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MissJoy29:
Mr X.ingXhang, you here?
Mr Cassyrooy.

Yes dear, I was there too(for Croatia to win o).

Even with all our modelling, we crashed even worse than a sack fufu, and to that overpaid buffoon called Ighalo, people will do him same way he did Nigerians by kicking off goal following that golden opportunity.

MissJoy29:
Happy New month to

Pur.ityval

Cassyrooy

Sir.BLUNT

Do.nstan18

An.tinormal

Iam.aNigerianGuy

Xin.gXhang

C.hocberry.
Wishing you all the best this month and always.

Thanks dear, I didn't forget you either and God won't forget you too.

Happy new month, I pray July produce extraordinary favours and open doors for you and your family.

MissJoy29! K'am hapu okwu!

MissJoy29:
Aah! And he's crying. Sorry Salah.

Mr Cassyrooy, are you here?

Ah! I've missed o

I was really laughing after Ramos "took him out". I knew Madrid would win but Ramos ousting Salah made it easier, and I found myself happy that he did that.

MissJoy29:
Yeah you really are weird. Never have I seen such before.

Yeah. I can imagine!

[/b]Lol. She sounds really sweet and cute. I especially like her Eng/Igbo. I do that a lot. See:[/b]
*a laikiri m ya (I like it)
*a gawalam now (I'm going now). Lol.

Yeah....I think so. Though I have been coming home kinda late recently. Stress I guess. Yours?

First thing first, apologies for the overextended period of not reaching out.

@bolded, "the sweet thing" clocked 6 last Friday, she hasn't stopped being sweet.

MissJoy29:
You call your momsi by name? . That's different. Never heard that before. You guys must have been very close.

I love brother/sister bonds. It's always so cute.

So sweet @your niece being your favourite girl in the world.

Just believe & it shall come to pass. Say Amen!

Yes o, remember I'm weird, we were very close, she knows the meaning of every sound coming from me, sickness, frustrated/worried, just name it.

My brother went to boarding school, so I had to bond with my sisters, and as the last born, your imagination can fill the rest.

You can't blame either of us, she's too sweet and fun to be with. I remember during the burial, we were all eating when she just grabbed a sachet water and her mom made to collect it, next thing we heard was "mummy, mummy leave it I want to tapuo it(open it)" and she was just three then. She's my delectable gorgeous.

Amen ooo.

Hope your week has been dealing you soft hands?

MissJoy29:
Ah moms! They are too much. Mine is the strongest, most humble, most patient, most yielding, most submissive woman I know. I saw her and hated the word "submissive" cos I saw how easily overly submissive women get abused. Her heart though was just moulded after God's own I presume(God forgive me if I blasphemed). She's so forgiving, with a heart so pure, diamonds envy her. Nothing I do on earth for her will be enough to repay her for being who she is. We go to sleep at night knowing what She does to keep us all safe. My greatest Prayer for her is for her to make Heaven.

My mum and I are soooo close! We are almost like best buddies. I tell her even my stupid mistakes. We can talk for Africa! If you hear us talking, you won't believe she's my mum. Yet when we quarrel, it's so intense. Lol. My name is "junior" just because I have all her names. Our initials are same: JIE. The only difference is Mrs & Miss.

She's unarguably the best mom in the world.

I celebrate NRE, my elder sister. She's the superwoman of the family. She's more than 10 men put together. Beauty, brains, strength of character. Without her, only God knows what we would have been doing. God Bless these amazing souls for me.

I'm so sorry about your loss. God will give you a good wife to compensate you for mom's loss.

I understand the picture you projected, you're lucky to have such gem as a mom.
Amen to your prayers for mommy.

We're so close, I call her by name anytime we've resolved all our squabbles, which she never rebuked cos she knew how much respect I bestowed on her. I almost choked a friend cos he mentioned her in the wrong context.

For my sister too, something brought us together and we've had this special relationship that still blossom every day (haven't seen her in 10months now, our relationship has transcended to her daughter (who unarguably is my favourite girl in the world).

