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ImaIma1:
I see that you can't see far from your own view.
So goodluck finding someone else to engage you in this "pointlessness".

cococandy:
This is wrong information

cococandy:
Haven’t you heard of the women who the men didn’t even know they fathered other people kids until years and years later? Why didn’t those women kill the men the moment they slept with other people? How did they maintain their homes while cheating like the men did too?

None of these things are determined by gender.

Don’t judge by beer parlor stats. Those aren’t real life.

cococandy:
Look at heinous/violent crime stats around you and around the world.

Terryishere:
That's absolutely false and the lie was started by CNN. A correct study was done and proven that most successful, educated black American men(not Nigerian American men, that's quite a different story) are married to successful, educated black American women.

The problem with people like you is you are unable to separate the celebrities from the general public. Actually most Black American celebrities are married to other blacks as well.

Terryishere:
You can't tell by their accent in a country as diverse as the US. They could be children of immigrants who were born and raised here and they would have an American accent.

Try again.

Terryishere:
So you say with your proof being Xvideos yet you still haven't answered my question.

How do you know they are black Americans and not Africans, Caribbeans, or Hispanics?

VULCAN:
I once saw a synopsis of the Bible that went thus.

A book of fairytales written by Jews.

Thankfully I wasn't you who makes reading decisions based on the synopsis alone.

I'm a bit more intelligent than that

tuzle:
i don't think lock down is a good idea. I would have supported u few months back but the effect of the lock down may be even more deadly than the virus itself. Their are so many people who are still alive today because the lockdown was called off, if not hunger would have finished them. Have u considered how the poor who survive by doing little things survived during the lock down? Confirmedzombie

pDudd:
Ok i go yarn.

The reason is not a simple one but a multifaceted one. Many factors come into play when it comes to finding out the reason. The reasons are cultural, socioeconomic, historical, personal, and societal.

Cultural: In the AA community, having a kid outside wedlock is a normal thing. It is even encouraged because kids are able to increase your socioeconomic status. The more kids you have, the more money you get on your tax returns, also the more you are able to get improved welfare packages. So a man is needed only to reproduce and not necessary to raise kids. If a man is present in the home and is earning income to take care of the kids, the lady may not be able to access the welfare package.

Socioeconomic: Like I said above, if you are a single mother, you are in a better position to access welfare packages due to your kids. The society looks upon you as a victim and this affords you access to many welfare benefits, such as free childcare, free daycare, free healthcare, free housing, free food, etc. The government will provide all that for you just for being a single mother so you don't need any man. You only need the occasional dick to calm your loins but not for keepsies.

Historical: Historically, black in America were not allowed to marry or cohabit. The slavery era did this to them and hence that practice has been passed down till today. Also the introduction of the welfare system ensured that women who had men present in the house could not access welfare benefits. Hence men are not needed by the women.

Societal: In the African American community, many men between 18 to 45 are dead or in prison serving long sentences. Therefore there are about 3-4 females to every 1 male. This uneven distribution makes it hard to have a man as your own. And even when you do, other females are waiting to snatch him from you. Furthermore, the few good black men there are tend to pick women from other races (white, Latino, Asian, Samoan, etc women) because he doesn't want the drama of black women. And this furthermore reduces the picking for AA women.

Personal: Because of the unstable nature of African American relationship Dynamics, some women or men in the African American community may choose to remain single.


Also other factors that can come into play are family Dynamics in which a lady is likely not to have a permanent partner because her mother and grandmother never had stable partners. So this becomes her norm and is an acceptable way of life.

Also no other races date black women in America. So they they have limited choices in men when it comes to the relationship pool. They only have black men to look up to.


Hope this helps.

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Terryishere:
Actually they are and they will tell you they are but some are afraid to approach black women for fear of rejection.

Terryishere:
How do you know they are black American and not African, Caribbean or Hispanic?

Terryishere:
88% of black American men are married to black women, who cares who the other 12% is married to.

Martinez39s:
Having read all your posts on this thread, I can say you are way too emotional and sentimental on this issue instead of being logical. I'm sure if I asked you what the author refers to as the life paradigm black women inherited from their mums, you wouldn't be able to tell me; I'm also sure you don't know the author's supposed basis/evidences for his conclusions. How can you legitimately refute and dismiss the author's if you don't know his arguments and it's supposed basis/evidence? You have to read his book and understand his point before you can legitimately dismiss his position.

To buttress my point that you are being way too emotional and sentimental, you called the author an incel. Why? Will he be wrong if he is an incel? Anyway, it will clearly make no difference if your understand the author's position or not because you, just like other women, will always flow with your emotions and sentimental as long as they make you feel good and serve your purposes (whatever they are).

Martinez39s:
You can't judge based on synopsis. You have to read the book to get the full details before your judge. You might not even know what the author thinks this life paradigm is until you read his book.

Terryishere:
Most successful black American men (not Nigerian American) are married to black American women.

baralatie:
I should name what!
so that the black American communities will go about shaming,stigmatizing and creating hell for black American women who settled in a white man's house

Terryishere:
How do you know this?

baralatie:
I am not the one that said black American women are loyal and don't marry other peoole

pDudd:
Yes. You're very right.

Terryishere:
I already stated the reason, also most aren't attracted to white men.

ImaIma1:
Just the same way you hardly hear female ritualists.

My point is simple...no sex has a monopoly of wickedness. And no matter what you say, you cannot prove that one sex is more wicked than the other.

ImaIma1:
Not sure I will

baralatie:
do you know how many black American women who are married to white American men and light skinned Latinos which will not end been murdered,socially stigmatised abused if they brought it to public view in their black communities

baralatie:
explain this part

Terryishere:
Good Lord. The lack of availability. There are more available black American women than black American men because of that amendment, and not to exclude the gay population. Black American women are loyal to black American men and seldom date out of their race.unlike Nigerian women.

baralatie:
unique that black american women are better of than there male counterparts

baralatie:
black american women reflect the view of black american men as regards the word marriage.
therefore it is not as straight forward as one would think

baralatie:
there is nothing logical here.
the question is why are black American women single
there are a thousand reasons which are responsible
1.disposition towards marriage
2.inability to get a black american male of choice
3.cost and implications associated with living in a capitalist American society
4. financial considerations
5.social and cultural considerations
6.religious considerations
7.legal considerations
8.place of residence
9.level of commitment
10.rate of infidelity
and so on.

blaming Christopher Columbus is out of it

ImaIma1:
I didn't defeat anything.

Your conclusions are biased on based on your own limited exposure and examples. And you are so determined to crucify one sex over the other.

So rest and stop trying too hard to prove a point.