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Yomieluv:
no better to treat her than gather concrete evidence, then kick her azz out..

A cheating wife is dangerous, because women are emotional being, the ex can sway her to do the unthinkable.

Better be ready to count your loss when divorce sets in.

So you aren't dangerous when you were cheating? The hottest part of hell is specially reserved for hypocrites.


Kick her out indeed!!!

greatgod2012:
Heeeeee, hold it! I'm not using your past to haunt you! You know me on this section very well, I don't do back and front, up and down with anyone. But I'm going to indulge you on this.

Yes, we know you're human, and no human is beyond temptation but once you know that you call fall, you should also know that another person can fall too, hence, you're not in the capacity to give such judgment you gave up there. You're claiming the girl is the one forcing herself on you, how are you sure it's not the ex of this man's wife that is forcing himself on her too?
You're claiming NL is for seeking advice, in your honest opinion, did you give the right advice knowing fully well that what you're advising the man to do is what your wife should have done to you.

You're advising someone to send his wife who has given the man 4wonderful kids away, just because he suspected her cheating, when you could not even stay faithful with your own wife for one year? Haba! Why are you people like this? Dishing out the advice you wouldn't want anyone to apply on you.

In summary, it's not in your capacity to give the op such an advice of sending his wife of many years away when it's even difficult for you to be faithful for one year.

You're an hypocrite!
Next time, on threads like this, keep quite and learn from it.


As for my boo, leave that one for me, but one thing is certain, I know who he is but does your wife know who you are

Peace!

No mind that shameless man, In threads like this he should hide his head in shame. Barely one year of marriage and he is already Keziah .

tchiwinnie:
Thank u so much mamas for ur condoling with me and amen to ur prayers. I had evacuation done yesterday and I m fine nw. May God keep our los safe, Amen!

Very sorry for your loss babe.

I don't think any of you have attended a real wedding.

I will feel nothing. Maybe a nut or two got loose , who knows.

armpit:
in my context "THIS IS WHO EVERY" was referring to the hardworking aspect, ofcourse they can choose any profession but they MUST sure be doing something that would make them less dependent on any man. Bro, my blood is ALLERGIC to lazy ladies.

OK, that's understandable.

armpit:
by the time she gets married, she would have elavated and would have more workers, her primary duty then would be to hit contracts and supervise her workers.. THIS IS WHO EVERY LADY SHOULD BE.

No, this is who your lady should be. You can't speak for everyone.

Happy weekend all.

Happy weekend all!

Pavore9:
For each one of us, there is someone out there who will align with our perspective and settling with such person makes for a better marriage. There are men even in this present time who prefer there wives to be full-time housewives without viewing their wives as parasites as they positively recognize the role their wives are playing in their lives and their home and their wives do not feel a loss of their humanity. Keying in with the compatible person is KEY!

Sure.

Pavore9:
Out of love and care? That does not hold water!

After all it will get to a time when she will not to be doing the job herself but play a supervisory role.

Is just my opinion, I won't like to see my wife perching on some ladder in the name of working on a job. Maybe some men won't mind, I will mind. So is better to go for one's kind, than get tagged a dream 'squasher'.

Pavore9:
It is left for her to settle with a man who would help her further her dream and not one who will squash it out of insecurities!

It won't be because the man wants to squash her dream, it will be out of care and love mostly. I think marrying a man in the same field will serve her better.

Good one, she is single and can do any job she wants. I doubt most men will let their wives continue with this kind of job.

johnson232:
Lol... this one will always reason with his yansh

which neighbour?

Imbe*cile of the 1st order, I see you lived.

Choco milo .

Op most Nigerians will start with their neighbour 's. It won't get to that though.

Dyt:
But byvan03 is opting to adopt na
What's the delay
Get the deal sealed already

I think he changed his mind, someone's advise sank in deep. I no go even gree show picture, so if he changes his mind, better for everyone.

The anger of a broke frustrated man can make the most devoted wife run off. Of course the man will claim it is because of his finance .

Ifecomumito:
I heard you ,bt I won't drop the child any where

OK, better.

Dumbest lie ever!!!

EfemenaXY:
Why're you even commenting on this thread?

My dear...i really don't know why I did, I shouldn't have .

Same women of yesterday that dumped their weakling husbands to pitch their tents with local warriors? People tend to romanticize things they know nothing about.


Nothing really changed, bad /good women are as old as time.

tatacherie:
@ Ebony13 ur testimony is permanent in Jesus Name.kisses to ur miracles
@ elders Modath,Beedam,Byvan03,Lovinam, kimoni,hummingbird been a while,hope ure all doing well.warm regards.
@ teamie tchiwinmie May God grant u quick healing and double for d loss

Am very good dear, thanks for the mention babe.


May God continue to protect all our belleful mamas and los, Amen.

einsteino:
What I see here is that alot of folks have shitty traits and think it is normal. There is no excuse for not apologising when you are wrong, I once was like you guys, ego wouldn't let me mutter am sorry. but later I realised the scarcity of sorry makes even friendship degenerate and sure as hell it is worse off for a marriage. I am not married but if you are, observe the few reasonably happily married couples around you, they apologise effortlessly.

Though on Op's issue his wife have already apologized.. he noted she asked him to stop being angry and asked if he is still angry, that is one way of apologising if she said it in a right tone.. for someone like me, that is good enough.. the remaining issue is the actual apology which is repentance or desisting from the condiment she puts in his food cos sorry is a useless phrase if there is no change.

I think that the person that finds his or herself begging for apology almost all the time has a bigger problem. You don't expect people to apologise when they don't feel sorry. Nagging an adult to apologise to you on the grounds of disobedience has a silly ring to it.

Solutions will pop into your head when you are really fed up, I don't think you are yet.

Please don't start off with being an emergency prayer warrior when marriage never set. You will get frustrated, except you don't want kids too.

taryour:
hmmm so true sis, for reasons best known to her. I believe she is doing great though.

Hopefully they all good and peeping .

Learn to get over what you ate outside and not torment anyone with it, she can't cook it, prepare it yourself if you can't be healthy without it . Limit this your neighbour neighbour thing, you are not so perfect after all. If your wife traveled and you can't handle the kitchen, go buy food.

ouvredeparis:
I think I understand you now.. .thanks all the same... I think I can see things from your point of view.. .but it's painful sha

It hurts but you will heal eventually. So sorry for the things you can't change, love the mum that you already have so you don't end up opening a Pandora box.

ouvredeparis:
Please try to understand me.. .im not looking for them to go and be with them.. .i just want to know why I was not wanted.. .its only an insane and ungrateful fellow that will clinch to people who threw them out like thrash.. .theres no harm in knowing where you originated from...

Most kids were abandoned because parents weren't ready when they came. At least they left you for someone to find you. You find them, they apologise, what next?

Some people re-brand and hide.

This is why people shy away from adoption. You burst your nuts to raise them and in a few years they will run off to people that threw them out like trash.