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I don't understand, so helping a woman, when she thinks he needs sex in return, but he said no makes him a loser,,, he was only trying to advice some girls that everything is not about sex....

ubunja:
See how women love losers like OP



Women love free things

So you don't love me?

LilMissFavvy:
Facts not painment. I don't joke with dick-brained male twerps on NL. I don't welcome jokes because I feel 99.99 guys here are no good. I love the females and am okay with them.

Is always fvucking, fvucking fvucking.

AwkaetitiBabe:
Guy this your incessant post about fvcking someone is annoying. Do u know u can become useless when u sex someone u ought not to? Are u that unattractive that u opt to run after fvckmates Haba

Take it easy nahhh....

millionboi2:
Very hungry and is disgusting

OK

AwkaetitiBabe:
It will come in good time. Thx

Wish I could help you about the govt job, but is too late.

AwkaetitiBabe:
Nigerians with their dull thinking pattern. Anyways the help I mostly seek is a govt job. I know how to make money legitimately as an igbo lady.

So sorry dear.

AwkaetitiBabe:
Yea I'm still waiting for that guy that will prove me wrong to be sincere.. One old fool came close, I was already thanking God I've found my helper before talk changed... Sex sex sex... Off course I wasn't surprised but was definitely disappointed. Yea I told him to go hug transformer.

Seriously I don't know some guys are losers,, well I don't blame them, I blame poverty....

Don't mind him.

Biglittlelois:
It makes one a gentleman cos he didn't think with his diick as most y'all do here.

AstroG:
Na them,
Leeches looking for free gifts

Lol,, how do you know, do you want to start with me as usual, I know you hate me ...

LilMissFavvy:
Stop pretending . . You can't do it even in your dreams or in a state of drunkenness.

Your right bro, same with me, they girl came prepared and was shocked when I told that her, I only helped her and not to sleep with her,,, seriously I don't know why the think everything is about sex, sex, sex, have experienced this kind of thing 3 times.

MiztaBobiGentle:
I don't really know why many guys find this very difficult to do or why some guys actually condemn the act of giving a lady financial help without demanding for sex. I did something recently and I really saw nothing wrong with it because I do for close male friends as well.

I have this lady friend I met sometime ago through a friends girlfriend. That period I met her she was having serious issues with her boyfriend so as the gentleman that I am, I gave her a gentle friendly shoulder to lean on and feel very comfortable to have any conversation with. After a while she and her boyfriend finally broke up and at this point we both get to hangout once in a while and just gist normal. One thing I really liked about her (just as a friend sha) was how decent she always dresses and the kind of things she likes talking about that inspires someone. She is also a very friendly person that like to be very polite with people even if you are a gateman or cleaner. She is very humble so that's why our friendship clicked but I have no intention to destroy our relationship because of sex or relationship.
She has a job as a receptionist in a small company but the pay isn't that great so she is just managing herself till she could get something better. Because of how things are now, she had a little financial problem and was short of cash for her rent when it was due so she told me about it and God being on her side, I had some extra cash to help out. Before now, there is a hotel I usually love to relax at their bar and sometimes I lodge there when I need some good privacy to carry out my voice over rehearsal and recordings. So I am very well known in the hotel and I have taken her to the hotel bar some few times just to hangout, eat, drink and gist normally about different stuffs. We have never involved in any conversation that went to the direction of having anything serious with each other and I have never even seen her legs before (because all the times we hungout she always wore a jeans or something long that covers her leg) let alone ever imagine the colour of her pants.
So the day she asked me for financial help I told her to meet me at the hotel that evening at when she came, I was completely in shock what she wore and how so beautiful her body was. I was truly amazed she wore a nice short gown and I could practically tell she had no bra on. It was completely oblivious to me that she came prepared for anything should incase I demand for sex it won't be hard for me to get a pass. Even the hotel workers that knew me were already trying to signal me if I needed my special room so that they can go and keep the AC chilling for me but I knew deep in my heart that I can't just have sex with her all because I offered to help. We spent our usual time there doing what we normally do when we go there and when it was getting late I told her we needed to leave and I was going to give her the money in the car. I could practically see she felt a little shocked that I really wanted to give her the money without demanding for anything especially when I told her it was not a loan so she didnt need to pay back.
Why am sharing this here today is because I was in the company of some people few days ago and a conversation of something similar to this came up and most of the guys there were saying that can never happen. I didn't tell them I have done something like that even recently but I was so shocked to see that people were so confident with themselves that no guy can ever do that. Another reason I put this post is also for ladies to understand that you don't have to always keep that mentality which makes you believe that a guy can't help you financially without demanding sex. There are some guys who you are better off with as just good friends and if you ever think of going into a relationship or having sex that friendship might be destroyed forever.
I am sure some people on this forum can relate with the message I am trying to pass.

