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Respect55:
Hope u have stopped

virago:
The things I hate are downloading without my consent , I once gave my phone to a colleague and the next thing he did was download a file of 100mb and I had less than 1 gig left on my data. Another I hate is turning the phone to your own , my friend asked to check something online and 1 hour 30 minutes later she hadn't finished what she was checking , I was like are you through with the phone and she was like I'm almost through , this was after she had the phone for like one hour , eventually she held the phone for 1 hour 35 minutes ( I actually checked the time )

ScotMisile:
In my case reverse is the case. A lady gave me her phone to help her set-up some apps. I needed to go on her browser then. ..my my... The kinda Indecency I saw there.. .Heavy one... Fear no gree me work again... I passed her phone back to her... If na way to go.. .E nor work for me... At all

MissJoy29:
I get. I'd surely do same too.

MissJoy29:
Actually the worst is knowing they drive you mad but purposely REFUSING & UNWILLING to change.

Scary things dear. Scary things.

MissJoy29:
My dear eh, the whole thing is SHOCKING! My biggest problem here is that she's not concerned about what he's going through. That's as disturbing as fucck mehn!

merit1988:
Loving like a fool....that's my weak point

GrabHisBalls:
My weak point is being in love. If I say I don't hate it, I'll be lying.

bukatyne:
I enjoyed your convo with cassyrooy.

MissJoy29:
The bolded part got my attention. You are so right! Why ensare himself in a bid to disgrace her? That's foolishness.

Although even if he didn't do Church wedding but has done traditional wedding before that day, he's already very much married.
The only issue now is, did he know before the TW (assuming he's done it)? If yes, he's not smart. He should have cancelled then. Another issue is, did she cheat after the TW? If no, then he's truly trapped because if he's a genuine Christian, there's no ground for divorce for him in the sight of God since the lady has not cheated on him as a wife. But if he's not & still wants a divorce, he's free to.

I think there's more to this story.
What do you think Cassyrooy?

DrChukki:
Igbo traditional marriage taking place in Abuja?

Which tradition is that?

1daboi:
from the way you reason, I'm sure you're still single. Girls find guys like you boring.

IamD18:
1. I want them to stop loosing their virginity carelessly just for ordinary promise from a guy to make them Whatsapp group admin.

2. I want them to stop being disgusting, they should how to keep their undies clean, rather than wearing one pant for 3 days and then turn it again to wear it again for another 4 days.

3. I want them to stop being lazy, they should enroll into jobs like carpentry, bricklaying, mechanic, conductor, vulcanizer, mixing of concrete, iron bending and driving of big lorries before having the audacity and impetus to ask for equal right with men.

4. I want them to stop being a disgrace to womanhood, they should learn how to make good food like our mothers of then without browsing and watching videos on youtube. Check the phone browsing history of an average Nigerian lady, you'll be seeing things like..."How to parboil maggi, how to wash salt, how to fry water and the rest". I want them to stop it.

5. Lastly, I want them to stop being disrespectful, they should learn how to cherish and respect Nigerian men like Ghanaians.

Mea sententia

Donald95:
This relationship really meant alot to her. But why on earth will she cheat?

Don't be confused my brother, Thank your God she ain't your wife. If you've lashed her, you are lucky. If you havn't, then count all your spendings as lost. Move on with your life Their are 5.6 billion after us 1 billion

harley88:
Can't see any correlation between dating for money and his story

Erolow:
Thank God say you add, 'not all girls'. I for just attack you for here.

AngelicBeing:
1. The power of positive thinking, 2. A guide to confident living 3. Stay alive all your life 4.. Positive thinking every day 5..The true joy of positive living..

I have read all this once I recommended above for you but in all honesty, all his books are superb and it will send you into deep meditations and you will begin to see life from a different perspective

Hedonini:
You're not far from the truth. Husbands Don suffer for this life i swear.

Husbands have to deal with the monumental stress of providing for the family, dealing with all the annoyance (pikin sick, roof collapse, wife dey purge, family car knock engine, in law fall inside gutter, soak away don full for compound, etc etc), and yet deluded women still expect him to have a hard on and Bleep like a stud in spite of all this stress? Women without sense still compare him with an 'I don't care' guy outside who doesn't have to deal with all this rubbish when with her, and therefore just bleeps for the illicit thrill and fun of it?

If I say marriage na one sided scam, dem go say I don come again, but it's a fact. I don't see what men stand to gain from this rubbish union other than unnecessary stress, heartache and woes.

Dinho20:
DEAR LADIES : BITTER TRUTH YOU MUST SWALLOW :

1. Sex doesn't keep a man, if you like, turn 360% on bed, he will still dump you. Bleach until you become white, if he doesn't notice the qualities of a wife in you, he will leave you.
2. A man who win your love with cash may not stay forever. Real men doesn't settle down with fake women who love money.
3. The beauty of a woman can take her to a Palace but her character will determine how long she stays in the palace. Beauty attracts men but character keep them.
4. Material things definitely has its merits but it cannot alone provide the riches of a truly meaningful life.
5. Being sexy without a character will not get you a husband, you will only get a boyfriend.
6. Sex can bring pleasure but it can never bring love, sex is a product of love, love is not a product of sex.
7. Sex can make a man stay with you overnight but love will make him stay for a lifetime.
8. There are some things that money just can't buy like manners, moral and integrity.
9. How you dress will definitely determine how men will address you.

AngelicBeing:
Unfortunately, they are in hard copies in my library in Nigeria, Peale is one author l so much respect, his teachings / counseling / health center / magazine's was a blessing to millions of people across the globe, I think l have more than 20 of Peale's publications, if you pick up any of his books, you will not want to drop it until you finish reading it, he was a good writer and his books cuts across different topics and how to deal with daily life challenges

AngelicBeing:
Yes, I have read the book over and over, I think l first read it in the 90's very powerful book, another one that is also very good is by Norman Vincent Peale, the power of positive thinking, I have several collections of Late Vincent Peale books, the man was a prolific and a great writer

AngelicBeing:
Wow, interesting, kudos to you Jessica for not allowing your predicament to limit you, tough times indeed never last but tough people do

Debramaye:
I feel like I should join the suicide train and cut this chase called life

Weed helps but not a lot