₦airaland Forum

Jesuschristus:
Vanity upon vanity

Poverty upon poverty

All Boko Haram and herdsmen are moslems but not all moslems are Boko Haram and herdsmen

That religion eh. Kai

blizard44:
Hi, all.

I recently tried building a business that didn't fly .

I had partnered with someone to raise funding for a mini bus to be used for intra city transport .

The arrangement was one that I had to make a down payment of 400,000 and he will get me the vehicle after which I will repay in installments.

Long story short, after I signed the agreement papers, made the transfer and was expecting the vehicle in few days , he suddenly started acting funny.

I will call without end and he will leave the line unanswered.

Whenever he manages to pick up, it's one story of how his manager is sick or his child is dieing , so there is no way he could go to Ladipo.

I sensed that he was playing games and asked him to refund my money after three weeks of scanty and almost inexistent communication. And that's how the main drama started.

He would instruct me to forward my account number, go and meet this and go and meet that.

With bloodshot eyes , I stormed his office on Sunday and managed to wrench 225,000 from him after a laborious try.
Now , my 175,000 is suspended on heavy balloons of spurious promises .

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I have been thinking of going to the police but nothing will come out of it considering how entwined he is with the local police force .

When push comes to shove, I'm aware they might direct that he pay me over the next ten years in coins and cowries .l .

But I don't want that.

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The other option is to go there and do werey. To exert physical force . But im security go overpower me. And I don't leave without a fight. So it will be bloody.

One of the topics from Islamic section on the front page admonishes against anger and enjoins us to brood over the possible consequences of our intended actions.

So, this one too has Kleg.

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Have you ever been in my shoe ?

What do you suggest I do?

The money in question is my home and abroad.
My last card!

And a confrontation will sooner or later ensue.

How do I go about this with minimal friction and prompt response from him?

Nwanne tuo ya arusi, - go and submit his case in a shrine and the Oracle will recover ur money sharply.

I hate nonsense

I did it, my heart was broken but now I'm over it. It made me fall out of love with her and now See's her as ordinary even though I'm still with her. But my heart is not in it. Just there with my head. Nothing can hurt me anymore in this life having recovered from that heartbreak. Nothing

Guys The best thing u all can do for urself is to try this. Face ur fears n Know ur stand now rather than later

U mean people are moving from this same okigwe wey I dey, hmmmn! Make una fear God with this lie na. Okigwe is peaceful o

Facts

BaEnki:
Those matching outfits aren’t men intentions, woman to dey like overdo and stuffs.

Imho, it’s just so unnecessary, in fact I’m yet to understand the importance of Pre wedding shots, it’s just an unnecessary invention by women who like to show off on social media.

Sadly, most Nigerian women only know how to plan for frivolities, schedule dickpointments, show off on social media, while they’re intellectually demised.

Just look at their ugly thin legs, foolish boys

Very selfish statement from a couple that claim to be one

Dats buhari n osibanjo

I hate selfish women aswear. Marriage is a partnership and should be so.

In my house while growing up, my mum ran our family so well and u will hardly hear Dem qurell.

Mum was a school principal and dad is a medical doctor and owns his own private clinic.

Mum buys bags of rice, beans, Large quantities of tubers of yams, potatoes and cartons of indomie, spaghetti, ton tomatoes etc all from her purse.

Popsi on the other hand payed our school fees, house rents and bought food stuffs too.

Mum never failed to buy new sets of clothes for popsi every month all from her own money because popsi was almost always busy at d clinic.

Popsi in turn drop cheques for mum which I helps her to cash most times and in most cases, mumsy fuels popsi's cars (popsi was earning more than mumsi Wella o).

That's partnership, and days d kind of marriage I pray to have.

These days, women (especially) Nigerian women have the mentality that ur money our money, my money is my Money. Very selfish mentality. May God almighty deliver me from such self centered ladies

Tufiakwa

bwambasolomon:
I have a fiancée whom I started dating about two years ago. We work together and we are on the same level, and earn the same salary. Each time we hanged out to just have fun, if we got to a place where prices were too expensive, I would say to her but this things are much cheaper elsewhere.

For example, we went to a place though inside the same premises, one part of the lounge sells bottled water for 250 while the other one sells bottled water for 500, she then suggested that we go to the part where water was sold for 500. Note that it was in the same premises and there was absolutely no difference between the two, it's not like one was VIP area and the other was not. We ended up going to the 500 naira side. All that we ate which of course was double the price, I paid.

Each time we went to the mall, we buy things normally. But there's something about malls which some of you may have noticed, certain things such as pots, plastic rubbers, electronics, and so on are usually unreasonably exorbitant. So I said it would be better for us not to buy things that were too expensive that we could get outside for cheaper prices, but we could buy other things whose prices were reasonable. The next thing she started saying was that I don't have class, it's classy people that buy such things.

