Politics › Re: Re: Army Shuns Southern Officers, Deploy Northern Commanders To South-east by BuddhaPalm(m): 8:48pm On May 10, 2021 |
Wait, why is there Arabic on the Nigeria Army logo? |
Romance › Re: Reasons Igbo Women Prefer Fulani Men To Igbo Men by BuddhaPalm(m): 4:02pm On May 10, 2021 |
Lol |
Politics › Re: State Police Will Not Work In Nigeria - Senator Chimaroke Nnamani by BuddhaPalm(m): 3:56pm On May 10, 2021 |
Igbochief001: State police is very very necessary
If u fear state governors control why not have federal police but every body posted to his state of origin ...simple
Bringing a yoruba man to police kano would never work Bringing hausas man to police imo would never work simple
Let people police themselves I don't think it's a tribal thing. James Nwafor is an Igbo man. The primary issue with this corruption and lack of accountability. If a policeman fvcks up, he gets transferred to another part of the country. And the matter just dies like that. We are also not very organized. So a large bureaucracy is almost impossible for us to run efficiently. |
Business › Re: Bill Gates And Jeffrey Epstein's 2019 Meeting Reason For His Divorce by BuddhaPalm(m): 2:10pm On May 10, 2021*. Modified: 3:22pm On May 10, 2021 |
Ahmed0336: Whites with principles.
If Na naija woman, the motto is "we die here" I can assure you, there are no principles involved here. Women do not like being blamed for their actions. This is a PR stunt to make Bill Gates the bad guy for a divorce she initiated. |
Romance › Re: The Disadvantages Of Having A Baby Mama. by BuddhaPalm(m): 11:04am On May 09, 2021 |
ogbonti: Abeg no mind the OP my brother. Who says marriage provides comfort, happiness and long life in all circumstances? Nah it doesn’t folks.
1. Some married guys here in America that I know don’t even get regular s ex from their wife anymore because they feel they got the man is caged already and if he leaves her, (divorce) - then financial calamity will befall him with regards to alimony, child support, splitting the estate and other drag on here and there.
2. The nagging too na helele. I have had one or two friends just before the pandemic who were almost living with me - they come in on Friday and leave on Sunday just to escape an irritating and over entitled wife from running up their blood pressure unending. You need to see the excitement on their faces when they arrive my place for the weekend and my wife initially didn’t understand why these guys were doing this but with time she got the picture, and she even validated my conclusion about the awkward complacencies most women display after securing the marriage vow from a man - “for better for worse - love and to cherish, till death do us part..... bla bla bla”
3. There is a reason some companies here in America and even in Nigeria seldom hire permanent staff. They hire on contract basis. Now, I know someone may say what’s the difference if both contract and permanent staff can both be fired. However, it is harder to fire a permanent staff without incurring legal and financial liabilities. Same with marriage, when you tie yourself up with legal complexities just to cling to one individual for life, then you must be ready to go through the headache to untangle yourself when things go sour, and it surely will over time - because every man has his price and every dog has it’s day!
4. It takes 2 people in agreement to get married, but it takes the consent of just 1 of the 2 to destroy everything. Any human being can change, over time - because change is the only constant thing in life - and every human being is a sucker for one or multiple things not life - only known to that individual.
For a man - some of us can not resist a very beautiful woman and brilliant woman. Now, when she is the one initiating flirts with you, it becomes a level playing field between her and your wife for the battle for your love, affection and attention. If the beautiful woman respects you, cooks good for you and doesn’t nag you as a side chic, then your wife is in for a real fight going forward because every man appreciates peace of mind and sweet food. If she is good in bed and your wife over time has become a boring, entitled and nagging sister at home, then calamity has come knocking on the marriage and a divorce is imminent.
Same for the woman, if she is a sucker for money, sweet talks, material things and good looks, but somehow got married because her biological clock was ticking and she is getting pressured at home to get married by her parents - then whatever is available (which is you becomes her dream man at that period) . However, when all dust settles and she is no longer on the edge about her biological clock because she now has a kid or 2, and a man who she exploits financially in a marriage, she is now in a vantage position to use positive screeners to find that which her mind truly yearns for and whenever she finds it and that person is a willing collaborator, she will turn 360 degrees against you. You will keep wondering what has gone wrong? Nothing went wrong foolish husband- your wife has been dealing with you as an alternative to her real dream man. Now she has found him and she sees you as a mistake she urgently needs to correct.
