mbahdi:
They are all useless

IconicR:
He should go Abegi
I still haven't forgiven him for sleeping with Erica on tv and turn around to mess her up.
Dickhead oshi

Khaleesi4lyf:
funny enough not in all cases. Just few of them

Pukkalolo:
One lady uploaded her picture on Facebook. The picture was so sexy.

As expected, there was a sudden tsunami of compliment from men.

The compliments started flowing in:

"Wow that's my beautiful baby i love you"

Cuteness overload!

"Absolutely amazing and looking so beautiful."

What a beauty!!

"So pretty 💕"

So adorable!❤️


In response to their compliments, the lady was just replying "Thank you," "Thank you," "Thank you,"......

Then one dude came around and made attempt to be a bit different, he dropped this comment:

“I love your beautiful eyes, you and I will make cute kids”

Unfortunately, she still dish out the same response, "Thank you."

I'm sure he was disappointed because he was hoping she'd say something better

Before you know it, one rugged looking dude came around and made attempt to be totally different , the comment he dropped was,

““I dodge it joor, I refuse to fall in love with this your tempting picture”.


In my mind I was like, "Wow! that was a dope line.... let me see her response."

In fact, the moment he drop that line, there was a sudden earthquake; even the pillars of the earth could not handle the dopeness of that line.

The whole world had to stop what they were doing to check out her response. We were sure she was gonna be amazed by this rugged guy dope line.

But to everyone total surprise including mark zuckerberg, she still served him the same cliche response. Although she added a spice called "Lolz."

Her response was "Lolz, thank you."

Wait...is that all she had to say?

Is that it

Holy father! That was painful.


Anyways...

In the heat of the moment, I scrolled in, saw the picture, and ofcourse I just moved on....I rarely comment on a girl's post on social media.

But I quickly reverse back because something caught my attention. She looks exactly like Ayra Starr.

Then I dropped a comment: "Amazing! Ayra Starr won't find this picture funny."

With the speed of light, she replied my comment: " Ayra Starr? How"

I responded, "You are similar to the singer in two weird ways"

She replied, "weird way how, tell me?"

I said, "Sure...I'm gonna tell you but not in front of this crowd."

Few minutes later, she inbox me.

Isn't it funny how the rest of the packs got just 'thank you', but she made the move to inbox me.

Ok...Now you might be thinking, "Ok, Pukka, I get it but what exactly is your point"

Chill...


We are just starting...


The first rule of compliment is this: Your compliment should have different possible meaning and make her get curious.

Here's what I mean:

When you tell her "you are looking so beautiful and adorable,"....to her that means you're smitten by her beauty.

What if you twick the compliment by saying, "I dodge it joor, I refuse to fall in love with it," she might reward you with "Lolz" ........but to her it still means you are smitten by her beauty, you are just putting up a facade, so it makes no difference.

But when I told her, "Amazing! Ayra Starr won't find this picture funny," she got curious because that statement has different possible meaning; so she got curious and tries to engage more with me.

For example, If you tell her, "Wow, your dress is beautiful," then it's has just one meaning: "you admire her, you're smitten by her appearance." She will just smile and say "thank you," and the conversation ends there. Now you'll find yourself struggling to keep the conversation going.


Instead I'll tell her, "from your dressing, I can tell you are either a model or an actress." Now that statement has different possible meaning, so she might be like, "hmm, why did you say so?"....Now a real conversation will begin. Now she's engaging with me

The purpose of your compliments shouldn't be just to make her smile, laugh or tell you "thank you".... The purpose of your compliment is to make her curious and want to engage more with you.


Another example, if you say, "your hair is so nice." She'll just say "thank you." And that's all. The conversation ends.

Instead I'll put it differently. I'll say, "This hair style tells me few things about you.".... This will make her curious and want to engage more with me.



I believe you get the gist....



Ok.... Now let's get more real.

The truth is, there's no right way to compliments a woman. The real question is, "who is giving the compliment?"

The average woman gets complimented all the time...if she's beautiful, then it's even worse: she get loads and loads of compliments daily.

So giving her compliment is like bringing sand to the beach Or pouring a cup of water inside ocean: your compliment would make no difference in her world, she's already used to that.


