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Is not that easy as people think dear.

jessysparkles:
When the love is real and you are with the right person, distance is not a barrier. However as easy as it seems to say this, it is actually not easy for two love birds to be miles apart it takes a lot of emotional maturity and discipline to remain faithful.
One man's meat is another's poison.. It all depends on the individual

Women love sex more nahhhh, you like arguing dear.

Pattypatt:
Men love sex, women love sex, I really don't know how she came to this conclusion.

Lol, are you not a woman, you should know better dear.

Pattypatt:
I heard some women's Virginity need a machine to disvirgin them.

but I did not say anything bad.

FortifiedCity:
Oga matchmaker. Welldone

Yeah I think she is,, you can give it a try and see if it will work out for both of you.

Destined2win:
You are always sounding like a good lady.

Lol, nothing special about been a virgin sweetheart, was only asking cos you said this one pass you.

Isha327:
What if I am
What if am not

Lol, even without a car, once your apartment is good , prepare indomie and egg for her, she will give you that pvssy for free anytime you need it

delectablegyal:
you should get a warm embracing pvssy.


they are everywhere. attract them with delicious words. if you have money. all you need is car and a good apartment. pick her up on the road and take her to your apartment. entertain her with indoor and eggs. when she sees your exotic apartment, she will give you the pvssy.



the pvssy is cheap nowadays.

Lol, how dear, or are you still a virgin?

Isha327:
This one pass me o.....next

Will you stick to one person if is you.

AwkaetitiBabe:
Long distance relationships works for some. It takes genuine emotions, self control and value to stick to one person even though they are far...

Lol, but not that much nahhh, you know some girls here will make you to say what you don't want to say. quote author=Ryan03 post=80625971]Lol, you when be king of bashing? Hehehehe[/quote]

I would have loved to try this, but they way most girls here bash guys and insult them, I don't think is a good idea.

are you for real bro.

madridguy:
Bros email might take time compare to WhatsApp number. Let me burst your bobble, during the era of baby mama nonsense, just jokingly say dat i also need a baby mama after like 2 days i just dey receive PM. I was like what happened why did PM, i don forget wetin i talk, thought na for politics struggle only to open my email and see say na ladies. Still dont remember until i message and she mentioned my post about baby mama... 3 were interested but told them am finance presently is bad believe me the youngest among dem stood ground that i should not worry her mama will take care of her and the baby. She said she really want to have a baby badly na me run ooooooo.
I swear nairaland is place to be.

Case closed, you have said it all.

pansophist:
OP, you don hear? Abi you want make I shock you further?

You have no respect for yourself, and the fact she could call another guy in your presence, disregarding your reaction only goes to show that she is the prize and doing you a favor to be with you, at least that's what her action shows.

She is young, she is at a stage of abundance, and it is biologically hardwired in her brain to seek higher quality males. There is something called SMV (sexual-market-value), and women from 14 up to 35 generally reached their and enjoy waves of male attention. She doesn't have to do anything special and men will queue for her attention, and beg her with riches to get her commitment, and that's exactly what you are doing. But quite frankly, she is treating you that way because she knows your SMV is still low, and under-refined. For men, our SMV is not something that comes naturally like women (which is beauty-based), we have to work for it (resource-based). By building wealth, intellect, and growing your social status, women will find you attractive and an equal match. Do you honestly think if you are let's say Davido, she will treat you like that? You are just a boy yet, and it is your duty to transform yourself into a man, by building a lifestyle of value that makes both men want to be your friend, and women want to be your partner.

The new mugu is just better than you, and if another better one shows up, she will migrate, that's how it is. Forget about what society have brainwashed you with about women, that they are some delicate, incapable of terror, sweet loving, sugar and spice being, it is a lie, if anything, a 16 years old girl will manipulate you in such a way that you will need to employ a psychologist to decode her behaviors. Leave her, and focus on yourself, sounds alienating, I know. I understand that you are at the stage of hormone rage, you want to explore your sexuality, and feel like you are not missing, but the truth is nevertheless the truth. When you finish building yourself, you will see women will fight just to have you.

The same Nigerian girls that most men complain of, that they are leeches and stuff, they usually never leeched on me, and instead, do take me out and buy me stuff. Yes, they do that and the reason is simple. They are trying to pass a good impression, that they are not leeches, and that I should see them as wife material. They know my value, and they know that if they lose me, it is their loss, and there are many that will want their place. The only thing I am doing is that I do not chase women, I chase success. I am in my 20's and have everything figured out financially, from business to finance, to my own place and I travel the world.

I am not trying to brag here, but I have to go personal, to tell you that you have been doing it wrong. Women are like a cat, when you chase them, they go, when you ignore, they come. Feel free to ask any questions, but remember this, women are a sexual object for men, while men are success object to women. Just as you are on the look-out for an attractive, beautiful girl, women are also on the look-out for a succesful man. Be the successful man and women will come, it's that simple.

Bitter truth, but if only they will listen.

GoldenJulius:
Most this girls thought they are wise in there stupid conduct.
Time is coming, guys will turn them all into rags.
If you are a good girl reading most of the comments here, please remain faithful to your man and stay away from crazy girl friends with social media mentality
Men are nice and loyal, but some stupid girls want to change that about us.
Kings stat strong, there is a good Queen out there. Don't give up.
Money can get you any kind of girl but money won't get you a real and loyal woman.

