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Politics / Re: Sanwo Olu At The Opening Of Microsoft's New Facility In Lagos by CapitalBank: 12:33pm On Mar 22, 2022 |
seunmsg:OGA shut... shut I say. Before Tinubu, there was Lagos and after Tinubu, there will be Lagos. HE DID NOT MAKE LAGOS. LAGOS MADE HIM! |
Politics / Re: Cede Ticket To The South, Or Be Ready To Lose Our Support- SS PDP Govs To PDP by CapitalBank: 12:16pm On Mar 22, 2022 |
TheOldGods:This is what most of them don't know. It is what South South and South East decide that will stand in PDP. |
Politics / Re: Cede Ticket To The South, Or Be Ready To Lose Our Support- SS PDP Govs To PDP by CapitalBank: 12:15pm On Mar 22, 2022 |
Ttalk:lol... Even if it is an Igbo man from South South, trust me, South East okay. |
Business / Re: Which Business Can One Do With ₦1.5 Million? by CapitalBank: 11:52am On Mar 22, 2022 |
Cheato64:Take out 20k for data.... Go on Youtube to learn a skill that you can offer a service. Practice as much as you can until you are extremely good. Niche down to a specific market and then start offering your skill as a service to those who need it. You won't spend up to 200k to achieve this if you already have a laptop. If you make mistake by giving your money to anyone to invest for you or follow wrong advice from those who will comment here, anything you see, take it like that. 1 Like |
Romance / Re: He Cheated On Me, I'm Confused by CapitalBank: 10:45am On Mar 19, 2022 |
LIGHTHEARTED0: You are a dunce though. Why do you never do well act like robots? Didn't read that she makes her own money ? if The OP was a guy and complained like she has done, you will rain all manner of invective on her. Some times I wonder whether it is a woman that gave birth to you or you dropped from the sky. Now a guy is furking around and you still have the audacity to spill nonsense? What if he infect her with STDs, imagine this was your sister you fool! 4 Likes 1 Share |
Business / Re: What To Do To Make Money Online? by CapitalBank: 5:27pm On Mar 07, 2022 |
Sapiosexuality:Yeah, I guess that is why they replied that way lol... |
Business / Re: What To Do To Make Money Online? by CapitalBank: 4:44pm On Mar 07, 2022 |
AkProsper:That is wrong. It expired, someone bought it off the auction and listed it. That is the reason for that. |
Business / Re: What To Do To Make Money Online? by CapitalBank: 4:29pm On Mar 07, 2022 |
I outbound and they asked for the price. I replied $500 but negotiable and this is what they came with awesomeduru or anyone with a good response should please chip in.
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Politics / Re: Uncertainty Trails APC March 26 National Convention by CapitalBank: 11:39am On Mar 07, 2022 |
Dsalvo:You all are trying to play chess game by wanting to bully Buhari into submission because you are seeing what is happening already... What I love about the North though is that they don't play by the rules... |
Politics / Re: Uncertainty Trails APC March 26 National Convention by CapitalBank: 11:33am On Mar 07, 2022 |
Frigga13:I googled and the only place that news exist is on nairaland and the said newspaper that published it. No other news paper carried it. How can such a big move not be on every news paper? After I did my findings. I just laughed because it is obvious what they are trying to do. 1 Like |
Business / Re: What To Do To Make Money Online? by CapitalBank: 7:38am On Mar 07, 2022 |
snillocer:you definitely need a lot of domain schooling... better go up your knowledge lol 1 Like |
Business / Re: What To Do To Make Money Online? by CapitalBank: 8:55pm On Mar 05, 2022 |
viklegend:That is how they make their profit. |
Business / Re: What To Do To Make Money Online? by CapitalBank: 11:00am On Mar 05, 2022 |
erjo:Thank you. Jimneighbour:Thank you. That means the Nigerian Bank rate is around 500. |
Business / Re: What To Do To Make Money Online? by CapitalBank: 9:57am On Mar 05, 2022 |
MrPADDY:Thank you. GTB , Zenith, Access Bank and Fidelity (just need funding to activate), and I am looking at UBA Africard and Also Alat virtual by Wema |
Business / Re: What To Do To Make Money Online? by CapitalBank: 8:49am On Mar 05, 2022 |
MrPADDY:I understand. Just give me an idea. It has been a long time that I paid for anything online. I am just trying to catch up |
Business / Re: What To Do To Make Money Online? by CapitalBank: 8:32am On Mar 05, 2022 |
MrPADDY:Do you have an idea of what Nigerian banks charges now? |
Politics / Re: National Convention: Buhari’s ‘imposition’ Of Adamu Causes Disquiet by CapitalBank: 8:29am On Mar 05, 2022 |
ThinkSmarter: The last sentence does it for me... I have said it that I will personally celebrate this... can't wait! Even the noise from his stooges on nairaland has changed and reduced. They used to brag before but now, one of them is spamming the entire nairaland with subtle pleading, I love it! 3 Likes |
