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MeeztaFabulouz:
It is really terrible to feel suicidal all because of marriage. I use use to see different news of how people commit suicide because of relationships and I always felt it was so stupid to think of suicide just because of a fail relationship.

Now I have seen it all clear that depression is really very bad especially when you feel so depressed in a marriage you work so hard and do everything to protect and make your family happy. Its very painful when you know honestly inside your heart that you don't cheat on your wife, provide everything she wants for herself and the kids even when business is quite rough.

She has no conscience and no regard for our union and our home. I am a guy that don't think about looking at wife's phone or suspecting her for anything but then after our first child she changed completely and as of today I don't know were I stand anymore because of my kids. I opened a business for her just so that she won't be like a house wife but she has completely taken the business more important than the family and wake up 4am to start cooking and close 8pm at night. Stressing herself so much but always complaining business is not moving and she is not making any money.

I sponsor everything in the home though am not complaining because that's what a man should do, but she does not have regard for anything or appreciate anything I do. Can you imagine I give her money for feeding weekly even though she is running a food business, she buys few food stuffs in the house which can stay almost two weeks without us eating them because we basically feed from food she cooks in her restaurant. I decided not to bother myself and just give her money to always ensure her business is moving and at least food will not be a problem for us.

One faithful day, I decided to check her phone because I observed a certain strange behavior about her and how she likes to off her phone at night or sometimes when I am around. I saw different chats with some two guys she claimed one was her ex boyfriend that just likes to check on her once in a while, and the other guy was someone I remember like coming to eat in her restaurant but she said they went to school together and he is working with a construction company doing a building project close to her restaurant. She also claimed that when they were in school he was asking her out even till they fished school but she preferred her ex boyfriend to him and when she had issues with her ex that was when I came into her life.

If the story she told me is true or not, I wasn't really bothered anymore because I know its normal for a woman you met at 26 years to have met other guys before you and obviously still has guys that don't respect people's marriage and still do anything to sleep with a married woman. But my paid now is because I feel so respected by many of the things she does and when I think of divorce, I only feel for my kids who will now have to grow up with another man or having to visit their mum and see her with another man.

Recently I have become so depressed that I have been thinking of suicide so that my kids will know their dad is no more rather than knowing that their dad is still alive but can only be with either daddy or mummy and not as a complete family. My depression is getting worse especially when I think about all I have done for her and the kids just to always make them happy but in return, she doest appreciate or even have any regard anymore for what is called "FAMILY"

Over 7 years now and at this point I really feel suicidal. Please I really need help because I make this big mistake.

Gladtune:
Family and friends have been tthrown into mourning following the death of a young Ugandan man just few hours after his wedding

Reports say Roy Jairus Watuulo died in the early hours of Sunday, December 6, hours after he tied the knot with his wife, Anitah Nabuduwa on Saturday, December 5 in Kampala.

According to close friends and relatives, Roy started complaining about feeling unwell moments after the wedding reception. He was rushed to the hospital and pronounced dead a few minutes past midnight.

The deceased is said to be in his late 20s and the son of a University professor. They had their traditional wedding in November 2020.

Meanwhile, friends and and colleagues have taken to Facebook to mourn the late Roy. A colleague, Lutoto Charity Martha, wrote;

"With Deep Sorrow And Shock , Our Friend, Colleague And Brother

Roy Jairus Watuulo Has Passed On.

"He Wedded On Saturday 5/12/2020 And Immediately Went To Be With The Lord On Sunday, Just A Few Hours After.

"Son To Dr. Watuulo Richard & Lydia. Rest In Peace Comrade. May God Strengthen You Anitah Nabuduwa"

https://gladtune.com/2020/12/07/a-young-man-dies-few-hours-after-his-wedding/

TMSMedia:
Suspected thieves broke into a Pharmacy in Port Harcourt, Rivers State and made away with Condom and Viagra, IgbereTV reports.

The incident happened few days ago at Rumuekini Community in Obio Akpor Local Government Area.

The owner of the Pharmacy, Dr. Living Olavokere Jamala revealed that the thieves stole all the Condoms and Viagra in the Pharmacy among other items.

Taking to Facebook on Monday, December 7, he wrote:


https://www.facebook.com/100000472128935/posts/5609908842368131/?app=fbl

BeWarned5:
This is my first and last relationship.. 5yrs and counting

slawormiir:
Damnnn niggarrrr
Isoright
Bros op must be a real niggarr...
You see what I keep telling my niggarrrrs to be hard and real....ladies are attracted to bad boys anyday anytime twice on Sunday


I live my life on the fast lane.....got police chasing me, drinking alcohol, smoking some weed, banging enough pussy
And I must tell you alot of girls love me for that

Ndlistic:
It's happening in Imo state on December 12.

