Frestuffng: Hope her Virgina Will remain the same.
people self.. when did vagina turn to CV or resume or whatever that qualified one to scale through securing prominent job opportunities? comrade learn to differentiate clitocurrency from acquisition by merit. smh
Sammydanny: In what will come across as a really shocking development, a burial ceremony recently took a violent twist as the mourners engage in a nasty fight.
Eyewitnesses said the fight ensued after the family of the deceased insisted that it’s against their tradition for their daughter to be buried in her partner's homestead since he had not paid her dowry.
The fight broke out after both families failed to reach an agreement.
A social media user, @iamjoseh_ disclosed that in Luhya land, Kenya, a wife is not buried in her husband’s homestead if he has not paid the dowry.
rowlandwhy: Last Sunday in church we learnt about Jacob and Esau, Rebeca loved Jacob to the extent of sacrificing to take his curses.
My question is; Is it good to have a special love on one of your children in the family? Thanks
to me e no pure ooh but to me nah pikin wey dey give him mama joy via character and other wise dey always get this kind favour......i be living witness shaaa
SayAsSeen: Hello friends, I'd like to ask intelligent and older minds for advise about an issue before I react.
My wife's elder brother is visiting my house and my wife has been serving his food first before serving and bringing my good, in my own house.
Please I just want to ask if this is wrong or right or even just normal?
I worked all through the night and was famished by the time the day broke this morning. I gave her some dough and told her to prepare me noodles and sardine, emphasizing on the fact that I was very hungry.
NOTE: Her Brother was still asleep at this time.
She prepared the meal, split it into two. Woke up and served her brother first in my guest room before coming to my room to give her hungry husband his food.
I was so mad, I ignored the food, went out to smoke a cigarette. While I was doing that it occured to me ask for advice here, because I didn't want to ask anybody I knew personally.
I still don't know whether to be mad, or to just ignore it.
I am a strong believer of common sense and respect and her actions this morning lack both! It would have take her less than 30 seconds to give me my food then go wake and serve her brother!
Is she told me she needed money for something and I put my younger sister's need over her's-no matter how tribal her's might be-i know how she'd react and the amount of making up I'd have to do.
I am trying to be very mature about this, that's why I keeping things anonymous?
Besides I'd like to know, I possibly can't be the only person who has experienced this sort of situation because they say there's nothing new under the sun. Please who has ever felt this way, I am very understanding and if something irks me, it would irk every body else too.
Wish I could explain better
a family that eats together is the best... you bless the food together, eat and dine together and all man go just dey alright faith hear me now ooh.. apart from ur mum or dad make sure say u no Bleep up like dz for where i dey if not hian u go lap go ur poppsy house for smal period of time again if i visit una house una no first serve me before any other person for ur family.. u Don use style go holiday for ur papa house be dat
Or11: The question is for married women. What is/are the reasons that you would avoid or refuse sex with your husband?
My wife's own is when I get lazy at home and I don't help in the house chores e.g cleaning, cooking, bathing the kids etc. She won't fight with me or argue but when I touch her like this, she will find a meaningful excuse. She's tired, not in the mood, headache, tomorrow, I need to shower first and I'm too lazy now etc. I found out myself that it was when I helped at home that there were no excuses, it's always a happy ending.
make money full ground first....dont ask me What i would be able to do with my hard earned money do... Ajeh is not neccesary.
isaiah4life: Ooooh! Is doing that because he's the only son.
Make him come try am for my neighbour house. Wey dem get 4 boys. Dem for don tie am for tree. Use 2 by 2 reset that him brain.
You can't dictate for him. He's old enough to make his decisions. The best you owe him as a sister is to pray to God to change him.
Prayer solves so many things, but a home full of boys would have helped curtail this nonsense.
On a second thought. If you guys pampered him when he was much younger, i would say, you are reaping the dividend of what you allowed. I know all these attitudes were spotted when he was tender. But unfortunately, you guys didn't make the necessary correction.
But no need crying over spilled milk. Go to God in Prayer.
see even for that yahoo wey him think say e go use blow go frauststrate am bcox dem no dey carry greediness, selfishness and jealousy enter street.. code101 ''nah from congratulations glory take dey reach everybody hand
Mercychen: What kind of xmas gift can you suggest for a guy who wears and uses designer stuff.
