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luminouz:
Lol...na joke I dey jare

I sabi, longest time. You just forget me for corner.

How hustle now?

MissJoy29:
Ok...I for say.
Eh, na my boss too.

You dey alright then.

MissJoy29:
Hmmmmm...nice one.

Someone might still make the final draft if they put in some jaw breaking show in the last episodes

MissJoy29:
Your boss? How?
Your boss is the man in the OP's story?

Not that guy o, I was replying to my oga Lumi..

I didn't go through the post before submitting.

MissJoy29:
Don't mind him.
Ok sir. I will ease up.

Okay. Na my boss be that o.

MissJoy29:
*Tyrion(he had my undivided attention since season 1. The guy is LEGENDARY!)

*Missande & Greyworm (my favourite couple. The tenderness of their love melts my heart).

*Ser Jora(his devotion, loyalty & tender love for Daenarys is deep)

*Theone( I hope i got the spelling right)Greyjoy.
(I don't know why but I just love him. He suffered the most but still has goodness in him)

*The night king (the guy is a BADASS!)


*Lord Baelish (I just like the sound of his name)


Cassyrooy, come and say yours.

Good list.

But mine starts with Jon Snow.
Cersei Lannister,
Tyrion Lannister,
Missandei of Naath,
Grey Worm,
Samwell Tarly,
Jorah Mormot,
Arya Stark,
and of course, the Night King.

MissJoy29:
A lame, blind, deaf, dumb & ultimately dead DOG is better than the man. He is below lowest!

The man messed up, he shouldn't have denied her outrightly, he should have let her gone back to PHC and gradually cut her off but he goofed.

Just easy with the curse now

luminouz:
What's with the dear dear u dey give am na... Oya dash me my own 'dear' too!

Oga Luminouz D: Abeg o o.

MissJoy29:
A resounding AMEN!!!

Thanks dear.

You're most welcome baby.

MissJoy29:
ALARMINGLY higher my dear.

I'm praying that you don't cross paths with such men.

MissJoy29:
Humans are becoming more and more heartless, desperate & selfish that's the summary.

We've been so but the rate is getting higher.

That guy is a big id!0t. Just to have sex he broached marriage to the girl.
I'm ashamed of manhood when I hear some things sometimes.

MissJoy29 bia negodu o!

MissJoy29:
If the story is true, then I'm shocked! It's ladies like this that make men call us "fish brain".

My grievance with her isn't just about what she did but that she had the audacity to want to go back to him. She didn't go to beg & ask for forgiveness; she just wanted to be taken back.

The word to describe her, I'm still searching.

My biggest fear with women.

One minute, they're the best to happen to you, and the next minute they're the worse you've seen yet.

I also reasoned your point and I couldn't fathom what to say too.

This thread has enlightenment for enlightened minds, pick your views from both sides and live your life.


Off Nairaland, what's the value of your life, I mean both to the males and females?

Everything being said here should not be copied and pasted in real life scenarios, be able to discern when you're to be Alpha male and when you'd give in.

Marriage is not for grown babies. Your ability to navigate through the ocean of marriage killing circumstances, your wisdom will save you, not your alpha male or female lifestyle.

I've seen entitled women and I've seen poorly trained men who drool for sex. Also I have good ladies who don't shy from doing good by me.

Just be wise!

MissJoy29 bia le e o

MissJoy29:
Life is sweet o! Thank you thank you Liverpool!

@Cassyrooy!

I'm not sad nor happy. Na final I go pick side.

MissJoy29 ino eba?

CapedBaldy:
I'm an introvert and I don't really like living like this. I find it hard to start conversations with people and even when people try talking to me I can't hold a conversation. I wasn't always like this though I was quite extroverted as a kid and I was really popular in school. I only changed during my teens. I'm turning 19 this year and I want to get rid of this introversion. I've managed to make about 2 new friends but I don't really know them and they don't really know me. all we do is talk about anime and it doesn't really go past that. So, if you were an introvert at a point in your life please tell me how you were able to overcome it and start opening up. I don't want to feel insecure anymore.

You hardly get past introversion, I'm talking from my own experience.

