attacking my different to them country people?

Yes, if I was Ghanaian I will want irresponsible animals to stay in their zoo and not come and turn my Ghana into a zoo like they irresponsibly do to their own country Nigeria without ever admitting responsiblity, so I will not ask you to go back to your zoo, I will hunt animal down, put animal in a cage, and fly animal back to its zoo where animal belongs!

Thankfully, not all Nigerians call my country Nigeria a zoo.
Health › Re: Help: My Marriage Is About To Crashed by budaatum: 5:39pm On May 07, 2021
Perhaps you are doing it wrong. If you make her enjoy it she might want you, so go school to learn to do it better.
Politics › Re: Oshodi Bus Station Vs Anambra International Airport Terminal Building -photo by budaatum: 5:36pm On May 07, 2021
igboboy775:
shame no go gree you post Osun state airport abi? grin grin grin

www.nairaland.com/attachments/13502408_theterminalbuildingyettobecompleted678x381_jpegdd0a242ad55618e3483637a4184f795a
This is my state. I don't think aeroplane has ever landed there, but if anyone books Anywhere-Osun, please let me know.
Foreign Affairs › Re: American Politics Thread: Democrats Take Control Of Congress by budaatum: 5:31pm On May 07, 2021
basilico:
I heard that a Chinese satellite has left orbital space and ploughing back at 18000 miles to earth.
Might land at the Arizona where the audit is taking place.
You heard? Whao, you good! That is supposed to be a secret so the auditors don't find the 40000 people hiding in the bamboo!

It was Harris who negotiated with China to blow up satellite in Arizona and blame Russia, which is why Nato is currently doing exercise next door. The intention is to intimidate Russia into admitting responsibility for supporting proud boys then get trump to pay China for the satellite and the bamboo or they will just maralago his maga! But I'm informed mitch has deployed the kraken to save Arizona.

We shall see what is decided in due time.
Foreign Affairs › Re: American Politics Thread: Democrats Take Control Of Congress by budaatum: 5:20pm On May 07, 2021
basilico:
The worst attack ever was some white supremacists walking peacefully in the capitol after
They were let in after
Pelosi refused to have National Guard deployed Hey you know there are more troops surrounding the Capitol than in Afghanistan

Please show me a story where Blm thugs eho rioted for 100 days have been jailed or least held in solitary confinement
You should ask for the story where blm are killing people with nuclear bomb that media is hiding from you. Google it. You will find in the video that Pelosi was leading and Biden was given them medals.
Foreign Affairs › Re: American Politics Thread: Democrats Take Control Of Congress by budaatum: 4:53pm On May 07, 2021
benalvino2:
he used it. You can find it yourself
He did not "use it"! You know he did not " use it", and that's why you can't post evidence of him using it!
Foreign Affairs › Re: American Politics Thread: Democrats Take Control Of Congress by budaatum: 4:51pm On May 07, 2021
basilico:
And these BLM had AR15 and AK47 scaring other drivers, smashing windscreens , flattening tires and cocking guns dangerously. Not one was arrested.
Tell me about it. BLM are even killing police with nuclear bombs I am told, and are getting medals for it from Biden!
Health › Re: US Court Ruled Hospital Must Use IVERMECTIN On Covid-19 Patient Glenna Sue Dicki by budaatum: 4:48pm On May 07, 2021
rottennaija:
Your information is worthless. Real doctors are using ivermectin to save lives. People that had no hope and they are telling their stories. Who are approving for trial all sort of experimental drugs that does not work but refuses to approve ivermectin for trial.

Covid19 vaccines are causing rare blood cloths that are killing people but the Western Media pretends those things are no happening or refuses to acknowledge it. If it where the chinese vaccines or Russians, it would be all over CNN
Worthless to you. I found it worthy and think others might too.

I do not think the only media is Western. They do not control India and Brazil nor Nigeria media, nor can western media or authorities stop those countries from using any drug they want to use just as they could not stop you giving it to your own patients!
Health › Re: US Court Ruled Hospital Must Use IVERMECTIN On Covid-19 Patient Glenna Sue Dicki by budaatum: 4:43pm On May 07, 2021
rottennaija:
Personally, I have seen ivermectin work on people. They had symptoms that won't go away, high fever, sore throat, headache. They spent money in the hospital which didn't give any relief. I gave them ivermectin and they started feeling better within hours.
I don't know why I think it is related to prazequantal that saved my life, but I doubt its a cure all drug.

We shall see when the result of tests are published.
Foreign Affairs › Re: American Politics Thread: Democrats Take Control Of Congress by budaatum: 10:13am On May 07, 2021
basilico:
The audit is not releasing any info on their progress. Someone leaked that they were looking at 40000 votes purportedly printed in East Asia.
As usual you only heard about bamboo

You heard about possibly illegal numbers of ballots? 40000.
That scares democrats
I heard 40000 Democrats are cowering in fear on the streets. They are very scared indeed.
Health › Re: US Court Ruled Hospital Must Use IVERMECTIN On Covid-19 Patient Glenna Sue Dicki by budaatum: 10:06am On May 07, 2021
rottennaija:
What does your update say? That ivermectin does not work?
My updates? I'm not performing tests of my own so can't exactly have updates. That's why I'm waiting for updates from those more qualified than I and only posted information.
Culture › Re: Insecurity: Oyo Monarch Warns Residents Against Selling Land To ‘foreigners’ by budaatum: 8:49am On May 07, 2021
Baawaa:
They can sell to foreigners but not destroyers
A destroyer will not buy land in a community they want to destroy or the value of the land they bought will be destroyed.

That said, there are some who are so ignorant they will cut off their own nose to spite their own face.
Culture › Re: Insecurity: Oyo Monarch Warns Residents Against Selling Land To ‘foreigners’ by budaatum: 8:37am On May 07, 2021
When Iseyin does not develop now some people will say sai bubu.

But I trust Iseyin people. When foreigner come with plenty money they will wisely say ọmọ wa ni and give Aseyin him cut.
Health › Re: US Court Ruled Hospital Must Use IVERMECTIN On Covid-19 Patient Glenna Sue Dicki by budaatum: 8:26am On May 07, 2021
Judges playing doctor? I'd be interested in updates.

https://www.covid19treatmentguidelines.nih.gov/antiviral-therapy/ivermectin

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