Romance › Re: How Was Your First Kiss by carter009(m): 1:25am On Aug 07, 2019 |
Lol, yes I did, she's a professional in kissing. posty56: how the thing be like u like am? |
Jobs/Vacancies › Re: Nigeria Customs Recruitment 2019. How To Apply. 3,200 Officers To Be Recruited by carter009(m): 11:44pm On Aug 06, 2019 |
You are right.... gazal55: Latest info: The shortlist is ready but we have to wait a little till the cabinet is inaugurated. The Finance Minister is the chairman of Nigeria Customs Service Board. And He/She needs to approve the recent promotion and approve the shortlisted candidates list. The FM is the one to approve all that according to the NCS act. So till the recently cleared ministers are given portfolios, then from then, we should be expecting the list. |
Romance › Re: Mention One Good Quality About You That You Are Proud Of by carter009(m): 10:46pm On Aug 06, 2019 |
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Romance › Re: How Was Your First Kiss by carter009(m): 10:21pm On Aug 06, 2019 |
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Romance › Re: Mention One Good Quality About You That You Are Proud Of by carter009(m): 10:12pm On Aug 06, 2019 |
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Romance › Re: Mention One Good Quality About You That You Are Proud Of by carter009(m): 10:11pm On Aug 06, 2019 |
Lol, not sure, with all your bashing..... Funmmyastic: Honesty |
Romance › Re: Mention One Good Quality About You That You Are Proud Of by carter009(m): 10:10pm On Aug 06, 2019 |
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Romance › Re: The pressure was too much now I married the wrong person by carter009(m): 7:56pm On Aug 06, 2019 |
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Romance › Re: He Won't Stop Sniffing My Used Pads by carter009(m): 7:53pm On Aug 06, 2019 |
WTF!!!!!!!!!!
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Romance › Re: Man Tired Of Masturbating With His Crush's Photos, Publicly Declares Interest by carter009(m): 7:48pm On Aug 06, 2019 |
Hmmmmm
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Romance › Re: What’s Your Relationship Status? by carter009(m): 5:35pm On Aug 06, 2019 |
Single and I love it for now. |
Romance › Re: How Was Your First Kiss by carter009(m): 5:32pm On Aug 06, 2019 |
A matured lady teached me how to kiss, when I was in Ss3 it was fun anyway..... |
Romance › Re: Most Nigerian Girls Are Boring, I Mean Very Boring. by carter009(m): 10:28am On Aug 06, 2019 |
OK sweetheart...... NkayStory: My love,you are not among..no worries  |
Romance › Re: Most Nigerian Girls Are Boring, I Mean Very Boring. by carter009(m): 10:18am On Aug 06, 2019 |
Lol, please take it easy on guys nahhhhh. NkayStory: Lemme describe them for you..
4 feet,9inches,weighing 47 kg,with premature receeding headline,facially not handsome and works in a Cyber-cafe with little hope of something better.
Their only solace is to rant on nairaland and bemoan their loss..Many have also tried to hook up with Foreign ladies but being from Nigeria disqualifies them...
Hence their frustrations...Not a crime though but it is what it is. |
Romance › Re: She's 17 And I'm 28 Am I Right To Be Feeling Guilty!! by carter009(m): 8:49am On Aug 06, 2019 |
Exactly my point. izzbaby22: Even if she looks mature let her be for now till she is 18, why will she kill herself she is obviously still immature and you have to explain things to her so she doesn’t do something funny |
Romance › Re: Should I Breakup With My Girlfriend Due To Old Flames? by carter009(m): 8:45am On Aug 06, 2019 |
Break up with her at once. |
Romance › Re: Guys Let Talk by carter009(m): 8:42am On Aug 06, 2019 |
Body odour, bad breath..... |
Romance › Re: The pressure was too much now I married the wrong person by carter009(m): 8:02am On Aug 06, 2019 |
Nice one dear,,, how are u doing. Temmywrites: Pressure, can be described in different forms but in this context, it is seen as botheration, fuss, worriment, aggravation, annoyance, pest, perplexity, difficulty, drag, molestation, exasperation.
To be pressurized is to be frustrated, to be aggravated, in a lame man's language it's to be disturbed against your own will. The direct opposite of it is to be at peace.
This kind of pressure has led many people to be self destruct and it has made them make wrong and odd choices because they were cajoled or forced to do them.
When "Marriage", comes to mind, patience is the right word for it but the urge to get into it before preparing for it will always have calamity as the end game. In this article, I'll be describing the different form of pressure that makes people choose wrong maritally.
