Former Big Brother Naija housemate, Kaisha has opened a provision warehouse.
But this has got BBNaija fans divided. While some are mocking her for doing a legitimate business which they think is 'below her status', others have defended the ex BBN star.
"Seriously?😳 Shaming her for a multi million naira business? With warehouses fully packed and these are daily consumptions….. The people shaming her must be dreaming. They think success is only linked to suit and tie🤦♀️"- HGI SERVICES came to Kaisha's defence.
Kaisha was one of the contestants in the BIg Brother Naija 2020 'Lockcown' season.
Nteogwuija: LoL, one is working hard and providing a service and getting paid. The other steals.
Just because u're into yahoo and deceiving others that u're into freelancing doesn't mean all freelancers are fraudsters.
It's because of people like u that most Nigerian freelancers take on pen names and foreign identity so that they can sell their legitimate services.
Stating reality of what I know doesn't mean I'm even into Internet hustle you fool!, I live in Europe and I work legitimately here, I'm just stating what I've observed with the Nigerian so called freelancers, you all are still thieves, the work platform is not meant for you!, any form of thievery is thievery don't defend it!, since you idiots in that country can't hold your leaders responsible to change the nations economy, all of una na thief directly or indirectly that's my stance!
Omokpua: Shame has finished for this generation. People are justifying yahoo then what remains again
Charity begins at home... leave the small dogs and chase the big dogs cus if the big dogs stop barking the small dogs will definitely stop, make una focus on our leaders 💯, Nigeria economy is useless!
abhosts: Useless agbaya elder. Saying yahoo is sustaining the Nigerian economy is crass ignorance. Nigerian Cocoa farmers alone export hundreds of millions of dollars worth of Cocoa yearly and it is legitimate a business. Even foodstuff exporters bring in more money than accursed Yahoo criminals.
Look at this clown blaming government for the Yahoo epidemic. Do yahoo boys stop scamming when they find themselves in wealthy countries with massive legitimate job opportunities? A thief is a thief. Stop justifying criminality.
Yahoo is a net negative to Nigeria because more has been lost in economic opportunities due to the bad reputation yahoo boys have given Nigerians. Have you seen how Nigerian Freelancers are discriminated against?
How many freelancers are not doing Yahoo!?, masking your location and taking jobs meant for the oyibo people is what??, oga go sit down, our leaders have finished this country!
Nteogwuija: Why not run over your corrupt leaders first. It's not Europe that has been voting for u since u gained independence.
Heck, it's over 60 years and u're still crying over colonial leaders. It's just like a 65 year old man blaming his failure on a misfit father. That's irresponsibility and slowness taken too far.
And FYI African Americans are still blaming white Americans till date!, it is what it is!, why venture into people's land freely then want them to get a passport and visa to get into your own nation??, does that even make sense to you?, guess you don't sense oppression and scam, you lack the knowledge to think deep!
Nteogwuija: Why not run over your corrupt leaders first. It's not Europe that has been voting for u since u gained independence.
Heck, it's over 60 years and u're still crying over colonial leaders. It's just like a 65 year old man blaming his failure on a misfit father. That's irresponsibility and slowness taken too far.
NO one is supporting our leaders evil rulership and you and I knows very well that our votes don't count!, if you think the colonists loot effect and grip on Africa on a whole is not realistic then you have to check your brains or most definitely you don't know anything about foreign affairs!, most civil wars and crisis are still orchestrated by them, why did Niger and some other francophone nations chase out the whites??, my point is that Africans will continue moving to Europe till it's overwhelmed!, he who brings woods infested with ants shouldn't be surprised by the visitation of lizards!, they brought there scamming religion here and took most of our resources and you're here thinking you're smart, Ewu!
SIXFEETUNDER: This is why yurop need stronger borders and stricter security measures. We can't have people just showing up unannounced and expecting handouts. It's not fair to the hardworking citizens of yurop who follow the rules and pay their taxes. Yurop should build a wall around the entire continentand call it a day.
