Jesusdiedhaha:

The positive thing is that you have learnt from the experience.
We live and learn.
One piece of advice I have to go give you is this:
1) learn to give women space: The fact that you had to initiate your conversation every time for 8 months is weird.
2) Test her loyalty: Fake a bad financial situation or ask for a favour you know she can do and watch her reaction.

I'm not with the redpill group that everyone is on right now but women never play me. My orientation is tight and I just don't take bullsh!t.
You either love me or leave me alone. Simple.

Yeah, you are right... I have learned.

Jesusdiedhaha:

Now I understand better.
The thing is from the onset the affection was unequal. You had way more feelings for her than she had for you.
I'd rather be single than date someone who doesn't love me equally at least, even better if they love me more.
When a girl genuinely loves a guy, she makes the journey with him an easy one. And when things get rough she'll support you, some even go as far as borrowing for you.
Hopefully you current gf is a better person.

YES but the feelings for me wasn't always like that. She was the one that lured me by her actions. At a point, she said "Are you trying to withdraw from me"?

What does that tell you? It simply means I was not giving her as much access or attention. Women know these things...

However, when I let my guards down, she withdrew, changed and started acting like I am desperate and had some other attitude.

Another sickening observation is she is an energy zapper. She is the kind of girl that just wants to keep you there to feed her attention tank if you know what I mean. A lot of bullshit happened sha...

So why did she buzz me? Shebi e don end now, make she rest and enjoy the one making her head swell.

Jesusdiedhaha:

You're still soft as hell man.
8 months is too long to put up with some nonsense like that.
You haven't moved on bro, you're just deceiving yourself.
A guy who has moved on will totally cut off ties with her.
Funny thing is that there are a few guys that she throws herself at and they don't even regard her.
I hate reading stuff like this.

I have moved on... I am dating someone else already. The reason it looks like I have not is that the anger is still there. I no longer have her number on my phone, to be honest.

The reason I openly told her I want to end things is that I don't do subtle things (if you make me angry, I won't keep malice but will tell you boldly) and I don't want her to call me months later and start feigning ignorance as if she does not know what went wrong. Girls do this a lot. I had already started working things with another girl like 4 months prior to this day. As a matter of fact when she tried to miss yarn by saying good luck blah blah... I just told her that I am already with someone else. It shook her of course.

The problem is that she allowed my effort to deceive her and made her feel on top of the world to the point that she thought I wasn't with my senses anymore and that she could take advantage of me but said she does not want to. Yeah, her words actually.

I just look at this girl eh... I laughed with a torrent of anger... so much anger that 1 week after she made that comment, I couldn't let it off. And like I said above, if you make me angry, I will boldly tell you and furk off. I told her she messed up by saying such nonsense and that the fact I am being cool does not mean I can't be bad... after much talk, she apologized but ma'am it was too late.

The apology was late and never worth it. It was an insult that came from a lot of places and at that point, I knew it was time to stop all the things I used to do.

Her birthday was approaching and she, as girls do, tried to remind me that her birthday was coming so that I can drop something. I told her I didn't forget. she said she just want to remind me. Well on her birthday, I told her I AM BROKE and that I can't get her any gift lol.

I have moved on sha and because of her and other experiences, the current girl I am with has not got a dime from me. I know the current babe is not complaining but it is very unusual of me not to spend on a lady I am with. However, I have no choice but to keep my wallet and drill this one. If she wants to go, she is free to...

The last thing I want is a lady disrespecting me simply because I am trying to be cool. no one has a monopoly over madness. some of us just keep our demons under control.

Emjace:
She told me about a guy who got her an Iphone sometime ago. The guy asked her to be his girlfriend, she didn't give a reply yet, but she was gonna say yes anyway

The guy stopped calling and texting her... She tried reaching him, wasn't possible...

After some months she was told that the guy was robbed and all that...

Then I asked her if the guy calls her and gives her a genuine and justifiable explanation of his reason for not being available, then requests to get her back, what will be your reply? Then she replied to me "I don't know"... Asked again yet she gave the same reply

I walked out angrily... Never answered her calls since then...