1: I don't worship Vagina cos of STDs and am not a AssLicker 2: I don't like arguing with a fellow guy: 3 don't just start ranting to people you don't know online cos you feel they can't track you and bring you down 4: stop being childish and mind how you talk to people. Good morning.

lilbest4:
get the fucck out of this thread right now before I descend on you.
Stupid vagina worshipping simp
Tueh!!

That's just it.

Booler:
I think they just use the majority jobless youths to give the job a "legal outlook", so that last last they will say screening and interview were conducted but in reality, they already have those they want to give the job. Only by luck or chance will the very minute of the unprivileged majority get d job.

Please dear take it easy, you are a lady, stop this, it won't do you any good, please ignore them.

Griiiiiin:
LOL...see this biafran nigga that his shop might not worth more than 20,000 teaching me Yoruba,like I care abt what u call me,when I know am nt,
Ur mom,ur sisters,ur daughters are prostitutes...lol..if it pain u like this hug d nearest transformer..

OK dearie.

MarjieJ98354:
I'm not advising women to do anything. I don't think anyone should cheat. But such is the world we live in. I'm only suggesting if a women is going to cheat, she needs to be smart about it. Sometimes she has more to lose.

find someone close to you to do that dear

LilMissFavvy:
:okay come right here and show me how to do that

But I did not say anything bad to you,, am only telling you to take things easy.

LilMissFavvy:
Hmm......did you take it easy with me? Am not pained.

Lol, are you advising women to be smarter when they cheat? Are you in support of it.

MarjieJ98354:
I think men are careless when they cheat because ultimately, the wife will tolerate it. Not so for the man. So yes I can see why women would be smarter in the way they cheat.

Why are you so pained dear, please take it easy.

LilMissFavvy:
The topic was adultery of course. Women stand a chance at everything. Why not ask your self why men like you in that bus did not 'boo'' the adulterers? ? Am not encouraging such things, but get ready to hug transformer, because you men taught women how to cheat, and women have joined the trend, deal with it!

How is it fake love? Please for once say something reasonable dear, I don't know why you like bashing guys,, at least as a lady advice him than condemning him.

AwkaetitiBabe:
Love? Fake love everywhere these days.


Op you not Jason momoa so don't expect her to simply fall for u just because you patronised her business.

Stop fooling yourself dear.

LilMissFavvy:
That's for you. Yeah, she's a ''woman'', so you must not accept her. If your son should commit adultery, you see nothing bad about it. Take note that in this century, plenty parents treat their male/female children without prejudice. Am glad to come from such a family, with educated parents. Even if you discipline from now till eternity, a child can will still make mistakes. It's not a man's world like you claim, it's a world for both men/women.

You have started again sweetheart.

Sunnyshinylight:
Proverbs 4:20 My son, attend to my words; incline thine ear unto my sayings.

4:21 Let them not depart from thine eyes; keep them in the midst of thine heart.


4:22 For they are life unto those that find them, and health to all their flesh.



Proverbs 4:23 Keep thy heart with all diligence; for out of it are the issues of life.

What is really wrong with you.

xendra:
abeg end it and go home and go and sit down.

with the level of disappointment most guys put girls through these days and how the rest of you clap for them and shame the girl, you are still expecting a girl to be faithful to a boyfriend

You should be ashamed of yourself dear.

Griiiiiin:
Hello OP, how much have u spent on her that u already have this feeling that u are entitled to her..mtchw,naira land boys and their cvck and bull stories

Please end they relationship now for your own good.

Edoloaded:
I met this girl last 2 months and ever since the whole thing was going smoothly.

Never have i had the intention to take advantage of my kindness and maybe request for sex or romance or anything of such simply because i wanted this one to be different, i wanted her to be my last..


Whenever she asks i always do my best to provide for her.


So we went to the cinema and the next thing this girl receives a call from someone.. the next thing i heard she tells the person that she went out with a friend.. habaa.. me friend

Meanwhile before the call i was listening to music on my headset. So she thought the headset was still on..

So after telling the guy (i heard a male voice) she is with a friend they talked for almost 20 mins while the movie was going on.. the next thing this girl is already flirting with the guy on the phone telling him she's going to come see him tomorrow at his place...

After the whole thing I talked to her about the call. Immediately i asked her who she was talking to she was shocked at first, the next thing she said it was a friend.

I then asked her how come she and her so called friend were discussing something like that and she said " haba should i say i was talking to an enemy before? That it's just a friend"... After that i was just surprised i just told her okay no probs


Guys I'm so confused right now about the decision i decided to take..

I want to end it like right now.... Please what do u think

Well done dear, you can continue.

Datingcomrade:
No biggie deal

I know that's what you are already doing, so no need to argue you.

Datingcomrade:
People can be attracted to the opposite sex and just decide to Bleep each other when the need arises
Easy life.

you mean no more Portorico for you again.

I just hope your telling they truth dear.

victorian:
Dont mind them, they feel because their gfs cheats, so every woman cheats.

Im extremely faithful to the end , especially to a man who knows my worth as a woman . Its all by Gods grace.