So one day we went to a pharmacy in that same mall, because she wanted to get some drugs, the price they called for her was about three times what it was outside, so she said it was better to go outside to buy it. So I just told her that since she has class she should buy it now, the next thing she started insulting me, she gave me the insult of my life. That wasn't the only scenario, there were many other cases like that.

She had started to stay with me after a while. Every thing in the house belongs to me, and I made sure everywhere was conducive for us. Air conditioners every and so on, good house, good compound, surveillance cameras and so on. Initially I was shouldering all responsibilities like food, the car washer who washes the both of our cars, the security man, fuel in the generator, NEPA light, repairs in the house and so on.

Please note that we work in the same place and earn same amount. Sometimes when I was short of cash, since I knew that her own money would still be there, I would borrow from her to buy food stuffs and other miscellaneous, and pay back by next salary.

She contributed just about 10% of expenditures in the house which was majorly just food stuffs. Note that I buy much more foodstuffs 5 times more than what she buys.

That was not just it, the relationship was usually filled with arguments, I can hardly have a conversation with her, she would begin to argue.

I want to ask few questions here:
(1)please is there anyone who doesn't know that Egusi causes pimples for those who are prone to having pimples?
(2) Is there any one who doesn't know that if something is very hot, it is not advisable to put in the fridge?
(3) here anyone who doesn't know that garlic is medicinal?
(4) Is there any one who does not know that it is not advisable to put on a generator when it has been drenched by rain?

But this girl will argue with me, insisting that I must put on the gen when rain has beaten it, because apparently, it is not her property. And the fridge is also not hers which is why she won't care if it gets spoilt. In short there's usually too much argument over what is clear for everyone to see, thereby it is always difficult to have a conversation with her.

I was later transferred out of the state we were, so I decided that because of her, I won't take anything away from the house, I would buy everything I need in the new place I had been posted to. So I bought a bigger TV for the house we both shared and took the smaller one to my new place of posting. I bought my mattress, kitchen utensils, got an apartment, and bought every thing I needed in the new place. So now, I have most things in two pairs, just so she would be comfortable.

Please note that we aren't yet married, and I agreed to not having sex with her because that was she wanted, I respected that. The only thing I know we do was romance.

So I started insisting that it was high time for her to be responsible, that we can't both be working and she won't be buying reasonable amount of food stuff because I noticed that sometimes, she would go out and buy 3 packs of spaghetti, which doesn't make sense to me. She said her dad is the one that buys food stuffs in her house and her mum contributes for petty projects. But I am not her Dad, I have my own mind. Also note that she didn't volunteer to bring any amount for my project oo, because I won't want a woman to contribute 1 naira to the houses I am building. All I said was that she should be contributing reasonable amounts for food stuffs in the house. We hardly stay two weeks without fights, she must look for one insult or the other.

We went for counselling and the pastors said she has to be contributing for expenditures in the house, we agreed on 60% to 40% sharing formula for all expenditures. So me as the man would contribute 60 while she will contribute 40. Please note that rent was not inclusive, as I volunteered to pay for the rent in the house we were and for my apartment in my new place of posting.
Later on, when she began to see the brunt of the responsibilities that I used to bear she started saying we (Me and the Pastors) are forcing her to contribute. But I didn't know these Pastors before, that was my first time of meeting them, she was the one who knew them before me. But simply because they told her the truth, she started saying we are forcing her.

Please I need your honest opinions on this issue.
Thank you.

These politicians are embezzling our money using kidnapping format.

Infact ur papa

slawormiir:
Damnnnnn niggarrr
Isoright..... always in one betting shop...this is to say he is a real niggarrr
First of all gambling is good....
For every day we wake we are faced with more than a hundred ways to become a millionaire of which gambling is among
A big shout out to all my fellow gamblers, risk takers, high rollers, punters and stakers
Your aunt husband should not quit. Because quitters don't win and winners don't quit

secondly... stop calling him a nincompoop because he is a broke asss niggarrr for now...
Let me tell you a secret son..... being broke is good but staying broke for too long is the bad thing
I can bet my balls he is not going to stay broke for too long.... because brokenness is not of the lord
2 seconds every where go bust....na there area go take scatter ...he go first buy your aunty lexus RX 350

fnep2smooth:
thats the disadvantage of the method......... but its better than scamming them their money

Am a web developer too but I can't take such risk
Mbanu

fnep2smooth:

na for road way good na.
i like the interior though.



imagine you de for the top floor de drink beer then the car enter gallop or all this big pot hole way de spoil tire.... every tin go pour na.
na abuja road u fit enjoy the truck but not all abuja road o. at least inside the town



i build any kind of website, pay when the job is completed
Whatsapp or call 0 7 0 3 1 6 3 3 7 7 8 to get started

What if after building the person says he z not interested again? What will happen to ur time n efforts and resources committed?

