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Zceesneh:Judge for yourself, what you don't want to reap, don't sow. |
Gloria3389:Exactly, you are totally right on that. Our adults too need to act like adults and not help these little ones derail. They should be builders and not destroyers. |
Ewuro4:I tire, what some women go through in the name of this marriage sef. Can't die in silence, I will take my chances at speaking, heaven will not fall. With my first I made Google my friend because I wasn't ready to be that whimpering help needing new mum jare. Everything I know about child care, I learnt online. For child bathing I watched them do it in the hospital, so I picked from there. I don't understand why some MIL enjoy frustrating their kids wives . |
Zceesneh:She is a child and any sane adult should know better. |
Gloria3389:Whether the parents taught the child well or not, it is not the duty of another adult to help damage her any further. The girl's father was just too angry and I know what I will feel if an adult will do this kind of nonsense with my child. If he dies, well, the bible already told us that the wages of sin is death. Good he lived to change his ways, he should go mess around with his mates and let kids grow. |
Zceesneh:He didn't warn the man before sleeping with his daughter, he damaged a child and that is as evil as it gets. |
No father will give you a handshake for damaging her little girl, she is just 16! Tufiakwa for some people . |
bukatyne:Yesooo, my church too. I had no time and energy for it at the time when they told me how long it's going to take. Seriously if those unnecessary delays are effective we won't be hearing of divorce here and there. |
Jamean:My dear as far as marriage is concerned no one has it fixed enough to pass any message to me, that's just the truth. I believe in go and develop your own formula that works. No need listening to text book theories or do as as I say but don't do as I do kind of preaching. My first point of call towards a successful marriage was to unlearn everything marriage related I have heard or been taught, then start a new course of learning right inside it. The story you added is interesting but not really related to my point. I don't even believe in all those talk to someone he trusts or someone he respects kind of advise jare, just get fixed how it works for you. God and our initiative will always guide us in navigating through these corners. Deceiving the counsel? Actually if there are no rules, then none can be broken. No one said you can't be represented or were you told so? There surely will be spiritual implications for anyone that relates everything to spirituality. As a matter of fact they didn't sign my card to completion because even my sister couldn't go till the end , the Reverend refused to give me whatever I was supposed to be given. I forgot about him, eventually there was no need for the card. I wedded without being asked about it, doesn't this tell you that God is for the wedding no matter what the earthly judges say? . |
bukatyne:Ours was organised by the church too and very compulsory , my sister was attending on my behalf. I really don't know wetin people that are not married and never will be married planned to teach me. Nah priests and Reverend sisters dey conduct our own . Even the people teaching don't have it intact, so it's better I develop my own formula jare. |
I attended twice and had my sister represent me for the rest. I don't know what people who are never married plan to teach me. Marriage has no formula, you go in their and create yours. I never wished I spent my time attending. |
Chai! OP you should have listened to your husband, any relation am warned about, I quickly build a higher fence. Some people just enjoy torturing others, she obviously never enjoyed her marriage so she is trying to spread the misery. |
cococandy:True, I don't need to try here because my impatience towards bullshi*t won't t let me nurture mamas mistreatment for long before I give her a run for her money. People actually are very different, I can't resist for long if I get this evil type. Sometimes there will never be real peace, without a good war. |
Kaira333:To be honest with you I personally will explode right in front her and spill exactly how I feel about her bulls*hit with no sugar coating, I don't know how to tiptoe. So personally I did handle it the best way I know how to which is for the heaven to fall today or forever remain still method. My initial advise was based on the fact that sugar coating seems to be how most people roll. Make sure is in front of her son so she won't add jara and say you pushed her while twisting every thing you said. If you have the guts, this method will seal the lips permanently if you utilise it well. |
Why can't these men leave these kids for their mothers!! Poor child |
Solution, be courteous and always maintain a healthy distance. Be yourself and don't try too hard. |
Jokingly tell her" mama e be like sey nah only you go sabi marry your son, if you keep talking like this he no go fit live with womanooo". Dey talk am dey shine teeth . If she vex" dey laugh dey talk sorry and keep saying " but mama you know sey nah truth" . Terrible MIL! |
Chillisauce:Lol, why retire so early? Abi you don chop beans . |
That doctor must be very silly! He should have stitched you up, little or not. Please see another gyno, your baby daddy no well. |
Ellixlimswag:No, I haven't. |
There is no happily ever after with a cheating man, as for change, hardly. Does it ever happen? Only you can decide how to live through your pain. Adultery can be quite messy, use your head. In cases like this there is always a choice to make. If this ex of yours is married, am begging you not to ruin another woman's marriage. |
I want to see flavour 's baby mamas only!! All these ones dey scratch me for eyes. |
cococandy:True. |
Better put a proper family planning method in place before you ruin your life being a babymama of 2. |
cococandy:Thank you!! ![]() |
Skrim:You have every right to pursue your dream if that's what you desire most. May the project be a success! |
Kimoni: ![]() |
edwife: When I don get better offer? Nah to enroll gym start prepare for the bikini contest wey me and Chillisauce start plan since the days of the old . |
Kimoni:I don't know your old monicker, it used to be very fun here, if you weren't on this section then . Now everybody don become good geh, seems the boys brawl more nowadays. |
edwife:Very negligible number of them do,mostly on special arrangements. Only a few passed through normal protocols. |
edwife:Who said is abnormal to stay at home? Do you read the part that I mentioned that I will resign via text message if a salary is put in place and am paid 1year upfront? ![]() Who likes stress? I certainly don't biko. |
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