In and of itself, the compliment doesn't matter.

Who is giving the compliment matters more than the compliment itself. You can drop a dope ass compliment but if you are not worth it, then the compliment would be useless to her. She'll just pat your back with a "thank you" and tell you to run along.

Women are attracted to "who you are" NOT the compliment you are giving her.

The compliment you give her might only buy you more time to show her who you really are. She'll eventually find out who you are. When she detect who you are and she's not pleased, she'll move on immediately.

For example, let's use these two old Nollywood actors as example: Emeka Ike and Jim Iyke. If you used to watch their movie back then, you know that Emeka Ike often play the role of a wimpy nice guy and simp, while Jim Iyke often play role of a dominant, confident bad boy.

Now, if Emeka Ike compliments a girl, "you are beautiful." Fellas might possibly scream, "simp, grow some spine..."

But if Jim Iyke compliment that same girl, "you are beautiful." Fellas might say, "Wow, so Jim Iyke can be this romantic...she must be really special to him."

Every compliment is just neutral...But the person giving the compliment is what makes the difference.

This is why--> when Cain brought fruit offering to compliment the Lord, and Abel also brought his flock offering to compliment the Lord, God accepted Abel's gift but He did not regard Cain's gift. This is has nothing to do with the content of the offering(compliment), it has more to with 'who' is offering it.

If you are "correct G" then anything you say to her will seem correct and attractive.

Emeka Ike complimenting a girl would seem weak and pathetic....but Jim Iyk or James bond complimenting a girl would seem cool and even attractive.

The compliment isn't the issue. The issue is, "who is giving out the compliment?"

Stay blessed.

Otisker:
I just got admission in to NDA I will be truthful I am the only child of my parents. My mother isn't very enlightened, she initially supported me but now she is seriously opposing me.
I am about to forfeit the admission because of her threats
Please I need advice. I am from south east

meum:
The woman doesn’t want to lose her only child to a needless war (in the future) within & outside the country. She is a deep thinker forget the fact that she isn’t educated.

Silentgroper:



dated - past


loves - present continuous..



you sef look am na

Silentgroper:
you said dated...



now you said she loves you ..


kazeem the efcc agent ...


why you dey confuse person na

VillageGuyArts1:
Beautiful, right?

Samantha124:
Have you ever seen an SA lady with a broke Nigerian man?

siofra:
Maybe I'm young and foolish, but I really don't mind being a second wife (or third wife or whatever) but I'll not be a first wife to a man with other wives.

And there are terms and conditions.

He must be super rich (like Ned Nwoko rich)

I will not have children for him (my mind may change)

I'll have my own apartment and I'll not take his name.

If he's Muslim, I'll not convert to his religion.


☺️

AishaDant:
Mtchewwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwww

AishaDant:
I would still love him regardless.

We can afford to adopt kids.

Enny2013:
D company can still call u back sef.

Dnt feel bad,bro. U ar on a legit hustle. Dnt engage urself in any relationship for now. Country hard,save ur proceeds o.

turmacs:
That is your business...say what ever makes you sleep well at night

turmacs:
My BF has been away for almost a week and he's going to be away for 3 weeks... I'm currently alone in this house and I don't like masturbation, I've done it Once and swore never to do it again...But now, how do I satisfy my urges without him? I don't plan on cheating but this thing is really not easy...I really miss that big fat Penis ramming back and forth against the walls of this kpekus, firing on all cylinders Ladies please help me with tips to overcome this konji apart from self service,lemme nor die here

lavylilly:
Self contained. It not far to Ikoyi, you can use DriveinHud app to get to work fast.

talented321:
Even myself i am rude' what matters is how u quote me'

VOsimhen144:
Go to a nearby store and buy the following:

1 cup of Grocery - N250
Floating berries - N200
Sweetener - N50
———-
N500
———-

Olosho at obalende no be 5h nah


The above would last you for 3 days if soaked wisely. Then use the remaining N500 to knack olosho for obalende under bridge.

talented321:
I no too get time for ur gender' but u are one of the few women i respect on this forum' so

Samantha124:
Honestly speaking, I don't know.