4 different pressure vices that makes people choose wrongly maritally.
1. Family pressure:- This has always been the main reason why people make the wrong choices either about their marital life, education, occupation. What have you?, parents have a way of poisoning the minds of their children against their will because of their own selfish reasons.
Especially extended family members, they too believe they have a say concerning the lives of every member of the family, thereby flaunting themselves as a proper example to make you feel victimized and pressurized to get married so you can attend family meetings and flaunt your children too. That is a very wrong reason to get married.
Some parents will say "I want to carry my grandchildren, what are you waiting for? Can't you just get a man and hook him up?". This is very alarming, what if the man is violent?, what if the man is very promiscuous?, they do not want to know they just want a grandchild.
2. Peer pressure:- This sort of pressure can be humiliating, when you have a social gathering with friends and all they talk about is marriage related issues
To continue reading click on this link http://www.temmywrites..com/ to read, and view more enlightening topics relationship wise. |
Romance › Re: Man Discover How His Cheating Pregnant Wife Agree To Have party With A Guy by carter009(m): 7:25am On Aug 06, 2019 |
How is it a made up story dear, why do some girls like cheating. babyfaceafrica: made-up story |
Romance › Came Across This, How True Is This by carter009(op): 11:16pm On Aug 05, 2019 |
Lets debate
Read This Carefully
A man can cheat on his woman and still love her but a woman cannot cheat on her man and still love him. I say this because while men do not have sex with emotions, women can't have sex without attaching emotions to it. This is the reason men simply need a place to have sex while women need a reason to have sex. Most women who take their husbands to court for divorce are those that cheat on their men. A non cheating woman would most likely never take her husband to court for divorce, unless the man exceedingly abuses her physically and emotionally to the point of killing her.
Men don't equate sex with love. A man can have sex with another woman but still doesn't love her. That's why women who fell in love with married men find it difficult to find happiness in those relationships as they are just being used by those married men. But once a married woman starts sleeping with you, she can even narrates some hidden secretes concerning her husband and she will even tell you why she hates him (her husband). She can even accept poison from you to eliminate her husband.
For men, sex and love are two different things. But for women, sex and love are one and the same things. For men, sex comes first before love (infatuation), but for women love comes first before sex (true love). Therefore, once your woman starts having sex with another man/men, her love shifts from you to that man and she can even start giving that man the best food and love than she gives you.
The fact that your man is cheating on you doesn't mean he has stopped loving you. But I can't say the same for women. Once a woman starts cheating on you, she has fallen for someone else and you people will never live the same again. And she can even kill her husband once she starts cheating on him. If your wife starts cheating, you should be a lucky man not to die in less than 10 years. It has been found that 95% of women who cheat wish their husbands dead. That is the main reason why it is dangerous for a man to continue staying with a wife who cheats on him. That is why is now encouraged everywhere in the world including in the Bible, for a man to divorce his wife only once she starts cheating on him. Cheating women are more deadly to husbands than ordinarily criminals or weapons. There are many cheating women in the world who invite criminals to break into her house at night only to come and eliminate her man and police officers plus relatives can't detect this as the same woman tend to moan more than any person at the funeral so as to attract sympathy and hide her evil acts.
That's why psychologists discourage women,more than men, from cheating.
Women can't handle the emotional conflict that comes with cheating.
That's the reason an observant and intelligent man will notice that his wife has started cheating on him once he starts doing it because most women tend to lose respect to their husbands and try to avoid sex with them in most times.
Cheating Women will even be giving excuses for not wanting to have sex with their husbands. Study has revealed that nearly 90% of women who cheat find it hard to have enjoyable sex with their husbands, again an intelligent man will detect this once his wife's behavior with regard to sex start changing. But a dull man can never detect this and always tolerate fake excuses from his cheating wife until he is completely eliminated.
Study has shown that every relationship begins to flounder once a woman starts cheating. There are many men who cheat on their partners but still show them true love. But it is very hard to find a relationship in which a woman is cheating and things still remain the same.
I repeat, nearly 100% of cheating women wish their husbands quick death or divorce to have unlimited sex freedom while nearly 100% of cheating men can't wish their wives quick death or divorce. That is why most men cant allow their wives to be physically or verbally abused by their girlfriends. Men will always stand for their wives.
A man would cheat but still love and respect his wife / girlfriend but the opposite is true with cheating women.
Once your wife starts sleeping with other men/man, just know that your death is near.
