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Opinionated:
But the richest woman in Africa is married. Aunty check yourself and change.

Word.

These women can lie

meobizy:
Hmm. A forward thinking country. We should learn from them.
Adanne who promised to marry me went to school in Canada and has blocked all my contacts from her phone. The government has guaranteed her a better life there so she sees me as a piece of rubbish from a past she's better off forgetting.

They always come back. Just live your life and make sure you're better off than she left you.

Moji12:
Please help me promote Lynx to number 1 dude looks cool n matured. Wole ojo makes sense, Bryan, Joseph Benjamin, Kizzy,ajibade.... Abeg wetin wizzy, de do there, tekno bawo, bolanle ke, he looks too rough like an agbero. Did I see davido mtchew

You've got good taste, jare. Bolanle isn't cute, he is just macho. Teckno is just there.

SaintHilary:
Bolanle Ninalowo must be number one

Muscle has nothing to do with being handsome. He's not even handsome.

Good to know that men from other tribe do marry our ibo women. Has anyone noticed that most of the single women we have are usually ibo girls?

Nice one.

Onyiridike:
And you think those who are poor are lazy and never worked hard like you?

Don't mind her.

abike12:
I've worked my behind off from a young age because I've always known the kind of role model I want to be for my children so honestly I don't have business with that question.

Madam, calm the Bleep down, read the question, think then answer.

I'm also a very ok guy but will I marry a poor girl? Yes. So why cant a girl marry a poor guy?

abike12:
no. it will end in one story or the other and it's not worth my time. I can support if he's working on his master's or if he's going through transitional period but if it's a permanent situation i'm not interested.

Note: I don't have a problem with other women doing it but for me it's a no so please don't bother bringing your life frustrations to my mentions.

Would you support a rich guy getting married to a poor girl?

4601CE:
per year

Zsquare:
Pursue your civil engineering some online classes with little pay can help u understand a lot. Going to classes is good as it'll help build you on different marketing skills and other areas that programming can't cover.

But you can be good without going to class.

Thanks so much. I`ll go with self study then.

simiolu1:
To be a full stack developer, you must be both a front-end and back-end developer. Even though most times full-stack developers are better at one than the other, it matters little. So you'd need to up your ante by learning HTML, CSS and JS. That is the starting point though. You'd need to know SASS or any of its variations. And at least one JS framework (there are many but you might want to pick between React, Angular and Vue). Once you start learning a JS framework, then NPM, Babel, Gulp, Grunt and Webpack must be added to your toolbox.

Since you're already learning Python, have a look at Django or Flask (python web development frameworks). Then there's the issue of Version Control and Testing.

So in order, I'd recommend that you do
a. HTML
b. CSS (please know the box model and flexbox well; without them, CSS doesn't make sense)
c. JS. please start at the beginning. Loops, If, Arrays, Objects, DOM manipulation (DO NOT SKIP DOM no matter how boring it is), functions, events. Then move to ES2015. By the time you're comfortable with ES2015, Babel and Grunt would be very comfortable. Then look at at least 1 framework.
d. Python Web framework. This will introduce you to OOP, version control and testing.

Don't be scared; you can achieve all these with self-learning. And please, take it step by step. Ciao

Bros, thanks for your time. I really appreciate it. I'll do as adviced. I hope I can achieve a lot (both front end and back end languages) in the next 12 months.

simiolu1, Zsquare, Halifaxguy

Hey guys, I have started to learn python programming and wish to even learn more languages like java script etc. I am a civil engineer but would like to delve into software development(Full Stack Developer). Do you think I need to go to school to study computer science or is self study/ experience just enough?

adedayoa2:
my dear its not about lived a good life, his family said that was what they wanted because 2 of their uncles don't have kids after some 30 years of marriage and since then its been their tradition.

So in this case, you wouldn't blame him. The family had their reasons. It's bad that you were affected by it.

AmazonTopaz:
Thank you and leave those ladies to do what they wanna do.

Sadly, it boomeranges and other people are affected. The girls get to their 30s, they become side chicks and start disturbing other people's husbands and causing their fellow women so much headache. Then their business affects everyone. No one is forcing you to do what you don't wanna do, but there are consequences for not being smart in all you do. Time waits for no man/woman.

AmazonTopaz:
Your opinion as for me money is secondary.Some of us are productive enough.
I can make myself happy but in regards to marriage I need to marry someone who I would be happy with and enjoy marriage and not endure just because I need to marry.
If age is a criteria for most African men then it is safe to say these men do not know what they want .
You made some points though.
As for 18 to 26 some do have priorities at then that does not concern marriage.

I never said 'ALL' women.

adedayoa2:
Never allow anyone pressure you into marriage, this actually is a reminder, I was been pressurized some years ago and so I almost ended up with a guy who talks anyhow and even said something annoying to my mum before me and I was like 'yeepa mogbe', his family even wants a protruding tummy before marriage and I tot to myself Adunni Ade, this has never your kind of man, everybody including friends wanted me to go ahead with the marriage when I declined, (they feel I was getting old). Well he got married a year later and I got married 4 years later.

Ok

Toks2008:
I dint know why many ladies keep using these lines..

Look here lady,forget all the ranting..there is no right or wrong person in marriage..ladies are just generally confused and they dont even know what they want and in 8 out of 10 cases after all the so called waiting and being extra careful they still make the wrong decision so what is the fuss about waiting for the right person...Taaaarh..

