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I will knock, if no one opens, the door comes down .

Which one is tablet of flossing again ?


She probably doesn't know that her breath is bad.

Just start coming home with takeaway pack, eat and go to bed. She will get the message.

Be happy, a woman somewhere went home empty handed after a prolonged labour that ended in CS. More kids will come.

If you consider giving the child up legally, you can contact me. You don't have to abort when you can bless someone with it.

Better move on before he starts dribbling you, get busy .

Your mum is being too unforgiving. She might have gone through hell and back but she survived and that's all that matters. If forgiving these people will better the future of her son, I don't see why she can't reason towards that direction and let the past go.


Forgive your father's people, it's your life, decide what you think is best. I personally will do what's best for me without ever neglecting my step dad for once. Even if you don't accept their offers, your place is in their family.

Women fight for men, men kill for women.

You will have a difficult life stuck with a man you don't love. Chances of loving him in marriage is almost non existent, you will only frustrate this man. Don't get married if you are not feeling it .

They are cute .

taryour:
it's so annoying. Can you imagine the guy had over 700, 000 and wrecked it till the last kobo and never gave a dime of it to his younger sis or even their mother. so what now happens if she rents him a house or set him up for the last time as they say? he will wreck it has has done to the previous funds and come for more.

@ op no fear at all. evil no fit come near you o. make a drastic decision and stick to it, you no fit come kpai ontop him matter na, wetin

don't renew your rent and don't ever let him know your new address once you get married cause mark my word and the time you are reading this post it will not stop there, he will come to your matrimonial home and keep asking and not just you but from your hubby too.

# they always have this pity look when asking like they will drop dead the next minute if you don't give the # EXCEPT a miracle happens in their life.



As for the car, if it were me, I will repair that car and sell it off and start taking public transport till I move to my husband house.

show him a different you. stop eating and buy food stuff in the house pending the time you still living under same roof. always eat better food before u get home, hide stuff in your room so you can munch on should in case you feel like taking something before you go to bed.

tell him you broke and you can't afford to cook cause you haven't been paid for months. keep less than 500 naira in your purse always. if you have to hide your extra change in your inner shorts DO IT.

Such ppl need to be put on their track else they will wreck you.

I totally agree, let her repair and sell that car. He shouldn't even have her next address brother or not. I can't accept being hurt by my own kindness jare. Some people are really unlimited liability irrespective of their age.

taryour:
chai sis the thing dey pain me wahalai. ELDER brother for that matter, not younger brother which would have been a little bit understandable considering that he is younger. but for this I will collect all my keys and send his sorry asS out of my house. make anybody come ask me wetin happen.

this op needs a resounding slap to wake her up to reality, chai she come turn to zombie. those ppl posting and telling her to give the brother a last chance and set him up finally. if I hear, in this kind of case the elder brother is just taking advantage and using authority over her so there will never be a last chance till she wakes her brain up else she will continue to work and sweat for the comfort of her ELDER BROTHER.

@ op abeg how old is your ELDER BROTHER

I tell you, too much sentiment kills. That sense of entitlement is something I discourage as soon as a relative starts showing it.

taryour:
SPEECHLESS. what I have in mind to tell you is harsh so make I just sit down dey look before them nairalander label me wicked.


but babe you try oo wahalai. I really commend you. God is your strength. that your elder brother ehen....

I have the same thing in mind but OP seems too soft. If you disturb my life, I cut you off, that's how I live happily.

whizcartel:
Yeah I understand. I was was actually talking about prosecuting the case. his post would be used as an evidence against his friend and him. I'm already speaking to a human right lawyer and my dad, he is police officer and also a human right activist. he was very wrong not stopping the illegal act.

Can you find OP? If there is no complainant, how will he be prosecuted? Someone has to admit that she has been raped before they can be charged to court right? Hopefully the girl will see these posts and supply all the information needed.

Thebachelor:
You raped a girl,came online and justified your action with ''she made premarital demand''.

Let me tell you something,if that girl had a brother or friend like me,you really wouldn't be online by now. That's for sure.

And l'm not talking about reporting you to the authority.

This is the only way such animals should be treated, reporting to police is a VIP treatment that they don't deserve.

I wonder who is waiting for a court when you can judge and sentence them yourself, it will only cost a few coin .

whizcartel:
Even if she reports. She has the right to mention him as a witness. and if the court hears that he saw the crime happen and he didn't report the incident. The state, Women rights NGO's can take up his case and sue him for obstruction of justice. He just made a mistake posting what happened on a public platform.

His mistake is not posting it here but watching that happen when he could have stopped it. It tells a lot about OP's own decay as a person.

cococandy:
I have a gun. Except the person is a total stranger who pulled her into an alley and raped her (which is rare) I'll find the mad man and put a bullet in his head and feed his eyeballs to the vultures. He better run into Bermuda Triangle because no place on this earth will shield him from my wrath.

#pissed.

Only a very silly mother will wait for karma when her child is being hurt. I wonder if the girl can't at least tell her mum or relatives. Don't be surprised that the so called spending is a bottle of Fanta which he could have easily asked for reimbursement.

cococandy:
That's the kind of boys being raised these days. I fear for my daughter:

Nne person tire. God will shield her always.

SmartChoices:
Psalms 37&52 were written for his kind!

I will check out the chapt

SmartChoices:
assuming he's to be trusted! but after getting him angry he blurted it out.... he is the rapist!

It's just so sad that people like OP keep portraying men as sexually depraved animals with no conscience nor humanity left in them . I wonder how he sleeps at night.

SmartChoices:
he is the rapist of concern


he is the rapist of concern

I really don't understand how people reason. How will a potential father and possibly a brother think that a woman deserves to be raped for whatever gift his friend gave willingly? He might have sisters, mother and might even father female kids someday, yet he reasons like this. He stood by and watched a girl get raped and did nothing, well...

What goes around comes around. You have no business reporting but you are as evil as your friend. You could have stopped this crime from happening but you didn't. The world is cyclic, what you give is what you will get. Today it's a random girl, who knows who it will be tomorrow.

OFides:
Fair enough, I won't begrudge you on that.

But can I ask only ONE thing from you?
Epp me SHARE this post abeg
We can both ensure that someone who may really need this info gets to read it...before it's too late?
Many thanks!

Ok

With time they will start showing us how the conception took place.

I like the pics, looking unsullied.

OFides:
I want to be sure that I'm not reading you wrong: you think seeing a therapist =a pity jamboree?
I think movies do great injustice to them (and their roles)..
*shrugs
But what if starting a business or getting a new job is not the solution, or one that merely scrapes the surface of the troubles she has? What if she's the one messing up those jobs?

Well, maybe it might work for some, just not for me.

OFides:
Lol. Abeg share what the 'swiftest way' would look like for someone who has been laid off work three times in the last five years and is wondering what's wrong with her sef! Lately, she's been having thoughts of 'ending it all'

If they continue laying you off then it's time to start your own business. I don't know what a pity jamboree will achieve except of course the shrink is offering a new job. Am not here to discredit you, all am saying is that I won't see a shrink if it's free because I know how to find my solutions and swift too. Nothing to back and forth about.

No, I won't. I solve my problems the swiftest way I know how, no too much talking.

Let her start selling foodstuffs, in a rural/urban area people must eat. A provision store in a rural area can be counter productive in a environment where most do not take tea in the morning and profit margin complete peanut . 300k can get her started .

There are cheaper branded hairs in the market that lasts just as well. Original human hair business doesn't boom as much. It's also capital intensive and if they give you the fake ones, your money won't only hang, it's gone.