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ednut1:
Many of the people calling people narcissist are the real narcissists. The other person didn’t allow them get their usual way( manipulation, gaslighting etc) . They then turn around to label the person narcissist

SenecaTheYonger:
You should not condone silent treatment. You should also never allow a girl insult you. If a girl insults you, use a very painful secret of hers to insult her back. She will submit to you after crying.

After your GF is done wih the silent treatment, tell her that the next time she does that, you will take it as a sign the relationship is over and that she should just move on from her silence. You too also be prepared for this and mean it.

Never you allow a girl have control in a relationship. Always have the upperhand.

The bolded , that's the fastest way to make me lose interest. I very much dislike insult. Once I notice any atom of disrespect, I begin to lose whatever interest I have.

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@ Nadingo seems FTI salary has started dropping

Mohisah:
I don't doubt it for those living at Airport Rd or around correctional service & d village in Airport vicinity. No forget say some guys livin fine dat u see may hv rich family back up n other means of gettin money..
Na their senior staff dey see funds well sha

You are also right. But there are people who have rich family funding them and still complain of brokeness, person go club on Friday blow 90k at a sitting, then complain that 200k salary is small. I agree with you that certain situations make certain amount unbearable, but Some people just have spending problem

Nadingo:
No mind them. Everyone na rich man online. Me wey be level 11 for FTI no even see that 180k take home sef and I dey survive with wife and 2kids. We move...

Abeg who knows what is happening to FTIs November salary abeg?

Life is all about cutting ones coat according to size, I've seen someone earning 90k though single guy, who doesn't complain of money and I've seen someone Earning 250k who always lament being broke, this guy would even Tax you when he meet you. Sometimes people just Live beyond their means and claim certain figure is too small for them.

EsvRotimiJubril:
If i see 180k salary dey collect, na to marry before next Ramadan.

jubrilELsudan:
BY THE TIME DEM FINISH WITH THIS STUPID MAN.....EMEFIYELE OWN GO BE CHILDS PLAY CAUSE THE PEOPLE WEY DON PLAN DIS MAN NA ONLY BABA GOD GO FIT SAVE AM OOOOOO

Maybe na why him sef wan grab ambassador.

BigBlackPreek:
must you die in government, can you retire to your home in peace

They need that immunity to escape probe.

freddybonz:
Lol....Life is a risk, no risk no reward.
Abeg CBN still de downsize abi the governor don chill now?

Dem wan sack people or transfer them?

Nadingo:
And most importantly, job security too.

This.

Hassan52:
Pls do you have any ideas on Ministry of land and housing salary? Level 8 & 9.

Conpss structure

With the recent peculiar allowance, Level 8 should be around 83k

90% of the folks abusing that Girl can't cope with Isreals attitude if they are a woman too. But typical Narcissists can't feel other people's pain.

OGHENAOGIE:
u pple and warped mentality... What did she lose by breaking a marriage that didn't work... And how Is she for the streets... Some of u see women as pieces of furniture change ur mentality ok

Lol

It hurt their ego that a woman can still leave them despite their money and attitude issues.

RANGO23:
..Yes you have a point..one needs to be careful.....
I have been Hunting for government job since 2020..till date.. but nothing is working....It even got to a point i was given fake appointment letter from FCSC with I noticed it and rejected it..... l know we have trustworthy people here but one needs to be careful ..

Wow uv been through alot . May God show you mercy soon
How do you detect? Point of documentation? Were you called for interview?

CandidAdmin:
One of the reasons I kept calm.

Besides, if not because of the state of the country's judiciary system, I could have also gotten him arrested.

Imagine trying this with a woman abroad... Old man would have landed in prison.



If I had gotten him arrested, with the right amount of money, he would be set free and the case would be swept under the rug.

If I had fought and he landed in the hospital or died, I would have been arrested.
Either way, I'm at a loss.

Not easy to be calm, but your thinking is correct

achorladey:
That's alright. I dey probe each and every link that I can get towards that direction. Here and outside nairaland. Someone here is trying to fill me in on information regarding this unity schools here last month. I used that post as a way of reminder.