5. Money, power or fame or spiritual superiority can’t tame any partner in a marriage. We have seen that with Bill Gates, Micheal Jordan, Brad Pitt, Chris Okotie, Chris Oyakhilome and even Aso Rock’s own Aisha Buhari here in Nigeria where she feels very comfortable staying away from her husband in Dubai for half a year. So what are we not talking about ?
6. I honestly don’t believe a man will ever stay with one woman and not stray for maximum one year and I don’t believe a woman can be committed to one man and not stray for 2 years. If she is not straying then she must be an ugly and irritating sit-at-home-all-day lady that nobody wants. IF if he is not straying, he must be a dirt poor loner who lacks basic confidence to initiate and hold a conversation with a lady for even 30 minutes.
With all these being said, baby mama comes from the freedom it affords both parties (the man and the woman) to stop breathing on each other’s neck and give each other the space and opportunity to keep excelling without the suffocating complexities of an irritating spouse
And who says products from a baby mama can’t be great? Barack Obama is one, and he is one the greatest black men to ever walk on the surface of the earth and a role model to hundreds of millions of people world wide. I know someone will say but his father married his mother - yes, they did just to take pictures lol, because the father was off before Barack even turned 3 years old and since then his (now late) mom and her family took care of him
So, OP stop propagating neediness, insecurity and lack of capacity for adults to stand their ground and hold on to face the vicissitudes of life because you want them to desperately cling to another human to bail them out with pity parties when life throws them a curve? nah- Instead I will encourage everyone to get on their A game and enjoy their life, independent of any other human being’s perpetual manipulation and psychological slavery.
As for kids born out of wedlock, they will be fine. A baby daddy can support the welfare of the kid as the spirit leads him because even kids you raise in a marriage sometimes will turn against the you their father and give priority to the mom when they grow up because right under your nose, the indoctrination was taking place whenever you are away to work and you didn’t even realize it
So baby mama or marriage is ok for anyone- it all depends on what you are comfortable with
I rest my case!!! I can't gild the lily. Oga... |
Romance › Re: The Disadvantages Of Having A Baby Mama. by BuddhaPalm(m): 10:49am On May 09, 2021 |
Michelle55: Where are the team baby mama's? We are waiting for the advantages of having a baby mama, let me grab a seat and wait. Many marriages end after a few short years. And every single thing he listed there can happen to the "married man". Ubi Franklin's marriage for example. Gbenro Ajibade's too. |
Politics › Re: EndSARS: Witness Plays Video That Claims Army Shot Protesters At Lekki Toll Gate by BuddhaPalm(m): 8:16pm On May 08, 2021 |
ceejayluv: Channels TV has removed the content from YouTube. Anyone who has downloaded it should please spread it via Twitter. Still there. But you have to click to watch it on YouTube. |
Politics › Re: Throwback Video Of Mbaka Hailing Buhari With Adorable Names by BuddhaPalm(m): 2:19pm On May 08, 2021 |
Righteousness2: The summary of the whole thing is " Once I was Blind, Now I can see"
Well he said God revealed all that to him. God can't be blind. |
Politics › Re: Rivers Police Commissioner, Eboka Friday Confirms The Killing Of Seven Policemen by BuddhaPalm(m): 1:31pm On May 08, 2021 |
FarahAideed: Trust me anybody that kills policemen is not your friend...When he is done killing them he will oppress you with anarchy ...Avoid Anarchist True sha. I watched a video on Twitter of the UGM gunmen snatching the vehicles they used in the ill-fated Orlu attack. I'm sure very soon they'll impose levies/taxes, and then enforce the collection. My biggest fear is that the East will become militarized eventually. They'll just sew uniforms for all those almajiris in the north, hand them AK47s and deploy them to the East. And these folks won't know anything about code of conduct, or rules of engagement. I hope those engineering this violence have plans beyond this that doesn't boil down to attrition on both sides...because they are plenty, and want to go to paradise. |
Politics › Re: The Amaechi Memo To Buhari That Led To Hadiza Usman's Suspension As NPA Boss by BuddhaPalm(m): 7:47am On May 08, 2021 |
drealcivilceno: What is 160millarNGN? Amaechi don turn born again overnight, a bi? Oga na billion. |
Politics › Re: Nigerian Army Reacts To Foiled Attack On Imo Police Area Command by BuddhaPalm(m): 8:23pm On May 07, 2021 |
The assailants who have been on the radar of the Joint Technical Intelligence Team were said to have come from a Forest Camp in Ideato North LGA of Imo State from where they mobilised and planned the failed attack. They were waiting for them... |
Business › Re: Melinda Gates Is Now A Billionaire, After A Stock Transfer From Her Ex Husband by BuddhaPalm(m): 8:15pm On May 07, 2021 |
baralatie: Melinda met bill gates when he was worth $12 billion . He is now worth $130 billion She and him built the largest and most effective foundation in the world worth $50 billion of which she(melinda) spent 6 years to build. They have 3 kids and they are now grown. Bill and melinda found themselves in a new phase of their marital life journey.what did melinda get under $3 billion. Now compare melinda with bezos ex wife.bezos ex wife literally went with #30 billion out of how much $150 billion. Now melinda and bill will continue to work in bill and melinda gates foundation (and they will not reconcile?) They way I see bill may form ex but he will not leave melinda for this good heart of gesture towards him from his wife For where... That woman go cash out upwards of $50B. She just collect pocket money first. |
Politics › Re: Why Biafra Sit-at-home Day Was Moved To May 31 —IPOB by BuddhaPalm(m): 11:31am On May 07, 2021 |
Northernblood3: IPOB is too intelligent. I wonder why Britain lumped smart set of people with Idiots.