I have been an introvert all my life but I learnt to develop a second persona which I mainly use (have been using since 2015). Many a time, I get exhausted by being all mixed with extroverts for an extended period of time.

I recommend that you read Susan Cain's 'Quiet', it helped me understand why I had to continue using my dualistic personas, the extroverted person to float through social spaces and my introverted self to define my life and all that concerns me.

Hope you get past this conflicting phase of your life.

finalboss:
Arrivederci homophile

Bros, I no sabi why you dey pick on me but the truth be say, I no get your time. Lemme be.

finalboss:
Unnecessary mention

Yeah, right? Okay. Bye.

finalboss:
you sound gay

Okay. Move on then.

buhariski:
I'm a chronic masturbator I don't know how i get myself into dis shit. This year has been a worst year in my life and I can't control d way I mastubate. I don't know if it is due to depression and loneliness. This year I made a promise not to visit the brothel though I hav kept to the promise. My problem now I have done everything possible to make sure I stop masturbation but I can't just stop it. The highest I can go is a week then return to normal. It's affecting me especially in my work place. cos during the working days the time I will get to rest I will used it to browse the net(night browsing you understand) using it watch porn movies online without getting a sleep and a enough wanking. This has made me less productive in my work. I wil look so weak and tired and I will b having some dizziness at worked.My co workers have took note of it and my boss too. though he has not really take action or give me quarries maybe be cos I'm d hard working type and I expect that soonest. The bigger problem now my dick is always embarrassing me publicly I can't just control it. any time I 'm with the opposite sex I always having a strong Boner. There is a day i was at home washing my clothes I was all alone in the compound cos everyone left for their various places, suddenly a small girl walked into the compound she should be 14 to 15 years old but she has a very matured physique.she was selling pap (akamu). she walked to me asking of someone living in the compound and as I was answering and I was not having any bad thought in my head oo but found out my dick got erected when I was talking to her.I didn't know oo cos I put on a lit boxer I saw her looking below, for my mind why dis girl dey look ground and I just checked myself I found out my penis was fully erect. mehn I couldn't stand the shame and embarrassment I gave to myself that day. Yesterday something similar happened but wit my neighbour daughter DAT she is in ss1.I was in kitchen cooking oo so she came in to fetch water.as she bowed down to get the water her bra got exposed I saw her breast cos she got big breast I couldn't resist myself I had a strong boner again but this time she didn't notice anything but I had rushed to my room to cool down myself while my food is on fire burning. I just weak and getting a girlfriend has been very difficult for me. The rejections I have had from girls would make someone to commit suicide.

If you are really ready to quit, lemme try and see if my methods will work on you.


If you decide to go by the above, you can reach me through

080***98

on call or whatsapp.

Sheriman:
UNILAG
Educational Management
Mikhail Ismail
State wish to serve are kano kaduna Enugu Akwa ibom and Osun

Sir, these states pay their Corp members?

For me, I want to leave immediately after NYSC but, I feel like I've left already because while in school I don't crave home and when I do go home, I easily crave to get out of there.

Having no parents anymore, I intend to marry within the shortest time of moving out.

But, moving out should be a thing to be desired. Those who continue to shout move out early, Nigerian factor still count o, my brother moved out in 2006, he returned in 2011 because things just couldn't be held together for him (despite the supports from mom then). But things are different for him now.

MissJoy29 come and talk o!

Cutthbert:
Nice deep...deep and very deep.....How far with your Academics now. I think we need to rub minds.

My academics are coming up steadily strong.

0806-*75*-**8

That's my contact, it's also available on Whats’App.

Hi everyone, I've read through so many people's story. It is true we're gonna be faced with challenges but it is also true that we can come out smoother and unscathed from these problems.

@Ishilove, my first real fear was in 2010 when my mom almost died and I was away in boarding school. I was very scared of losing her as I was in SS1 and she was our only parent (about 15years after pops had passed on).

I was close to her but we never bonded enough as I just couldn't think of losing her.
I would be an emotional wreck.

FF, in 2015 she passed on about 14hrs after I had secured admission to the University.