Thank you dear, very thoughtful of you. God should o, especially a wife that knows how to travel my stomach through food; my heart through good company; my head through impeccable vision and wisdom, she'll live happily ever after o(not kidding).

1x2x3:
So we got talking on the phone for over 20mins mum will be like na you call me or na me call you? Either of the answer is a setup.....mummy you called me!! Ewooo my credit is finished oo recharge the phone for me. Then if I say "Mummy I'm the one who called" she will be like.. You get enough credit oo oya send some for me.

Smart woman. All the best to your mom, and all other women for their impeccably marvelous job with raising grown men from toddlers.

I celebrate two 'moms'.

First, my mom, she's everything I knew as a parent and I never asked about my pops cos for once the questions never crossed my mind due to her abilities to provide for 5 children (for 2decades).

She gives her advises in parables, and she's a decent disciplinarian. She could have been a good sprinter cos she runs and maintained this athletic physique all ages.

When I started having female friends from school over, she also was 'Chindu' for 'Chinedu', "if you impregnate any of them, bring them o, I'm still strong to carry them, provided you can hustle for their upkeep". And each time I get the message.

Every night, I still want to see her face after not seeing her for 43months now. (RIP Onyehuruchianya, the strongest human I ever knew, ASNF).

She was my close friend too.

Second, my elder sister. We've been friends all my life, she knows some things about myself that I sometimes forget to acknowledge.

We've only disagreed only once leading to a long quarrel (2012), she's a born leader.

If we reincarnate, I don't mind having her as my wife cos of her stubbornness, strong will, intelligence and vision.

Kayler, you'll continue to laugh until you get tired and you'll come to see that you've lived the best on earth, and heavens will be kind to you too.


MissJoy29 come talk about momcy o.

MissJoy29:
Ok...I think I understand you now.

A lot of people said the same thing. I didn't watch at all. Was only following live updates here.
It seems you are disappointed AC Roma lost..Yeah well, I hope Madrid wins in the finals in Ukraine. Definitely rooting for my boy.

Amen to your Prayer. Happy new month to you too dearie.

Coldplay? Never heard of it/her/him/them

Okay.

Yes o I wanted Liverpool knocked out(they pose a threat to Madrid) in this round, AS Roma would have been an easier meat to tear, having Salah, Mane and Firmino against Madrid will be though. But I'm still standing tall with Madrid(both Madrid in UCL and UEL finals respectively,) on this too.

Thanks. Enjoy your weekend.

They are an amazing band, Chris Martin is their lead singer, I've been 'highing' on their 'X & Y' album(to me, it's the greatest British album), I recommend you listen to that album.

MissJoy29:
No...your first paragraph negates and contradicts the second one. Don't you think?

My weekend was hectic!!!!Are you watching the match?

It did seem so but no, I only consider it, not what I actually want to do. Also, not getting married only happens when I've seriously lost my interest in the institution, but with or without it, I'll still want to have kids.


Only saw the first 45mins, not an interesting game I'll tell you, Liverpool scoring first just ended the tie, was expecting to see a stronger performance from AS Roma, but over the two legged tie, they've been rather shambolic.

Sorry about that, this week will bring better tidings for you, and happy new month dear.

Hoping Liverpool make the final an interesting one though, 'cos Madrid really want to save some face come Kiev2018 finale.

You listen to Coldplay?

MissJoy29:
I don't understand the first paragraph.

You are right. Love is powerful enough to make you feel you have never been hurt before.

I meant, having kids without being married might be the way to go, I dread 'an empty shell marriage.'

That's why I still believe in it.

Hope your weekend is going great?

MissJoy29:
That a baby can survive even before it's nine months, is it advisable to put to bed a premature baby just cos you want to?

Because I say 'no' doesn't literally mean you're off the hook here.

MissJoy29:
Certainly not! I have a lot of weirdness to last me a lifetime

Don't lose yours too

Okay o

MissJoy29:
True. A lot of people (men and ladies alike) miss out on genuine love simply cos they maltreat who they are supposed to love. In the end, they just settle down with just anyone cos they have to settle. But no love. No affection.

