₦airaland Forum

Lol what does the poor have to do with a well-known fact?

CountinBlessins:
Because the poor always think everyone is like them . Because in your world a woman divorcing her man is simply her picking up her trash luggage and saying "I dey go my papa house" because it doesn't take place in a court room doesn't mean it's not also a divorce!!!

You lot need to be prevented from procreation . Divorce isn't a rich man problem only it also happens to you lot.

Lol most!!!?? With the sheer amount of lady wrappers and simps out there? Besides, anger is generally a human thing.

EreluRoz:
Most men are having anger issues, this marriage was broken because of anger that was not managed. One party was always gaslighting the other.

Leave relationship alone if you find it hard to apologize when your partner is upset with you.

Ha so you already believe him?? Just like that?!

Sofialuv:
which side are you

I'm even surprised that several of the comments here aren't rebuking the dead or feeling pious as is irritatingly common with many of us in this country when it comes to talking about someone who is down.

But sincerely, our sense of awareness about mental health issues is just too poor. Unfortunately, that is steadily backfiring, especially now that the nation we call home relentlessly chokes more and more people of their sanity, hope and humanity. The majority keeps supporting the wrong things, and yet always the first to mock and badmouth the victims of those wrong things they supported together.

blowjohn:
U won't understand.
Mental illness is something Nigerians underrate a lot.


What will make a man kill another man cos of 20k?

Do u understand what depression is?

Do u know anything about psychiatry?

Do u know there is only a thing line between sanity and insanity?


Do u know how chemicals in the brain work?


Why is addiction difficult to stop?



See let me tell u something: what ur going thru is not what that Lady went thru.

Medically, if u know what depression and anxiety can cause u will be shocked to ur bones.


Spiritually if u understand that they can be connected, u will thank God for ur life every minute.



Mental illness is no joke. It's scary, eerie, complex, strange yet the society pays no mind.

An accurate summation of this accursed society dared to be called a natiom.

Faposky95:
we are in a drug imposed stricken society where all we mainly jeer is the downfall of people we deem not as necessary.
Govt is a sham here. Do we think we're far from Haiti....?!
Sociologists and Psychologists......actually do what....?
Thank God for the Righteous in the land that do well towards humanity....or else we would have been doomed.
If she resorted to drugs, would she have died....?
My heart breaks.....
My sister, you died gunning........
Rest

Àti APC o, àti PDP o, àti whatever o they all are ravenous wolves whose greed can't even allow them wear their sheep clothing well again. These people don't just care and unfortunately for the majority, they'd rather use religion and tribe to curse themselves and wrestle for non-existent superiority on social media platforms. Our dear leaders already know this and will forever milk the power and enslavement such social weapons constantly give them.

caye:
I really need to get out from this space.
The inhabitants of this plantation are brainwashed , ultimate , forever , dimwits.

Unknown to them, the evil European nations subsidise many of their citizens lives:-

Social security
National health insurance
Food banks
Fuel and electricity.


These are nations without the mineral resources, yet they subsidise. They even subsidise food production.

The Nigerian dimwits don't know that the term " free market" is a yt supremacists bójú boju term, to pauperise black ppl.
In actual fact, the yt supremacists does not operate free market, because he has many obstacles to you bringing your products freely into his country.
Why is it that Nigerian agric FINISHED produce are not always allowed to get into European markets, except raw produce?



Many paid APC/ government fools here.

Ehn, you say wetin?! You and who?

tyup:
Together we can make this country better bro

You got that right! Even the devil wouldn't want to associate with this accursed place called a nation

abauhere:
Now I understand better that Nigeria is exactly the hell fire I've been hearing about.....if the fire in hell can be quenched ,then there's hope of things getting better in this country!!

Una still dey chant this statement when the nation and majority of its people aren't behaving sane nor blessed in any way?

PHAYOL81:
Whatever truth is in this, the future shall tell. Fingers crossed

YET, may GOD bless NIGERIA

Àbí o! The shocking greed and uncouth attitude of so many ladies nowadays is causing a bad rift and perspective about 9ja ladies home and abroad. Many intentional men have become broken and tired, and hence why more are opting for single/baby mama life. Problem is such moves have started destroying the society's family units and values.

santaclaws:
Most Nigerian men nowadays aren't even looking for ladies to build with, they wanna make their money before settling down and that's why a lot of ladies in their 30s are complaining that men don't wanna get married.

At the end of the day, ladies are the ones being affected the most. 🤷🏾‍♂️

Lol this advice isn't right sha

Iamzik:
Very relatable. I advise you reconsider her if she's still available. She had faith in you but was discouraged. Sometimes ladies are encouraged when they see evidence that your efforts are yielding fruit. I feel she will make a better partner than another lady that will meet you as "ready made" I hope you understand what I'm saying

Meself dey wonder about the guy matter

PureFace1:
Let ladies speak for themselves, are you a lady ?

