₦airaland Forum

Aboubou:
It comes in different sizes chat me up

Aboubou:
That is a big one for our very own daviso

nitigriti:
I can't be here bantering with dim-witted idiots like you.
Where is the time? I have a life.

Go get some.

poweredcom:
That is wat de know how to do they r everywhere

D rate of prostitution in dis nation is too much

See u bro almost all Nigerian gals are now in d business just download inmessage app u go fear

So who r d non prostitute just 20 percent nigerian ladies

emmancecute:
Was at pelican hotel around past 12am, got a request at globus supermarket to take her within chevyview. I had wanted to link chevyview estate from the back but saw a gate that barricaded chevyview off pelican which means I'd have to go all the way to igboefon to do a u-turn then head back to Chevyview. Called rider that I can't make the trip due to so and so reasons.... the picture showed what I got but me I don't slack to give the f^ck back

Cooladex:
Just imagine this.

Eyes have seen on this job.
Picked a girl at the place when I just started this job and took her to around studio24, she said don't end the trip o.
Entered her bf's tundra and zoomed off, without paying me my 400.
I chased them and waved d guy down. Told him his babe hasn't paid me, dude apologised and told her to pay me .
She started acting nice and transfered 1k5.
2mins later I got text from her saying "I am dumb and why would I do that"
That if her relationship crashes, she would deal with me.

tunlapapa:
I have been having long pickups since morning and they all ended as useless trips.
So I had to quickly contact him that I won't be able to come that I am far from him and there also traffic to get to him( 15min ETA). No so he threaten me say "he will report me". NONSENSE!

Rubbiish:
Not only 2015 SUV, u also drive 2025 SUV?
Nonsense!
Have u ever wondered why we are so different from white people??
Only in Nigeria u see poor people look down on profession and people richer than them.
Many uber drivers are the owners of the car they use, but these so called ill mannered girls have only one phone they use for their ashewo business.

radautoworks:
I never expect Uber drivers to help me with bags because I know they are not chauffers. They are private individuals giving people rides for a fee. Overseas they don't help you with bags and we don't expect them to. Some nice ones do but it's not part of the job description. Rider's protect their ratings there because no one will come carry you. I suggest you guys start doing the same if you're not already doing so. Rating can be seen BEFORE accepting the trip

BAZ001:
This is Nigeria, where people feel entitled because they are paying for a service, they want to over use you.
if we all start telling stories you won't believe it
for examples

1. Rider asked me to come down and open her shop that the padlock is always hard. with command tune, had to do it.
2. Guy and babe asked me where dey can buy condom early morning, i took them to Pharmacy at Rita Lori, Surulere. guy brought out money dt i should go help buy condom. i said no ooh , d babe drop go buy am.
3. Guy in one hotel at Ikoyi asked me to go pick food at Awolowo road and bring to his hotel. no problem, brought the food got to the hotel and the next thing he called that i should bring to his Room up. Oga i just weak. (yeah d guy tipped me)
if i continue you will hear awkward stories.

BAZ001:
Abeg what mtn plan is dt?
MTN knows how to take but not give back .
Pls if u don't mind share how u get double data

tunlapapa:
Na dem dem

NerdyNedu:
I think you have to see the movie Crazy Rich Asians.

She was never a part of whatever transpired then, don't hold it against her. Because by doing so, you focus on what had happened, rather than what is happening.

What has happened wasn't her fault, but what's happening is solely yours bro.

Acidosis:
That's why you shouldn't take them and their words seriously. It is better to marry SATAN, than end up with bad in-laws. Take your time to know your in-laws and why they're separated.

frankyskyboi:
Well, once again, I appreciate your opinion. The fact is that I love her very much. So even if she had told me infidelity caused the parent's separation, I would still go ahead at least for being honest. It's the Igbo tradition to do necessary enquiries before marrying your spouse and I respect it. So all those saying be mature,you don't love her and you're not ready bla bla bla.. you're entitled to your opinion. If something comes up later in the marriage and i bring it up, the same hypocrites would still ask me why didn't I investigate well before marriage and start giving me yeye marriage counseling. Thank you all. Criticism is highly welcome

johnwell:
Before you embark on any journey with her, PLEASE do yourself good by investigating her, conduct a thorough background check. You have to dig deep into their marriages and life generally, from her grandparents, her uncles and aunts (from both paternal and maternal) so that you will not got yourself into any EVIL FAMILY PATTERN.

Few examples of evil family pattern
- marital failure
- Chronic sickness/diseases
- Poverty
- Sudden death
- Rising and falling
- Rejection
- Witchcraft

Hebrews 13:4-6 (KJV)
Marriage is honourable in all, and the bed undefiled: but whoremongers and adulterers God will judge.

Sir, you can never achieve a Honorable marriage with anyhow woman, NEVER.
she must be a woman with a Honorable foundation, Honorable past, Honorable character and a Honorable future. If she had many sexual partners, quit. There's no remedy here, the mystery of sex is deep.

Many Women don't know that any man that have sexual intercourse with them sows strange spiritual seeds in them, so imagine if she has slept with 10 men or more, what kinda children will come out of such a polluted and defiled womb? Apart from children, you the husband that sleeps with her will be polluted and defile as well. The marriage covenant doesn't destroy but it activates any pending covenant between both couples, that's why some get richer or poorer or die untimely after marriage.

