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Stephenmoka4:
I heard some black women are less feminine there or have short temper or ghetto is.

baralatie:
and the black American men who fall short in school attendance compared to black American women choose not to buy 1000000 copies @ $6 to distribute for their women to be liberated

baralatie:
absolute nonsense

Terryishere:
All three of your reasons are wrong especially #3 To find out the root cause of mass incarceration for black Americans Google the 13th Amendment in the US Constitution, you will then understand systemic racism.

Quinex2:
Here are some of the real reasons a large percentage of black women are single:
(this, of course, pertains to black AMERICAN women):

1)During slavery black men were basically used as studs for breeding more slaves - no marriage involved, normalizing having children without marriage
2)White masters had children with black women - no marriage involved, further normalizing no-marriage culture
3)Mass incarceration of black men by a social structure that encourages deviant behavior from them.

ImaIma1:
I didn't defeat anything.

Your conclusions are biased on based on your own limited exposure and examples. And you are so determined to crucify one sex over the other.

So rest and stop trying too hard to prove a point.

Terryishere:
LMAO What is 6 dollars to an American?
Maybe they know the book is full of lies and stereotypes and have no interest in helping the author profit from it.

VULCAN:
You knock a book that you haven't even read.

Sigh.

There's a word that describes such behaviour but I won't mention it.

Maybe Black American women are single cos they can't afford $6 to read a book to find out why they are single.

ImaIma1:
You should be telling yourself this since you keep drawing conclusions based on limited statistics.

That's why surveys are carried out to get a more authentic analysis. And not this "doctors are more important than teachers" type of argument.

ImaIma1:
Because it's not all about you. The world doesn't rise and set on you. So there are people who are not in the news and who you don't know for you to draw a conclusion.

ImaIma1:
So a man having sex with a child is not wicked because it is motivated by sexual urge and not wickedness? In other words, what he did was kind and loving right! Let me know when you are ready to be real.

ImaIma1:
The problem here is that you focus on the ones YOU know and the ones YOU read and now draw a conclusion based on that. Do you know of the countless ones that live happily? You can't draw a conclusion with a biased and subjective view

Hathor5:
I am posting academic research and you are posting memes. Here is another credible source (and not some ridiculous memes):


Who Gets the House in the Divorce?

If the house is separate property, the owner-spouse will get the house. If the house is community property, there are several ways it can be divided, either by agreement or court order, in the divorce judgment.

Sell and Divide Profits

Spouses can agree to sell their home and split the profits from the sale. This is often the only feasible option when neither spouse is in a financial position to own the home alone.


Buy Out

Another option is for one spouse to take full ownership of the home and pay the other spouse his or her share. The buying spouse will need to refinance the home, so that the selling spouse is removed from the mortgage.

In determining whether the buying spouse can afford to take on full ownership of the home, many costs need to be considered, including:

monthly mortgage payments
insurance
utilities, repairs, maintenance, and
property taxes.
Tax implications are also an important part of the financial equation. You need to determine whether the buying spouse would be entitled to a mortgage interest tax deduction.

For more information regarding eligibility for a mortgage interest deduction, see IRS publication 936.

In addition, sometimes the court will order, or spouses’ will agree, to include a provision that the selling spouse pay the mortgage as a form of spousal support. If so, the spouse paying the mortgage can claim a tax deduction for spousal support payments. The spouse keeping the home would need to claim those payments as spousal support income, but still may be eligible to claim a mortgage interest tax deduction.

You should contact a tax consultant for more precise information on these tax issues.

(Find more information on Negotiating a House Buyout at Divorce).

Spouses Stay on Title/Deferred Sale

When the spouses have minor children in common, the court may make an order that temporarily delays sale of the home. This is called a “deferred sale of home” order. Under this scenario, both spouses continue to own the home jointly for a set period, giving the custodial parent exclusive use and possession of the home during this time. The purpose of a deferred sale order is to minimize the impact of the divorce on the children.

In considering a deferred sale order, the court first must determine whether the spouses will be able to afford the payments on the house after the divorce. The court will look at the spouses’ incomes, the availability of support, and other funds available to make payments.