Gosh! There's always a wanna be hero

SMH! We Nigerians and this crazy mentality of putting up with bullshit and advising others to keep doing so is the reason why we keep having irresponsible and nonchalant leaders, poor marital experience, lost rights and lack of protective labour laws.

The worst are those advising to just stay no matter what you're going through really don't understand the indispensable importance of mental health or one losing his/her sanity due to a toxic workplace.

People like myself who's been there are the ones that can understand. It's even baffling how several still don't understand at this age that a worker's professional output will become useless overtime once his/her mental health is threatened by any means.

Indeed. You are very correct on this. While praying and all that works mysteriously in this chaos of existence, God or any other being won't create jobs nor make more available for people. It is the years upon years of self-inflicted tribalism, political irresponsibility, religious hypocrisy and social degradation that have caused us to be like this. Sane climes don't let their people disturb God for everything

SmartPolician:
Please God doesn't provide jobs. The people and government In a working society create jobs for themselves as a way of enriching lives. It's high time we started using our brains in this part of the world.

Yeah, truly wacky and annoying contents they upload all in the name of driving engagements

TheFacelessMan:
Thank God this video doesn't have the annoying narrative that comes before the video.

Most Nigerian bloggers do this.

A 2 minute video will have the blogger talking over for 1min 30 seconds and giving his unsolicited opinion before asking you to subscribe to his channel.

Football age indeed

wunmi590:


Lol, aunty has been giving football age to all her numerous men all thos while, she doesn't want to disclose another age to you, so that you won't find out later...


Baba do your research well of, so that you go avert R-Kelly and baba Ijesha punishment

Insightful

nijaomegacode:
You don't have enough experience with women. Post her picture lets tell you her age ASAP.
Modified: A woman who can lie about her age can lie about anything (she can say pregnancy is yours or not yours as the case suits her)
A woman who can hide her age can hide anything (secret affairs, money, success, anything...)
Age means a lot to women. It's Thier life-Guage.
Now op, ask yourself. Do you want to be in a relationship with such a woman?

A vawulent advice

superCleanworks:
Take her to American embassy for visa interview and you will know her age sharp sharp.

Hmm indeed a sad and unfortunate mindset for ladies who have reduced themselves to that.

yusufmurry:
Girls and gift eeeh. Easiest way to catch any girl

Not that they(ladies) can't solve their problems but they just believe they were made to live by arms and begging.

Lol na only unleavened bread she go chop

Exkandayee:
Lolz The op and his friend .... They even believe wetin the girl yarn...rev suck Bobby , kiss but he no nack,ok nah,,,I don hear.... oh I forget,na holy Communion she go collect for hotel room

Lol at the male chicken analogy, especially the last sentence

brosom:
U even dey go far sef ,

Even make chicken wey dey our backyards dey pursue female chicken rape am in front of other dudes and still crook like a king.

The man deserve castration.

Hmm this is another angle. While it's very good to have the back of a good friend, sometimes the gender placement of society concerning dealing with situations like this can hamper one's sense of justice.

mhizbel:
My dear, if you were a man I'd advice you to share your findings with your friend if you're very sure his wife is cheating on him.
But you my dear are a woman and I'd advise you to stay out of this matter. My reason is because you're not even very sure she's having an affair and even if she is people will always want to judge you because you are a woman. They'll say you're being a home breaker and they will question your motive.

If I were you I go just wash my hand commot o. I don't even think I'll keep being a very close friend to a member of the opposite sex after he's or I'm married.

Many of us stress ourselves unnecessarily on the ephemeralities of life. And it might become too late once the hard lessons come just like in this dude's situation.

Vijuchoco:
As much as you try to please your woman, please steer clear from penis or sex enhancement pills or drinks.
Someone I know is presently hospitalized following a penile fracture.
He was said to be thrusting forcefully from the back when it happened..

Surgery had to be done to revive him, it was that bad (I don't want to say much about this).
The worst aspect of everything is that he would no longer be able to utilize............

Lol it's the battle of Troy metaphor for me

Natbrowny:
This has been a trend. Sex no be battle of Troy.
In his situation drugs was working not him.
As drug dey make u Tyson the P, the girl will also keep encouraging you for more like Sir Alex

Ever8090:
na wetin I think too because the same thing happened to me as e rich one stage na him I hail am say guy how far, guy say make thunder fire me !! Na there matter end

As usual, writeup is so brilliant and well-researched��

Ha ha ha oh my God lord

SultanOfAbia:
2nd book of Gucci Chapter 1 verse 9- 12


"Thus says the Gucci fly boy, I hadth never raped a woman, not even as an unbeliever.

The Gentiles exclaimed " oh Ye Gucci boy, why have thou falleth our hands in the midst of oloshos

Then Pharisees on social media descended on him without remorse"

Well she can still be managed unlike this problem right here

Ha ha that's very funny

Iyajelili:
Men are really trying considering what they "eat"

Wow good choice. That song is sad and good at the same time

Jacktheripper:
Almost heaven, west Virginia.