I was completely cool until I got to school, my relationship crashed, I became depressed, my first semester results were abysmal. I lost focus, my social life I've managed to build collapsed, my health too.

I was practically empty, except for my 4yrs-old niece, somehow, I managed to get thoughts about her into my head which helped me clear whatever was going on. I resolved to live for her.

All these while, I was chronically lost in masturbatiön, gambling (to the Glory of God, these are no more my worries as I've stopped).

My point is, we build walls to shield us against fears but these walls are very much penetrable. There's no insulator against these losses but we find comfort which only God can bring.

For me, I've repositioned myself and things are pretty much better (except my relationship life where I'm keenly seeking God's face).

And to all the young guys complaining of Virtual on Bet9ja, release your mind off getting rich by all means. Understand that you can be dependent on others but for a short time. Stop trying to live your life according to expectations from people on social media and your friends. These guys can't even notice you because they're busy trying to up their fake life.

See life differently, stop listening to people talk about street life, define your own success and money will be an additional thing to it all.

Above all, ladies and gentlemen, avoiding premarital sex is one of the surest ways to happiness. It clouds your life with darkness and it exposes you to many dangers like pregnancies, diseases etc.

Oracle55:
Please i need your candid advice, i have been able to raise 800k and for now am left with two choices, am a graduate and the only son of my mom so i need a better life.

Pls i have an agent who will do for me a work visa for a security job in Dubai, salary 220k, i will pay a total of 800k for the visa and flight.

Please is it adviseable i travel or i use the money and rent a house here in nigeria. I have searched for job for over 3 years here in lagos all to no avail.

Please how is life in Dubai? What are your suggestions, should i go or stay.

Pls mods help me move to front page

Don't travel out.

Swallow your pride and get a good car and start your own transportation business. in a year you're likely to make over N2m if you hustle real hard.

You have peace of mind, you work when you're most strong and rest when you need to, Dubai obviously is a good prospect but that agent might be a scammer and you lose everything, and you'd be trafficked/enslaved upon arrival in Dubai.


Think and create the right vision for your life and you won't regret anything.

My 0kobo!

Chi59:
Bros na your own you Dey talk. Please do yourself a favor and educate yourself on the biological causes of wet dreams.
Satan no dey this one.

Hanty to be candid, biological aspects can not be overruled, I'm more concerned about the spiritual angle.

Daeylar:
Lol, yeah I remember now.
Talking about how they regret not fucking that girl they could have bleeped without much effort. Or regretting being in relationships or abstaining from relationship.


Well, it depends on the individual, as long as they feel they should have gone out. Then they would have regrets.

Effortlessly, we can overlook that point in time and be happy for what we have.

Your second paragraph, very true especially when one isn't contented with their present situation in life.

That's where regrets and depression begins to set in.

Wringo:
Your first problem is you think you are more holy than someone who masturbates, while your righteousness is like filthy rags before God.

Any issue you fail to realize is that the same bible you are quoting says that "now there is no condemnation for those who are in Christ Jesus" Rather than condem, why not admonish by talking about the love of Christ for all no matter who you are, especially for those who masturbate and watch porn for these are the people Christ came to save.

Sorry to do forensics on this post.

At the bolded, one who masturbatês is condemned but the acts is what is being condemned.

Waksdabos:
Masturbation is sin and its of the devil. l used to masturbate for the past 6 yrs! It's an urge, so strong that you can't resist it. l tried severally to stop but no avail. 2019, l made a decision to stop. l prayed like hell during cross over night. Glory be to God, l have not masturbate till date. l can't just find the urge anymore. GOD IS GREAT.

Your bondage has been broken and it is permanent in Jesus' name. Amen.

Chi59:
Bros, I was feeling you till you stated that wet dreams are connected to demons.
Broda why?

Don't you know that dreams results from our subconscious mind? So if erotic thoughts constitute the subconscious mind, there is likelihood for wet dreams.

I'll tell you something that relates to sexual impurities, it connects one to a certain demon (such as incubus and succubus etc). They work to diminish your full potential and keep you bound onto their pleasures.