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Nice one dear.

olabrinks:
The reality is that social media has created a delusion for women to expect the perfect man. You want to marry a man in his 20s and 30s, he is not going to have it all, ask your married sisters. The same way you are not perfect, is the same way these men are not perfect. Its a partnership, although i'm not expecting any woman to marry a stark pauper with nothing to offer. But you marry more for companionship. Sometimes when we're young we get thrown away by all the male attention that comes our way, we believe the world is at our feet and we don't have to settle for anything less than perfect. but slowly and surely, the reality begins to set as we get older. Don't throw away good men when you're young just because they don't have it all, and the same goes for men. God will not make you to settle for just anything out of desperation. when you have options, take advantage of it. The agony that people face at an older age when they're unmarried and not settled, is nothing to joke about. You will not see it, but behind closed doors they are in pain. The joy that comes when you see your little children running around is irreplaceable.

Lol, guys don't this again...

LillyVal:
Single men,
Do not sponsor an illiterate girl to university.
Do not try to transform her.
When she gets enlightened, she will reject you for a more polished guy.

Find your type.
Preferably an educated type.
Date her.
Marry her.
*Happy ending.*
Let me ask a question. How many of you have witnessed this situation I described above?
How many of you know people who are presently going through such a situation?

Bitter truth, I know some girls will not like this post,
but what the OP said is nothing but they truth.

LillyVal:
Men everywhere, no husbands for the girls

Everywhere you look, you see beautiful ladies languishing. They could have moved on. But our puritanical society hates single mothers and despises unmarried ,
The truth is that there're so many men who're willing to marry but the girls we have today are looking for men who own cars and houses, The price of bride price is high there's no good job around,so the guys just promise them marriage,sleep with them,dump them and run away!

This generation is cursed, women this days don't have shame, committing adultery like is a normal thing, I really pity guys that will not do a DNA test when there wife give birth for me I must do it, no matter how much it will cost,, hoes everywhere gushhhh, no one is safe anymore, is even getting worst by day....

Lol, hope you will meet him soon dear, cos time waits for no one.

victorian:
Well I'm not ready to have sex with any man who claims he loves me just to know if he will stay.

It doesn't work for my body system and spiritual life like that.

In fact I will hate the man instantly ,if sex is needed to know if he loves me sincerely and will stay. I don't need it.

If that's the case, Biko lemme stay single until I meet my kind.
There is a man for everyone, likewise there is a woman for every man. That's the reality about life .
Las Las I will get the one that we will compliment each other.

That's for me.

Lol, please don't start, u better Calm down, this is Sunday oooo.

MariaLavina:
I hate how these guys just come here to paint ladies bad, when they are the reason , they are milked. Does he even know the babe to start with? They will just come here to form saints without looking into their mistakes.



Nonsense!

Lol, OK ooooo

victorian:
Nothing is eating me up..


I'm relaxed and enjoying my Sunday after today's worship in church.

Today's service is a blast!

That's it...

khia:
So the girl would give her body but didn't trust you to pour her a drink? You did the right thing by kicking her out but you should have tasted the drink in front of her first to show her how stupid she is. Don't see that girl again.

You always like using harsh words, take it easy,
I don't know what is eating you up..

victorian:
Be my fucvking guest.

Do I look like I care?

I pity your boyfriend.

victorian:
You even have patience to wait til 10 months before requesting for money and he refused can u imagine?

If u tell him to wait 10months before he have sex with you? Won't he run?

Las Las he still behaved like the scum, he is.

Anyways my own is I'm celibate, you can keep your money if u don't want to spend and don't expect me to spend either. Let's see where the selfishness and stinginess will lead us to.

IamPlato:
You Must Be Stupid For Saying She Is Not Beautiful Enough...

Did You Put Saliva In Your Eyes When Toasting her

I think 26 - 28years Old ladies Knows better.

DrObiHogan:
Live little girls alone. Normally if a girl is below 25 she's not for me. That's the stage in their life and you can't help but subscribe to her demands. She probably wants to buy this shoe or gown her friend has and by then every man that comes to say hi will get a yes for the money only. A 25-28 year old lady knows better at this age and most won't make such unreasonable demands at all.

If this is true, then your in big trouble...

thomastruck:
Good evening nairaland ,..

Please l.need advice ,l know there are lot's of crazy characters here but l.know the matured ones will understand ,l am not the owner of English so please correct any mistake if you notice any.

This is a true story ,not friction and l hope it gets to a front page ,.of course l will not write the real names involved:.

YEs ,it is true l love my girlfriend 200% but l want to leave her ,she didn't do anything wrong ,l have never caught her cheating on me ,she doesn't ask me for money except it is important compare to the normal Nigeria girl ,she have never refuse me sex since we started dating .she cooks for me whenever l go visit her ,even want to give me transport money which l find embrassing most times ,yes it is that crazy.l know her password to her phones.