The above happened yesterday... And she's my girlfriend.... Infact I need advice

Now, you did the right thing. It means she would give in to him with a little push. Get yourself someone else and move on. Women are opportunists in nature and always looking for the next shinny object.

It was a phone issue(someone bought her a phone) that made a girl I was interested in to go cold on me... I endured it for 8 months as she stopped initiating convo...

The few weeks ago, I told her boldly that I have gotten her message and I will move on from here. I even told her to delete my number from her phone. she started telling me to calm down. I told her I have heard but within me, I had made up my mind...

2 days ago is the first time in 8 months that she would initiate a chat... I just responded and never did beyond that. If it took her 8 months to initiate convo, something she does before, because I took a tough stand to end everything, then she is not worth my time.

Well, she was beginning to feel distant and somehow felt too important. The same girl that was once worried that I was withdrawn..., We didn't talk for most of December and so I messaged her a few days a new year and wished her Happy New Year. she never replied to the SMS.

I had to buzz her on whatsapp 4 hours later to make sure she is fine considering we hadn't talked for almost a month... the weyrey come reply say she see my sms and wished me happy new year ... when someone is feeling too important, the signs were there. Prior to that I had been getting the signal.

I was tired of her subtle attitude and boldly told her that I have gotten her message and it is time for me to move on. I even told her to delete my numbers from here phone... she begin tell me calm down blah blah..

2 days ago she buzzed me to ask how I am doing... I didn't reply her on time but did when I could. after replying and responded. I had to delete the chat afterwards cos I didn't want anything to remind me of her again. A girl that stopped initiating convos or chats 8 months ago suddenly buzzing because you complained and stopped initiating chat is not worth it. Let's not talk about the subtle and indirect insult she threw around October.

It is well. There are more ladies out there willing to have me... and I have moved on.

Dliquidmetal:
The feelings weren't reciprocal,so I gradually detached myself. I don't care how strong the feeling is, once I figure she doesn't feel the same way I move the Bleep on.

na so e suppose to be o.

Marriage is not bondage... You people just ended up with selfish humans as husband or wife and cry later.

Hello,

Please help me with a link to download photoshop CC. The one I downloaded last time has some missing features. I couldn't change the colour of icon from black to any other colour that I wanted because the feature that could allow me do that with ease was missing.

Please help as I am learning via YouTube videos.

cdor777:



Distinguished, don't let Meffy scare you away from enjoying the goodies of receiving payment via Crypto.

The CBN intention is to scare the youth away from using crypto and adopt the e-naira forcefully which won't work.

You can still receive payment via crypto and exchange to naira securely, just tell your exchanger not to use any crypto related description. Also, use Bank like Stanbic IBTC as they don't engage in this dirty policy of restricting people account unlawfully.


However, if your choice of withdrawal is still Wire Transfer, I think Transfer Wise (used by Epik) process transfer within 48 hours. This information is based on the last time I used it to receive payment, which is couple of months ago.

Transfer Wise has been blocked by the useless government since early this year.

Hey,

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I am looking for someone who knows how to build sales funnel with a good user interface... I know there are templates popularly used by internet marketers.

However, I would like the feel of the pages to look beyond internet marketers' kind designs.

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If you can really make funnels with such a UX feel, please indicate. I know the processes of doing it but I would not have the time to get it done. This will be an ongoing basis as we grow.

You also have to know about Copywriting and how to persuasively write copy that sells because the goal is to make sales at the end of it all.

I think if you know how to build it with elementor or thrive, that would be awesome.

You will be paid for every completed job done.

emekajo:
I need experienced writers who can commit to writing under tight deadlines for my clients.
I'm also in need of Wordpress web designers and people who can do sales funnels
I run a small virtual but growing digital marketing company

Please I don't want broken English writers o

We pay around N1000+ per article (depending on requirement) and we have a good flow of jobs
If you can write sales copies the pay is much higher (much)

Web designers' rates vary according to what is required for each website.