Politics / Re: FG, US Discussing Extradition Of Abba Kyari Over Hushpuppi - Malami by CapitalBank: 9:04am On Feb 08, 2022 |
Kingpin1000:some people think j |
Romance / Re: Sometimes, Love Can Be Complicating. by CapitalBank: 9:19pm On Feb 03, 2022 |
chocolateme:hello 1 Like |
Romance / Re: Sometimes, Love Can Be Complicating. by CapitalBank: 3:56pm On Feb 03, 2022 |
Michelle55:God bless you oo. It is same thing I told her but someone adviced that my case and her mans is not same... when u look at it well, u will find out that adviser has similar characteristics as the man that she complaint about and he tried to justify her boyfriends attitude towards the relationship... what she may not even know is that there actually humans who hardly love in this life... they will you that they are not the calling type, which is bullshiiit. make i go remove my email jare. |
Romance / Re: Sometimes, Love Can Be Complicating. by CapitalBank: 10:37am On Feb 03, 2022 |
Mrforexlord:I doubt it is marriage. Understand that people have temperaments AND...these two here are worlds apart when it comes to temperament. She is the communicative type and the outspoken type... the guy is the opposite. She should focus on someone close to her kind of temperament to be candid...cos with the way this guy is behaving, she is not sure of where she stands in his life! |
Romance / Re: Sometimes, Love Can Be Complicating. by CapitalBank: 10:27am On Feb 03, 2022 |
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Romance / Re: Sometimes, Love Can Be Complicating. by CapitalBank: 12:58am On Feb 03, 2022 |
chocolateme: OKAY, these are his qualities that you like I presume. Then he assures you of his dedication, devotions, and commitment. Frankly speaking, this is a red flag and a sign that he is not really interested in the relationship as much as you are, thereby leading to a one-sided relationship where one party does most of the work. It is also a sign that you are more invested in the relationship than him. The one who is more invested gets hurt the most. All those reassuring are just excuses, nothing more. If someone is not making effort or investing a little effort, then they are not really interested in you. You then find yourself in a situation where it looks like you are desperate just because you communicate to cover up his lack of communication. Exactly. It makes you feel desperate and needy because you want to keep a relationship that they themselves are not interested in. I had a similar experience not too long ago and like you, she was reassuring me that it is not what I am thinking, that she is busy... BUT she never initiates a convo or chat. She attended some parties at night within this period ooo. I have no problem with that. This went on till January this year when she didn't reply to my Happy New Year text/SMS. I had to check up on her on WhatsApp and asked to hope everything is fine. I did that because we hadn't chatted for almost a month prior to that and I was genuinely worried something may have happened to her.. Like I said, if I do not reach out, I don't hear anything from her. So she replied to my WhatsApp message that she saw my SMS, wished me a happy new year in return, and told me she is on transit. Mind you between when I sent that SMS and when I buzzed on WhatsApp was over 4 hours. That was it for me. She had been doing hers subtly but I went head-on and said since this is how she wants it, I have decided not to sustain a relationship that she has quietly existed from. I told her if no one reaches out to the other and the relationship dies, so be it... I said a lot and towards the end, I told her to delete all my numbers from her phone. She tried to pacify me and calm me down and at the same time, tried gaslight and guilt trip me lol. That was the last from me sha... A few weeks after that, she buzzed me (something she hadn't done for months) to check up on her. I responded but didn't grant her audience beyond that. In fact, I deleted that chat the next morning or the same day. I cant remember. In between all these complaints, she said erm... we can still be gisting. Same gist that she does not initiate? I just told her sure, if she brings the gist to make her know I understand her mind game. It simply means, dude if you reach out to me, I will respond but don't expect me to reach out. To make the feelings go away has become a very big challenge even though every form of distraction has been applied. It has gotten to the stage where you have decided to stop communicating to know his reaction but two weeks today, he has not communicated nor have you yet check-up each other on social