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WinningEleven:
even if they answer, of what use will that information be to us?
People are busy trying to land on mars, you're here worrying about masculine and feminine perfumes.

Nkem atom bullshit mehn

atikuobi2019nig:
morning and a happy Sunday to you all,
I met this new girl for life 4months now, we have
have not seen her face to face we both plan to see this exmas period for us to start dating, but I have a little financial constrain now, there something I needed to do with money very urgent of which I know she can be of help, but I don't know is it right for me to ask her to lend me at this early stages? mature advice and insult are welcome.

thanks in anticipation.

Mizk:
Lowering your so called standards doesn't mean you should look down on a guy and call him weak because he doesnt meet your expectation, there's someone out there for the weak man, if marriage is important to you, just pray there's someone willing to overlook your high standards and marry you, i highly doubt there's such a man,That is how linda started yapping until she became a baby mama kwantinue.

Fash20:
Feminists are confused.

funmisticqueen2:
yes, especially when he has nothing to contribute to her life.

marvin906:
OP it seems you have no respect for your self for you to be acting like a love sick puppy for a chick..
there are Millions of fishes in the sea yet your killing your self over one that has no regard for you..
well done

Liliyann:
As long as she is still single, you have no legal rights over her!!
Even if you are married to her, she has her right to associate to whosoever she deems fit!!
As a single lady, she has the right to explore as long as she isn't married!!
I don't advise people to have only one boyfriend, coz it never ends well!!

blujoi:
Its not greediness, it’s reality. Females are more realists than men. Females get attention from several men on a daily basis and the reality is they would surely fall for one or two or even three, it’s the reality of the dating game, the sooner you have that at the back of your mind the more peace you will have

Amakavula:
Linda was played. She was a product of bet between Shola and his guys. Men are Scum

funmisticqueen:
so that you can use it with vaseline? No thanks

funmisticqueen:
thank you

ceejayx:
It's for only girls with round juicy butts..are u qualified?

amaniro:
Call a spade a spade but 80% of men do both guys and girls vice versa with girls.


An average guy sees a nude of a guy and gets erected. Guys hate hearing this but is the bitter truth. 60% have gay experience.



Take it or leave it.....

Lucifer66:
Sounds like an obvious gold digger.
Jumping from the highest bidder to another.

ceejayx:
But is that skirt specifically made for girls with big yansh?

Manyalove:
Hello all. I'll try to be very brief here.
So, I have this very cute guy, who's every woman's dream of a man- a typical TDH (tall, dark and handsome). He's the cutest of every guy i've ever dated. He also very good in bed. Exceptionally good. He's very much in love with me. However, he has a baby and a mama; the product of a fling he had. Thing is, his desire to be part of his son's life made him take in the mama (kid's three years old BTW), to stay in one of the rooms in his house. I've also got kids from a previous union which didn't work out fine and i'm doing my very best to move on and get settled again. He told me about his mama from the onset, but i hid my history from him. He later found out on his own and had no issues with it. I'm very beautiful and attractive and one would hardly know i've had kids before if i don't tell u.
My concern with this guy is that he's not very stable. He does several hustles here and there, but is always struggling with cash. I do work and help him out sometimes but, i'm often restricted by the fact that i have kids of my own who though stay with my parents, are my sole responsibility. Again, the fact that he has a woman like me in the background, whom i know he'll be giving money to for upkeep turns me off from helping always as well. Besides, its not like i earn so much too, its just that its more steady than whatever he does. He hardly gives me anything, but i hardly complain. Couple of months back i missed my period and informed him. He was happy and wished for a daughter. However, i was against the idea of having another child, at least not out of wedlock. I tried to make him see reasons with me and somehow, he obliged. A month after again, same thing happened. As usual he begged that this one should stay, again i refused. I insisted he must provide the funds for it to be taken care of since he keeps refusing to protect himself. But as usual, he was broke. I took care of everything on my own and kept my distance from him. In fact, i wanted to put an end to everything between us. It was within this period i met someone else, who actually tickles my fancy. He's not as handsome as my other guy, but he's not totally bad either. (I'm sure by now u wld hv figured i have a thing for appearances). Anyway, this new guy has a steady job, and he's really fun to be with. He's very much single and knows about my status yet he's cool with it.
Couple of weeks back, my other guy came pleading with me for us to get back together (as i have all this while been giving him the silence treatment). Somehow, he got to know that I've been seeing someone else and he's very mad at me. As things stand now, we're on the verge of a break-up. I should be happy since its what i had initially wanted, but I've been miserable; can't sleep well at nite, can't eat well too. Don't know why i'm feeling this way. There's this deep sadness that has since enveloped me and i cant seem to shake it off. Worse still, he's not taking my calls. I'm really confused and feel very alone right now. Should i just let him be and move on with this new guy or do i still try harder to win him back seeing how i'm feeling without him?
Guess i made it long after all. Soo sorry folks, had to pour almost all out. Won't mind reasonable advice, comments and suggestions pls. Try to take it easy with the bashings too pls, as i'm qiute unstable emotionally now. Thanks.

christopheru:
This post isn't too bash anyone's feelings.

I've been taking my time to notice that many Nigerian girls nowadays take any little chance to stylishly beg for things from Random guys. Is it because of d economy it's really reducing your worth.. And they feel they're always right.
For example
A girl will keep reminding and reminding and reminding d whole world that her birthday is coming soon
A girl will keep reminding d whole world that she needs a Christmas present.
She needs this and that. Who doesn't want a Christmas present? Only real girls know how to ask for things. When u post everything u need online the truth is everyone don't really care. They keep seeing you as a beggar. It's really bad. You should try and work for yourself. Try and provide your own needs. And You should b contempted with what u have...
Only real hustling ladies will like this post. The lazy ones will come yelling

Please girls b careful for the night is dark and full of terrors . Taink yo

GlorifiedTunde:
You mean 99% of the razz ones?

GrabHisBalls:
When their fights/banters starts dropping money in bank accounts, I may reconsider joining this forum again. 'till then, they're very much inconsequential.

I can't come and be doing Nairaland in 2019 - time is of essence. 'Hate' does not add anything to anyone, but 'Love' does. I refuse to hate anyone, especially, over the Internet. As for my relationship they won't stop making silly assumptions about, we're good.

I got you. Go do something meaningful with your time. Goodbye.

IamD18:
It's something to enjoy sex by eating and playing with your partner's pussay and pubic hairs, and it's another thing to send yourself to your early grave by eating a pussay of a Nigerian lady.

Nigerian ladies take care of their faces more than their private parts.

It's quite unfortunate that we aren't lucky to have clean ladies in this country.

funmisticqueen:
the type of dick that pays the bills and takes me for yearly vacations anywhere in the world.

Glycolysis:
Yes, they are the only ones that comes back begging
You never did!

Their are relationships that don't work at a first meeting, due to many factors that could easily be worked on..
Your former partner coming back to make things work these time around, doesn't mean they are "vomit" ,or you're going back to your "vomits",as some dumb and shallow people claims, so that they sound amazing

Pls, if you have a wonderful Ex coming back after realising their mistakes, admitting it and willing to make things right with you, don't allow these stupid mindset of going back to your "vomits" mame you lose understanding and genuine person(s)..

Biglittlelois:
Who knows, they always come back begging, cant deal

ILoveToFuCcK:
My Olosho go just say ilovetofucck number one, come sama my pυssy

Tamarapetty:
Put pics nau, lemme pick

IkpuMmadu:
are you in menopause now ?

Peacemaker5128:
yes I can't you pig

funmisticqueen:
that is a contrasting statement. love is not pretencious.