He's not a card person. So let's not go there. He already has tons of perfs which was what I wanted to get but I don't want something that he'll abandon in his stash.
Please I'm on a budget here Biko. I already spent so much putting my house in shape.
Thanks.
nawa ooh, how can you be on a budget here and still you've agreed to check out original jersey with his birth date and name encrypted on it you wan buy designers belt weed and brown Rizzler and many more anyway my advice is if he's not yet married buy him original rough rider customize condom or baby nah today herbal medicine from Dr Agnes nwannma or Dr iguoedo Goko cleanser.. 2moro's champions league go bloody die. lights my kpoli in peace
Still on it despite all my bombing and key boarding Building a house is not childs play....let me share my experience once more....that shit ain't easy....respect to any niggar way don build house
Building a house is not funny and easy... i start one last two years because say i dey see small small boys dey build mansion for our area for sapele road, Benin city As i start am na there i realize what have put my hand into Initially i wanted a metro tiles roof and parafet abi na parapet But as i begin buy steel rod and cement from foundation. Shaperly na im i change mind say if i fit do am reach roofing level then na the normal roofing i go use. Buying of wood( plank) for budding and three quarter granite nearly give me depression.
Even up till now the building dey there. No money to even do the normal roofing not to talk of metro tiles A real niggarrr is too young to die because of house I can't kill myself. Make the building dey there
I get pc i get modern/mifi i get sub I get sk and Az abeg wetin remain Cox i go like join your keyboard warrior FC ghang
Ademola47: As a matter of importance, housing/accommodation/shelter comes second in the list of basic human needs.
To cap it, in the emergence of ever-increasing rent fees and unexpected quit notice, most people strive to build their own house (as fast as possible) to be safe.
Without talking much, Landlords/Landladies on Nairaland, how did you get money to build your first house.
I know say e no easy at all but 2022 anyhow wey e wan be make e be, I'm gonna be doing the needful...just a four bedroom apartment no go bad. but omoh just 10 trips of sand and 50 bags of cement when i just chook mouth for base on make i use start dey mould block for foundation level money Don almost finish for my account like this... anyway e no easy shaaa but oluwa go run for us.
Vinnie2000: Naija Comedian IgoSave once said.. 'Boys when dey Answer Solo (Solomon) can dey Mumu for Girl ehn'..
In my Office, I discussed this with my Guy Solomon and surprisingly, he said 'Oboy, na True o. Girls dey use Brain for me most Times'..
So Are some Names associated with some Specific traits?
Here's a Cool List! *Ruth = Uptight *Agatha= Aggressive and Hater of men *Mercy= Dark complexioned and not Fine. *Esther= Manipulative and never gives her Boyfriend P***y! *Jessica= Fcukks her friend/Sister's Boyfriend! :- *Maria= Gives headache alot.. *Favour= Has lots of Guy Friends and keeps all Confused! *Queen= A Cheerful giver.. *Loveth = Also a Giver. *Anita= A very 'Good' Girl. *Sandra= Does not do her Agemates! Goes on Outside runs *Faith= Does her Sh*t silently! *Emmanuella= Sticks to one Boyfriend! *Rachel= A loyal Girlfriend/Wife Material.
Men *Peter= Churchy but Likes woman ehn! *Paul = Stocky n Always ready for Gbasgbos! *Raymond= Smooth Liar! *Gideon= Has Big muscles and Hates girls! *Darlington= Likes Towtow ehn! *Samuel= struggles in Academics! *Kelvin= knows to follow Woman for Yanch! And *Seun = Always intelligent but forms ITK!
So Check the Names out! Are the bearers how I described them?
pmoye: This is advice is really for Nigerian ladies. Please and please do not marry a man that is not rich. Your very life will depend on it. You heard me... How long you live as a woman may well depend on how rich your husband is. This may seem like an over-generalization, but a very needful one. Quite a troubling percentage of Nigerian men can not handle a woman who is more financially buoyant.
