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Hello Tope baby, I know that we just met, but I can't fight these feelings I have for you. It's doing me like water and garry inside my belly. I think you are a very beautiful person with a cute smile. I like your pretty eyes. I would like to hang out sometime and maybe go to the park to get to know more about you. I apologize if this sounds really awkward, I just wanted to let you know how I feel about you.


Pansy!

Haba, after two weeks?  You're coming on too strong bro.  Why not just show her you're interested in building a relationship with her by asking her out on a date.  First make her comfortable.  Maybe in 5 months you can begin sharing tales of love in tokyo.


Biko don't tell her.

Trust me guy, girls love a bit of mystery. Do the opposite of what these things are telling you. It will make her more curious.

no woman wants to really date her age not until her time passes her by and no one wants to marry her then she uses you to settle down,  it aint right, when you needed them most at early age they did not want you now they are neglected and now you are the ideal man,

Lol truer words have never been spoken.  True talk my guy.


She will be ready to settle down after Baba Bimpe and uncle Jerry have finished stretching her inner walls.

tope2000:
rofl. . . . .

@op
pls do tell her

OP if there's one valuable lesson to be learned in life, it's to always do the opposite of what a woman tells you.

Give it time. Keep harbouring these feelings in your mind and heart but never blurt them out of your mouth.

They say distance makes the heart grow fonder. They also say that out of sight is out of mind. Pick your poison.

larayat:
hey i tnk u av a very poor understanding of simple english,cos we are nt dissussing abt standards, accept d fact dat jenifa is a good movie,

You can't force a wise man to pretend that a mediocre home video is superb.

Lawvuuuu Cheiii I thought I was in love a couple of times before.

You can't read me. I am not a book.

Then I guess he was in lust with her money.

Tell the daffy to quit spending so much on him. He will probably reveal his true self and intention a month or so after that.

queenTG:
love, give her more attention let her know that she is the only importante person in ur live , jokes , tell her u love her everyday , guys let us do that in the bouth side u will see how this world will smile to everyone of us LOVEBEFORE EVERYTHING

Fact is, she is not the only important person in my life. I don't know why some of you women like feeling bigger than you really are. You enter into a relationship and suddenly expect your life to be 200% extraordinary.

bluespice:
treetop i once thought u had my interests at heart!
wow so u want me to go thru all that pain and sadness?

experience is the best teacher

aunty mary is a total idiot. one of the stupidest analogies of all time.

Maybe the story is fictitious and the OP has decided to find something else to do, or the issue has been resolved and she can't be bothered to get caught up in it again, or she simply refuses to update the thread? All of that and then some . . . but hoo knoez

21 is the new (21 - (21/3)), conclusion: not fully ripe for marriage.

Diva, I've told you not to let the chemicals flowing through your body deceive you. If you want to love another more than you love(d) your ex, you CAN. Stop wondering or making excuses.

Use taperule

[quote author=big_bumper link=topic=246999.msg3611576#msg3611576 date=1237372676]H202, why didn't you proffer this absolute gemmiferous gem of wisdom to Top-up last year because I know it's not just a flash in the pan moment Oni skaun skaun oshi [/quote] Troublemaker.

How's your sexy chicken feet holding up by the way

Sexier and stronger than ever.  I would give you the pleasure of rubbing it, but you might pee on yourself.

Buy her listerine on her birthday.
Slip a couple mints into her mouth when you kiss her.
Whenever you brush try as much as possible to take her along with you.

I think she'll get the gist soon enough if you do these things.

I would say feed him very well and keep that coochie tight.

Let that boy mature and find a more stable lifestyle.  For now, that's the most important help you can render him.  He is going through a phase that has absolutely nothing to do with you, so don't blame yourself for his behavior towards you. It just so happens as fate would have it that you are the one getting hurt deeply in this mayhem. Advice you to move on with your beautiful life. There is more on his plate right now than trying to work out your broken relationship.

Remember that infamous quote:  If you love something set it free, if it comes back to you it's yours, if it doesn't, it never was yours to begin with.

Bluespice, although you're right to be very conscious and critical of Diva1's behavior, I don't blame her for acting the way she did, because love has a funny way of toying with our minds. The stupid chemicals that circulate through our body when we feel deeply about another sort of makes it difficult to employ a rational approach to seeing that this relationship is a complete disaster to her.

Desperation is when you keep obsessing over an asshole despite knowing that he/she treats you like a hobag.

I don't understand why you continue giving this rascal the benefit of the doubt.

If these dumb ass cheaters would actually stop to think about what they would lose for the sake of a stupid ass fling or a quick fork with a meaningless jump off, then maybe they would stop just short of doing it. But a lot of them are selfish punks who usually fail to take into consideration other people's feelings before acting like brutes. They don't consult their faculty to think of the grave damage and hurt caused by their quick nutt to boost their flagging ego.

Diva, since it seems you want this asshole by any means necessary, why don't you go ahead and camp out at his home until he gives you the attention you're seeking.

LOL

Different strokes for different folks. Whatever works for you baby.

ROFL Why not?

I scratch my asshole a lot, does that count?

Yeah Diva, did you hear what Olanajim and his associate said? He says it's okay to remain a doormat to this tool because there's no ring on your finger?  "       " .  

Hi Philosopher Ola - PHD, JD, MD, MMD, PPHD,
I guess I forgot that the term "exclusive relationship" no longer holds water.

Poster be correct mugu

HAHAHA lol @ your "he got to know" statement. Karma has a way of coming back to bite you in the ass don't it?

You are a cheat and he got to know about it. Try not to destroy other people's lives next time--especially the lives of those who love you.