If you are a Biafran and decide not to follow the directive, You deserve to Die painfully and forgotten so that your Children or loved ones will know how it feels to be forgotten. Convert to Islam or die = terrorism. Your statement above = terrorism. Hope Biafra doesn't become from the frying pan into the fire. |
Politics › Re: Police Repel Attack, Kill 8 Unknown Gunmen In Imo State (Graphic Pics) by BuddhaPalm(m): 10:01am On May 07, 2021 |
Mayng01: He disclosed that the police divisional headquarters was not razed neither did any security officer killed in the attack. Are you sure of the above? It appears they got them while still in their cars. They were likely waiting for them. |
Politics › Re: Electronic-Voting: The Best Type Of Election Suitable For Nigeria And Nigerians by BuddhaPalm(m): 6:07am On May 07, 2021 |
BluntCrazeMan: For those that would be saying that Hackers would hack the servers and change the results,,, I want to know why those hackers have not hacked the Banks servers all these while, or you think those hackers don't need money? That means, it is only the votes (and maybe perhaps, only the Election Results) that they are interested in?? (as if it concerns them sef) .. .. "Those who vote decide nothing. Those who count the vote decide everything"--- Joseph Stalin (purported) 68% of US Republicans believe the 2020 election was rigged: https://www.reuters.com/article/us-usa-election-poll/half-of-republicans-say-biden-won-because-of-a-rigged-election-reuters-ipsos-poll-idUSKBN27Y1AJThe issue is not hackers, but the ease with which those in power or access can tip the system in whatever direction they want. Nigerian banks rob us blind everyday because they can. Remember the illegal deductions case between GTB and that Innoson guy. In 2009, Zenith Bank made 100s of N200 deductions from my account labelled "Up Country Transfer". Only God knows what that means. At the centre of the US election rigging allegations is a company called Dominion Voting Systems. The accusation is that they flipped Trump's votes to Biden. Paper ballots leave a physical trail that can be easily audited. With remote electronic voting, all those separate tabulations at polling units, with all party observers present is no longer the case. And one admin can add millions of phantom votes in a minute. To rig a paper ballots election, you have to forge millions of ballots...makes it easier for you to be caught. And btw, banks get hacked all the time...In 2016 suspected North Korean hackers hacked the Bangladeshi Central bank and initiated transfers if almost $1B from the Federal Reserve Bank of New York. Spelling errors caused the bulk of the transactions to be flagged, but they successfully cashed out over $60m. And there has been many many other successful bank hacks. |
Family › Re: Am I A Failure? Please Rate Me. by BuddhaPalm(m): 6:03pm On May 05, 2021 |
Consider skills that involve sitting in front of a computer. |
European Football (EPL, UEFA, La Liga) › Re: Chelsea Vs Real Madrid UCL (2 -0) On 5th May 2021 by BuddhaPalm(m): 5:02pm On May 05, 2021 |
ihustler: Real v Man City
REAL WINS Real will win the ESL this year. Rooting for Chelsea, but City means business. |
Properties › Re: Landlord Or Landlady, Which Of These Do You Prefer To Rent Their Houses?? by BuddhaPalm(m): 5:40pm On May 04, 2021 |
Billionsclub: if you were to rent a house, would you prefer the house where Landlord is or where Landlady is? Which is better? give reasons None. |
Business › Re: Melinda Gates Filed For Divorce, Couple Has Been Separated Before The Divorce by BuddhaPalm(m): 12:25pm On May 04, 2021 |
iammo: They really tried, 27 years with all that money, and they stayed faithful How do you know? |
Politics › Re: Amaechi: I Never Said Government Has Been Printing Money Since 2015 by BuddhaPalm(m): 12:10pm On May 04, 2021 |
It's Photoshop. |
Programming › Re: Facebook Is Suing Me For This by BuddhaPalm(m): 9:37am On May 04, 2021 |
This is just intimidation.