Ideally it shouldn't matter how much each person earns, because I believe that the husband and the wife should be one financially. That the home should be planned like a company with budgets, financial planning, sound auditing and all... But from the much we have seen around the average Nigerian family is far from this ideal. We often have what increasingly looks like a union that appears more to serve a cultural/societal expectation, a union that is sustained just so that the society can think you are happily married, while between the man and the wife it is more like between US and China, between Northern and Southern Nigeria, a perpetual cold war and bitter jostling for resource allocation and control.
I have seen women who have died because the husbands couldn't afford antenatal care and used ego-motivated argument to keep the women from accessing timely medical care... And of course, few years or even months after that those wicked men would later bring in other wives into the house.
The poorer the man, the more wicked, the more angry, and the more deadly he generally is in Nigeria. Do not let any man or any woman convince you to marry for love. There is no such thing as that, just a queer surge of hormones that makes you think you are in love. If you marry a poor man for love, hunger and suffering will soon reset your thinking, and by then most women feel too culturally compelled to remain with the toxin of a husband they have. Take a cue from evolutionary development in animal kingdom generally where females select the most suitable male for mating.
Do not simply believe in a man's future plans and dreams. If he doesn't have money now, he is not ready to be a husband. No matter how much you think you love him, treat him like the case of AS genotype (yours) marrying an SS genotype (his). And this is something I respect some Igbo men for. They will never think of marrying a woman unless they are economically ready.
If he is earning N30,000, or N40,000 or N90,000 per month he is not ready to marry. These are just examples from posts I have seen around here. Do not be fooled, the amount on the payslip is not always available for taking care of the home. But that's the talk for another day.
Some of us are probably never going to get married, I personally find it very scary to read about how men because of poverty increasingly turn against their wives in marriage... I may be too traditional though, because I do not fvcking care the money the wife is bringing into the house. Her role as a mother and a wife is already supremely more than you need to compensate for as a man. If you are a man, do not get close to a man when you are still poor. It is wickedness. It is dishonesty. It is crime against humanity. Do not sell her a future hope of becoming a pastor and other popular silliness.
Marrying a lady when you cannot completely and single-handedly take care of her is gender violence. Stop it.
this post is very much misleading....typical story of Dem gold diggers kinda headline. same money we were told was the root of all evil is same thing y'all are clamouring to possess and acquire by all neccessary means..weather you marry rich guy or poor guy none would even guarantee you a sustainable marital life. I go like light my kpoli in peace grab more knowledge before i go reply any person wey go quote me but my Sk done finish.
Mercychen: Here's an update of a teacher's brutality on my nephew.
My nephew woke up with dark swollen lips covered with bruises and was running serious temperature. So, My sister decided to go and report first to the school authority and to ask why they tried to cover the teacher up for such wicked act.
She went to the proprietress office and reported the case; telling her that she wanted to take it to the police but because of the respect she has for the owner of the school, that's why she's here to let the school know her next line of action. The prorietress was shocked to hear what happened and summoned the teacher.
When the teacher got there and was asked what happened, she said she didn't beat the boy that his tooth just fell off.
The grandma ( that's what they call the proprietress. She's 98) asked her, How will you not touch a child and his tooth will remove? The teacher insisted that she didn't touch the child. So grandma told her it's better she says the truth as the mother is planning to take the case to another level. That she should at least own up and apologize. The teacher said, my sister can take it to any level she wants that she doesn't care!
My sister said at that point her head sparked and she flared up! She began to mention the different agencies she has contacted, and that they are coming for the school. That she has posted it on social media and the news has spread all over.
She said the moment she mentioned social media, Grandma began to shake and call for help. As My sis continued shouting on top of her voice, grandma s daughter ( the supervisor ) and other teachers rushed into the office and tried to calm her down.
Grandma told the daughter that the story has gotten to social media and immediately, the daughter sank into the nearest chair and shouted "oh My God!
Grandma told the daughter that the teacher still has the guts to tell my sister to take it to any level and Immediately the daughter said " waaaat"? Do you know the school name is at stake here? Do you know they are going to shut down the school and arrest everybody? bla bla.. and everyone Started yelling at the teacher to apologize.