Share 9k and keep 1K for urself

This business they pay these politicians o.
These politicians brought bandits, bought
Guns for them for kidnapping.

The bandits will got to the highway and
Residential areas to kidnap, they take dia
Victims to d bush and one of their informants
Will leak the kidnap news to me the citizens.

The government will now act like they're suprised
And den dip hand into government cofers to
Withdraw N1billion to settle themselves n their
Field boys (d bandits) in name of ransom and the
Victims will them b released.

After one month, the govt gives the bandits order to cause another havoc inform of attack or kidnapping and another N1billion will b withdrawn for settlement.

And the cycle continues.

This ain't ending anytime soon. B prepared

This one still dey type cartel me, idiot. In Goldberg's voice, ""u r next"

There is no rule to keeping a relationship, don't please anyone to stay with u, just b ur self. If she doesn't stay, u should b glad she left. A woman or man date wants to stay will stay. No pleading, no pleasing

Just like dat, they will b put into d ground and dia body will decay. Nothing dey dis life o. Death is scary mehn

This chief of snake farming too dey make noise. Tufiakwa

It. Should b d sane jail years term as a rapist. Make d accuser suffer wetin em b want make d accused rapist suffer

Aging reminds me that this world is not our own.

Birth-growth-age-death.

Life is a mystery aswear

The issue of eating and drinking at burials is very bad. Instead of mourning, u will see people dragging and hustling for food and drinks. Very bad culture. God help us

tobillionaire:
Although they may be tribalistic towards one another in their home country. wen it comes to a Nigerian and a foreigner, Nigerians will always unite to protect their own.

Not when buhari is involved o, I will save shatta bandle the Yun Yun rich nigga over buhari any time any day

Op, I was once like u.

I fell in love with this girl and did everything for her, house rent o, feeding o, even helped her register waec, jamb, neco etc to make sure she goes to school and at least meet half my standards.

I was really willing to do anything to make it work for us but guess what, dis babe was just living her life n catching fun, I was practically d only one in love in the relationship. She can't even address my by my pet name in public, she practically calls me by my name when we r in public unlike me.


The calls and the travels she makes n relieved constantly got me worried till one day I decided to check her fone, o boy what I saw almost killed me. I was dating a prostitute. Damn.

I was heart broken, fell sick n slimmed down under 48hrs. My love for her was still strong but I made a decision during those two days.


I decided to hands off her without telling her. I deleted her numbers, blocked her n deleted her photos, unfriended her on social media and den started my recovery journey. though it wasn't easy, but I did it.

I got over her within some months, infact I started making more friends that kept me busy n made me think less of her. It worked.

Four months later, she fell sick n went to a private clinic for treatment, they ran all tests on her and found out she had infections, then they did HIV on her n it turned out positive.

The doctor happened to b someone who knows me n d girl, though she doesn't know I know d doctor. He called me n explained everything to me, I told him I left d girl. Four months back and he advised I come do some tests to b on d safe side.

I rushed down immediately I no want story. I ran all d recommended tests n all came out negative except staph including HIV. I thanked my stars.

I just started my treatment for staphylococcus d next day and got healed after 2months. Staph stubborn o. Kai.


Today dat babe looks like broom stick, a shadow of her former self so lean and always looking fatigued. I learnt she refused to go for retrovirals at the general hospital because people know her there. I pray she survives.


Today, I love with my head and no dey beg person to change or stick with me. I learnt that u can't force people to love u if dey don't.

I just changed my wardrobe, repackaged my self and brought out a new me. But d attention I get now from girls eh, Kai. E be like film. I'm now wondering how I got involved with my ex in d first place. Tufiakwa

Op, just let her go, u will get over her with time. It won't b easy aswear, but u can do it if u believe it n stick to d plan.

DEJI, my wedding is on 23rd o, if u no send me d car, thunder will fire u. DEJI, dis is a command, I'm not begging u. It's 2019 venza that I want o

DEJI, my wedding is on 23rd o, if u no send me car, thunder will fire u

These are symptoms of HIV, u need to do HIV TEST bro

Try and do HIV test, what u described above sounds like one. Similar symptoms with HIV patients

CaptainZubi:
For about 5 years now I've been battling extreme tiredness . Asides that I sleep alot most especially at afternoons. At night,nonce I sleep around 11pm and not going to work the next day, I can wake up by 10am or 11 am.

During afternoon and night sleeps, the sleep is usually very deep (REM phase or whatever you medics call it, please correct me) and usually characterized by heavy dreams.

Even during work, I'll always take the risk to create some time to have a little sleep. I've been battling this for about 5 years now. What could be wrong.