If the court finds that a deferred sale is financially feasible, the court must then decide whether a deferred sale is necessary to minimize the impact of the divorce on the children. The court will consider all of the following factors:

the length of time the children have lived in the home
the children’s ages and grades in school
how close the home is to the children’s school, child care, and/or other services the children use
whether the home has been modified to accommodate a physical disability of a child or the custodial parent, such that moving homes would make it more difficult for the custodial parent to meet the children’s needs
the emotional impact moving homes would have on the children
the extent to which the location of the home allows the parent living there to maintain employment
the financial ability of each spouse to obtain suitable housing
the tax consequences a delayed sale would have on each party
the negative financial impact a delayed sale would have on the parent not living in the home, and
any other factors that the court finds are relevant and fair to consider.
An order for a deferred sale will specify how long the order is in place, after which time the spouses will sell the home.

https://www.divorcenet.com/resources/divorce/marital-property-division/who-gets-house-california-divorce.htm


You're welcome!

ImaIma1:
You want me to pull out the countless threads of...man molest 5 years old...man sleeps with 12 year old...man rapes 5 year old to death.

As I said, it is pointless to start arguing about who is more wicked because it will be inconclusive.

See my uncle's wife for instance has a househelp and the help has her child living with them. When they moved from far south south to Lagos, she followed them and left her daughter behind with her aunt. The daughter was molested by a "wicked man". My uncle's wife told her to go bring the girl to live with them.

Other people I know have helps that have lived with then for years, schooling or learning a trade. One help I know even used to drive to go pick the kids from school.

The truth is...the news always shows the bad men and women. Bad news is more lucrative so it makes it seem like the bad is more than the good.

There are many loyal wives and husbands but we don't see that in the news often. Besides, believe hardly believe. This gender wars are useless.

ImaIma1:
This is not always the case. What if I told you that I know cases where the man's children are even closer to the woman than her children are to her. Not everyone sees competition in everything.

That's why upbringing really matters. Children should be brought up in love and taught respect so that they show love to people around them.

Hathor5:
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Hathor5:
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Hathor5:
Jeff Bezos wife helped build Amazon. In a state where assets are shared 50/50 after divorce is finalized he got away with 25%. He is still one of the richest men in the world and like I said you choose to bring exceptional examples. The average man can't even afford a house without his wife's contribution. All men can choose to sign a prenup.

Hathor5:
How does it refute my point that women are the co-owners of the houses they live in in America because they contribute with their income?

Do me a favor please. Use your brain to think before you hasten to reply without sense.

Stopfapping:
the time that has not tell for the past 6 months can never tell again, I know you are disappointed the figures are not going up as you wished. Corona is real but not our thing over here, that is why ipeazu can play table tennis in isolation centre

ImaIma1:
Are you kidding me? The wickedness of a stepdad Pi

ImaIma1:
Are you kidding me? The wickedness of a stepdad sleeping with his stepdaughter, sometimes underage, is greater than the wickedness of the stepmom beating her.

We also have to forget all this blog stories and news we hear of step dads and step mums. A lot are nice and accommodating. Not all step mothers maltreat and not all step dads molest.

A woman's cheating is magnified most times because of the man's ego and perceived betrayal. So it's usually blown out of proportion more than if it were the man cheating.

All this wicked kidnappers, armed robbers, fraudsters, ritualistic, etc. What percentage are women? Yet you say women are more wicked than men.

Let's be objective and not try to turn everything into gender wars...war of the sexes. There's no victor in these kind of wars.

bukatyne:
Please define this 'freedom'?

ImaIma1:
I don't think a man has to lose his freedom. He just has to have a sense of responsibility towards his family but can still create a balance. I have experienced it happening. As long as there is trust, it can work.

backbone503:
If I'm totally wrong, then you're totally right. Issokay like dat. You can go now. Your body go tell you!

Hathor5:
No, it doesn't. All you hear is the BIG stories of the 1% of rich men who relative to their wealth pay peanuts. MAJORITY of men can't afford a house without a second income. Welcome to reality.

Hathor5:
No, it doesn't. All you hear is the BIG stories of the 1% of rich men who relative to their wealth pay peanuts. MAJORITY of men can't afford a house without a second income. Welcome to reality.

Hathor5:
Ok, swallow the red pill and leave women alone in this case. Also be aware of the women in your family. GENERALLY they could be wicked too.

ImaIma1:
Wickedness is not peculiar to men. It is easy for one sex to see the other sex as the demon while playing done their own demons. For instance, all these cheating we hear and see ladies, married women do, for men it has become a norm. So they don't even count it as anything again.

So when you say women are more wicked, it is a fallacy. Women are only more expressive than men.

donbachi:
help dem abeg