Grandma's daughter asked her for the last time. Did you beat him or not? She now said, ehn... She beat him on his back not his head. Grandma's daughter said, how can you beat a child on the back and his tooth fell off?. so, she told them to give her a few minutes. She went to my nephew's class, came back and asked the teacher why? That she just asked Georgewells classmates now what happened yesterday and they all said the teacher hit his head on the table and his tooth flew out and landed on another boys book.
Immediately she and other teachers began to beg my sister. Grandma was already crying that her school is in trouble. My sis said she became afraid for Grandma. Let the 98yrs old woman not go and give up. so she told Grandma not to worry that she won't involve the school, only the teacher.
They continued to beg my sister and told her to take the son to the hospital that the teacher will fute the bill from her Nov salary. That they'll deduct whatever the bill comes to from her salary before handing it to her. And my sister left.
That was how it all went yesterday.
Thanks guys for your love and support. We appreciate.
nah so one flog our last born give am marks for body like say nah tattoo him draw am... next day i just follow kid bro go him school just go see who dey idiot be... I no even talk for staff room as headmistress dey caution the werey. me nah after everything i just calm down go back house dey wait dismissal time...... long story short e no even take me two sachet of S.k and M.j small small boys for street help me arrange the teacher matter. Aba boys no dey para no be wen u think say u get craze pass them
drizslim: A beautiful Nigerian lady has taken to social media to lament over her sad situation after her dream of getting married on December 4th this year appears unfeasible.
The beautiful lady identified as Isioma Favour, revealed that earlier this year, precisely in January she picked December 4th 2021 by faith during a prophetic service im church.
She however said it’s almost the fateful day but presently she is not getting married.
Favour said she doesn’t have any suitor or even a boyfriend as she is still single.
She wrote;
I Just Want TO CRY, WEEP AND LAMENT OH WHEN THE SINGLES WERE ASKED TO PICK THEIR WEDDING DATE JANUARY THIS YEAR, I PICKED 4TH OF DECEMBER 2021 MY CALENDAR JUST REMINDED ME THAT NEXT WEEK SATURDAY IS 4TH���� WEDDING I AM NOT DOING ���� HUSBAND I DIDN’T SEE FIANCEE I DIDN’T SEE SERIOUS BOYFRIEND I KNOW GET ORDINARY BOYFRIEND KWANU, I DON’T HAVE NO BODY SHOULD TELL ME OTHERWISE, AM CRYING TO STUPOR TODAY ����� I WANT TO MARRY OOOOOOOOOO SOMEBODY SHOULD GIVE ME HANDKERCHIEF ���
I rather carry one old mama of 50 years for Yankee
tunjijones: This is scabies (krowkrow). It's common in boarding schools..
exactly what i was about to say Cox i had someone who suffered something extremely like this not long ago..worst part of it is that my guys own was easily transferable i had to Japa for him before i come get am.
FalseProphet1: If the colonial masters hadn't invaded African and colonized this continent, and the slave trade didn't happen, by now Africa would have still be living in the stone age, adults both male and female will still be walking naked, we would have been slightly higher than animals.
This I have seen.
that's not true, go and check your history technology started way back even in Egypt as far back as B.C.......
Nazgul: Most girls are more scared of pregnancy than STD. Most girls in their late teens and early 20s who just had raw sex would focus more on drugs that can flush the semen out of her system, reason being that she's aware of the consequences of getting pregnant in her parents house.
So I guess it all boils down to the awareness, the church, schools, government, NGOs...etc. Need to start creating awareness, they should educate young girls on the dangers of premarital sex and need to close their legs.
I no even need direct u go any phishing link to hack ur acct
lol ethical hackers don't even need you to do anything before dem go hack your account..... e just dey easy as abc...you fit no dey with ur phone self dem go stil run am u no go stil get SMS say ur fb account password, username and profile pics has all been changed
JuanJO: I don talk am before and I go still talk am again Oyibo head no dey Carry odinary weed e come Arizona. Look at us wey our head dey Carry everything. Dem come ban am
Tell me how person go just Waka enter were people dey and start to they shoot them Person wey no be Boko, iswap, Fulani herdsmen, reform Terrorist (bandits)
Abeg hunger dey blow me. I wan sell my phone. Infinix Note 5. Very neat for just 30k. Location aba. Abia state. Abeg help make una help me find buyer
MediMedi: Seems I'm introvert. I always do things my ways, I act cool towards people and hardly find way in interrogation.
