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Lol, please take it easy, do you really hate him this much.

Safitu:
Perfect description of the the sad Zimbabwean fool ubunja. His whole life is dedicated to women and how to get pussy. No money, no business plans, no tutorials on how to profit from investments, no daily routines to success, no financial management secrets to his delusional followers. Nothing. Just women. The only thing he has to his name is a baby mama. God forbid.

Alpha males focus on their craft, their money, their health, their mental well being and they take care of their families. Through that women are naturally drawn to them, without even trying. They exude masculinity and confidence. They Walk into a room and women are already trying to make themselves visible for the man to notice them. Take note.

Please teach her.

LillyVal:
Mba nu! No, I disagree completely, the older they get, the better the quality of sperm. My 75 yrs Landlord impregnated a SS 2 girl.

Amakavula:
ooh, this man is dreamy.. my future husband ( it's a joke ooh, before butter guys come after me )

Yes bro, I don't want to hurt her, but I know with time, she will understand and move on.

frankkydee:
What world we leave in! She's even suggesting a trial, she's mature and bold.

Nice , but I hope you are telling they truth dear.

LillyVal:
I'm that girlfriend who understands you are not a damn ATM and it's OK with the fact that you won't shower me with gifts. I'm with you cos I love you not your money

It always happens, is something we can't change, even if we try to, there's this lady that's loves me so much but I don't love her, have told her how I feel, but she said we should give it a try, shes working, she's just okay, but I don't have any feelings for her.

frankkydee:
But why do people that someone that loves them for granted and go for someone that doesn't love them as such?

Nice one, but I hope, Safitu, marialavina, Victorian,
ebonygurl will listen to your advice.

LillyVal:
FOR THE LADIES

During your 20's, men are trooping and everyone wants to marry you. They are all over you. Your WhatsApp doesn’t rest. Your messenger is filled up. If you breath on Facebook, you will get 400 likes and 350 comments.

You can’t walk on the street without ssshhh ssshhh. Your breasts are very comely at this time. Your lips are succulent and your legs are smooth. Even if you are ugly, it doesn’t show much at this level of your life because everything is still standing tall. The backside is still very nicely shaped and bouncing properly.

Now, the mistake most of the ladies make is this:

1. At this level, you easily dump guys in relationship. Any little thing, you break up. In your mind, there are many fishes in the ocean. Over 20 other guys are bothering you for relationship, so you can easily hook up with another guy. After six months, you break up again and start another one. You are like hot akara. You cannot bend down and build a solid relationship nor learn how to tolerate a man and work on your own self. At this age, feminism dey shack you well. You no send anybody. You no wan hear advice at all. For your mind, this kind post na rubbish.

2. At this level, some ladies want to show everything: the boobs are still standing, so she can snap to show it. The buttocks are nice, so she can display it anyhow. You sell the romantic skin like akara. Every guy in the neighborhood is coming to take his own share. Even married men are collecting their own. Everyone is collecting and walking away. For your mind, marriage no go hard.

3. At this point, you don’t lack anything. Men are giving you all you need. You’re not working but your airtime is never below 10k on the phone. Shoes and classic clothes are unaccountable in your wardrobe, yet you are not doing any job. Life is beautiful and that’s exactly how your life is depreciating with speed.

A time will finally come when your age has really increased very well. The boobs are needing pillar support and the buttocks are no longer comely anymore but rather ‘loosing’, the face has a lot of pimples and holes. Many things have gone wrong. The tummy is out by the day, your local government is beginning to have some kind of mature odour and the armpits are darker. The waist tires are forming with speed.

At this point, days turn to months and month turn to years. It will always look nearly, but something will just happen, the guy will disappear. You will start following another guy with hope for marriage, like play like play, that one go just chop you run away.

The fear and worry of menopause will even make you age faster. By this time, all the multiple guys you slept with both the ones from a cursed family and the ones from ancestral curses, when you were lifting your legs to the ceiling and twisting your body like snake in bed. All those things that make guys rush after you are gone like a movie. At this time, you become emergency Christian. All your posts are about Jesus and church things. Any comment you make, Jesus must enter. Even when football is being discussed you must find a way to add Jesus to it. For your mind, you dey deceive guys abi? You want them to see wife material in you. Suddenly you learn manners, all the multiple people you had relations with, the battle is now more spiritual than physical. All the curses married women were laying on you for sleeping with their husbands are now controlling your life. Not even Mary Kay can remove all that mess!

At 40, a guy is still young but a lady of 35 is more like a “Christian mother.”

What is my point? Make haste while the sun shines to avoid had I known. Don’t while away your time playing games with men. I am not saying a lady cannot marry at 35 neither am I saying one should rush into marriage neither am I mocking those who are above 30 and still single, I still am not saying only those who marry at 25 have the best marriages. I am only saying, don’t waste your time sleeping around when you should accept a man and settle down.