This brings me to considering walking away with children but never tying the knot, I'll die in a lovelorn marriage.

OK...if you say so

Yeah.

Lol...see you. Adam wasn't safe. What makes you think you will be.



Don't mind me jare.

Jesus! In as much as I find the bolded hilarious, I also find it frightening.

But the truth is, we don't need any shielding or safe haven, love have a way of dulling the pains we've ever felt.

MissJoy29:
I know. Have experienced that before too.

I always take out a lesson from every experience no matter how bad.

Hmmm....don't awaken that thing in me please. It should rest now to come up later.

If it can come up later, why not awaken it now?

MissJoy29:
Yeah. One day.

Lol... I get you. I learnt how to consciously tone down on a lot of things & let some things go when I discovered my weirdness and being uptight was affecting my life. It's healthier that way

Yeah.

Okay, just don't lose it someday, I mean the weirdness, that's your unique trait in this life.

MissJoy29:
God Bless your sweet soul. That's one of the secrets I was trying to spill to you. Now get this, there are a lot things people do to their loved ones that show clearly as day that they don't love their partners. Demanding excessively and outrageously is one of them.

They'll end up losing possibly the best of the people that can make them happy. Till they change their perceptions about relationship and love, things won't change.

You must have gone through a lot in our hands or suffered a recent heartbreak to stay this long. Sorry.

I've had my fair share from ladies, but that's not entirely why I've been single all this while. And thanks.

Yeah. Eve was our master!

Lord! Safe us

MissJoy29:
Thanks for your observations.

Please don't go rogue. Won't be cool

God help me then.

MissJoy29:
Hmmmm.....this is serious. And here am I having NEVER wooed any man in my life. I have had guys I crushed on. Guys I loved even before they noticed me. In fact, my first love experience was like that. I loved this guy to the ends of the earth and back. But I refused to get too comfortable until he formally asked me out. It took time but I got it. But before then, I was giving him so much green light and attention to an extent that he would have been stupid not to have asked me out .
It didn't last though. I felt bad. But would have felt much more worse if I had asked him out first & it still ended the way it did.

About risk? Hmmmm...I don't know if I can do it. Maybe I will add it to my "bucket list".

Just like you've revealed loving some before they get to know you, so has been the case with us guys.

@bolded I know that feeling.

That's life for you. Take the lessons from the experience and move on.

Try it, it's fun on it own, 'hunting the hunter.'

MissJoy29:
I wonder cos I know it's not possible.
But if it were to be possible, I will go to the ends of the world to meet her

Being weird is bae. Although there should be a limit. Otherwise, you will discover that you have few friends or none at all cos you feel no one understands you!

Someday we'll discover if only one copy of us ever existed.

Yeah, you're right, people see my seriousness towards any task as being too weird and strange. And sometimes I enter a different level and they comprehend nothing and I have to start toning down just to carry everyone along.

MissJoy29:
Oh the emotional blackmail I talked about was done by a lady to me. Not a man. A man's emotional blackmail to a lady is done mostly to keep her not really to collect something from her. That's a topic for another day though.
26? that's long o. Mine is 17. Men get wahala too die!

Na...you can't take it away from us. No matter the amount of red pill y'all swallow. We will ALWAYS have the aces in that area

Yeah....that's why you need to differentiate the ones that are worth it & the unworthy leeches. So you live a long life

Oh! I always wonder why people lie/blackmail someone they claim to love, the point still elude me. But humans hate the truth in general, so I don't ponder it that much.

26months and I'm not really bothered. Another strange thing about me.

Why argue over something that might have been created by Eve or her descendants? Y'all can claim that and I won't argue against that.

Leeches, once I get ensnared by one, I run like a dog whose tail has been lit on fire. I can't die young o.

MissJoy29:
Thanks dearie. I'm happy to have crossed your path. We have had a good run (@ conversations). You keep it flowing.

Amen to all your Prayers & please tone down on the flattery.

