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oh come on don't be naive. it's obvious that these ones doing shakara already know the truths and realities they are faced with. if they choose not to cook for you they can go ahead and settle down with their white men.

Yeah. With a bit of coding knowledge you could have your own Nairaland 2.0 running in no time.

[quote author=Aloy.Emeka link=topic=273470.msg3882284#msg3882284 date=1242632440]You asked for who?. Is akpu the name of a person?[/quote]Qlol

At least encourage her to get some education. It is never too late to start. She seems like a good girl.

On second thought I don't feel sorry for your punk ass. You are an atheist purposefully preying on young christian women. I hope she milks your punk ass dry.

You don't work, yet he does all these things for you. And they say good men have fallen off the face of the earth. You must have some bomb ass pussy, or you look like the black version of giselle bundchen.

What are you? A fucking muguleta or something?  Daddy or mummy died of poison, hooking her up with employment, buying recharge card, sending her money every week like you are her caretaker, doing this doing that.  You really need to hear yourself out.  You need to QUIT!  You are not being a good samaritan, you are being a big time APA.  You are being used like condom.

I guess that's what you get for preying on po' lil christian girls, ya self-service.

With your two timing ass. You will end up becoming a fork buddy. They know you aren't wife material.

Shift the wedding brother. If she truly loves you she can probably wait just a little longer, if you explain things clearly to her.

Compulsory? No.

Marry one who doesn't? Most likely not.

roflol

mflol @ rub her hair. wwhat a creepy freak.

ole. "i won't love until I find a made nigga"

luckily, it's only been a year. this will continue to be a proble. leave him alone.

When our relationship clocked a year

clol, i like the way you worded this.

wlol
this one na high school kain love abi wetin. face your studies or hit and quit.

plol @ silly homewreckers

mlol @ stay and work it out. plol

run faster than your legs can move.

SeanT21 happens to be a young woman .

Where is your own self respect? You think bullying your way into a man's heart is the best remedy for a turn around? No way. If he doesn't respect you now, don't hang your hand on the false hope that he will respect you later. Running your mouth would only worsen the situation, like it did in your case.
It was on you to get out of the relationship as soon as you found out what kind of boy he is, but you refused to let go.

That's why I said there are many mad women out there. You know what to do but you choose to do something else.

How can I give you benefit of doubt when you keep sticking your tongue out at me. While I am being serious with my comments

[quote author=~Sissy~ link=topic=270300.msg3843514#msg3843514 date=1241855284]I"m very good gal by nature oo , the "mama must see her type" [/quote]If only I had a nickel for everytime I got that infamous line. Let me decide if you are the "mama must see her type". You might be peppering yourself up to be something you are not. In actuality you might be trying to game up on some "nice" guy. You seem like a huge flirt and nothing more. Correct me if I am wrong.

If he left you for her, leave him for her.  Let her deal with his trifling ass.

And even if she calls off the break, would you want to wait around on a girl that is not ready to go through the scorns and arrows with you.  You are supposed to be a part of her life, so why is she taking a break from that.  Would she ever choose to take a "break" from her life?  I know I wouldn't want to be with a girl liek that.  Weak sauce homie.

I have been around girls like that. They are nothing to write home about.


To her credit, she may truly be struggling with some things in her life, in which case the break might be beneficial. I guess it depends on what kind of girl she is. You know her better than we do.

Topup looks and sounds good on paper, but as you may have heard, actions speak louder than mere words.
She might be portraying one image on Nairaland, whereas she could be the total opposite in reality. It's all about knowing who is who, getting to know the koko behind the kokolet. Do not let any ill conceived assumptions prevent you from going in pursuit of your heart's desire.
Feel me?

I don't know very much about you either.
Don't pray n hope they leave me if you don't want me. I need a strong woman in my life.

What are you talking about? Those two loud-mouths are nothing to write home about.
Why would you let two unserious riff-raffs get in the way of your happiness. If you want something badly you have to go out and fight for it. Assuming you want it that is.

Of course you would agree with treetop because you are the ones being praised by his comments.

Either treetop is intentionally praising you fairies to up his rep, or he just hasn't been on the receiving end of women's emotional flares.
Many people out there are emotionally unstable. You can be the nicest man in the world all you want, however, if you run into a woman that does not know how to manage her emotions, your kindness would not stop her from using you as a verbal punching bag to release steam.

I can't tell you how much outside sources interfere with people's personal lives. Most can't manage or separate the two. If you have a bad day at work you can easily come home and take it out on your loved ones without thinking twice about it.

It's funny, my friend of one year only discovered about 2 months ago, that I have a huge bum. I don't go around wearing tight clothing.

Hmmmmm are you and your friend lowkey experimenting with the other side?
I wouldn't mind hearing more about how she discovered your big bum.

how have you been?
when are you finally going to release that boyfriend of yours and get with me?

Why are you laughing?

That's not true of all Nigerian guys, or of all guys in general. I am a dude and I don't fit that stereotype by any stretch of the imagination.

It is just as hard for guys to meet quality, serious-minded women as it is for women to meet similar dudes.

My guy,

90% of the time, the "I need a break" hook is just her technical way of saying she wants to quickly sample some other guys if you don't mind waiting.