Because I don't consider myself as the most perfect woman and apparently I'm very stubborn...

lavylilly:
Agungi nko 800k per year.

lavylilly:
self-contained

SultanOfPuna:
Guys I just moved in to open university

Out of all the 17 girls in my class, one rich spoilt girl really loves me

How do I make her buy me things or spend money on me.

How can I tell her codedly that I'm broke and I need some cash from her without falling my hand?

Calitoscassius:
I have never experienced any of these, maybe co's i was born and bred in London E17.


Op, go to pubs, nighclubs, attend colleagues birthday paties, try wetherspoon pubs, yes it can be lonely in the UK sometimes for people who came to live here. Even the people who were born here experience so much loneliness that is why most drink alchohol daily or smokes something. Some work allday and night just to overcome loneliness, some have kids so as to overcome loneliness, Op if you want to have kids to overcome loneliness i will be happy to hook up with you. I am not looking for relationship but i am desparate to have a chilld or children.. i have met many nigerians doctors, psysiotherapists and nurses here in England they appear to be lonely too, even when i invite them to the pub for drinks they don't turn up., one IGBO man a doctor from Enugu i met in Tescos i gave him my number but everytime i call him he is talking about cooking soup or making garri or working i even wanted to introduce him to one of my white woman colleague from work but he couldn't even be bothered to turn up, he keep saying that he will bring his former girlfriend from nigeria, even his former nigerian girlfriend seems to have moved on, i was like guy women plenty here in our island here, why would you wanna bring a girlfriend from Enugu? He is always on watsaap with his Enugu friends, i said to him mate! Forget dem people and start blending in with people over here, start making new friends even in his work, start forking your doctor friends. Problem also is, he doesn't drink alcohol, more than half of Brits goes to the PUB, Pubs are part of British culture.



He didn't even understand the terms of his 2 years work visa, when he told me he might move to london, his visa is tied to his NHS work on our island he cannot just leave, he even said he might move to America from here, i was like yea! Right! How are you gonna do that with your 2 years UK work visa tied to your NHS job? He complains that the hospital where he works are making him work too hard it feels like slavery. I said to him, well... that is what your visa says, "work visa" so work!!

He tells me he went to church to look for other nigerians, (me i am not religious, i don't believe in God) i even organised white girls for him but he is afraid to fork them saying it is a sin . eventually i deleted his number.


One other nigerian woman i know was so lonely one day i visited her in her room, without notice she just took her cloths off and said Kings would you like to fork me? i was like come on! She has already told her landlord and flat mates that i am her cousin, i cannot fork her now.

There are so many women or men to choose from over here, if you want to be noticed you must put yourself out and be ready for lots of relationships disappointments. No body dey look anybody face, people will not come in your room or house to make friends with you, you have to invite them to come and be ready to be invited too, smile, don't carry your problems on ya head and minds always white people have their own problem which are even more than yours

Don't look forward to christmas day co's christmas day is spent indoors in freezing cold winter with families eating, drinking and watching TV shops are not open, no transportation, everything is shut on christmas day.

Op, i mean it, you and I can hook up and make babies even though i have few children already. Just email me, Good luck.

Zonefree:

Oga, keep quiet. Technology boosts economy same as Agriculture. There's nothing wrong in rearing cows.

Candidlady:



Someone who is funny and intelligent can't be broke... Moreover riches ain't my problem so I don't need that in any man ie if Iam to even try em

Adachizzy:
If a girl likes you, she should afford her least transportation.
Moreover, if not, if you're fed up with cab girls, try girls that don't mind taking buses.
Las las, cut your coat according to your cloth. You'll go broke at this rate.

Adachizzy:
If a girl likes you, she should afford her least transportation.
Moreover, if not, if you're fed up with cab girls, try girls that don't mind taking buses.
Las las, cut your coat according to your cloth. You'll go broke at this rate.

Valoromega:
Anytime I have issues with my wife, maybe it's about another girl she always says what if she does her own too how would (mind you I have never been with another woman since we got married. I might just flirt around with some other girls once in a while via chat)
She has this mentality that she's beautiful and young and she usually gets a lot of attention and I think it's getting to her head. Because most times she usually talks about doing her own too and I think she has the tendency to cheat If I do something to her like cheating.

I told her that would be the end of our marriage