Let me tell you one mystery of sex; do you know that one occult man can sleep with a woman and convert her womb to his incubator or warehouse irrespective of where he is? Or some use the glory of that womb which means the children that will come out of that kinda womb have lost their glory even before they were born? See this strange scripture below...

Genesis 49:25 (NKJ)
By the God of your father who will help you,
 And by the Almighty who will bless you
 With blessings of heaven above, blessings of the deep that lies beneath, 
Blessings of the breasts and of the womb.

That means to every womb and breast God has attach blessings to them for her husband and children, but it's unfortunate that lots have lost it, they allow all manner of men to suck their breast and sleep with them. Where there's no blessing the opposite will be in abundance.


Psalm 11:3 (KJV)
If the foundations be destroyed, what can the righteous do?

Sir, is her foundation destroyed? You and I knows the answer.
You have to pray prayers of inquiry. I see many commenting out of the abundance of their ignorance, advising you to ignore your findings and proceed if you love her, my prayer for them is "May the Almighty God damage their ignorance".

Love is not a VISA to a successful marriage, you need more than love. Many marriages are suffering today because of faulty foundation, they ignored a lot of things because of love and now that love is far from them, the only thing such marriages have in abundance is ENDURANCE, LONG-SUFFERING, PERSEVERANCE, etc. may this not be your portion.

You have to pray the following prayers:

Jeremiah 33:3
Call to Me, and I will answer you, and show you great and mighty things, which you do not know

Daniel 2:22
He reveals deep and secret things; He knows what is in the darkness, And light dwells with Him.

- O God my Father, by your mercy, show me the mystery of sister (mention her name) daughter of (mention the mom's name)
- My Father, what will my life/future be if I marry her?
- Holy Spirit, show me the true/spiritual identity of sister (mention her name)
- Will she bring subtraction, or addition, or a multiplication to my life? Father show me.

God will answer you through dreams, whatever you dream about her you can share with me then I will give you the interpretations.

The conclusion of the matter is;
- Marriage was made for enjoyment not endurance
- Those that miss it will always tell you that marriage is to be endured
- Avoid people that says "I need someone that will love me the way I am" (Romans 12:2 says; And be not conformed to this world: but be ye transformed by the renewing of your mind, that ye may prove what is that good, and acceptable, and perfect, will of God.) if there's no elements of change in he/she, quit.

God bless you!

Quality20:
We all know that Hausa men mostly marry teenagers for wives, which of course means marrying ladies at their most wildest and strongest sexually. At age 16,17 and 18 most ladies are tiger when it comes to sex, so satisfying such requires enormous power, so u really must give it to d Hausa men for being able to tame these tiger of ladies. Southern men on d other hand marry ladies 25 and above, ladies who have already lost much gas to other men and are only interested in settling down to have some kids. So we can all see that Hausa men are well more energetic by taking d bulls of ladies by d horns, while southern men on d contrary only marry withered down ladies

frankyskyboi:
I started a relationship with a lady in March this year and it's been going on well though she works in Lagos while I'm in the eastern part of the country.

When we were at the introductory part of the relationship, I asked about her family and she told me they are separated. I asked what's the reason for the separation and she said its due to irreconcilable differences and they separated when she was a toddler that it's her dad that raised her up tho she keeps contact occasionally with her mum.

She stays with her aunts in Lagos. I asked if she asked both parents to know why and she said she only asked her dad and he said he doesn't want her mum to be working class and she insisted to be One that he wants her to be a stay at home wife. I asked if she heard from her mum and she said no. She also said her aunts said same thing her dad said.

The reason really didn't go down well with me as it's too flimsy and I've told her to ask her mum and she keeps procrastinating or giving one excuse or the other. It beats my imagination how a grown up adult can't know with conviction why her parents separated or I guess the truth is being hidden.

I'm bringing this up here because my brother married from a separated home and it was war before my parents gave consent. If she can't give me concrete reason why the parents broke up which I'll present before my parents, I really don't know how the relationship can move forward because we detest divorce in our family.

Please I need your advice if I should continue or quit.

gazilion:

This is an example how DESTINIES are wasted each day.

Every problem is not Govt and Bad leadership.

Fornication and Adultery is a DESTINY KILLER!

IMMORALITY is a DESTINY DELAYER!!!

drmikeadams:
them go enter wuber dey form coperate executives on top driver head

kellypara:
Guys I need your advice pls. I have been dating this girl for a year now and just when I thought I have found someone that I love and loves me back, She infected me with Gonorrhoea.
Pls guys, what should I do now?

lin3r2:
Where dem talk reach wey warrant her to talk that kind talk @calabarxxxx @cooladex? In fact wetin make her talk like that?

radautoworks:
That's all Skye pays? 65k Even my entry levels make more than that...

Cooladex:
This was how it went.

On ending her trip from ilupeju to yaba, fare showed 500, I told her it's an issue , that i 'll do review or she gives me estimate.
Did review and it showed 1,400
This stupid girl insisted she 'll pay 500, even when her reciept was showing 1,400, that it's her gain.
She still had d guts to insult and abuse me sef.

Cooladex:
Lol. Just like one girl I picked at Skye bank ilupeju, very nasty and uncouth lady. She told me I'll never make it in life.
I told her i spent 8 years working with Skye bank and I make her salary 65k in just a week and this is my car.
She just weak!

ejibaba:
So what is Bihari now?? You guys should know we have a big disaster in our hands now

LastSurvivor11:
So daft!!
Out of point!!
With your type Nigeria will never be great..

kola42:
Pls can't cases like this be reported to Uber (e.g dumping trash)