If you're interested please send me an email (mekwriters@gmail.com) with your samples.

I'll respond to you as soon as I can.

1000 naira per article? dude, are you looking for slaves? WTF?

Warrior14:
I will be getting married in 3 weeks time but I'm not happy
I'm getting married to a man who has beaten me two different times. I'm getting married to a man who is heartless and doesn't know how to love and treat a woman right. I'm getting married to a man who does not have a mind of his own.

I'm getting married but I'm already thinking of divorce.

I'm overwhelmed! I'm physically strong but I'm weak.
Just don't want to wake up from my sleep so I won't have to continue with this marriage plans as I can't stand the shame of calling off the marriage at this time.

There is only one thing that can make a woman walk into this kind of marriage with impending doom-Money.

Listen to me, I lost my favorite aunt to an abusive husband, who was a naval officer.

If you know what is good for your future, call that marriage OFF or start telling your family to buy your coffin in advance.

Good luck.

Idamond:
Good Nairalanders!

Don't mind my typo terminologies


I don't know if there's anyone facing these some thing..

LEARN TO SAY NOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOO IF it is inconvenient for you.

Kunlelee:
This zoning palava will drag on till next year November or so

at the end, the North will win...

All thanks to our Landlord of Lagos...

faste:
How would that stop the Biafra agitation and the fact that Nigeria is a goner?

help me ask am o.

Xscape1993:
Nnamdi Kanu is well with your soul. You don't even know anything about Nigeria before you started this battle. I doubt if you will win this battle ooo. Let us not deceive ourselves.

you should worry more about your life that trailer can destroy on the road or police can snuff out anytime

amc:


He wasn’t fighting for anybody. He was doing the dirty work of his party. And it has backfired. Lol

lol... But you are doing the job of Tinubu...e go reach ur door soon

theTranslator:

don't play dumb

you know exactly what talking about

SOOOOOOTTTTTHHHHHHHHHH

theTranslator:
there is oil in delta and Bayelsa yet they don't have black rain

that thing is caused by Refinery oga... Not oil sleeping in the ground.

teamoneline:
The soothe in pH can give lung cancer. God help una

Lol.. Dangote is coming with its own for Lagos people...

tamdun:

Don't play with North(apc) but pdp is about to zone their ticket to north, let's stop pretending abeg

Well, the argument in PDP is that the South has ruled more than the North and it is only fair to allow a Northerner. That is just one. It sound logical. Another thing is, PDP has to win come 2023 and they would need the North to accomplish that.

Penguin2:
What I know is that Tinubu faction’s congress in Lagos was a jamboree for touts.

The authentic congress in Lagos is the one conducted by Ambode.

In Ogun, the one conducted by Dapo Dagboru Abiodun is a waste of time.

The authentic one is one by Amosun.

Tinubu’s ambition is in the mud already.

Is Ambode still active in APC?

paulolee:

he is no longer the pre season scorer....am so happy for him because he is finally repaying the huge fee used to get him..
Its such crucial goals like dis dt proves ur worth to d team..
I pray d goals never stops...more goals to his studs..

That goal wouldn't be possible if he didn't have the height to meet the ball in the air. I love how is always determined to score goals. He will go far as long as he does not allow the Nigerian spirit of complacency to ruine him due to fame. He should stay away from girls too, at least for now.

Iamgrey5:
There's nothing that stops Yorubas and probably Egun(Gun) people from dominating every office in Lagos because Lagos also have indigenous people just like your state of orgin.

And you actually missed the point that those people were actually appointed by Yorubas to Foster unity in Lagos.

There are other non Yorubas in Lagos that won elections and actually hold elective position.

Meanwhile we have two igbos and an Hausa man holding important positions in Oyo state too.

https://dailypost.ng/2019/12/05/kano-indigene-igbo-woman-make-makindes-new-appointment/

Do you know there have been Yorubas appointed in the East too? I don't blame most of you if not that South East does not have powerful media machines, all these nonsense would not be.