Thanks for being a good person Mr Augustus

I'll continue to.

I wasn't trying to be overtly flattering, just stating my observations.

I'll continue to fight not going rogue someday.

MissJoy29:
I had to read the pages from top to bottom before answering.

Personally, I don't think I can approach a guy first. I'm not sure I can. The best I can do is show him the green light. He should handle it from there.
My main reason why is the fear of wooing a really immature guy & what & what he will say about me to his friends. I don't think my tough skin is that tough to withstand the embarrassment.

What about you? How do you react to ladies wooing you first?

Not being able to approach a guy is still normal, but sometimes the guys might be 'colourblind' and you'd missed him. Sometimes don't be afraid to risk things.
Fearing that the guy might be immature or 'a grown baby' shouldn't stop you, what about those grown babies that woo you? Just take chances sometimes.

Ladies wooing was at first scary, I've had it coming from my primary school days, and I happen to have wooed just one woman in my entire life, the rest woo me. I'm surprised this has been the case o.

The last girl that wooed happened last year, after my relationship ended, a 100l student wooed me, I was trying not to break her heart by refusing to decline her advances, later had to call everything off after 3wks 'cos that wasn't me. Turned out to be the best decision I've made.

MissJoy29:
I get your point. It's actually quite amazing.

I sometimes wonder if there's another me somewhere. In an alternate universe perhaps. Like a doppelganger
What will she look like? Yeah, we weird like that

I just don't wonder, I'll like to meet with him and cross things off lists.

Being weird has been fun, and will continue to be fun.

MissJoy29:
Yeah. I have seen the emotional blackmailers at work and I must tell you, it's quite disturbing. Heck, one even pulled a similar trick on me and I got to experience first hand what a lot of you do. Una sorry.

Sorry about that, but I want to point out that I've been blackmailed in similar manners by you ladies, that's why I've chosen to put on hold relationships for the past 26months. Women get wahala die.

Now like you said, I'm not accusing the guys of promoting this thing while I exonerate the ladies. No. But the responsibility lies more on the guys to at least minimize it if not stop it totally. How should it work?
There's something a lot of you guys don't know. There's a reason ladies make these outrageous demands. If only you can find out, life will be easier for you guys. You can ask questions, you can study the demander as well. There are behavioural traits that should alert you. That will tell you all you need to know. Cos a lot of ladies y'all do stuffs for don't deserve it.
But do you know the sad truth? I don't see this ending anytime soon. As long as there are very rich people around like Tim who throw money around for ladies, as long as ladies still have insatiable and unquenchable thirst for material things, as long as men don't catch up to the main reason why ladies are using a lot of you as maga, as long as we still hold the aces in the art of seduction, this trend will not end anytime soon (if ever it will).

Hmmm! Will be looking to demystify whatever gives y'all the 'aces in the art of seduction' against us. God help us all.

Now, there's a difference between doing stuffs for a good woman who's worth your expenses & who doesnt feel too entitled & spending on a woman who doesn't deserve your time let alone your money. Maybe another time I will outline how you get to differentiate.

I totally agree with you on this, if you worth it, I can do anything with my capacity to keep you happy, but the moment contrary becomes the issue, walking out becomes inevitable.

...And suddenly, our path crossed, at first, it was one bound to end when the thread becomes dry and nothing else is left to say.

MissJoy29, your personality, your perspective, charm and your weirdness isn't one to forget so easily.

You are a good conversationist, weirdo, and very objective person.

As you journey through another 365days, may laughter, peace, quality friendship, love and care soldier on around you, and may the Joy you bear, resonate and radiate every face you offer a smile.

Belated happy anniversary of birth, dear.

MissJoy29:
True @self worth has been relegated to the background. It's so annoying. The funniest thing is that most of these ladies who form slay queens & flaunt expensive items have already traded their self respect especially in the eyes of guys. I watch in amazement as grown up women turn to beggars and emotional blackmailers sometimes just to get a man to buy them lunch. Let me not say much here.