But am not supporting men for cheating because I'm just keeping it real! |
Romance › Re: Most Nigerian Girls Are Boring, I Mean Very Boring. by carter009(m): 10:07pm On Aug 05, 2019 |
I swear, infact hunger dey wire most of them wella, all this there bla, bla,bla, na wash,, that's how I transferred 5k to one random girl I met online, I just pity her, she told me hunger won finish her,,lol, she wanted to visit me for sex, but I told her I only gave her that money to buy something to eat and not to pay me back with sex, don't know why some girls thinks that everything is about sex... Bruno3000: Don't allow packaging to deceive u o. Most of these naija ladies are hungry, hence the question ' have u eaten today?'  |
Romance › Re: Most Nigerian Girls Are Boring, I Mean Very Boring. by carter009(m): 4:13pm On Aug 05, 2019 |
 nuelsam: this one will come here disguised as a male..... Then pouring out her frustrations towards nl men......... Woss! We aint the reason for your gaddam bleeped up life, direct your frustrations to the right channel abeg....... Nl this nl that yen yen yen........ |
Romance › Re: Most Nigerian Girls Are Boring, I Mean Very Boring. by carter009(m): 2:51pm On Aug 05, 2019 |
 FreeMejoor1: i pity niggas that chat you up cause mentally you got nothing to say..naija girls are dumb sickos |
Romance › Re: She's 17 And I'm 28 Am I Right To Be Feeling Guilty!! by carter009(m): 1:32pm On Aug 05, 2019 |
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Romance › Re: I Love Her But She Is Not Educated, Can I Marry Her? by carter009(m): 1:29pm On Aug 05, 2019 |
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Romance › Re: Why Me? Please Help!!! by carter009(m): 11:23am On Aug 05, 2019 |
 EFULEFU1: Why? All the women who show me greenlight are married women. As I speak, three married women are chasing me.
Why is that the case? Single women don't show interest in me, no greenlight , all married women. Please why and what must I do?
Please help me, I don't wanna bonk another mans wife. |
Romance › Re: Hi Nairalanders, I'm Back by carter009(m): 11:22am On Aug 05, 2019 |
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Romance › Re: Please Guys A Female Friend Of Mine Need An Advice. by carter009(m): 11:20am On Aug 05, 2019 |
Endtime friends everywhere...
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Romance › Re: Most Nigerian Girls Are Boring, I Mean Very Boring. by carter009(m): 11:10am On Aug 05, 2019 |
 Safitu: That have you eaten is the most annoying question, I’ve never met a guy in naija that doesn’t ask that question. Very annoying. If I’ve not eaten nko, are you going to feed me, I mean what’s the essence of asking that question 3 times a day? |
Romance › Re: Most Nigerian Girls Are Boring, I Mean Very Boring. by carter009(m): 10:44am On Aug 05, 2019 |
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Romance › Re: Most Nigerian Girls Are Boring, I Mean Very Boring. by carter009(m): 10:31am On Aug 05, 2019 |
Tell a girl online to send you her account number and see if she's boring  , that's they language many of them understand. Pascopele: MOST NIGERIAN GIRLS ARE BORING, I MEAN VERY BORING.
When it comes to chatting, Nigeria girls are the most boring creatures on earth. I can't deal with them. They chat with u like they are doing u a favour. You talk to them online and they chat like its 100 questions game quiz, they act like u should just do the chatting while they do the replying. The funniest thing is that some of these girls may even be crushing on u and wishing u were their boyfriend yet they kill the vibes while chatting. For example, I may be telling you in details how my day went, I expect u to be like, oh are u serious, oh my gosh, I believe u must have been so tired after everything, so what really caused the whole thing, or u could want to be inquisitive on the details but on the other hand, u just reply with words like, ok, k, hmmmm. If u meet a person online give them a benefit of doubt. Later u girls would be complaining that Nigerian guys are not romantic when u can't keep a conversation going without being self engulfed.
If I say Hi, how are u, what stops u from saying fine and u? But no 90% will just say fine and expect u to keep the conversation going.
For example, Me: Hello, how are u doing? Girl: fine Me: how is your day going? Girl: fine The worst part is when u are being k-ed E:g........ Me: hello Girl: k This is why sometimes I don't chat. I can't be stressed the whole day then u will come online nd stress me again. Some of u girls are proud to say that in every girl's inbox, there is a guy chatting with himself. Today he will say Hello, tomorrow he will answer himself Hi...
Very annoying |
Romance › Re: Checking On My Brother With Gonorrhea by carter009(m): 10:28am On Aug 05, 2019 |
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