Zorn:
so why are you particular about Obi when they're many names on that Pandora paper?

You know the answer already.

SmartPolician:
If true, then it is good news...this will either make or mar Obi. If he survives it, he has something to campaign with (if eventually picked). But if he doesn't survive it, it will make things easy for other aspirants in his party.

It is not true. Stella Oduah is already in APC, they wont touch her. Peter OBI is the major target and watch as they will focus on just him and leave out the others... they had to come up with this because people were saying the focus are only on Obi...

Limassol:
As far as the world knows Endsars protesters never set ablaze anyones property, that was handiwork of sponsored thugs and hoodlums who were hired to disrupt a peaceful protest. Belive it or not that was the reality

Leave them bro... I don't know how some people really think that it was endsars protesters that burnt those properties... like are you for real?

A001:
Instead of those posters on Twitter to urge the government and security agencies to monitor the planned protests and prevent a breakdown of law and order, they're discouraging Nigerians from exercising their fundamental human rights as regards organizing/partaking in a protest.

What we should all clamor for is peaceful demonstrations, not outright ban of protests like some political elements on Twitter are doing.

Brainless people.

The protest organizers need to ensure political thugs don't hijack the protests and thwart the patriotic efforts of brave Nigerians demanding good governance, accountability from our political leaders.

They are working for the government. I know most of those handles on twitter. They are online hired thugs to oppose the real endsars.

Among us, we know it was not the endsars protesters that burnt those place but government hired thugs to do it. We know... same way they hired thugs to kill in the East and blame it on IPOB. We know.

RodgersAkpafu:
Threads like these are deliberately opened to further stoke division and ethno centric jingoism
What I do know however is that while the sensible citizens of Nigeria are going about their business and professional lives across the country, the dregs, no do wells and riff raffs are the ones engaging in this tribalism

leave them. They think it's 2014/2015

stinechykee:
Don't mind them,they think it was back then when they use media war on every other tribes in Nigeria but they should know that anything Igbos involve or pick interest in they tend not to leave that thing and they will make sure they over take you.This war was started by one of their Yoruba brother here and they want to accuse Igbos of hating them when it's them that always hate Igbos first because of Igbo doggedness and strong Spirit

As in, imagine the stupidity.

I will do a counter thread to highlight Yorubas that have been appointed in the East as well.

Whay rubbish...

TooNoisy:
One thing that is very clear is that the Yoruba are the most accommodating tribe in Nigeria; no one can deny that. However, what have we got in return - hate and envy especially from the Igbos. The Hausa/Fulani are suspicious of the Youruba but they do not hate the Yoruba. The are also accommodating to the Yorubas.

The Edo/Isekiri/Urhoro are siblings to the Yorubas even though they have their own identity. The Efik/Ibibio are somewhat indifferent to the Yoruba but that is fine. The Igbos outright hate the Yoruba and it is time Yorubas become very conscious of this hatred.

Everyday they are castigating Tinubu, Fayemi and Osinbajo; and other potential Yoruba presidential candidates. The other day they were calling Yoruba women undesirable and dirty. All of them were hating on Peter Okoye for marrying a “dirty Yoruba woman” - a woman who is more educated and exposed than anyone in their generation. They insult the same Lagos where they live - why don't they just go back to Onitsha and Aba.

They insult anything Yoruba- from Anthony Joshua, Wizkid, Tiwa and everything Yoruba. These insults are not unnoticed. Yoruba will not forget and will surely retaliate!

This is not 2014/2015 all these una tribal politics because of 2023 will only be on nairaland. if dem born una well, bring it to twitter...

you guys think you are smart with this rubbish topic, right? SEE you quickly writing epistles cos you think you are still in 2014... we will be here as usual.

LegendHero:


Dem no born Obi Pandora well not to support Atiku!

I cant wait for 2022 to be here. You will learn! And when are you coming back to Nigeria to enjoy Tinubu's legacy so that we can take you serious?