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Kobojunkie:
But I don't displease myself at all as I made it clear that I do it if I can help it. I guess you are all too quick to turn the narrative around to make yourself seem the better person here is why you resolved it the way you did.

2. My friend does that too. When I am in the mood for a great steak and he is around, he respects my needs just as I respect his too. Respect works when it goes both ways. Not the brain damage you seem to be imagining there.

Well it was your narrative not mine!, finally you said something like a sensible person, respect is reciprocal... The brain damage you stated is a reflection on your comment without further explanation, check yourself!

Kobojunkie:
I have friends who believe cows as sacred creatures and not once have I thought them to be stewpid beings. As a matter of fact, out of respect, I don't eat beef, if I can help it, in front of them.

Lol okay oo, you don't eat beef out of respect to displease yourself to please others??, you sound ridiculous and needs to discover yourself!, how about they respect your decision on enjoying your steaky delicious beef 😋, how about that??

Kobojunkie:
He is not a mumu though. It is his belief and so should be respected. And even better, he is not imposing it on others.

That's still a stvpid believe!, sorry, not everything told to you when you were a kid you believed now, isn't it?

engrjacuzzi:
I don't trust the source of his money... it's either he is illuminati, drug baron, or a secret society member.

No one gives a fvck about what you think, onye ara go and make your own money, quit the jealousy and hatred!

SavageResponse:
How did he make the money he used to build those hotels?

Did you check that when he was a nobody?, idiot!

osuolale95:
One of our forefather turns to this, years ago.

So me eating this is like eating my forefathers

MUMU* 😆 🤣

Amarachukwu/Abdulaziz... it's rife all over

Persephone1:
Okay! I will respond to this, other mentions are from narrow-minded lots who can't deal with the fact that every being ( man or woman ) has freedom of choice and desire.

1) You are right, I have attentively analyzed the Nigerian marriage system and I do not like it. I am from the most liberal tribe in Nigeria but I still do not find the "give and take" systematic structure of marriages pleasing enough. This is from a place of personal preference.

2) Lol you are wrong there, that they do not meet my expectations do not mean I think low of them . There are some same ones but when it comes to relationships most have a lot to learn. Starting with emotional intelligence, did you read a thread where a guy shouted at his suicidal girlfriend and hung up on her because according to him"she didn't say what was wrong with her"? Well, girlfriend ended up killing herself. Now lack of sensitivity and emotions with partners is something common with Nigerian men, it is why a husband would not notice a change in his wife's mood or body until she is admitted to the hospital. I have seen lots of cases and I don't find them pleasing at all.

3) I get your drift. Nevertheless, both couples should learn about each other. On submission and head, I don't have an issue with that as long as the leadership isn't autocratic or dictatorship or the submission isn't subversive.

4) Good, hopefully, this will continue and soon enough all marriages will be enjoyed not endured.

5) In the Western world there's hardly discrimination of roles. Couples understand their weakness and strength and complement one another. They share roles according to ability and willingness, you may never come across gender roles with them. And when there is it comes with different forms of support that ensures none is burdened. But here you see people saying it is the job of a man to provide any which way ( even if he is limited) while a seven-month pregnant wife must take care of the home any which way. A very toxic system if you ask me.

6) Analyze the shortcoming of both genders in marriage and you will realize which gender has the most redemption and restitution to do. I have written it here once, a Nigerian lady has only financial dependency syndrome to deal with if she's to date or marry outside her race while Nigerian men have so much more to correct. If Nigerian women travel more, they will be hot cake out there, because they are very homely and lovely. But Nigerian men are trained to be money bags which in the long run does not meet long-term commitment standards.

Although there are some black sheep most marriages fail when the woman gets tired of enduring in Nigeria.

Your I too know will ruin you!... you can never be a man and the world will remain a man's world till eternity, you're just creating problems for yourself, Pathetic!

UyaiIncomparabl:
Only insecure men bother about not wanting to marry a first child/daughter. Truly, some families comes with lots of financial baggages, and this is what most of these men fear.

Some families too, are very shameless. How they manage to heap their numerous needs and wants on the men is just so nauseating.

I can't even give any man that glory to take care of my siblings or parents for me. I too get pride abeg! It's your choice to help, if you want. No be say tomorrow go reach, one man go come give me my life history of how he catered for my family and I when we were nothing. Kolewerk!

The fear of liabilities and going wreck is the beginning of wisdom!, there's nothing insecure about one being smart and avoiding unnecessary problems for themselves.

Curiouscity:
Sadly, this thread is not about me and my marriage challenges. But, my partner has a wrong view about money and responsibilities. She is yet to understand what family mean, or where her focus should be.

She works, but she expects me to run the house, and still take care of her extended family members.

Omo leave her ooo, for your own sanity!, her focus should be her immediate family once married!, finally when you wreck same family will bad mouth you and dump you, use your number 6!

Marry rubbish as wife!, can never be me... I go condemn that mouth she dey use insult me, carry her go hospital myself!, can't even marry someone like that in the first place cus I test people to the extreme!, you be real weak man and you're pathetic, Nonsense!