Imagine you are around 30-35 years, at this point, only men of older age like 40-45 will come to marry you because young guys of 30-35 won’t like to marry a lady of 30-35 but unfortunately, those guys of 40-45, most of them are married. They even married girls of 22-27. They will still look so young at 40 but a lady of 35 will look like their senior sister. Ladies age faster. That’s why a girl of 16 can be looking so mature, guys would be wooing her but a guy of 18 would still be looking like 13 years old boy. It also applies to old age.

This might not actually be applicable in all cases, not all single ladies at 30's were slay queens, but the message remains, “make hay while the sun shines".

Are you not tired, since morning till now, I don't know what you stand to gain in all this, causing problem everywhere, from Alpha male, broke boys, etc is always bashing, cursing, stop judging people you don't know by saying every guy is broke, cos you don't know shit about anyone.

ebonyggurl:
lolz. We should pray to God to curse us with fraustrated Nigerian men that only know how to subjugate women and fvck anything in a skirt?

Lol, but understand what am saying first, women age faster than men?

funmisticqueen:
it is the same,abi is it not to grow old and die again?

Funmi dear, am talking about ageing and not outlive, at least for once let's tell ourselves the truth, arguing like this will take us nowhere, you know The truth but you keep twisting it, don't be like this.

funmisticqueen:
Yet women outlive men so what are we saying.

Lol, must you bring up this issue again, but you girls bash guys too.

Funmmyastic:
Op you made sense unlike Nl men bashing ladies always to prove a point.

Is always money, money, money, please take it easy,
what is really eating you Up, did any guy break your heart, your hatred for men is something else,, is always Alfa guys, broke guys,, u talk like someone that is frustrated,, your topic is always about bashing and shaming men...

Safitu:
Imagine guys getting angry at the truth.

Go and hustle time waits for no man

You are no more young at 45. No young woman in her prime is checking for you at 45 without millions, when they’re younger guys who are financially stable, with looks, charm and sex appeal to go with it. Imagine how embarrassing it is to bring a man old enough to be my dad as a husband in front of my friends, the money you must give to me must cover my shame and embarrassment. It must be substantiallllll. You either get with it or get lost.

Even you too.

Safitu:
You are Deceiving yourself. Good luck making women wet at 60. Imagine my granddad still thinking he has swag and good looks at 60. God forbid. .lool

Seriously I don't know you could be this childish,am really surprised.

MariaLavina:
And the mentions keep coming.... yet he isn't seeking for validation.

I don't know Why some girls will know they truth and will still be arguing , women age faster than men and there's nothing anyone can do about it.

Please tell safitu and marialavina,, one of they best post..

TanyLoe:
Wow sister,
Yeah your right. A man must have what to offer you
But what do you think you can offer him?
A friend of mine ( she's a nurse who pays her bills and her man Owns join together, if she goes out for shopping she also get things for her man. If I ask her why she is doing all this, she will just say " girlfriend you got to be able to give not always take..not always expecting."
But when she got fired at work, that's when I saw what she meant. Without her asking the man was there for her until she got a new job.
so my sister u don't get what u don't give out
And please remove the sex from the table because you both enjoyed it
what else can u offer
Don't go about with this kind of irritating mindset

They story is real, just imagine what some of this girls do to make money...

Wished I knew earlier, wouldn't have said a word to her....

Martinez39:
She doesn't care about reasoning instead she cares about being right and winning the battle of emotions. Refuse to yield to her nonsense and all sorts of presumptuous and nonsensical attacks and shaming awaits you. Lmao. This is what you would expect from little children. She was convinced that she had won the game of emotions rather than logic and reasoning so she celebrated and called it a day.

Funny enough, there is no cure for her insanity. That her comment is filled with childishness and foolishness and it made me laugh so hard.

Guys should go and make money first, then you treat them as you wish, some girls ain't loyal anymore, is always about money, money, money,, relationships this days is a big scam, I wish we all know each other in person, I would have loved to see how safitu, marialavina and others ranting here will marry there billionaire husbands

So what are you bringing to the table?

Safitu:
I know the truth is a hard pill to swallow, but it’s better to accept it now. Hustle now and get the girl of your dreams. No woman is going to feed you or respect you if you ain’t got sshit. You will only attract desperate women who are willing to be sugar momas for a bit of love. Nobody is saying you must be dangote, but bring something to the table ahbeg.

Continue ranting like a kid that you are, but don't worry we will know who will go down first.

lilwetdick:
slowpoke, threat people on social media, are you now a cultist or how do you plan to send your boys to attack me, pls stop claiming what you are not, you are a loser and a loser is what you will be forever.

i didnt come here to come and support boys or girls, i came here to do my own stuff, i literally dont give a Bleep, but i know when truth is truth when lie is lie. and i hate onesided truth

so if i dont support some of the trash that comes out of some of the boys here,i am a asslicker, if i support then i am a man, your brain must be coiled with copper.

lets get it straight most boys like you here are pure losers, they know it, they feel it and accepted it, they understand the frustration of being a loser that is why most are angry. you yourself know, you are a simp, a pure simp, you know that, at end of the day, sniper will be the solution that is why i am calling on the govt to ban sniper, so that people like you can die in their misery, i love seeing losers like you die in misery, i might be evil but i love losers like you dieing a slow death, it good for my heart and soul.