Anywhere infomation that I can make use of enter, I grab. Loool!

Sure . Na to grab any link
All the best boss, seems you got a passion for teaching?

Gensanusi:
Universities in Nigeria are battling a severe shortage of staff as thousands of lecturers leave the tertiary institutions to seek greener pastures in foreign lands amid the high number of retirements at the varsities.

The Academic Staff Union of Universities branches confirmed this, adding that the shortage was due to the surge in the exit of the lecturers out of Nigeria and the concerns around the Integrated Personnel and Payroll Information System.

ASUU at the Usmanu Danfodiyo University, Sokoto, said about 100 lecturers had left the university, while the union at the Federal University, Gusau, Zamfara, disclosed that the institution was in need of about 1,000 lecturers to fill the vacancies created by those who had left.

The union at the Federal University of Agriculture, Abeokuta, Ogun State said over 350 academic vacancies were available at the institution, while 27 lecturers had left two faculties at the University of Lagos, as 100 workers at the University of Uyo travelled out of the country.

The union disclosed that about 500 academic vacancies existed at the University of Ilorin in Kwara State, while both academic and non-academic staff of the Olusegun Agagu University of Science and Technology were leaving the country.

The Chairman, Olusegun Agagu University of Science and Technology, Okitipupa, Ondo State, Dr. Rotimi Olorunsola, said many of the staff of the institution, both academic and non-academic, had left the university.

Olorunsola said, “Yes, some have japa (travelled out of the country), both the academic staff and non-academic.”
The Head of the Media and Protocol, Adekunle Ajasin University, Akungba Akoko, Mr Victor Akinpelumi, confirmed that many workers of the institution had moved out of the institution.

“It is true many workers, both academic and non-academic, have left the university, but as I am now, I can’t give a specific number. I can confirm that many workers of the university have gone,” he stated.

The Chairman of ASUU, University of Benin, Dr Ray Chikogu, said the shortage of staff in UNIBEN and other universities had been a problem that existed for a long time due to the embargo on employment by the Federal Government.

He said this constituted undue interference by the government in the running of the universities, especially as it affected the recruitment and promotion of staff.

He said, “The teaching staff department is grossly understaffed. For a very long time, academic staff have been overburdened with work in the University of Benin and many other universities in the country.

“It has been a problem for a number of years now because of the embargo on employment in federal universities and the process of recruitment of staff is a very cumbersome one. The university has to obtain permission from the head of service through the accountant-general’s office.

They should fill up this spaces , contributing to the welfare of the masses

Musty4ahmed1:
Please which Paramilitary or Uniformed agency currently recruiting or doing replacement? My contact just called that I forward by younger brother's CV and passport immediately. But refused to answer me when I tried to find out which paramilitary, may be he want it as surprise. Although I have sent him.

Congrats in advance

achorladey:
Intel on Federal Unity Schools welcomed

Bro You might need to connect to someone outside of NL for this information. most people here are only concern about A agencies , when there are other FG jobs that need updates.

...Enyeama and Rufai are arguably the best, But this guy was ommited "Murphy Akanji. "Nigga was good too

ednut1:
His daughter did intership where i was working. When i saw the babe fear catch me i no go lie

Fear, why?

xavuv:
Omo aiye which certification u see get

Gentlesoul2021:
I have shared this on a thread here titled what's your worst experience you've had at a of place work. I have had a taste of working in a bad and toxic environment. I will share again.

I got out of one in March, an hotel owned by a former governor managed by one wicked chairman...

He talk on people anyhow, and fond of saying he's untouchable cos he's a politician and roll with high Caliber. He curses employee even beat up a guy at a point. Well I was praying at some point he'd beat me and I will strike back then take issues up with him, very useless person.

People think we the workers are enjoying like mad since it was owned by a former governor and all form of dignities lodge there.

My employment contract stated different role but I was moved to a different department to work, not quite long, I was moved to another cos one of their old staff angrily resigned cos of the man abuse.