Are you fucking kidding me,, getting pregnant at 17..Seriously your sick.

Charleys:
So is getting her pregnant a bad thing?

Getting her pregnant.

Charleys:
And what kind of trouble will that be?
Why don't you let him know.

Teaveapoet:
From the way you sound you seem like some who isn't sure of his age.

Please discard every affection.
Your main focus should be getting a matured lady for marriage and not for tutoring.

Please don't try it, this teens are something else, she will put you in trouble.....

Chukwudiajibo:
Am 31years old, but small girls are falling for me, a girl of 16-18 falling inlove with me, last week a girl of 17yrs begging me for love, but am very furious what can people say, i look older than her by nature, yet this girl has been showing green light to me, though she look very mature and beautiful, what can i do?

XhosaNostra:
Maybe you're childish, hence they even have the gumption to walk up to you & baby talk

Your right bro,, but traveling outside this country for holiday will be better,, am already planning mine.

jrobbins:
You said nothing but the truth. Boring here, work, close, take a sip of wine, see news, sleep and wake up early again for work. Trash

You have to try.

Midgut:
It is not that easy bro

But I don't feel like sleeping dear.

Fountainofyouth:
Go and sleep.

Are you a virgin?

Jochabed:
Cause that's what I am meant to do when hungry. Listen, the urge to have sex on its own is not a sin, it was God who placed it there in us. But him telling you to wait, is cause he is God and he knows all thing. Marriage is the only " container" that can control the power and the force of sex. If you do it outside marriage, it will be difficult for you when you get married to remain faithful unless you have really repented. That's why we have something called a soul- tie. Sex is not just you going in and coming out, it's deeper than that, that's why a woman bleeds during her first experience cause the blood she sheds is a sign of a covenant that God recognizes. Mind you, when you sleep around you leave a part of you with your sex partner.

I smell Lesbo.

Fountainofyouth:
I love this, the best orgasm any woman can have is through the clitoris, the feeling is out of this world, don't let any lady deceive you that thrusting continously is tha bomb, it's a lie, diicking is just an added bonus, that's all.

Some men and not all men.....

Paxie55:
Men of these generation have lost it.

They are very misguided and most are rendered useless cos of sex.
I've never heard that lack of sex kills but I can't say the same otherwise

Lol, I laugh when I see all this, I pity some guys that pass through all stress just to woo a lady, I don't think I have experienced this kind of shit before, please guys give this ladies space and see how the will be rushing you...

Your last words Is very funny ,, can't stop laughing so we have demons here.

Preciousgirl:
Notice has been taken of a particular cell number on my husband's phone.
The name assigned to this particular number keeps changing on daily basis.
WhatsApp chats between my hubby and this number are also always deleted for everyone
I ask him and he tells me he is a friend
I called that number secretly and it's a male voice
What do u advise I do to get to the bottom of this matter?

Thanks

NB: Only human beings should advise

Don't go and find reasonable to do with your life,, keep searching for a married woman to Bleep

zexy2030:
Hello, I have been calling, u don't want to pick my call..my no. Begins with 09071...ends with 214

OMG!!!!!!!!! What is really happening to some girls, all in they name of material things,, OP if I were you, I will disgrace that priest if you are 100% sure of what your saying,, as for they girl, please break up with her now, she don't deserve you, she's a complete hoe...

That's it.

Allsingles:
I disagree with you.
There is nothing to negotiate here.
Any man that wants a girlfriend because of sex should go to prostitution joint and get one for himself.
We need sex, we are not spirit neither is our body firewood.
When a guy and a lady in Relationship only thinks about sex that means they are not ready to make things work out for them.
Once a woman can't support her man emotionally, spiritually, financially and morally at least from 4 months in the relationship, please leave her, she is empty and can't offer you anything.
Don't keep her because of sex because a man can get sex anywhere from any woman he wants it with.

Lol,, seriously thats what it is,, like No 1 , I bet you no guy will like to spend on any girl without first having sex with her cause of heart break or feeling cheated, but some girls caused it sha......

Lemskey:
My guy,the truth must be told.
It is in disguise.
We can't keep deceiving ourselves

U better break up with her now that is too early so that you won't regret it.

Don't mind those fools,, fucking AssLickers.

Gentlewarrior1:
Nawa o

All this guys sabi fall hand eh. They asslick women
Na konji we go call this one abi wetin.
She no even put pic just the F moniker u done sample ur personal phone number online.

Am not surprised at all.....