You are mad!... which boarder did your colonist ancestors went through legally into Africa??, you all came loot our resources and go back to your lands to enjoy and enrich yourselves leaving us with evil leaders and scraps to survive on, soon you'll all be overruned in that Europe!, the evil that men do lives after them!
Anatolia: She is saying Nigerian men are the greatest simps in the world because they are ready to commit all kinds of crime to please their women. Because of the attitude of Nigerian Men, we have the most entitled set of women in the world.
Very highly entitled... but that narrative is changing gradually
obaidan: Their love for Nigerian guys is always about money, the fact Nigerian guys love to be the spender. They want a man that can be alpha In terms of spending alone. A traditional man in terms of spending but not traditional in every other way. Sometimes you have to ask yourself if this gender is fighting for equality or just trying to reverse the gender privilege
Very apt... most Nigerian women have serious problem, reason they're depressed when they travel out, they don't know what they have here on platter of gold!
Karnice600: One of the marriages I saw and got very confident with from the onset was The Anazodo’s (Miriam and Charles). Those people too fit themselves.
Walahi you got what I'm saying 💯, you'll see the love and bond just looking at them!
EreluRoz: Why do you think I'm speaking for myself?
Keep fooling yourself!... not all women loves to cook but she'll love to eat money??, who will be cooking then??, so I will go out and hustle money and still cook or buy food outside, I don't understand your stance?
Sonnobax15: The fact that she still has the number of that her ex on her phone tops the list of all the red flags . And j wonder what you're still doing with that type of banny. ...
MY BROTHER!...just imagine my own wife to be with ex contact on her phone??, na thunder go fire she and the ex!, once you hear my ex is not my enemy, na dem cheaters association, run!!!
shortgun: It's logical to tell you to leave the girl or run for your life....but to who? The experience you are having is just how women behave, you won't find a better one anywhere! The only ones who will appear to be better are those who will pretend but will later show their true colours. Any man who has made up his mind to get involved with a woman must be ready to put up with their nature and illogical dramas or just stay single. You are even lucky she doesn't get angry with you cos you are cheating on her in her dreams.
The areas where I see you lacking is in dominance and assertiveness; you need to dominate her to conquer her.
YOU'RE A BIG TIME LIAR!!!... probably na woman you be in disguise or you're married to a useless woman like the one he's about to marry, stop giving people your disgusting lame advices... he deserves better!!!
FanRong: I'm sorry, this post is going to be a long one. But you're saving a soul if you read through and advice candidly.
My story We've dated for 6months and we've lived together for the 6months.
On our 3rd month, I found her interesting and told her I'll like to marry her. She accepted but no engagement ring or anything to show. We just accepted by word of mouth.
Since then, I've worked towards it. I've told her to call her mum and eldest brother(dad is late) to relate my idea and understand their feeling since it won't be that easy to marry. (same state, but my people and her people are highly selective in marriage)
After several persuasion, and threat that I'll throw her out if she doesn't relate the circumstances to her family, she called the mum. And again I had to force her to call the eldest brother. She claimed she did. And that's enough. I'm ok.
Meanwhile, there's this guy(her ex) she claims helped her when she came to Lagos. It was when I started accommodating her that I found out in her chats that she was living with this guy, but lied to me she was living with her Aunt and the aunt's husband was harassing her sexually and she wants to leave. She later told me the guy, though provides for him but has never had sex with her, even when she was living in his house. These stories doesn't move me since everyone, who is not a virgin has an ex. So I forgave all that and we moved on.
She wasn't everything I need in a women, but I told myself I could train her the way I want. We continued adjusting to each others likes and dislikes.
I feed her this 6 months, provide comfortable shelter, buy her things she needs,(not want). Told her I'll do more and open a shop for her, if we get married, but she still confronts me asking why should I wait till after marriage? . I didn't allow the words move me cos Its my decision and my money and also, I'm used to gold diggers.