Fucking AssLicker continue writing shit about people, I can bet you anywhere you don't have shit,
keep looking for who is a gold digger and who is not, a guy gossiping like woman, all you do is talk trash about your fellow guys, you can only hide on social media but not for too long, I promise you that, you don't mess with they people you don't know online, but believe me I mean every word I said and this will be my last....quote author=lilwetdick post=80770832]

lets get the facts right, a fellow guy can always be a gold digger, i know this because we have lot of lazy men in nigeria who feed off women even grown up men in nigeria, feed off women, what a disgrace!, you are the one that needs to go make money, first you called me a hoe then a fellow guy, you seem confused

you are the disgrace that needs teni odetola to start dating you, you are disgrace, that is what poor boys like you think, and you have proven the facts, that you are a gold digger, waiting for some woman to leach off, then claim you are a man, how does it feel to be a losers, i dong a research on that, maybe you can give me a clue.

i will continue booasting in my one room apartment until people like you can afford to get a just a balcony, which even in your life time you cant afford, anyway, you are going to live in your parents house for ever, so no need

slowpoke, get a life when young, so that when you are old, you will be able to afford simple stuff.[/quote]

A complete fool calling his fellow guy gold digger, your a disgrace, don't go and make money, continue boosting about your one room apartment and your parents you left in they village,, and extra cash you get, you don't have shame at all, why don't you go and separate them, so that teni otedola will start dating you.imagine they jealousy, you gossip like a woman, your a disgrace.

lilwetdick:
as usual when you cant afford, you claim hoe activities and sleeping around
you dont even know me and you are claiming hoe activities, is it not because i am better than you that is why you are spitting all these trash.

a man with low self esteen is always scared and skeptical of a female with money, his lack of money makes him think people with money are all fraudsters.

boy! get a life..life is short, what is your purpose in life, have you ever thought of that, why are you born, will you just pass mother earth without nothing to show for it, prove to the world, to the great ancestors that you are capable and stop spitting trash.

Now I know am replying a loser, which jealousy,
your one room apartment or your parents in they village or your stupid activity you do and get extra cash, just look at how your disgracing yourself, now I believe that you are complete fool, a responsible person will do no such thing, continue arguing with everyone,

lilwetdick:
stop addressing me as [b]my dear [/b]like a gay...

you didnt say anything that makes sense but just speak out of your jealousy, you yourself, know you cant achieve anything, that is why you will still suck on mummy's breast till 36 years and they will send you forth in marriage like a lady after they are done watching you bend you head and sit on your smartphone all day.

my advice to you, take a risk, try your luck in the game of life, you never know, your luck might shine oneday, only real men take risk

Seriously am not sure your okay, what intimidation,
inferiority complex are you talking about, I only said they truth dear, you can call it anything you want, poverty is really disturbing you, writing shit about people you don't know, like I said, I don't blame you, I blame social media.

lilwetdick:
this is the fundamental problem of inferiority complex, it starts making people speak nonsense and bringing out strange word out of their brain

they start writing keywords like one room apartment, village, extra change and all sort of words and all sort of strange word just because of intimidation, that is the nigerian mentality and i see it very common among low achievers.

next time, learn not to be intimidated, online or offline, it will help you alot.

ROTFL,, so I depend on my parents, I don't know why broke, poor people talk too much, just because you rent a one room apartment and left your parents in they village, maybe you are making extra change, I don't blame you dear, I only blame social media, well there's no way I will prove anything to you since I don't know you,, but i wish you know me, that's all I can say.

lilwetdick:
i am comfortable and can afford somethings you cant, i live alone, do not depend on my parent, do not even live with them, i have my own thing going.

Please take it easy, why are you so pained, I did not see anything wrong In what she said.

Ayotemide:
How about finding something else to write about Ms/Mr Temmy; the weather, Buhari or the back ends of the earth.
This issue either overwhelms your knowledge scope or you are trying to massage the ego of the patriarchal society you were raised in,

either ways it won't fly.

Are u rich?

lilwetdick:
you know we dont need to start facts to state the obvious, you know people like you cant think or even have that brain to think,

lets see if he was dating some low class girls, if he will be with her in more than 2 months

broke boys have no option when they start dating billionaires daughters, they become her handbag

Don't mind her...

Deepfeel:
A wise man should never invest too much on a lady he isn't married to, its not worth it, it's simple 50/50

Your known for insulting people so am not surprised,
you can continue.....

frozen70:
Exactly the same way you have been foolish

Accept they truth and stop fooling yourself dear.

frozen70:
Their brain works perfectly until it starts having partial contact with men

Yes am done,please stop disturbing me.

Pegi23:
Are you done. Acclaimed beautiful thing