A lady once oozed it to my face, says am too cool and hates cool people who can't interact I felt bad that day. Tho, we meet just that first day and since then if I see her I will be forcing myself to long talk her yet it not working too well.
Help, I wanna be vibrant. I flow well on media, calls but in real face-face i'm shy speaking please Help.
I'm you x3 my roomy here in school once told me that how is it possible that I can stay in a room with him and choose not to talk or strike a conversation with him but I just Jejely laughed and told him....bro u hav known me to be like this since year1 til dz our finals, why choose to say this now and he was like I'm scared we're going to loose this friendship after school if we continue like this.......but me I'm trying this days shaaaa
handsomeyitayo: I support you my brother, this life is about spirituality...we have to go consult true man of God be it prophet ... There are some warfare that are stubborn, even if you are holy and also pure, they will still attack..no matter the prayers, Rembr this doctors are like prophet, while taking medicine is like prayers .. Rembr they said if you take drugs after three days , consult your doctor.. That is how it is ..if you pray and you haven't see change..go to your prophet..to seek spirituality.. Many pastors do go to white garment to see prophet, and yet their members will be criticizing ,I don't go to white garment , they are evil.. stupid members that are having problems.. even if their pastor ask them are you ok..they will say it is well, when they are not well... If you want to go for spiritual cleansing ..go after it...nobody will hold you, candle , perfume ..water, bathing is ok....but if involved blood ..I don't support it...well that is for traditional..
great point my brother, seems we're in this same view and perspective. my own be say where ever u see solution go for it as long as it won't be deregotary and implicating to ur conscience status quo and peace of mind. #shalom
I was in a serious challenge recently and was push to visit a white garment church. After the prophecy, I was told to get bucket, grace perfume, 3 blue candles, 4 white candles, and some other stuffs so they can prepare them. I then bath with it. That's its going to rid away any bad luck..everything was bout 4k. The cash is not the problem..but my question is this. If I fast and pray myself without doing all this, does it mean I can get positive results..
Please all the matured christains, come and help me o..
if you had compromised not going to the white garment church to seek for solution at the first place then it would had been better, but truth be told had it been ur solutions was from all this Pentecostal, catholic, Angelica or ministorial organizations would u be here seeking for attention to justify ur means? had it been it was a holy water from an adoration ground that u were asked to buy so ur predicaments would leave u wouldn't u hav gladly done that? or if at all it was at e dey work, Shiloh, or any Christian gathering that u were asked to purchase some items at exorbitant rate even wtout u knowing if it's Genuine won't u stil buy it wtout bothering us? anyway bet i should let u know that even most churches and pastors of this days do come to the white garment churches u criticise to come seek solution to the growth of their own ministry....I'm not Tryin to be a critic here but I am talking out of first hand experience and witness. my advice is even if it's at the native doctors place u wish to look for solutions for ur problem pls make sure u man up to take responsibility of ur Discisons, dnt after going into Wat u put urself through u would want to start making us feel it wasn't ur intentions to have done so at the first place. hope I made sense though unlike the Damn nigga of a guy that alwys likes lighting up his kpoli at every given moment.
josh123: Has anyone ever experienced or heard stories of supernatural things happening to the dead? And why does morticians knock before entering a morgue?
very funny though but I hav got a relative who drives ambulance his stories most times about ghosts for morgue dey baffle me not until my uncle died last year January 25th......then I was able to understand truly that ghosts do exist. if I should tell u my encounter with him una no go beliv so make i keep calm.
JuIiusmalema: as in ehn same here bro. I can't wait to finish. Bloggers with unverified news will link every death to Covid 19 causing tension and forcing FG to again close schools. If no be this scam by this time I for don graduate last year
chai it's really getting kinda crazy ooh, I Don do four years course for five years now yet this people no wan let us go
Romance › Re: What Kind Of Christmas Gift Can One Buy For A Guy Who Uses Designer Stuff? by Caseywilliams(m): 7:56pm On Dec 24, 2021
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