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Daeylar:
Really?, most of the regrets I saw was about not going out and living life.
Hiding inside rooms and going from class to home and back.

That's what I saw most people regret.

You're correct, but the sex part is still visible on almost every page of this thread.

I don't think not going out to live life should be a regret, because our malleability shouldn't be a thing we cultivate just in college, it's a lifelong trait.

MissJoy29:
Lol....I trust you will deliver well. You no dey carry last.

Why will you have regrets after school when you are already doing practically everything a lot of us regretted not doing while in school? All the social activities, being more active, dabbling into politics, taking care of our Spirit man & above all, excelling in our fields.

I believe I go for some of the things I find interesting and that they're really worth going after.

Thumbs up hun! Continue in this strength and even more. Your expectations in school and after school shan't be cut off.

Amen. Thanks.

Daeylar:
I guess most people on nairaland had the same type of regrets.

The most common is not having more and more sex. Such a pity.

Kinjikitile:
Too many on my list ,,
I regret my low grades in my first year,

I started with a low grade (3.8 out of a 7.0 grading system) but I worked my way up, while ignoring those who chant “grade doesn't matter”. Even if it won't matter, I just like for myself to not feel useless tomorrow after finishing with a poor grade.

I regret using my school fees for mmm ponzi

Lol! I lost my school fees and accommodation money to that fraud, God saved me o.

regret not fucking one friend of mine , despite undressing her ...

My ex-girlfriend, a few weeks before resuming for my freshman year, we got to that level but didn't complete it, that also, I don't have regrets for.

MissJoy29:
I regret:

*not taking my studies seriously enough.

*the abysmal grade I had.

*attending the school I did.

*not learning a skill then.

*being too young, inexperienced & naive to recognise the all round potentials in those two student doctors who adored me to high Heavens. Now they are both married and doing well. And to think a roommate to one of them warned me about this regret.

*not making enough friends. Not socialising enough. I had a boring & routine lifestyle. It's affecting me now because I still lead a boring, routine/triangular lifestyle. Even till today, I have not seen the insides of a club (it's still in my social bucket list though).

*the costly mistakes I made in final year .

CC: Cassyrooy,
sirBLUNT

I've not come to regret anything in my life, so University of Ibadan is not special or different.

Currently, I'm about to enter my finals in UI and so, I've had experiences that cut across personal life, politics, religion and a few others.

I don't regret playing and watching football while in school.

I don't regret being the crazy guy amongst other friends and roommates. I sabi curse and yab people.

I don't regret coaching my department female team, currently, I'm quite enjoying the fact that I help these ladies to become stronger individuals tomorrow.

I'm also a mentor to a few guys.

I don't regret running for all the elective positions that I've held so far, and I don't regret resigning when the spirit of service to humanity can no longer be felt by me.

I don't regret the fact that the only girl I've had anything to do with in my 200l, I didn't end up having sex with her.

I've grown to be social (despite being introverted and conservative). I stay on campus but no dull moment with me unless our spirits fail to flow in one accord.

I've had my own share of fun, I can watch two (2) Indian movies a night before an 8AM exam, and I'm on a 2:1. I'm also a music guy.

I've had a few business ideas, tried blogging and forex trading but didn't work out. Tried Fiverr too but the place seemed comatose.

I'm strongly planning my own start up immediately after NYSC.

Above all, I'm very pleased with myself that I found a God who's faithful and reliable.

I think the very reason I've managed to be free from having regrets is because I avoided negative peer influence and pressure. Above all, I listen to my heart and conscience when I need to and my brain whenever there's a need to.

Modified: 13/2/2024

I've come to see that this part in BOLD is a big hoax. It's all politics and colonisation and cultural erasure.

banggy:
APC is a rapist ooo


PMB is a god in the north
they won't listen to us


PMB till 2023

Osibanjo/Ribadu 2023-2031
next level gaskiya

I will support this Osibade/Ribadu movement, but baba has doom for us all

MissJoy29:
So yours truly has voted!
Came here by 09.30 & left by 10.55. I had to leave because the day there looks like it will end in stories that touch. So much rowdiness.

Anyway, I have done my part. I leave the rest for God.

CC: Carlos.thejackal, CassyRooy, sirB.LUNT,

God bless you.

Couldn't vote because of the strike that made collection of PVC impossible.

Whichever way goes the results of this election, God will work wonders in Nigeria.

noah91:
ASUU calling off this strike depends solely on the Premier University, the First and the Best, the Fountain of Knowledge, the Citadel of Learning, the Pride of the Nation, The University of IBADAN

Those ones will for vote for full compliance from FG. They waste time eh

XxSabrinaxX:
This is my first thread on NL. I've noticed how passionate people on these religion forums are when matters like these are brought. So i just felt like i should try my hand at debating on NL.