In space of 4-5 months I was moved or will I say yeye promotion thrice, yet salary didn't improve. It got to a point I was the only one working in the store department, doing all the work, a big hotel.

There was a new building extension they were doing at that time as well, and I was the one also supervising the store where all materials are kept, I'd be the one receiving and issuing out every bullshits concerning the site.

The site engineer and architect pitied me at some point and protested the company employ an assistant for me yet they kept giving excuses.

All these are totally off the job description I signed.

I lost everything in me, I was a shadow of my self. I started loosing weight that the attraction of people got to me and they started asking me to go for check up.

Haaa ino contact any thing oo I do shout.

I had little sleep, we resume by 7am and closes God knows time and the closing time on the contract stated 5pm. They will be quick to deduct or suspend your service charge allowance if you resume late but will never emphasize on how late we close for work. There was a time I got home by 12am and I'd resume by 7am again which I do wake up by ,4 or 5am.

The company do recruit here and there, very useless place. I could remember we were 12 that came in, in my batch, 6 made out just after a week. Hard working old staff, all left but the chairman believe in soldier comes and go, barrack no dey empty. Very intelligent individual has left that place.

The treatment was just so bad, over use of staff and staff shortage. A person can be doing the work of 3 people yet collect salary of just one person.

No good company management, everybody working for the purpose of eye service in courtesy of the so-called chairman.

Co-workers will be shouting on each other, no coordination and no professionalism. Manager will be giving bad report concerning his team members, it got to a point there were party in the company and they were fighting physically and even otherwise.

My mental health moved from bad to worse, I had to tender resignation letter which they rejected, I had to battle it out with them and exit that evil place.

Losing brilliant minds or experienced fellas in the name of soldier go, soldier come will wreck that place. There is quantity in Nigeria, but less quality. Once you mistreat those Quality people, you will have a hard time replacing them

horhlyray:
I worked in a company where the CEO is the accountant, Engineer, production manager,HR and infact he does everything by himself because he doesn't believe you the staffs can do better,most of the procurement done in the company are done in secrecy,the salary is so poor,u worked overtime in most cases but no emoluments for it,spent good 6& half years there as a graduate oo my salary no enter 50k but yet u get threatened and being insulted at a slightest mistake and even when he make mistakes by himself and to make the matter worse this man is an area pastor in redeemed.we make money in millions for the company but our boss will be saying there is no money and sometimes sef he will say God hasn't told him to spend the money made by the company yet.i can go on and on and the company is owned by an ijebu man

Stray bullet touch ijebu People

Oyindamolah:
https://www.nairaland.com/7195474/business-owner-share-experience-employees

Wow

spiralwedge:
I run a private company.
Conclusion: Most Nigerians are not dependable and want to wreck you. You have to always be on your feet.

However, there are few that are. Advice to employers reading this - when you find one who is competent and dependable, give them more incentives and benefits.

Apt. So true , Nigerian employees can wreck ones company, at the same time, Every private Employer, Try to give the Competent honest ones more incentives.

Monaboo:
Hmmm....

Thank you.

The job interview is for 3pm today and I'm not even motivated cos I've been doing Business Development Sales and Marketing since 2016.

I'm tired.

Target wan kee you?

lavylilly:
I recall Dr NL (not real name) advise us back then, never take a job that would take your weekend away, because you need time to recharge, develop yourself and even have time for family as you grow older. This is why any job that includes Saturdays even it's alternating, I wouldn't take it even if you offer me a million naira.

Fact, Weekends are very important

Farfalla:
My moniker clearly indicates "f".
I was referred to as "bro" the other day and now I am a "Sir"?
In the name of Jesus, I bind that spirit that makes people see me as a man when everything about me screams "woman".

Okay Bro

We4all:
Plan your marriage and not your wedding.

Word!

Toluabigr8:
No b by wedding dress, you fit stay the marriage, shey DNA Issue no go dey?

This types are more interested in the wedding ceremony not the marriage itself