Wisdomkosi:
Apologise To Umahi Within Seven Days Or Face Mass Legal Action - Lawyers Threaten Anyim

By Wisdom Nwedene, Abakaliki


https://igberetvnews.com/1374143/apologise-umahi-within-seven-days-face-mass-legal-action-lawyers-threaten-anyim/

Igyeseh:
Yes, there are available vehicles from here to Aba State, Aba especially.
So distance is not really a hindrance.

EBMedia:
Physically-Challenged Nigerian Man Accuses Female Soldier Of Assaulting Him In Ibadan (Photos/Video)

A physically-challenged man, Olumuyiwa Bolade Adedeji, has accused a female soldier of physically assaulting him at his daughter's school in Ibadan, Oyo state on Thursday November 3, IgbereTV reports.

Adedeji in a post shared on his Facebook page said his issue with the military woman started yesterday December 2
https://www.facebook.com/100031523554587/posts/378444053216377/?app=fbl

In an updated post, Adedeji wrote


https://www.facebook.com/100031523554587/posts/378500576544058/?app=fbl

Investigative journalist, Fisayo Soyombo shared the story on his Twitter handle. He tagged the Nigerian Army and wrote:

Good afternoon, @HQNigerianArmy. A woman soldier in Ibadan (name tag 'Mamman H' assaulted a man on crutches over a really flimsy reason, as seen in this video.

You shouldn't let your officer get away with this kind of irresponsibilty and bad behaviour. pic.twitter.com/5QEEnKb72J

— 'Fisayo Soyombo (@fisayosoyombo) December 3, 2020

See video below.

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=wCytXU8OBtA

iampeterben:
https://www.google.com/amp/s/thenationonlineng.net/breaking-15-lekki-shooting-victims-storm-lagos-panel/amp/

zoputa:
It is true that NYSC time is a time of freedom and a time of fun, but there are some exaggerations to this...

If I am lying, let any Corp member oppose my statement. NYSC is made to look like people get sex littered all over the place, and to make it look like Various married women sleep around there. I can tell you one truth. This is a hyped statement. You do not get sex anyhow from NYSC ladies, neither is there reckless sex in the camp...

All these statements of reckless sex in CAMP or after CAMP is not totally true, as some corpers know I am saying the truth. If I am telling a lie, ask many NYSC guys if they got sex freely from NYSC girls.

Many NYSC ladies are not cheap, so do not think you will see free sex anyhow in CAMP or after CAMP. Where I served, we had corper ladies that no corper guy ever touched...

Please shun these hyp to prevent being disappointed in NYSC. Go and serve Nigeria well.

Islie:
Presidency Expresses Shock As Police Move To Stop Judicial Inquiries

• Court asked to arrest commissions’ proceedings

• IG denies authorising suit, queries force legal officer



https://www.google.com/amp/s/www.thisdaylive.com/index.php/2020/12/04/presidency-expresses-shock-as-police-move-to-stop-judicial-inquiries/amp/

favor914:
Cultist & Criminals in waiting?, let a host of cherubims cry for the future of Nigeria.

State001:
https://campusgist.com.ng/2020/12/04/heavy-gunshots-as-nans-convention-turns-bloody-in-abuja-video/

SilverNorGold:
Lol.. Terrorism is not 100% evil sha.. Cos even the most devilish person has his positive side..

One of the benefits of terrorism is population control.. With the high rate of population explosion currently bedeviling Nigeria, there are bound to be food shortages, high rate of unemployment, which will multiply crime rates; decline in social infrastructure, lower standard of living, etc..

Another benefit of terrorism is that it provides religious adherents another means to Heaven.. Unlike suicide, which is a sin, death from terrorism is organic. You can die happily without fear of going to hell. Suicide doesn't guarantee this....

So having terrorism linger for 20 more years isn't a totally bad thing. After all, we all gonna die, so? The most important thing is to die a believer. Cos ending terrorism is not ending death.. But patching a hole out of several billion holes.. Whether we make Heaven or Hell should bother us, and not terrorism.

May God help us.

Splitmind:
I'm not worried at all. I knew things would go this way and prepared accordingly.

Don't worry, Buhari will save us.

Splitmind:
Buhari should stay, he has promised change and we saw it, he promised next level and we are receiving it.

Zzor:
You will like sex too much the way I'm seeing you, hml all the same

dre11:
Zabarmari: It Hurts That B’Haram Addressed Nigerians While Buhari Hasn’t – Aisha Yesufu

Human rights activist and co-convener of the BringBackOurGirls Movements, Aisha Yesufu, has decried the failure of President Muhammadu Buhari to address the country on the gruesome killings of at least 43 farmers in the Zabarmari area of Borno State.