Thank you

AmazonTopaz:
So true very lovely write up.

People would be pressurizing people up and down to get married as if they would live the marriage for them. This is how some people marry the wrong persons because of pressure and unnecessary opinions of some people.
Marry for the right reasons and get the best person.

Ok

graciously03:
my butt is more bigger...lolx

What you need is to sabi English . Not to own a big butt. Big butt plus dull brain can only give you more sperm. Nothing else. And your Womanliness go suffer am.

Osaze007:
It has ended in PRAAAAIIIIIIIISSEEEEEEEEEEEEE
MY PPR IS OUT
I CANNOT BELIVE IT
I ALREADY BOUGHT MY TICKET TO Nigeria FOR 25th this MONTH
BUT THE GOD I SERVE SAID NO OSAZE YOU MUST FLY TO CANADA STRAIGHT

I SERVE A LIVING GOD
SOMEBODY SHOUT HALLELUYAH & ALLAH AKBAR

Guy, I'm so happy for you. I almost shouted while in our weekly meeting. This our God is too much.

jessca048:
but why expose the chat to the public, wonder what the wife be going through right now.
faithful men are now hard to find in this world we are living now

Yeah, men are beginning to retaliate for girls promiscuity. You started the war, and you'll lose the war.

keepingmum:
The foolish pride and arrogance your wife described off ur character is evident in your write up.

You haven't bought sense after these years.

LaudableXX:
Perfect sense. There is even a legal precedent on this issue, in the Nigerian legal system. Any lawyer that knows his onions will advice you to do the same thing. If first names are not included, then identities cannot be determined with certainty. The man can marry another woman tomorrow, and that woman can start bearing Mrs. Philips. So when a problem arises on the property, which of the Mrs. Philips would be called up?

She didn't include the man's first name.

vankaid:
That marriage was dead the day she acquired a property solely in her name.

It was buried the day he found out and demanded she change the ownership to his alone (a simple but tricky test to see if she made an honest mistake) and she hesitated.

If madam landlady here even in the heat of the argument refused to leave that house and didnt tell the man while HE is angry that the house is in her name alone the man wouldnt have freaked out.

Madam chose house over marriage and she has won but now cant enjoy her winnings.

People should learn to prioritise correctly.

What if you guys didnt build the house at all nko?

What if (God forbid) her own parent got very sick and she has to sell that same house to treat them?

And people from broken homes are all over the place asking you not to shift position. Mtseeww!!!

Your last paragraph na die

peepydelano:
madam we have read your husband's part of the story and I will advice you to handle this issue with wisdom (a very high percentage of it).Firstly,rule out divorce from it as he also clearly stated he won't want that.Now the ball is in your court,he's obviously a good man and you confirm that too,you kind of bruised his ego with your words and actions, you should also be aware that as a man and from your different backgrounds, you should treat and handle him with wisdom often,you can own something and still assume he's the owner and let him boss over it( there are things you can't totally change about a man),give him some sense of pride,give am small ego chop.we lived in my mums house for ten years and believe me no one ever knew till my dad got his(not even us d kids bak den)my dad had the controls,you could have just waved it off when he said you should pack out kos u knew too he didn't really mean it,never take words said out of anger serious till d person takes some practical moves.Can't you just meet him privately and beg him,tell him you will change d name to his alone to calm his nerves and I bet u he will tell u no need for DAT and u both can include ur names kos he's not a wicked man as u also confirm, then u settle d rest in za ozza room.After all dis,tell family members to calm nerves and maintain their space as u av taken charge of ur home and DAT u chose peace instead of fight. As a mother there are things you must sacrifice for the sake of ur children. pls b wise in ur dealings, don't break your home by yourself.peace.

So much wisdom in your reply. I had to read it twice. I hope she sees this and heed to it.

Jesusgirl92:
You didn't tell us the part where you insulted your husband's family.... Or why would he get angry to the extent telling you to pack out of your home?? I wonder the kinda words you used to push him to the wall. You're using your hands to tear your family apart. Even if you both come back together, things would never be the same. You said it yourself that your husband is a good man (which I saw on his own side of the story). The only part I'll fault him is telling you to pack out and asking you to put the property in his name alone. But you're to blame more.... What was your intention of putting the property solely in your name when you both planned it together? Is marriage supposed to be a one man show?? I'm sure you're angry with him for using "his own money" to treat his dying father. How wicked can you be? Father of your children for that matter... Did you even consider your children before disrespecting their father? Na wa for some women oh... Oya chop the house na.

Best advice so far.

Pearl05:
Let's say ur husband name is mike and your name is joy, surname Philips.

You can change it to Mr. Mike and Mrs. Joy Phillips.

Does this make sense to you?

graciously03:
Nigerian men won't see this...theirs is to complain up and down

And vice versa.

Tamarapetty:
Stretch marks are cute??

Some ladies would be ashamed to even post bikini photos, buh this is selflove.

Lol.

The lies these women tell. So you didn't receive call in his presence, he started beating you.

dopeJemi:
All of you saying go and marry, get a husband are stupid, idiotic and very predictable, una go tell me when Marriage and husband Don become life achievement

This is the kind of statement that kept her single till 43.
If your parents didn't marry, you for no exist. I've been with advanced single people, it's quite depressing for them even with their wealth. You can't fathom it.

As much as I want wealth, I'll take a happy family over wealth anytime, any day.