20k dem dey use drink beer at a spot, chai some people dey suffer and are very far from reality!

Jennyclay:
I put to you that this bolt driver is not innocent .

The police should tortured him and watch him confess all his evil deeds .

As long as I’m alive, I can never trust a man not even a Nigerian man.

Biko!! Torture him!!!

Mad woman!, seek help!!!

Hendrixky:
And so what

We should celebrate this now

When a dollar equal 1300 naira already

Big shame to tinubu
The problem with Nigeria is that there are too many sentimental, wicked and tribalistic souls in Nigeria

Reason we can not unite to fight our politicians

Imagine the picture below. Now he is aware that tinubu is not a magician
That same energy he used in tormenting Jonathan administration he can no longer use it because of tribalism

He's a mad man!

Supremos:

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=msOYMd5sf7Q?si=waYjICSxH7qOlL9y


My boss deceived me into donating my kidney over empty $20m promise — Driver
By Evelyn Usman

A 42-year-old man, Nwoko Eric, yesterday, revealed how his former boss allegedly deceived him to donate one of his kidneys to his (the boss) younger brother, only to abandon him after the transplant was done.



https://www.vanguardngr.com/2023/10/my-boss-deceived-me-into-donating-my-kidney-over-empty-20m-promise-driver/

The less you trust people the better for you!, be very wary of anything too enticing to be truth!

NameInUse:

I no like rough play oh. His gbola no go small oh.

Well I might be the "His" 😆

NameInUse:
Out of curiosity, anyone here tried penis enlargement oil or herbs or cream and it actually worked?

Seems your man gbola small, lol there's no way for it to grow... all na scam!, manage am like that or you come to me 😋

EmperorCaesar:
What can one use for a receding hairline wey fit force am out again

I need it so badly

Rogaine, that's the only proven hair regrowth remedy out there, ask for it in big pharmacies

Jewessgratitud3:
If she truly did what made her deserve such punishment then so be it. Big girl no dey for that one otherwise let her damn the consequences and jump the punishment.

Even she knows she deserves it thats why she obeyed. if you respect yourself, nobody will treat you anyhow

Which kind nonsense respect be that??, you're mad!

419 quotes, na when dem old dem dey get sense, ndi ara!

Has always been so from time immemorial... the elites and rich always marry themselves, in ancient Egypt they even practiced the art of marrying ones relative!, Nigerians wake up!

vickydevoka:
Single mothers pikin like ashawao work

seriously single mothers pikin na red flag!... alot of men need to awaken!

Ajalalomo:
Who told you he got his money from sport bettings?

It was actually from betting!

YoungLionken:
This guy is in for a long ride. He will be trending back to back on all social platforms online for the moment..

Like I said earlier, "a man's temperament controls his destiny". When a girl is adamantly stubborn with constant misbehaviors, the best or worst you can do is release her back to the streets, where you picked her from. You can't save any girl that doesn't or not ready to be saved, no matter how you try..

See how this nigger (a multi-millionaire) messed up his own life, by himself, through a girl he could have easily replaced. Men who don't know themselves are the ones getting all hyper on women. The men who know that they're the prize, women are the ones begging/craving for attention from them..

Be wise...

💯 fact!... only foolish men don't know they're the price!, any woman that stress you dump her and get another one the next day, no level, can't risk/compromise my life for any woman, GODFORBID!

Be wary of everyone once you start doing fine!

Delible:
Rubbish question. How did I get myself to this point sef.

Because you're a móròn that can't face reality about life, that's why it's a rubbish question to you 🤡

Mentioning 1M asif na 100M, like dem no dey dis country and dey observe exchange rate, Rubbish enticement 😆

Rossikk:
AND YOU WISH THE COUNTRY TO KEEP ''GOING INTO THE GROUND'' BECAUSE OF YOUR HATE.

BECAUSE YOU ARE SICK PEOPLE.

THAT'S WHAT HE'S TALKING ABOUT.

Wishes doesn't mean anything!... use your brains! 🤡

SavageResponse:
I know say my last comment pain you reach bone because na true I talk.

What you're doing over there is menial jobs but because you were so poverty stricken before you left Nigeria you think the 20Euros you get paid as a security guard is serious money

If dollar likes let it be exchanged for 2K my 3 square meals is guaranteed for the forseeable future!

Ofeke!

Ewu Gambia!

Onye ara... in your little mind you think everyone outside is on menial job??, Iwu Ezigbote onye eberibe... money I make a day your entire family can't make it in a year, jealousy kill your there, FAILURE 😆 🤣

Zupay:
See you showing off your ignorance, person whey dey born for UK with her British passport, also a UK trained lawyer, na who you open your unwashed mouth in a leaking brown roof in osogbo dey yab. Any name whey no sound Yoruba or Hausa, na omo igbo get am.....She is from Edo state and from the family of late Stella Obasanjo.

The wealth in her family, your own family in the next 7 generations no go see am.

Oponu radarada!

No na she get oxygen to give us too, make thunder fire her with her qualifications and wealth including you wey no get sense!... at her age she no get sense and yiu dey here dey follow her talk rubbish, thunder fire 🔥 you there!