Yesufu on Twitter lamented that a Boko Haram leader from the Abubakar Shekau faction had addressed the country on Tuesday while the President has yet to make an address.

She noted that this suggested that Nigeria had no leader.

She said:

https://mobile.twitter.com/AishaYesufu/status/1334056842146799616

Islie:
https://dailytrust.com/insecurity-1bn-underway-for-army-police-others-from-qatar

Skynet45:
https://punchng.com/insecurity-resign-now-northern-elders-tell-buhari/

post=96678069:
Update From . COM

A wig vendor is being blasted on Twitter after a disappointed customer shared photos of the wig advertised and what was delivered, Reports.

The vendor shared a photo of a beautiful wig on Instagram and a lady asked to buy it. However, when she received her delivery weeks later than anticipated, she was disappointed.

From The Information Gathered By , She paid for the wig on September 6 and was told she'll receive it in 6 days but the wig arrived on November 30.

Other customers who claim they've had similar experiences with the vendor have gone online to blast her.

Below is the wig advertised and the wig delivered.

See Photos As Obtained By Below:

Source: https://mobile.twitter.com/Chelseaquiin/status/1333857003811315714

AlexReports:
Nigeria- International Beauty, Entrepreneur and Supermodel Queen Alison Marks Birthday With Amazing Pictures

Renowned International Beauty Queen, Enterpreneur, Supermodel and Winner of multiple pageant contests in Nigeria and across the world, Queen Allison Sekegha (CNA), has turned plus one today 2nd December. The eloquent and magnificently looking Beauty Queen and CEO of Quinally Professional Services shared amazing photos with fans, friends, family members and colleagues via her social media handles to announce the significance of Wednesday 2nd 2020 and also to mark her birthday.

Speaking exclusively with AbujaPress, Queen Allison Sekegha expressed gratitude to God almighty for the grace of life and the blessings he had continually showered upon her. She noted that the celebration of her 31st birthday wasn't only joyful, but quite amazing, with emphasis on the multiple feats she may have attained.

She also appreciated her family members, colleagues, fans and friends for extending their congratulatory gestures to her, as she marked her 31st birthday. She thanked them for the prayers, goodwill messages, gifts and other congratulatory gestures. She thanked her Agency, partners and supporters for their unforgettable impacts in her life.


Queen Allison Sekegha has received several awards and commendations, especially in the modeling and pageantry industry. In a retrospect on the feats of Queen Allison, who was birthed on 2nd of December 1989, she grew under the care and guidance of her parents. Haven joined the pageant industry, Amb Queen Allison Sekegha ( CNA), had contested and won several pageant contest including, Ex Miss Teenage, Miss Valentine, Miss Globe Nigeria and was the Nigeria's Representative at the 2010 Miss Globe world, held at eastern Europe Albania in 2010.

In 2012, she was crowned Miss Intercontinental INT'L, Finest Girl Nigeria 2012, Organizer of Miss Brass Bayelsa and currently the CEO of Quinally Professional services. The young, vibrant and adorable Beauty Queen will be hosting friends and family members to a reserved party in Abuja.

Kachi4christ:
Come to world bank and umuguma junction u will cry for IMO. This is where am living right now nothing good to write home about in this areas God will really bless Emeka Ihedioha,if not him I don't know how umuguma road will be like now

BastardWike:
You really have comprehension problems. Otherwise, I wonder how you read my post and still end up validating what I said while contradicting yourself.

I said Owerri is awesome and you validated it by saying nightlife is sweet. I said the only sore point is some bad roads here and there, you also validated it and said most roads in Imo State and Nigeria is bad. So where is the lie?

Which government exactly am I asslicking? The disaster called Rochas or the fraud called Hope? I'm repping my hood and this one is talking out of point.

By the way, it is not Titanium view hotel but Titanic View Hotel.

Redcrafton:
Owerri and Imo states are growing in leaps and bounds.

The city in eastern heart land is arguably underrated.

Take a look.

(Pic courtesy of Nairalanders)

Kingscee:
https://thenationonlineng.net/police-ask-court-to-stop-ongoing-probe-of-abuses-by-judicial-panels/

Racoon:
http://saharareporters.com/2020/12/02/boko-haram-attacks-are-international-conspiracy-split-nigeria-%E2%80%93-army

OLAADEX:
https://twitter.com/AsiwajuTinubu/status/1334197623440494592?s=19[/quote]e no concern me

Skynet45:
https://punchng.com/we-must-restructure-nigeria-to-make-progress-says-akerodolu/