media status.Even if you wait for 1 year, he will not reach out because he is not really interested. Lol, I did this too but slowly. It took time but it worked... What I did was delete ALL her pics, delete everything about her, including our chats... What I will suggest is, to let him know you know what's up and most importantly, if there is another guy somewhere that is showing interest in you, better give him a chance and stop hoping on this one. When the signs were becoming obvious, I had to borrow myself sense and gave other ladies access to me and eventually settled with one. The one whom I wasn't even expecting much from has turned out to be much more valuable than the one above, The new girl prays with me and sends me online live prayer programs every morning. A few days ago, I missed one and she told me she prayed for me. When I traveled home to the East for burial, she kept bugging me to know what's up , she wants to know how my day was going, whether I have eaten, if we had completed the rites, etc. When someone is genuinely interested in you, it comes effortlessly and without stress. Only stay with someone that wants you in their life and is at least making visible efforts. The reason you are tied to this current one despite not getting anything meaningful from the relationship is that you have a scarcity mindset. Have an abundance mindset cos it helps. At a point, I had to tell the other girl that I am dating someone else already when she tried to make it look like I was bugging her, which surprised her lol. The idea that you can't let go is just mindset. Learn to trick your own mind to favor your life. Our minds can become our prisons when we do not realize this. Deleting everything about him is a starting point to tricking your mind into forgetting him. If you have any questions, feel free to ask. 5 Likes |
Romance / Re: Sometimes, Love Can Be Complicating. by CapitalBank: 4:01pm On Feb 02, 2022 |
Kellzzyy:Ogbeni... u dream see me for dream ni? |
Romance / Re: Sometimes, Love Can Be Complicating. by CapitalBank: 11:54am On Feb 02, 2022 |
Kellzzyy:Nope... I don't even remember the last time I sent a DM to anyone on here. It must be years ago lol I have an idea of what she is going through because I have just exited a similar situation. 1 Like |
Romance / Re: Sometimes, Love Can Be Complicating. by CapitalBank: 4:45am On Feb 02, 2022 |
chocolateme: Hey Choco, do you mind if I put in my thought for you? I have been where you are now and the only difference is that we are opposite gender. Are you seeking for an advice and a way out or you just felt like ranting? Let me know and I will do it. 1 Like |
Romance / Re: My Girlfriend Wants Space Cos I Am Broke by CapitalBank: 3:08pm On Jan 31, 2022 |
WBworldwide:delete her number. Delete her pictures... Delete anything that reminds you of her. Women are always after the next shinny object. Some will even keep you to feed their attention tank, while they explore other options. These ones are worse. But the only mistake we will ever make is not have options. Women always have and keep options. You shouldn't be doing the opposite. Your thread once again demonstrates that as man, never date a woman that is broke and not doing anything reasonable cos results like this are bound to happen and they are usually entitled to a money that they have never made in their entire life. |
Politics / Re: Farooq Kperogi: Clarity On Tinubu’s Age And Postsecondary Education by CapitalBank: 7:46am On Jan 29, 2022 |
aremuforlife: These here are in the public domain: The bullion vans Alpha Beta Cronyism Hatred for Igbos His role against the south in 2015. EndSARS massacre. Which is fed by your elders when eyes have seen and ears have heard Tinubu carry out the above? Good luck man |
Politics / Re: PDP Ignores Power Shift, Says Atiku, Kwankwaso, Others Free To Run by CapitalBank: 7:08am On Jan 29, 2022 |
ityP:PDP knows. They are just intentionally acting confused for now. If they win 2023, APC will not last 1 year before collapse. 4 Likes |
Politics / Re: PDP Ignores Power Shift, Says Atiku, Kwankwaso, Others Free To Run by CapitalBank: 6:27am On Jan 29, 2022 |
Flets: God bless you... Las Las a Northerner will emerge in PDP. Every Southerner in PDP will shut up cos the party needs to win and only a Northerner can make that happen. 8 Likes 1 Share |
Romance / Re: What Killed Your Feelings For Someone You Were Madly In Love With? by CapitalBank: 4:30pm On Jan 27, 2022 |
Ficient:lol drop ur own story and leave mine alone. If you get, read and waka pass. |
Romance / Re: What Killed Your Feelings For Someone You Were Madly In Love With? by CapitalBank: 6:22pm On Jan 26, 2022 |
Jesusdiedhaha:Yeah, you are right... I have learned. |
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