A good number of times, I see her as being selfish. If things doesn't benefit her, she'll not get bothered even if I'm involved.
Just this week, It became obvious to me that she argues everything I request her to do. From 24th Dec, we've been on holiday, we're always at home. 1. I'll wake her up at 9 and ask her to prepare breakfast for the family, she'll prefer to roll on the bed than do it. I'll finally have to do it myself so I can get things done and get busy.
2. I detest girls on eye lashes. I've repeatedly told her how I dislike it, but when she went to fix herself for the Christmas, she fixed the eyelashes, Contrary to my demand.
3. I got her some sneakers to upgrade her fashion style and look smarter, instead of the usual slippers and sandals she wears. When we prepared to go to the beach few days ago, I requested her to put on the sneakers to look more fashionable, but she refused buttressing that she must wear what she wants, sandals.
4. Few days ago, we had a heated argument and she said that if I'm not happy that she's living with me, that she can go, afterall, she has somewhere to stay. I asked her to go and she immediately called that her ex bf to come to my house. I immediately swung into action, took all her belongings out, before the ex will arrive, at the same time, retrieving the items I gifted her. While she was struggling to have her gifted items back, our neighbours heard the struggle and had to come and settle for us. She apologized and I forgave her. we were back into the house.
5. Just yesterday , we left home together, and I locked the door and I took the keys with me. We walked down the street together to the Busstop, I have almost no friend and seldomly greet. But there's this my ex girlfriend by the roadside, she saw me and yelled my name, I went to greet her and my Fiancée picked offence, left me without waiting for me. After that I chased her and told her it's nothing because I've told her everything about this ex. Before we could get to the Busstop, she demanded for the house keys and I gave her since she might come back earlier than me. We couldn't say bye. The anger was clear on her face and we parted ways.
After about 15mins, I got to where I wanted to make payment for the items I picked only to notice I am not with my transaction phone. I was confused where could I have kept it, the seller insisted I may not have come to his shop with the phone, and the phone rang as I called with my second phone. so I had to call my Fiancée for assistance since she's with the keys. At first, she said she was still around the Busstop but when I told her I needed her to go home and confirm my phones whereabout, she said she can't go back that she has gone far, shouted on me and hung the phone.
I called and called and called, but she didn't pick. Many thoughts ran into me. Who took this phone? My money? , my phone? , my sim card? . I had to find my way and trekked back about 4km to the house since I had no cash with me. And finally saw the phone ringing in my house. I was relieved.
The way she shouted to me on the phone got me unbalanced, I felt she would be fire if I get this girl as a wife.
We finally traveled to our home state today and I paid the bills for the traveling. My major plan of traveling was to see her people and do the needful before I mistakenly get her pregnant. But I'm seriously contemplating of canceling this plan and throw her out come January. I need peace.
Dear nairalanders, I'm really in the middle of the deep blue sea and the devil.
I need mature and candid advice please. Should I continue with the marriage plans or the redflags are obvious?
Once a woman lies to you and disobeys you at will in your face... do away with such woman!!!, she doesn't love you, contacting her ex immediately says it all... you've been a mugu and SIMPLETON, if you marry that girl you'll see hell on earth!!!
Unittyy: Read the story again, the victim is not the husband of the accused woman. They were only living in the same compound.
Further confirms they might be having an affair, forget that loan matter, who kills someone because of loan with multiple stab wounds??, I can't believe that!, seems like a secret romance caught and gone wrong!
gbadexy: From the comments above, the quality of contributions here get as e be. What was the fine boy doing in the married woman's house in the first place. Why was he the only outsider privy to the suicide attempt. The woman sef fine. There's a love triangle story gone wrong. Multiple stab wounds to different parts of the body is a crime of passion fueled with emotion to continue hitting unlike just stabbing to save oneself or to commit crime.
Na only your comment make sense here!... you'll make a good dictective agent!