Hell is a horrible idea. If God truly thinks that our “freewill” based on a limited time on earth means most of us have to live in a “hell” forever, then
yes, he’s evil, and terribly insane. However, i also want to add that if hell actually exists, then the cold truth is that ultimately, most of the human race is going there. Some Christians like to downplay this. It’s an undeniable fact if we applied Christian theology, there's really no debate.
This not only makes God evil, but portrays Satan as a smarter, more efficient presence amongst man, resulting in Satan winning his purpose over Jesus.
Jesus came to earth to save mankind. Judging by the kind of lives we live, i think its safe to say that God has been highly incompetent in making man see the truth.

Hi Sabrina, would you like a private session with me to discuss these over a long conversation?

asuustrike1:
That is because that university benefit more from the struggle

Possibly, and the National Secretariat is located in UI I guess, but regardless, they should free man pikin jare

babyfaceafrica:
lolz.....before the end of the month ,they will call it off

Lol! We shall see

babyfaceafrica:
so true..ui na father striker

Sadly so for Uites. But regardless, Glory to God.

brexit:
They will be surprised when their members will start pulling out,the meetings are going on in most universities

University of Ibadan can't pull out, na them be the strike.

Aku2078:
OYO to you

Lol! Nope, OYO to them not me.

I'm tired of flipping books, I just want to go my way and live my life. ASUU isn't the final decision maker in my life, I just wonder why they and the FG act as though they are.

Leadership in Imo State has died since the late Sam Mbakwe..

Sadly, it's Obowo that made news due to reasons not worthy at all..

MissJoy29:
Thanks Chi...
I wish you much more than this!

Thanks dear..

MissJoy29:
Happy new year everyone!

Cc: CassyRooy
sirBiUNT

Joy, I specially mark this New Dawn in your life, God will start and finish amazing and land breaking things this year. Amen.

Happy New Year dear.

Rebuke:
Cool. Mine should be ready too then. I will check their office next week to see then. Thanks so much for the infor.

Do check, You're welcome brotherly.

Rebuke:
Interesting. Sounds a bit relieving. May I know what month of the year yhu n yhur friend did yhurs in 2013?

I did a search for mine on their site to see if itz ready and I was told no result found for my search that mine is probably not ready and should check again tomorrow or later. Lol.

I don't really know the implication of the result though.

Well, I am hopeful bro.

I enrolled on September 2013, while my guys did in March or so.

Leave their website abegi na nonsense be that, after I got their text notifying me of my card awaiting collection, I logged on to their site to know further details but I still received the details not found message.

It took 5yrs and 3months to give me my own, hope yours wouldn't exceed similar duration.

Rebuke:
2012? How many years ago is that? Meaning mine might not even be ready cus I enrolled for it 2013 September or there about.

Shameful, very very shameful. Smh

My friends and I enrolled in 2013 and we've collected ours, mine was give to me this December self.

If there's any more delays, it will come early next year. Be hopeful.

Nigeria is still an massive wasteland though.

MissJoy29:
Ok. Thanks. I have heard about the second one though. It's an old series, right?

Yeah, it's old. found it at my sister's place.

MissJoy29:
I haven't seen them. How are they?

American Housewife (I'll send the download link to you) is a Situation-Comedy series while The Secret Life is about teenage indulgence in sex and family life too.

MissJoy29:
Which one are you watching? I have been catching up on Orange is the new black 6 & combining it with movies from my Iroko TV app.

The Secret Life of the American Teenager and American Housewife.

MissJoy29:
You may be right. I don't think the harmattan is that bad here.

Lol...sometimes though, you get tired of the TV & just want to hang

Point well received.


Yeah, but the past 3weeks have been series galore since I got back here, and it doesn't seem to have an end in sight.

MissJoy29:
How? Mild weather ke?

You are enjoying na. Me I'm home alone.

The East has more tolerable weather compared to Abuja now, so it's milder than mine..

Don't mock me o.. Home alone gives ample time to see anything you want on TV now..

MissJoy29:
Going well. Just had a nap. Going back soon

Yours?

I wish I can celebrate like you're doing under a mild weather.

I'm currently at a friends place, and listening to music and frolicking this place.

MissJoy29:
Lol....how is it difficult to believe those are foods I don't like.

Merry Christmas to you too

Lol! I understand you.
How's the Christmas going?

MissJoy29:
* Beans with yam or plantain or potatoes or corn or bread
* Egusi soup with bitter leaf
* Fried ripe plantain
* Indomie with raw egg poured inside
* Indomie with sardine (can eat that one once in two years)
* Golden morn
* Drinking garri & groundnut (that's a no no for me)

...still thinking...

Cc: CassyRooy, sirBLUNT

Dunno which you wrote here, the one you hate or like.

I don't have any favourite food or anything but i don't like semo, salad and cream, pawpaw, anything with margarine nauseate me, bitterleaf soup is almost a turnoff for me, banger soup makes me instantly sick.


Merry Christmas�to you all.

Meeting and getting to know an incredible friend, MissJoy29,

Rediscovering myself again.

Getting closer to God and Him keeping me alive.

enshi:
Here in umunachi we no know wetin be aasu

Umunachi, Obowo?

Back in May my phone stopped working entirely, I went 6wks before getting another, it was hell but I lived sha. But anything farther than 2months will tell on me drastically.