Some don't beg for things, they expect you to just give them and when not the case, they insult you and call you names? Emotional blackmail is the worse part of the terrible behaviour, some just cant do anything for themselves and on their own. We'll remain far off because these girls don't care about self worth, independence, respect and all.

Yeah it won't stop. As long as you guys keep indulging the outrageous demands. We will keep on demanding. And you will keep on complaining.

You're accusing the guys of promoting the behaviour? The good ones who don't spend on girls are tagged loser and broke, those who spend are considered maga, mugu and the likes.
This is a two-way street, you're as responsible as we are too.

A lot of men will continue to "save face" by never admitting they can't afford some things. They prefer to borrow & impress than to be called "broke"

Yeah. He probably needs to change his taste in women.

I've seen the people save face than admit, but the word is packaging, which the ladies easily fall for. But, a plain disclosure by a broke guy doesn't end well you know?

MissJoy29:
Exactly. Their problem, their headache.

Lol @generating money from all human activities. Come to think of it Mr Augustine I never saw anyone on that thread that mentioned his name except you. You are really weird. But I really don't understand the last sentence in the second paragraph.

I remember that book from my days as my fellowship's librarian in school then. Funny enough, I never read it. Is it that good?

Doesn't it amaze you how one man gave thought to something inevitable today? No one avoids taxation. Yes, no one did mention him, everyone was looking at where interests them, Caesar Augustus, caught mine.

The last sentence in my last paragraph, I meant, won't you be amazed getting to know yourself if born different? Weird thinking, but I guess that's me again.

It's that good, it hard facts, bitter truth, just get give it a try.

MrToks2008 I don't anything to say than admit than agreeing with you.

The only problem women have is the thought that they are condescending to a lower status or something.

MissJoy29 come and see something, do you agree or disagree?

MissJoy29:
It's alright Mr Cass. Welcome back anyway!

Don't mind them. God will help them.

Why do you want to know about taxes?
I have been good. You?

Thanks.

Na their cup of tea, I don't tell people how to interact with God, blasphemous comments has it's own repercussions.


Isn't it amazing how one man conceived the idea of generating money from all human activities in the world? Other than being the original name from which my own name, Augustine, was developed from, I'd like to know him, like I would've loved to know myself if I had been born a different person.

I doing alright. There's this book I'm reading now, Rick Warren's Purpose-Driven Life.

Its been ripping me in amazing ways and dimensions.

MissJoy29:
Let's not bother about who expects the most. It will bring up another round of discussion. I expect to be bought a gift by my partner on my birthday. Otherwise it will cause problems. Same way my partner should expect a gift from me. It's that simple

Cc Purity-val
Cassyr-ooy

I don't blame Tim or the broke girls that he dates, what you expect when selfworthy has been relegated because of some petty materials.

The phenomenal of broke girls wanting guys to spend on them can't be fully explained.

The nasty habit won't stop, because many of us (both girls and guys) won't own up to being broke, they see it as less dignifying, wetin I go lose if I come out say I dey broke? To me, nothing.

Tim has been fishing in the wrong side of the river and I hope he finds his way to the better sides.

MissJoy29:
Exactly!
One called Abraham mad.
Another implied John the Beloved must have smoked weed.
2 people used fuccck & bleeping to talk about The Blessed Mary.
Another said Jesus had a girlfriend: Mary Magdalene.

It's saddening to note that majority of the people who wrote these are Christains.


Anyway,I would have said Jesus first of all but I don't see Him as a Bible character. He's much more than that...
Having said that, I would like to meet Elijah. God so made use of him and after everything, he didn't taste death.
Another is Esther. I would like to have whatever made her to find Favour in the King's eyes.

Cc: cassyrooy. What is your answer? And Happy Sunday

Hi Ms. Joy!

Sorry I just slipped in under the carpet for an extended period.

Yes, I'm not a religious person but seeing the profanity some people typed up there, I could only shake my head.

My answer? I want to spend time with Caesar Augustus (the man who began taxing the whole world).

How have you been?