Now l am a married man,yes complicated story right ,l am married for years to a wonderful beautiful lady (in my next world l would love to marry her again) l am a very good husband until l met my lover ,l hardly go out except for very good reasons after day hustle.when l met her (my girlfriend ),l had to lie to her l wasn't married and we heated off immediately ,we became so close that l couldn't leave her ,l lost my senses to her ,we were so much in love .

Until it happened ,my wife got to know about the affairs l was having outside our matrimonial ,my girl cried for days and l begged her for weeks ,she told me she is already in love and she can't leave me ,she even became more committed ,this time buying me gifts ,taking me out to places ,it then started affecting my home ,l.see myself getting out of place ,l no longer want to even stay at home ,l lost it badly .

Her family hated me ,warned me to leave their daughter alone ,her father got angry ,collected his business from her but she still was more committed.
Sometimes l wonder if l have charmed her spiritually ,my wife suffered so much for months ,l.am in a cross road ,it is getting too complicated for me ,l feel l should just go away ,my wife will tell me she would divorce me if l have any plans of marrying her ,l get scared and l am not ready to let go ,she is seriously planning we get married soon ,?this is too much for me ,please l need a real mature mind on what to do

Thanks

Hmmmmm

I don't understand...

ODUNEWUWURA:
With what you post up here. It is not that she is dating you or having a romantic relationship with you. Just only Charing on Facebook. So have is fear woman here.

Don't know why some guys will not learn, upon they danger of getting HIV, STDs they will still be Doing Portorico.....

Your right, most of them are married claiming to be single.

SPOLO:
Hmm fear women
Fear women
I met a lady from my state also the same tribe and we got talking So then we became friends and exchange contact.
This lady always advice me, motivate me but then I always have this feeling that hope she is not married not knowing my instinct was right then.
So we planned on meeting each other when she travelled home for New year..
Not until today I called her to say hi and make voice picked it up and I told him who I am..
Later he called me and said, didn't the woman told me that she is married, I said no...

Pls married women for the sake of God, no matter what you are going through in your marriage stick to your husband pls..
Don't have extra partner outside..
Pls..

GOD Thanks for what u did for me,bcus what if Assumed we come across each other and have sex without knowing she is married??

Guys should be careful ooooo, I keep saying this ,many girls spread HIV without even knowing they have it.......

Keep fooling yourself.

desiregold:
.

Your last line killed me.

N.i..as be slutshaming ladies like their wives gonna come from Jupiter. (and to think we are all committing this sin together oo)

Las Las, we will all marry ourselves.

True

REDLORD1:
Women are so cunning and selfish so that we all gat to think that they are vipers and snakes. Go to social media and try to see how these wmen are being followed and taken as gods by the weak men. Why?


If an handsome dude tries to chat up with a girl on social media, she ignores him and them masturbate on his profile picture when she is Hot and hot. They are not real but all living fake lives. If you think being a nice gentleman will make a woman fall in love with you, then you should know that you are not far from depression.

When dealing with women, always be mean and arrogant. Do not give her attention. Your attention is what she craves for badly, but do not give it to her at all. Remain unemotional and without love. Be bpld and confident with yourself always.

If she comes to visit you with revealing dress, dont show your excitement immediately. Make sure you seduce her hardcore until she is helpless, then fvck her till your d!ck becomes red. Remember, what matters more is your orgasm not hers. She came to be fvcked that means she is more selfish and in need of seex. Dont try to impress her. Just fvck her to your satisfaction and dump her. She will come back asking for more

Please who knows how much Anambra IMO river basin development authority pay Bsc holders, a friend of mine said I should help her find out ....

I know you must agree to this....

Funmmyastic:
That's true.

I don't believe this shit.

Seriously marrying a virgin is they best option, imagine what this hoes do for money, one innocent man will come and marry this hoe as a wife, thank GOD everyone knows her face now, this generation is they worst ever, most girls don't want to doing anything, the only thing the know is to sell there pvussy for nothing in the name of slayqueen, bringing disgrace to there family, spreading STDs,, I accompanied my friend to visit her sister, a female doctor last month who works in one the federal Medical Center, she advised us to stay clear from girls, that they rate of female HIV patience is on they rise, that thousands of them always visit regularly to collect HIV drugs, she even showed us were this girls lined up to collect this drugs, I was shocked,, they worst is that they look healthy and okay,, please guys should be careful, this hoes ain't worth dying for.

Chaiiiiiii, this is what most of this girls do, assuming this one did not leak nobody will know,, seriously I now believe we have more hoes than decent ones ....

Guys Don dey wise up wella.

2dice01:
search no longer you guys are made for each other