Tell them you can sell your business to them, but don't make it sound like extortion.
Involve a lawyer sha. |
Business › Re: Bill Gates And Melinda Gates Divorce After 27 years by BuddhaPalm(m): 10:30pm On May 03, 2021 |
Rocktation: So Nigerian boys can start allowing Nigerian girls to hear word... Why? She's about to cash out big time. |
Romance › Re: Have You Ever Dated Someone Whose Status Is Above Yours? by BuddhaPalm(m): 6:59pm On May 03, 2021 |
Jomoinc: My major issue now is how to ask him to leave. I have lost and I ain’t scared of loosing. I can always start all over but if I ask him to leave, where will he go from here? How does he feed? How ll he survive? Am so pained but at same time, guilt feelings of doing the needful. He feels he so smart so I ve mastered the act of fooling fools to be the fool they think I am but the pains. Really want to help but I have a huge feeling he will repeat this again in another form cos it’s not his 1st act of sabotage. Perhaps he should have thought of that before colonizing your babe. This is the highest form of disrespect. Right now he should be sleeping under a bridge. |
Jobs/Vacancies › Re: Tips On How To Identify Fake Job Offers And Interview by BuddhaPalm(m): 5:54pm On May 03, 2021 |
If the place in inside a forest, uncompleted building, remote area, etc no enter. |
Foreign Affairs › Re: Liberia Blocks Internet Over Protests Against President Weah by BuddhaPalm(m): 3:39pm On May 03, 2021 |
Omo, corruption in Liberia is something...
Last year, they murdered 4 government auditors within 2 weeks. Including the chief auditor. |
Politics › Re: President Buhari Is Stingy And Ungrateful - Mbaka (Throwback Video) by BuddhaPalm(m): 10:57am On May 03, 2021 |
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Politics › Re: President Buhari Is Stingy And Ungrateful - Mbaka (Throwback Video) by BuddhaPalm(m): 10:52am On May 03, 2021 |
iammo:

To me I see no big deal in a Reverend lobbying for a contract, infact more Pastors should get busy rather than waiting for people's sweat in form of tithes. This is a big big deal and an embarrassment to the Catholic church. What he has been doing is forbidden. I will be surprised if he is not reprimanded this time by his superiors. |
Crime › Re: Armed Robbers Rain Bullets On Cash Van In South Africa (Video) by BuddhaPalm(m): 10:36am On May 03, 2021 |
Eriokanmi: A country where things work...kudos. See as fear catch that black guy lol Crime rate there is astronomical sha. They had 21,000 murders in 2020. And 50 cars are stolen per day. Btw, the car in the video was transporting phones. |
Politics › Re: DSS Targets ‘Elements’ Threatening Nigeria’s Peace by BuddhaPalm(m): 8:10am On May 03, 2021 |
orikoku: See mugus. Thank God they acknowledge the unemployment rate, which is the major cause of actions across the country. Daily Post added that part. |
Nairaland General › Re: New Font. Kind Suggestions. by BuddhaPalm(op): 10:19pm On May 02, 2021 |
New font...
**My screenshot doesn't capture how it appears. The it's very thin.
Perhaps it's just me.
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Nairaland General › Re: New Font. Kind Suggestions. by BuddhaPalm(op): 10:17pm On May 02, 2021 |
Seun: iPhone or Android? Android. Old font...
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Politics › Re: Police Arrest 25 Pro-yoruba Nation's Rally Organisers In Abeokuta by BuddhaPalm(m): 6:54pm On May 02, 2021 |
budaatum: It's at least unconstitutional according to Chapter 1 Part 1 of the Constitution of the Federal Republic of Nigeria
2. (1) Nigeria is one indivisible and indissoluble sovereign state to be known by the name of the Federal Republic of Nigeria. The constitution is just words on a piece of paper. I'm sure the USSR had similar documents...including the ancient Egyptians, Persians, Assyrians, etc. Time acts on all things. |